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WOMAN HAS 2 YOUNG GUYS WOOING HER, ASKS WHY S’POREAN GUYS ARE INTO OLDER WOMEN

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Singaporean guys, are you ever into older girls? What about those girls make you want to date them?

Just recently graduated from uni and started a new job. Its been 2 months into my new job and I realised that there are 2 guys who seem interested in me and they are much younger than me.

I’m 24, one of them is 20 (just recently ORD) and another one really doesn’t one to declare his age to me and even told me does age even matters (He told me he is still serving NS).

These guys will tend to go up to my desk to have conversations and disturb me at times. This shocks me cause I have always been into older guys or maybe don’t mind someone 1 year younger than me.

But these 2 guys one being 4 years apart, how can they still be interested in me after I declared my age to them.

Cause I have always thought that guys prefer younger girls. Never ever once thought that younger guys will be into me until I started working

Netizens’ comments

  • One of my friends married his wife who is 16 years his senior. He was 30, she was 46.
    Sometimes guys really truly love their wife regardless of age or wrinkles. Sometimes guys are just thinking with the small head and if you’re attractive even at an older age they’d still try.
    Those guys probably find you attractive in one way or another.
  • Both under 25. ROFL. I thought this was a 40 year old and 25 year olds

JOBLESS GIRL ONLY CAN AFFORD BREAD FOR FOOD, GOES BACK TO BEING AN ESCORT FOR MONEY

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I’m so broke I’m eating a single piece of toast a day because all I can afford for the week is a loaf of bread. oh and I had to become an escort again.. cool

Title says it all Not telling anyone in my family. Haven’t even told my parents I got fired. Too ashamed to talk to them about it.

when they asked me how my job was going, in my head I was like, “well I got fired yesterday” but i said ‘oh ya know the jobs great’

when my dad said to me, ‘well I think this is the longest job you’ve ever had’ my soul died a little tbh..

so irritated with the world and adulthood and everything. I want to go live in a tree house for the rest of my days I’m so stressed and so frustrated and overwhelmed..

adulthood was supposed to be fun, now I’m more miserable than I have ever been in my life .. once an escort, always an escort.. when all else fails. Selling your body to make ends meet.

Christmas coming up and I’m over here like not even able to afford food and people are out buying $1000 purses and shoes and shit.

GLOBAL SYNDICATES FIXING MATCHES, THINK TWICE BEFORE BETTING

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‘Kelong’ is a term many have heard from their friends that likes to place bets on football matches.

But is it true?

Here is the researched

By definition:

A term used in Singapore / Malaysia to indicate cheating, to achieve an objective by non appropriate means.A football game between two teams has been fixed such that Team A will win, even before the game commences. Team A has ‘kelong’ the game.

Does Kelong ever happen?

Case 1:

Yes it does, in 2013 a Singaporean man was detained for over 2 years for suspicion of being the mastermind behind a global football match-fixing syndicate.

Tan Seet Eng, also known as Dan Tan, was imprisoned in October 2013 after Italian authorities accused him of directing a global crime ring that corrupted Italian matches and other international games. He has repeatedly denied any misconduct.

Case 2:

Wilson Raj Perumal (born in Singapore) is a convicted match-fixer.

Perumal has been charged in various match-fixing incidents, including Asiagate in 2007-2009 and the Finnish match-fixing affair in 2008-2011. In 1995, he was sentenced to prison in Singapore for match-fixing.  Perumal came to England in the same year on behalf of a Singaporean match-fixing leader to manipulate two FA Cup matches.

Do you think football matches are real?

Think twice before placing any bets as such cases exist, these are just criminals from Singapore (One of the safest and lowest crime rate city in the world.)

who’s to say it does not happen anywhere else?

DESPERATE M’SIAN LIVING IN FANTASY, HOUNDS AT A WOMAN HE MET ONLINE

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A woman posted on Facebook that she has been harassed by a man since August 2022 and the man had continuously spread rumours about his relationship with her online.

The woman claimed that he does not know the person and he man has continuously made false accusations that she has left him.

After the man was rejected by the woman, he started making stories online saying that the woman had cheated on her. But the fact is the woman had never even met this man before.

Video of the man singing for his ‘love’

The man even goes as far as recording a video of himself singing to the woman to confess his love.

Thinking his singing voice can make the girl of his dreams feel touched. However, the woman responded and state that the man has been harassing her non-stop.

Here is what she said:

Hello everyone

There is a guy called Carson Wong who posted me and my friend’s photos on facebook recently.Since he keeps posting photo of me and my friends , I am here to declare that there is no relationship between us. It’s all swagger and his fantasies!

I have reported to the police and Carson Wong also agreed not to spread any fake news.

Besides, he also keep harassing my friends. If you receive his harassment, please ignore it and block him.

I hereby warn that I will take legal action if he still keep spreading fake news , and I will post a video of his apology.

最近因为fb 有一名男生叫 Carson Wong 的男生一直有在facebook 各大群组发布的我的照片和我朋友的照片。 他一直招摇和发布不存在的事情。 本人在此澄清我和carson wong 完全没有任何关系,也不存在任何暧昧关系。 一切都是纯属招摇和他的幻想症! 若他有在messenger那边信息你们想得到我的联系方式,请大家决绝或者block到他。 谢谢你们 🙏

一直以来我都不想澄清,因为清者自清。 几个月前我也已经报警了,Carson Wong也答应警察不再乱发布假新闻,我当时也是有拍下视频。可是这几个月后他又来发布假消息,警察对他束手无策,毕竟他拥有一张卡。 可是他的行为不让我无法在包容。

最后他也一直去骚扰我朋友和她们告白之类的信息,若你们收到他的骚扰可以选择无视或者block。非常抱歉 🙏

本人在此警告,若他在发布假消息,我将会采取法律行动,还有发布他的道歉视频。 谢谢你们

WOMAN DESCRIBED GOING HOLIDAY WITH HER FATHER IS ‘TORTUROUS’ SAYS HIS CRAZY

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Dad is driving everyone crazy

Is it that people got locked up too long now all go holiday that lots of holiday conflicts?

Currently my mother just had a melt down after my father went crazy in the hotel over something minor. Sister and I are caught in between because the issue could only be solved by themselves as it’s between them and their friends.

Father wished to be commander and throw all the dirty shit jobs to mum. Mum had enough after 20 over years and these few days being stuck with him due to tour group and she have to fake happy in front of outsiders.

It’s just a short 5 days trip to Thailand, following a tour but is semi-free and easy. Father kept blaming mum for the problem caused by their common friend, and it’s so minor plus he agreed on the plan now he doesn’t want to cooperate and left things hanging. (Deadline given to him for respond way before the trip) Obviously to get things to work, they will chase him for a yes or no! He just don’t want to answer so no choice they texted my mother.

He blew up and started his crazy rampage. Throw things, mess up the luggage and refuse to get out of the hotel. As long as no outsider there to see, he act up! Imagine a 60 year old doing that!

For 2 straight days he still not over it. Very very sianz, in the end, he asked for his passport and mum gave it to him. He nearly torn it up. Mum walked away and had a mental break down! She held too much of his shit inside already!

He everything cannot, put blame on others and make minor, non related issues into big problem YOU created because anything that makes him unhappy, is your fault!

Honestly, he has been somewhat like that all the time, just that he haven’t really act up like this during trips. This is the first and worst and probably last family trip! I felt I wasted all my money for the trip, we missed a few places of interest just to give in to his tantrums!

With 2 more days to go, us stuck in a hotel room … I don’t know what to do… we planned a Venice trip for next year, I think better don’t go liao! 5 days already like this torturous! I pity my mum, she can’t go Venice till he dies coz nobody is willing to go with him!

DURIAN PRICES DROPPED $10 FOR MSW, HIGHEST DURIAN YIELD IN LAST 4 YEARS

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This year durian production had a very high yield. Durian merchants have lowered prices this week. The cheapest price is $10 per kilogram.

Some durian merchants even claimed that it was the lowest price in four years.

According to Zaobao, Durian sellers pointed out that due to climate change and the fact that the durians in Johor and Pahang were harvested at the same time, the production of durians this time is particularly large, so prices have been adjusted this week.

Mushan King Durian at $10 per piece

Dingfeng Durian Station which is located in Bukit Batok posted a Facebook post on December 1st stating that Mushang King (猫山王)is only $10 a piece.

The shop also posted a promotion which included a lucky draw.

Here are the details:

Superb TOP Events coming your way: Like this post + Share this post + Tag 3 Friends… Be sure to include all these 3 steps to enter the lucky draw, where the lucky one will walk away with 10KG worth of Black Gold.

Walk-in Promo: Medium sized MSWs up for grabs @ $10 per fruit. (*Limited to 2 pieces per pax, starting from 7.00pm daily until further notice). Pahang MSWs @ $10/KG, starting from 7.00pm daily. *Please take note that these 2 categories of MSWs promo are limited in stocks, and will only commence from 6.30pm daily… *All while stocks last…

The shop is located at: Blk 156 bukit batok street 11, #01-06C Singapore, Singapore 650156

MAN REFUSED TO TAKE FRIEND’S GF OUT FOR A DATE, MAYBE HIS ‘BANANA’ GOT PROBLEM

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Am I being a bad bf for refusing to take my friend’s gf out on a date?

I know this one sounds a bit weird from the title but bear with me. It’ll make sense in a second.

My friend has to go out of town for his job for about a month. He lives with his girlfriend so they’re always together obviously. A couple of days ago he told me about how his girl is high maintenance and how he didn’t know if she could handle being without him for a month.

He was saying that her friends are business all the time and can’t get together on a regular basis so she really would be alone for like a month.

For my job, I work 7 days on and 7 days off. He said since he knows I have the time could I take her out to a nice restaurant and that he’d give me a few hundred to show her a good time since he couldn’t. I told him I didn’t want to do it. I was kind of shocked when he seemed to keep mad at me.

He was like “You can’t do this one favor for me?” And I told him that I just didn’t want to. Yah I have the time but it wasn’t going to happen. He then said that I should really be thanking him for asking this because I was getting a free meal from somewhere that I wouldn’t be able to afford without him paying for it.

The weird part his girlfriend agreed and wanted me to go a bar and said she booked a room incase we got drunk.

I think my friend’s banana is probably not working.

I told him to leave if he was going to be disrespectful. He left saying I was throwing away the trust he had in me over not doing one simple favor.

Im just not comfortable, its just so weird.

BF EGO PROBLEM, AS GF HELPED PAY FOR HIS BEER WHILE HE WENT TO THE TOILET

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My boyfriend works under his dad at this electrical work company. They do a lot of jobs around the city at various residential houses and commercial establishments.

One of the jobs he was scheduled to do was at a bar down the street from our house.

We go to a bar and they remember him from the consult. We introduce ourselves to the bartenders and they take our drink order and the bartender says “first round’s on me!” After we finish our drinks my boyfriend says we should get one more round before we dip out. By the time he’s halfway through his second beer, my boyfriend starts acting unusual.

I think he just hadn’t eaten much that day so is feeling the alcohol more than normal and I planned to head home soon to get him something to eat.

He says he’s going to the restroom and I say okay and that I’ll wait outside for him. He comes out and I asked if he’s paid his tab. He says he “doesn’t need to” I say uhhhh, yeah you do. I go in and pay for him. I look at the receipt and it said the first round was comped but the second round wasn’t. Total was like $20, not a big deal.

We get home and he starts FLIPPING OUT saying I made him look bad and because of me he’s going to lose his job. I told him that paying the tab was better than the staff going to his dad, who is doing business with them, and saying he walked out on his bill. He says he would have just handled it.

CYBER SECURITY AGENCY: BE WARY OF UPCOMING SCAMS LINK TO TRAVEL AND FESTIVE SEASONS

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With the festive season approaching and travel resuming, the Police and the Cyber Security Agency of Singapore (CSA) would like to advise members of the public (e.g. online shoppers), e-commerce platforms and online merchants to be more cautious of possible online threats such as:

  • Fake / phishing website scams
    • Websites that would imitate websites of legitimate brands or companies to trick victims into providing sensitive information such as their login information, One-Time Password (OTP) or credit card details.
  • Fake / malicious mobile applications
    • Mobile applications which would imitate legitimate applications for phishing purposes, or have malware embedded within, which could be used to monitor victims’ activities or steal their personal data when executed.
  • Phishing email / SMS scams
    • Emails or SMSes with links that would direct victims to phishing websites controlled by scammers.
  • Impersonation scams
    • Scammers may contact victims through email or direct messaging pretending to be a government official or person you know, with the intention of luring victims to provide them with money or sensitive information (e.g. OTP, credit card details).
  • Online purchase scams
    • For buyers: Scammers would pose as sellers on popular e-commerce platforms listing an unusually good deal for a product (e.g. a gadget, concert tickets, etc.). These “sellers” would ask for payment upfront but end up not delivering the item or delivering a different item from what was purchased (e.g. cheap replicas). Some scammers would create too good to be true advertisements to attract victims to click on a link that would direct them to a phishing site.
    • For sellers: Scammers would approach victims (sellers) and express interest in buying the items listed by the victim. After agreeing on the price of the item, scammers would send the victim a URL link on the pretext of facilitating payment/delivery. Upon clicking on the URL, victims would be directed to a spoofed website where they would be asked to key in their bank account and personal details.
  • Travel scams
    • Scammers would sell fake vacation packages that at a much cheaper than usual price or offer to sell sold out items at a marked-up price. These items may include fake airplane tickets, hotel bookings, or tickets to attractions. Buyers who were duped into making upfront payments for such packages would find out that the promised packages did not exist or were invalid.
  • Job scams
    • Scammers may approach victims and offer attractive compensation for completion of simple taskings via messaging apps, social media, spoofed websites etc. Scammers would instruct the victims to deposit a sum of money before they could start the job, which promised the victim good profit. Some scammers would offer incentives to victims to refer people to join the ‘job’. Victims would realise that they had been scammed when they were unable to withdraw any money.
    • Scammers may use global events such as the World Cup to attract victims. Scammers may also target students who are looking for part-time jobs during the school holidays.
  • Loan scams
    • Scammers would advertise loans on online platforms or through SMS to attract potential victims. The scammers may claim to be staff from a licensed money lender and victims who expressed interest were asked to provide their personal information (e.g. IC number, bank account details). Victims would then be asked to pay a ‘fee’ before receiving the loan. Victims would realise that they had been scammed when the scammers kept asking for more ‘fees’ without providing the loan.

Recommendations for Online Shoppers

Online shoppers are recommended to take the following steps for a safer online shopping experience:

Ensuring Safety and Legitimacy of Websites / Applications:

  • Do not click on the links from promotional emails or SMSes. Instead, visit the official website by typing the web address directly into the address bar of your browser to verify the validity of the promotion.
  • Avoid clicking on pop-up ads or opening files or email attachments from unknown senders.
  • Verify that the website encrypts all traffic by checking on the presence of the Secure Sockets Layer (SSL) certificate through the “lock” icon (see image below) on your browser’s URL bar. Users should avoid websites that do not implement HTTPS.
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  • Only download applications from the official Play Store (Android) and App Store (iOS).
  • Download all software and files, including applications and updates, directly from official and verified sources instead of from third-party websites.
  • Ensure that your mobile phones, computers and other IT devices are updated regularly with the latest firmware and software versions and install anti-virus applications that can detect and remove malware.
  • Buyers can refer to the e-commerce marketplace transaction safety ratings for an overview of the safety features adopted by common e-commerce marketplaces.

Securing Financial Transactions:

  • Avoid using public Wi-Fi networks when making online financial transactions.
  • Purchase only from authorised sellers or reputable sources, especially for high-value items. If the price is too good to be true, it probably is.
  • Opt for buyer protection using in-built options that release payment to the seller only upon delivery. Insist on official payment methods or cash on delivery and avoid making advance payments or direct bank transfers to sellers as this method does not offer any protection.
  • Turn on email or SMS alerts for all online credit card transactions or new logins so that you will be notified when a transaction is made.
  • Never disclose your personal or Internet banking details and OTP to anyone.

Protecting Online Accounts:

  • Use a strong password of at least 12 characters which includes upper case, lower case, numbers and/or special characters.
  • Avoid using the same password for all your online accounts.
  • Enable Two-Factor Authentication (2FA) for all online accounts and transactions when available.

You may wish to do the following if you believe you have fallen victim to an online scam:

  • Report any fraudulent credit/debit card charges or unauthorised transactions to your bank immediately.
  • Lodge a police report immediately to receive assistance from the relevant authorities.
  • Change your account credentials and use a strong password.

Recommendations for Online Merchants on E-Commerce Platforms

Online merchants are recommended to take the following steps to avoid becoming victim of scams:

  • If selling on an e-commerce platform, transact within the platform, and where possible, insist on official payment methods or cash-on-delivery.
  • Opt to meet up to deliver your item, or use tracked parcels which require proof-of-delivery to monitor your item’s location.
  • Take pictures of your item before transacting as photographic evidence of the item’s condition.

Online merchants may wish to do the following if they believe they have fallen victim to an online scam:

  • Report the incident to the e-commerce platform to flag the scammer’s account.
  • Lodge a police report immediately to receive assistance from the relevant authorities.

Recommendations for E-commerce Platforms

E-commerce platforms are recommended to take the following steps to ensure a safer shopping experience for your customers:

Securing Your Network and Systems:

  • Patch your web servers and software to the latest versions.
  • Ensure that your website offers secure online payment service for customers.
  • Implement data encryption to protect any data collected from customers and visitors to your website.
  • Avoid storing credit card details in your databases.
  • Disable public network access to database servers and regularly review the logs of all incoming and outgoing traffic for suspicious activities.
  • Implement the principle of least privileges (and access) on user accounts with access to the database server.
  • Enforce 2FA for all logins to prevent brute force attacks.

E-commerce platforms may wish to do the following if they believe the organisation is a victim of a cyber incident:

  • Lodge a police report immediately to receive assistance from the relevant authorities.
  • Please contact SingCERT at [email protected] if you have any enquiries or require any assistance. You may also wish to report any cybersecurity incidents to the SingCERT incident report form at https://go.gov.sg/singcert-incident-reporting-form.
  • If you believe your customers’ personal data was compromised, report the incident to the Personal Data Protection Commission (PDPC) at https://eservice.pdpc.gov.sg/case/db.
  • Contact your affected customers, if any, to take steps to secure their accounts. You may also wish to consider enforcing a password change for all affected accounts.
  • Engage a reputable cybersecurity vendor to clean up or restore affected systems and recommend appropriate measures to prevent a repeat incident.

To find out more on how to protect your website from cyber-attacks, you may wish to refer to SingCERT’s advisory at https://www.csa.gov.sg/singcert/Advisories/ad-2022-007. For more information on scams members of the public can visit www.scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Hotline at 1800-722-6688. Join the ‘Spot the Signs. Stop the Crimes’ campaign at www.scamalert.sg/fight by signing up as an advocate to receive up-to-date messages and share them with your family and friends.

MAN DROPS OUT OF POLY REGRETS AS HE’S UNABLE TO ENTER ANY UNIVERSITY

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For reference, A university is where you get a degree and a poly is a trade school/community college where you get a diploma or certificate.

I (18M) was attending poly to get a diploma but I dropped out after becoming disinterested with my trade but later on I realized that I wanted to go to university instead. Because I did not meet the requirements to go to a university I started to take classes at an adult school in order to be eligible.

The first class that I took I got a good grade in but it took me 8 weeks to complete instead of the standard 6 weeks. The problems that I had started when I went to take my second course, I was struggling a lot with understanding the coursework and this caused me to withdraw from the class within one week.

I started another course the week after I dropped out and I am still struggling with the course despite the fact that it is something I have always been good at. It has been 2 weeks and I have only handed in one lessons work so far.

After some thinking I ended up just deciding that it would be better for me to just go back to college and pursue a different trade than the one that I was doing.

I told my dad this but he said that if I drop out of this course then he will kick me out because he doesn’t want me to live with him if I don’t have a “good career” planned out. I told him that I did know what I wanted to do and said some of the trades I had thought about and he said nothing, gave me a disappointed look and walked away.

Parts of me feel bad because I feel like I just gave up before I even tried so I have been wondering if I am just giving up too easily.

What should I do?