My husband “accidentally” f-ed a woman that he works with

I had been feeling sick and really run down for about a month and I hadn’t felt like getting intimate with my husband.

Apparently, he needed it so bad that he was walking around work with a near-constant erection. A woman that he works with noticed it and she opened her legs and he “accidentally” fell forward into her and f-ed her.

He’s saying it is her fault and he could not control himself.

I’m so confused

Netizens’ comments

• Bro didnt even try to come up with a good excuse 😭
• …Wait.. what if there’s an explanation for this shit? What, she tripped, fell and landed on his D?
• OP, don’t believe this BS, like wtf is wrong with your husband, he can even own it, like apologized for it, he is playing the victim what the heck
• The craziest thing about this post is that it seems like OP….. believes him?
• Did you accidentally divorce him?

Very tired dealing with an insecure colleague.

How do you deal with an insecure colleague who constantly disagrees with you for the sake of disagreeing?

I work with this colleague and I’m new in the company for a few months. Boss seems to be extra nice to me and I do find I may be getting better treatment but that’s also because I believe I got more work done faster than expected. This colleague often shows up late, leaves early and spends her time disturbing others to chit chat. I don’t see her getting much done during office hours. So recently I’ve been assigned to help her as she declared she can’t meet her deadlines. I sensed she wasn’t happy about it as I’m her junior. The way she talked to me, any human would be able to sense her hostility towards me. I may be wrong but I suspect her coldness towards me is that maybe she feel that I may take over her job one day.

It was only when I needed to contact her regarding the projects that I realised she had blocked me. I just want to ride over getting the work done so I emailed her but she doesn’t reply too. When I try to discuss with her at work she would disagree to everything that I’ve suggested. Because she refuses to talk to me, I ended up doing most of the work alone but I submitted both our names as it was originally her projects. All my ideas that she rejected were actually accepted and highly discussed with interest during the meeting so I was sure I picked out suitable highlights to focus and improve on.

Due to the ‘success’ of the first team project, I have been tasked to team up with her again as she still have pending projects. Now, on top of working on my own assignments, I will likely be doing her work on my own again.

On one hand, I didn’t want to completely take over her work as I thought this should be the reason why she is cold towards me. But at the same time, I would really rather get it all done with minimum conflict since she is unwilling to have a proper conversation with me. I am aware my superior has a rough idea what’s going on. I do not wish to cause my colleague trouble too. What can I do to improve the situation? She is very hard to talk to so I really don’t know what to do. I do not wish to involve a 3rd person as I fear making matters worse or start any gossip.

I really like this company and enjoy my work so I don’t have plans to quit because of this. Help!

I met this guy not even a week ago and he has already told me “he will be my friend until he dies”, he is constantly spam texting me, he works nearby so he always comes in on his hour break, and he acts arrogantly a lot and brags about things he’s done.

I don’t want to be his friend, what do I do? He says he doesn’t want a relationship with me, but it sure feels like it and I don’t want one with him.

I don’t even really want a friendship with him because it’s taken me a back at the whole “he will always be there for me” and we JUST met like five days ago.

He also constantly compliments me and puts other women down while doing so. It makes me upset and uncomfortable.

How do I go about this?😭 he came in to my job just now and I rlly didn’t put much effort into the convo so he left pretty early.

Will he get the hint? How do I tell him I don’t want to be his friend without being mean? I don’t want him to retaliate out of embarrassment or smthn bc he knows where I work😭

he seems way too obsessed with me for just five days of knowing me fR

When to be honest and when to not?

I have always been the shy, quiet perso who obviously lacks communication skills and sometimes rather just exit silently.

Sometimes people hate it that I don’t tell them. What’s wrong but often I feel it’s obvious. (Maybe it’s just obvious to me?!)

I grew up in a very very traditional family whereby the male or the “head of family” have the say and as a female, I should take the back row. Doesn’t help when my father is egoistic and have too much pride.

I often caught my father or someone else in situations that they’re wrong – like stealing or cutting queue or being unreasonable…etc

I usually just kept quiet. The only few times I did spoke up (to my dad), ended either in quarrels or cold war, as in he got so angry that he took it out on my mother and sibling as well. He always give all of us cold shoulders or throw items of someone/switch off the electricity from the power supply just to show his unhappiness and authority. Basically, “all for one”; one person anger him, everyone gets punished.

My sibling and I don’t earn much and much of our earnings goes back to our parents and the family expenses. My mother have chronic illness which requires regular checkups and medicines, so hard for us to move out.

Problem is, it’s affecting everyone now that he is getting more used to us giving in to him to avoid argument and having other members dragged into it. My mother is also getting less tolerant of him and quarrels more often with him.

I got tired coming back from work to someone switching the main power off randomly or having to pick my items out from the dustbin. I really wish to tell him honestly how childish and annoying he is but I know things will get really nasty because

1) I might not be able to regulate my temper well enough if he pounced, get defensive and come up with his rubbish excuses and blaming techniques (“the seller is rude so I don’t return his plate to the tray return!”, “Police won’t catch me since it’s only one small item and I am an elder!”)

2) someone is bound to come in to “add on” – esp my sibling who chooses to stay over at his friend more than at home

3) I don’t like confrontation… And I do feel it’s not going to do anything to the situation…

If it’s you, what would you do?

I’m 25 but due to genetics I didn’t have a choice in, I look like I’m 35 so I started telling people I’m 45 so I get treated better and I’m telling you I should have started doing this when I was 15.

Female. I don’t smoke tobacco (I did for like 2 months when I was 19 and haven’t touched them since). I don’t smoke anything really.

I very rarely drink, maybe less than 5 times a year on average. I eat clean, drink plenty of water, moisturize, work out, stay out of the sun for long periods of time, etc. I have done everything under the moon to be healthy.

But because of hereditary genetics, I have gigantic bags under my eyes, an elongated face due to my bone structure, and visible pores. I have never heard someone say I look young.

People constantly ask me if I’m tired (I’m really not). I just got so sick of being self conscious about this I just started telling everyone new that I meet that I’m 20 years older than I really am so I look like an older woman that took really good care of themselves.

I moved to a different area and I’m not on social media so that made it easy to get away with it.

I cannot believe how right about my insecurities I was. I get treated better. Moral of the story, if you look young, cherish it because you’re more privileged than you know.