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BF EGO PROBLEM, AS GF HELPED PAY FOR HIS BEER WHILE HE WENT TO THE TOILET

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My boyfriend works under his dad at this electrical work company. They do a lot of jobs around the city at various residential houses and commercial establishments.

One of the jobs he was scheduled to do was at a bar down the street from our house.

We go to a bar and they remember him from the consult. We introduce ourselves to the bartenders and they take our drink order and the bartender says “first round’s on me!” After we finish our drinks my boyfriend says we should get one more round before we dip out. By the time he’s halfway through his second beer, my boyfriend starts acting unusual.

I think he just hadn’t eaten much that day so is feeling the alcohol more than normal and I planned to head home soon to get him something to eat.

He says he’s going to the restroom and I say okay and that I’ll wait outside for him. He comes out and I asked if he’s paid his tab. He says he “doesn’t need to” I say uhhhh, yeah you do. I go in and pay for him. I look at the receipt and it said the first round was comped but the second round wasn’t. Total was like $20, not a big deal.

We get home and he starts FLIPPING OUT saying I made him look bad and because of me he’s going to lose his job. I told him that paying the tab was better than the staff going to his dad, who is doing business with them, and saying he walked out on his bill. He says he would have just handled it.

CYBER SECURITY AGENCY: BE WARY OF UPCOMING SCAMS LINK TO TRAVEL AND FESTIVE SEASONS

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With the festive season approaching and travel resuming, the Police and the Cyber Security Agency of Singapore (CSA) would like to advise members of the public (e.g. online shoppers), e-commerce platforms and online merchants to be more cautious of possible online threats such as:

  • Fake / phishing website scams
    • Websites that would imitate websites of legitimate brands or companies to trick victims into providing sensitive information such as their login information, One-Time Password (OTP) or credit card details.
  • Fake / malicious mobile applications
    • Mobile applications which would imitate legitimate applications for phishing purposes, or have malware embedded within, which could be used to monitor victims’ activities or steal their personal data when executed.
  • Phishing email / SMS scams
    • Emails or SMSes with links that would direct victims to phishing websites controlled by scammers.
  • Impersonation scams
    • Scammers may contact victims through email or direct messaging pretending to be a government official or person you know, with the intention of luring victims to provide them with money or sensitive information (e.g. OTP, credit card details).
  • Online purchase scams
    • For buyers: Scammers would pose as sellers on popular e-commerce platforms listing an unusually good deal for a product (e.g. a gadget, concert tickets, etc.). These “sellers” would ask for payment upfront but end up not delivering the item or delivering a different item from what was purchased (e.g. cheap replicas). Some scammers would create too good to be true advertisements to attract victims to click on a link that would direct them to a phishing site.
    • For sellers: Scammers would approach victims (sellers) and express interest in buying the items listed by the victim. After agreeing on the price of the item, scammers would send the victim a URL link on the pretext of facilitating payment/delivery. Upon clicking on the URL, victims would be directed to a spoofed website where they would be asked to key in their bank account and personal details.
  • Travel scams
    • Scammers would sell fake vacation packages that at a much cheaper than usual price or offer to sell sold out items at a marked-up price. These items may include fake airplane tickets, hotel bookings, or tickets to attractions. Buyers who were duped into making upfront payments for such packages would find out that the promised packages did not exist or were invalid.
  • Job scams
    • Scammers may approach victims and offer attractive compensation for completion of simple taskings via messaging apps, social media, spoofed websites etc. Scammers would instruct the victims to deposit a sum of money before they could start the job, which promised the victim good profit. Some scammers would offer incentives to victims to refer people to join the ‘job’. Victims would realise that they had been scammed when they were unable to withdraw any money.
    • Scammers may use global events such as the World Cup to attract victims. Scammers may also target students who are looking for part-time jobs during the school holidays.
  • Loan scams
    • Scammers would advertise loans on online platforms or through SMS to attract potential victims. The scammers may claim to be staff from a licensed money lender and victims who expressed interest were asked to provide their personal information (e.g. IC number, bank account details). Victims would then be asked to pay a ‘fee’ before receiving the loan. Victims would realise that they had been scammed when the scammers kept asking for more ‘fees’ without providing the loan.

Recommendations for Online Shoppers

Online shoppers are recommended to take the following steps for a safer online shopping experience:

Ensuring Safety and Legitimacy of Websites / Applications:

  • Do not click on the links from promotional emails or SMSes. Instead, visit the official website by typing the web address directly into the address bar of your browser to verify the validity of the promotion.
  • Avoid clicking on pop-up ads or opening files or email attachments from unknown senders.
  • Verify that the website encrypts all traffic by checking on the presence of the Secure Sockets Layer (SSL) certificate through the “lock” icon (see image below) on your browser’s URL bar. Users should avoid websites that do not implement HTTPS.
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  • Only download applications from the official Play Store (Android) and App Store (iOS).
  • Download all software and files, including applications and updates, directly from official and verified sources instead of from third-party websites.
  • Ensure that your mobile phones, computers and other IT devices are updated regularly with the latest firmware and software versions and install anti-virus applications that can detect and remove malware.
  • Buyers can refer to the e-commerce marketplace transaction safety ratings for an overview of the safety features adopted by common e-commerce marketplaces.

Securing Financial Transactions:

  • Avoid using public Wi-Fi networks when making online financial transactions.
  • Purchase only from authorised sellers or reputable sources, especially for high-value items. If the price is too good to be true, it probably is.
  • Opt for buyer protection using in-built options that release payment to the seller only upon delivery. Insist on official payment methods or cash on delivery and avoid making advance payments or direct bank transfers to sellers as this method does not offer any protection.
  • Turn on email or SMS alerts for all online credit card transactions or new logins so that you will be notified when a transaction is made.
  • Never disclose your personal or Internet banking details and OTP to anyone.

Protecting Online Accounts:

  • Use a strong password of at least 12 characters which includes upper case, lower case, numbers and/or special characters.
  • Avoid using the same password for all your online accounts.
  • Enable Two-Factor Authentication (2FA) for all online accounts and transactions when available.

You may wish to do the following if you believe you have fallen victim to an online scam:

  • Report any fraudulent credit/debit card charges or unauthorised transactions to your bank immediately.
  • Lodge a police report immediately to receive assistance from the relevant authorities.
  • Change your account credentials and use a strong password.

Recommendations for Online Merchants on E-Commerce Platforms

Online merchants are recommended to take the following steps to avoid becoming victim of scams:

  • If selling on an e-commerce platform, transact within the platform, and where possible, insist on official payment methods or cash-on-delivery.
  • Opt to meet up to deliver your item, or use tracked parcels which require proof-of-delivery to monitor your item’s location.
  • Take pictures of your item before transacting as photographic evidence of the item’s condition.

Online merchants may wish to do the following if they believe they have fallen victim to an online scam:

  • Report the incident to the e-commerce platform to flag the scammer’s account.
  • Lodge a police report immediately to receive assistance from the relevant authorities.

Recommendations for E-commerce Platforms

E-commerce platforms are recommended to take the following steps to ensure a safer shopping experience for your customers:

Securing Your Network and Systems:

  • Patch your web servers and software to the latest versions.
  • Ensure that your website offers secure online payment service for customers.
  • Implement data encryption to protect any data collected from customers and visitors to your website.
  • Avoid storing credit card details in your databases.
  • Disable public network access to database servers and regularly review the logs of all incoming and outgoing traffic for suspicious activities.
  • Implement the principle of least privileges (and access) on user accounts with access to the database server.
  • Enforce 2FA for all logins to prevent brute force attacks.

E-commerce platforms may wish to do the following if they believe the organisation is a victim of a cyber incident:

  • Lodge a police report immediately to receive assistance from the relevant authorities.
  • Please contact SingCERT at [email protected] if you have any enquiries or require any assistance. You may also wish to report any cybersecurity incidents to the SingCERT incident report form at https://go.gov.sg/singcert-incident-reporting-form.
  • If you believe your customers’ personal data was compromised, report the incident to the Personal Data Protection Commission (PDPC) at https://eservice.pdpc.gov.sg/case/db.
  • Contact your affected customers, if any, to take steps to secure their accounts. You may also wish to consider enforcing a password change for all affected accounts.
  • Engage a reputable cybersecurity vendor to clean up or restore affected systems and recommend appropriate measures to prevent a repeat incident.

To find out more on how to protect your website from cyber-attacks, you may wish to refer to SingCERT’s advisory at https://www.csa.gov.sg/singcert/Advisories/ad-2022-007. For more information on scams members of the public can visit www.scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Hotline at 1800-722-6688. Join the ‘Spot the Signs. Stop the Crimes’ campaign at www.scamalert.sg/fight by signing up as an advocate to receive up-to-date messages and share them with your family and friends.

MAN DROPS OUT OF POLY REGRETS AS HE’S UNABLE TO ENTER ANY UNIVERSITY

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For reference, A university is where you get a degree and a poly is a trade school/community college where you get a diploma or certificate.

I (18M) was attending poly to get a diploma but I dropped out after becoming disinterested with my trade but later on I realized that I wanted to go to university instead. Because I did not meet the requirements to go to a university I started to take classes at an adult school in order to be eligible.

The first class that I took I got a good grade in but it took me 8 weeks to complete instead of the standard 6 weeks. The problems that I had started when I went to take my second course, I was struggling a lot with understanding the coursework and this caused me to withdraw from the class within one week.

I started another course the week after I dropped out and I am still struggling with the course despite the fact that it is something I have always been good at. It has been 2 weeks and I have only handed in one lessons work so far.

After some thinking I ended up just deciding that it would be better for me to just go back to college and pursue a different trade than the one that I was doing.

I told my dad this but he said that if I drop out of this course then he will kick me out because he doesn’t want me to live with him if I don’t have a “good career” planned out. I told him that I did know what I wanted to do and said some of the trades I had thought about and he said nothing, gave me a disappointed look and walked away.

Parts of me feel bad because I feel like I just gave up before I even tried so I have been wondering if I am just giving up too easily.

What should I do?

GF NOT HAPPY BECAUSE BF WOKE UP & TOLD HER SHE WAS NAGGING AT HIM IN HIS DREAM

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I (22M) am in trouble with my gf (21F) because I told her she was nagging me in my dreams

Pretty much the title. I had a really funny dream where myself and a couple of my mates were riding around Tokyo on toy tricycles trying to deliver food, whilst I was being nagged by my girlfriend for frivolous things that I can’t even recall.

When I woke up I said I had a funny dream and told her about it, she asked if she was in the dream and I sleepily replied “yeah, but you were kind of just nagging me the whole time”.

Well now she’s been nagging me all day in real life and currently is refusing to talk to me. I can’t tell if maybe I’m being insensitive? Or maybe she’s overreacting? Idk I’m just really confused…

Netizens’ comments

  • She is being unrealistic , but you weren’t being very kind to her either. You can’t control your dreams, but you can control what you tell her.
    It sounds like you told her you had a bunch of fun with your favorite people and that she was not one of those people and fun. You probably need to reevaluate your use of the word “nagging” you could have said she was trying to help you and come off a lot better. Even now, is she actually nagging you, or is she expressing her feelings?
  • She sounds like the type of person to actually get mad at you in real life because you cheated on her in a dream.

MAN FINALLY HAD A WOMAN IN HIS BED, BUT SHE LEFT AFTER HE CONFESSED HE’S A VIRGIN

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I had a woman in my bed for the first time. She left when I said I was a virgin.

I don’t know where to start with that.

I’m 36, and as you guessed from the title, a virgin. My social skills have always been lacking, I worked on them and pushed myself to get in contact with other people, by going to social events and try out new things I wasn’t used to.

Despite that, and following more of the advice given by helpful internet strangers and friends, it never worked out. I make friends, but I’m not seen as a romantic option. Online dating hardly worked and I was given the “I don’t see you this way” in real life more times than I can count. After a while, I started to get used to staying on the sidelines. I had hobbies to keep myself occupied, I still went out to new things from time to time and stiked conversation with strangers just to have a nice talk.

It went by like this, I worked, did my thing, and so on.

Out of nowhere, this woman decided to keep the conversation going on more intimate subjects, without broaching the act itself. I haven’t gotten more attractive, friends come and go the same way and I’m still mostly in the background when I look at things from above, but somehow the conversation went better with her.

Fast forward a little and we were going to bed. I was really anxious and didn’t how it was right to do this and that, so I told her to take the lead. When she asked why I answered I didn’t have any experience. She replied that this was to heavy a pressure for her and she left just like that.

Part of me died inside. I asked friends and they said they were past being training wheels at this age.

I don’t mind people trying to be positive on the internet, but it feels toxic when I keep on hearing that it’s everyone in their own rythm and that they are no milestones. It appears there are for a lot of people.

36 years, I had exactly one person who took an intimate shine to me and she bailed because I was lagging behind.

I wish some folks at least honestly told me not everyone gets to experience love, even if it’s just a minority.

Me, I’m done. It feels like a wasted a lot of time I could have put to use to things I could have achieved. I’ll do my stuff in my own corner and that’s it.

If people here have advice on how to lower and ignore libido and how to make peace with loneliness, I’d appreciate it, because that’s what I’m looking for now.

WIFE WHO IS ALLERGIC TO MANY FOODS TURNED VEGAN, HUSBAND GETTING SICK OF COOKING

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My wife has some pretty interesting dietary restrictions. She can’t eat fructose (HFCS, honey, certain fruits, etc.), garlic, onion, wheat, almonds, legumes (beans), and a few other common items.

These things make her sick, and I understand that medically, she can’t eat these things.

No problem, I can work with that.

The issue is she’s also decided to become vegan. Because of this, she’s got huge problems getting a decent protein intake, and basically just eats potatoes and oats.

I went along with it for a couple of months. First, it was “vegan January” to celebrate the new year. We both did it. It went fine. Then it turned into February, and I gave up but she kept going.

Eventually, I told her that I wouldn’t cook meals for her anymore because and I’d have to cook a different meal for myself or make separate batches with and without the things she can’t eat. I’m tired of cooking meals that are over complicated and unsatisfying.

Every couple months she tells me she’s upset that I don’t cook for her and that we could save money by doing meal prep together. Then it turns into a fight when I explain to her again why that doesn’t work for me.

GUY GOT REJECTED BY GIRL, THEN TARGETS HER TWIN SISTER BECAUSE THEY “VIBED”

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I [24M] want to match with a girl [23F] whose twin sister I went on a few dates with and it didn’t work out. Is that bad taste?

I met someone around June this year and dated her for like two months. Not really, because the majority was over text and we only went on three dates.

She was very hot and cold after initially showing a lot of interest. When I brought it up she told me there was “something missing” and she wasn’t interested. The furthest we went was a brief make out session/intense kiss.

Since then I’ve met her twin sister twice at different events and chatted her up. Both times I thought it was her, lol. We really vibed and at the end she told me she would “say hi to her sister” for me but that never materialized.

Well it’s months later and guess what, I find the twin (the one I haven’t dated) on a dating app. It keeps sending me “most compatible” notifications.

I have “X’d” her from my feed not because I’m not interested, but because I was worried it would be in bad taste even though I’m really interested and her profile gives off interesting vibes.

Well, the app keeps bringing her back because the app seems to think we’re compatible.

I want to go for it and just send her a like, so not exactly match with her, I just want to know if that’s socially taboo to do.

LOANSHARK ARRESTED FOR SPLASHING BLUE PAINT & LEAVING NOTE @ CHAI CHEE HDB UNIT

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A 33-year-old man was arrested by the police for his suspected involvement in a case of loan shark harassment at a HDB unit at Chai Chee.

The Singapore Police Force was alerted to the incident on 30 November at about 9.50pm, at a residential unit along Chai Chee Road.

The unit was splashed with blue paint and a debtor’s note that read “CALL BACK FOR SETTLE, O$P$” was seen left at on the ground.

Police officers from the Bedok and Woodlands Police Division identified the alleged loan shark through follow-up investigations and the use of police and CCTV cameras, and he was arrested on 2 December.

He was charged in court yesterday (3 December).

The police’s preliminary investigations revealed that the man was allegedly involved in at least 5 other cases of loanshark harassment.

Potential penalties

Persons found guilty of harassing someone on behalf of unlicensed moneylenders face a jail term of up to 5 years, a fine between $5,000 to $50,000 and caned between 3 to 6 strokes.

HDB RESIDENTS KEEP LITTERING FROM WINDOWS, THROW RICE PACKET FROM 15 FLOOR

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So in my neighbourhood there exists this particular block of flats in which one column loves to throw food waste out of their window. Chicken wings, rice, plastic bag, all also throw. This block is 16 storeys max.

There are at least two units that throw their food waste out. A few weeks ago I was walking by and I saw someone throw a finished packet of rice + plastic bag out of the 15th floor window. I saw the person at the window and even got a photo of her at the window but the photo doesn’t show her throwing.

I got closer to see what the heck she threw down and saw that it was chicken bones. A flock of pigeons gathered round to start pecking. Next she threw down a plastic bag of water which landed 0.5m away from me and splashed on me. Idk if it was aimed at me but if it was, it was a lousy aim. I got photos of the food waste and bag of water that she threw.

I went up to her flat and confronted her, initially she didn’t want to open up until I threatened to make a police report. It was a lady in her 70s(?) and she didn’t seem very educated. She denied but after I said I have a photo of her and then she said “other people also throw why I cannot”.

So I’m asking on here if the photo I have is enough for me to make a police report on her, because apparently my dad called the town council and he said I have no evidence because my photo does not show her at the window throwing anything. It only shows her at the window. Is this legit? Going by the same logic do I need to have a video of someone stabbing me for me to make a police report for assault? Ngl it sounds damn stupid.

CYCLIST ATTACKED BY WILD BOAR @ PUNGGOL, SUFFERS MULTIPLE FRACTURES

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Sharing this post for Awareness for PCN riders at punggol to keep a look out for wildboars. And the importance of Cycling Safety Gears. This incident may happen to anyone passing by this route especially elderly and young children.

My dad was knocked down by an Adult Wild Boar while cycling on 29th November 2022 around 8PM. He is in his 70s. A Seasoned PCN cyclist, cycling 200km – 300km every week for the past 2 years. Weather was good so he took the opportunity to go for a Solo ride.

As he was coasting down the bridge (shown in picture), he noticed an Adult Wild Boar in the opposite direction of PCN suddenly charging towards him from 45degrees and knocking him off the bike. The huge impact caused him to land face down on the tarmac with a cracked helmet.

I can’t stress the importance of wearing a Helmet even when riding on PCN which probably saved his life. Luckily he heeded my advice.

Super grateful for a couple who witnessed the incident and came to help.

They walked him and bike to the nearest HDB block at 669B Edgefield plains before contacting me to pick up and sending to SKH A&E.

His Entire face was covered in abrasions and cuts to eyebrow which require stitches.

Initial Observation was his hands shoulders and collarbone are all intact. But after detailed X-ray and CT scans it was discovered that there were multiple fracture to his cheekbone. Facial Specialist informed him there would be a high chance of surgery as the cheek bones was critical in supporting his eyes and maintaining his face structure. Will be having a follow up visit in 2wks time. 🙏

Hope everything will be fine.

As of now stay safe everyone!

This incident has been reported. Thank you Nparks for reaching out and showing concern for my Dad. Nparks informed they have fenced up the affected area.