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25 Y.O WOMAN LOOKS 35, SO SHE TELLS PEOPLE SHE’S 45 TO GET COMPLIMENTS

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I’m 25 but due to genetics I didn’t have a choice in, I look like I’m 35 so I started telling people I’m 45 so I get treated better and I’m telling you I should have started doing this when I was 15.

Female. I don’t smoke tobacco (I did for like 2 months when I was 19 and haven’t touched them since). I don’t smoke anything really.

I very rarely drink, maybe less than 5 times a year on average. I eat clean, drink plenty of water, moisturize, work out, stay out of the sun for long periods of time, etc. I have done everything under the moon to be healthy.

But because of hereditary genetics, I have gigantic bags under my eyes, an elongated face due to my bone structure, and visible pores. I have never heard someone say I look young.

People constantly ask me if I’m tired (I’m really not). I just got so sick of being self conscious about this I just started telling everyone new that I meet that I’m 20 years older than I really am so I look like an older woman that took really good care of themselves.

I moved to a different area and I’m not on social media so that made it easy to get away with it.

I cannot believe how right about my insecurities I was. I get treated better. Moral of the story, if you look young, cherish it because you’re more privileged than you know.

77 Y.O MAN KILLED AFTER BEING HIT BY TAXI & FLUNG 10M IN BISHAN ACCIDENT, DRIVER ARRESTED

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A 77-year-old elderly man was killed after allegedly being hit by a taxi along Bishan Street 22, according to Shin Min Daily News.

He left his home on 2 December at about 6am in the morning, and was crossing the road to board a bus to visit his niece at Yishun when the accident occurred.

The elderly man was purportedly flung 10 metres after being hit by the taxi, and his belongings were strewn all over the road.

Speaking to SMDN, his niece said that her uncle walked relatively slowly but was otherwise in good health. She added that he was supposed to join her family for dinner and to celebrate Christmas together.

The Singapore Police Force confirmed the accident and said that they were alerted to the accident, which involved a taxi and a pedestrian on 2 December at about 6.18am.

The accident took place along Bishan Street 22 and the victim was sent to the hospital conscious, where he later succumbed to his injuries and died.

The 67-year-old male taxi driver has also been arrested for careless driving causing grievous hurt, and police investigations are ongoing.

LOCAL MAN LOSES $8K FOR NOT KNOWING HE NEED VISA FOR AUSTRALIA, KENA STUCK AT CHANGI

When life throws you lemon, you make a lemonade.

In this case, this was a bit of a costly one.

A lot of friends has been asking

Weren’t we supposed to be in australia for this period.

We got stopped at Singapore changi airport, Singapore airlines check in counter.

Because we didn’t apply for ETA visa for entry into Australia.

Yes, we didn’t know that we needed a visa to enter Australia.

We immediately applied for the eta visa on the app, 2 out of 5 passengers got approved, the other 3 required more documents / information.

Submitted, but no response and time was up. We couldn’t make it for our flight.

Being a Singaporean, I can honestly tell you, I took it for granted that the last thing we ever needed was a visa.

Upon checking with my social circle. Only 3 out of all my friends knew that we had to apply for a visa.

And this 3 friends has been to australia recently / frequently.

This story is just to share with all fellow Singaporeans out there.

You need to apply for a visa to enter Australia.

We won’t be going australia anytime soon. No love for that country as of now.

And as for Singapore Airlines, thank you so much for not sending any email to inform your customers that Australia is strict on visa, and you need a visa to enter.

Your “online check-in” function didn’t work 2 days before flight.

1 day before flight.

We’ve paid $5k for 5 of us to fly with return to Brisbane.

Gotten $1k back.

Lost about $8k in total for bookings, deposits, and I refundable deposits.

When we contacted Sq for assistance, they simply said, there is nothing they can do. As our refund has been processed.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Don’t take it for granted singapore passport is visa free for almost everywhere….should have done a due diligence check before you travel.
  • If you have done your homework to visit Australia and where to go for your supposed road trip, you should have also done some additional homework on entry requirements. Just Google. SQ is not at fault here.
  • Rather than blame the system, you should have done your due diligence. Smh.

GUY TOLD GF, “I’M A MAN, I WILL ALWAYS WANT TO SLEEP WITH OTHER WOMEN”

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Men, how do you feel about other women when you’re in a relationship?

I’ve hit a wall with my bf of 3 months and I need your perspective if this is how truly all man feel. And from women, if you would be comfortable with hearing those things from your own boyfriends.

It started from my boyfriend not giving me compliments, while he spoke about his coworker “it’s not like she isn’t attractive” to “what I meant is she’s beautiful”. For me this crossed a line and the more we talked, the worse it got.

We’ve been having conversations the last days with him trying to explain what he actually meant. The things he’s said so far are:

“I’m a man, so I feel attraction to other women. There’s always some slight interest towards other women, I will always want to sleep with them.”

He proceeded to explain that when he sees attractive women he “sees the potential of them as a girlfriend, but now that he has me he doesn’t have to worry about it.”

My stomach is in a knot, I feel really uncomfortable and think that this is really wrong, but I’m unable to articulate it myself why. I can recognise other men being good looking, but when I’m in a relationship I don’t see other good looking men as “potential boyfriends if I was single”. I don’t feel “attraction” or have “interest” in them.

He kept trying to explain and said there’s always a “urge” to other women. When he asked me how I view good looking people, I said I see that they are good looking but that’s it. I just see people. He said I’m “just stopping my thoughts before exploring them”.

Can you please give me an outside perspective, I feel like this is massively wrong but I’m unable to articulate my position better.

BF GOT LAID OFF FROM JOB, GF STRESS SHE CANNOT SUPPORT THE BOTH OF THEM

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My partner got laid off

Me 29(f) partner 30(m) have been together on and off for about 11 years.

We moved away two years ago from both our families which cause us a lot of pain and healing.

My partner has been working in the trades of woodworking mostly and in the past year, he left one company to go to another company.

In June he switched over this newer company seemed to make him much more happier in a sense. He would come home and be so eager to tell me how his day went and I loved hearing every single story he told me. After seeing how much his previous employer treated him. After work talk became my most cherished time of the day.

Note fast forward to a week ago. He was home and got a text from his boss saying he was being let go cause he wasn’t really fitting in the role. Which is weird…. To me at least cause of all those stores he has told me about him and his boss getting a long great and they all have been so welcoming and showing him the ropes… so I’m not sure what he was feeding me for months. Got his boss to just let him go like that.. just seems very off and out of place.

Anyways, I’m trying to be their for him but I have this overwhelming feeling that this odd going to go sour.. we talked for a couple of hours on the couch and decided together that he should take some time to gather what he wants to do in life.

I’m maybe I’m just afraid with inflation going up I won’t be able to do it on my own.

S’PORE PARENTS RAISING MONEY FOR SICK BABY, ANONYMOUS DONOR DONATES S$1.5M

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The parents of Zayn Bin Nabeel Abdat, a baby suffering from Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA) Type 1, previously started a crowdfunding campaign to raise money for their infant’s $3 million treatment for the disease.

The fundraiser managed to raise $1.5 million from their family, friends and the public, before an anonymous donor donated the remaining shortfall of $1.5 million for them to hit their $3 million target.

Former Member of Parliament Amrin Amin shed light on the donor’s generous donation.

Amrin Amin’s update

This is an update on Baby Zayn.

Baby Zayn was given Zolgensma, a gene therapy medication used to treat spinal muscular atrophy, on Tues (29 Nov).

I was in touch with Zayn’s dad, Nabeel, today. Baby Zayn is responding well. Let’s pray for his recovery.

Recently in Sep, I shared about Baby Zayn. Zayn has a rare neuromuscular disease (SMA Type 1). Treatment cost $3 million. If untreated, the muscles weaken, movement and breathing will soon stop.

Nabeel’s updates fill me with hope and inspiration. Nabeel and family raised about $1.5 million with your help and friends.

The shortfall – Nabeel shared an anonymous donor topped up about $1.5 million so Baby Zayn can get treated. This is very touching. Such kindness reminds us there’s still so much compassion and positivity in our community, even during this difficult time.

Nabeel asked me to convey his heartfelt thanks to all of you for walking this journey with his family.

Baby Zayn’s fundraiser

At 5 weeks old, Zayn was diagnosed with Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA) Type 1 – a genetic neuromuscular disease that causes muscles to become weak. People with SMA lose a specific type of nerve cell in the spinal cord called motor neurons that control muscle movement. Without these motor neurons, the muscles will not be able to receive nerve signals that make muscles move. 

SMA Type 1 – Symptoms appear at birth or within an infant’s first six months of life. Infants with SMA Type 1 have difficulty swallowing and sucking. They don’t meet typical milestones like holding up their heads or sitting. As muscles continue to weaken, children become more prone to respiratory infections and collapsed lungs. Most children with SMA Type 1 die before their second birthday, if left untreated.

We have been informed by doctors that the available treatment for Zayn is Zolgensma, a single dosage which would cost close to SGD 3 million and is a prescription gene therapy used to treat children less than 2 years old with Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA) and Risdiplam, a daily dosage drugs which cost SGD 15,167.50 per bottle (which lasts 64 days).

Given Zayn’s current condition, we are faced with the difficult decision by having to proceed with a temporary treatment of Risdiplam while working towards raising sufficient funds for Zolgensma treatment. While the amount of SGD 3 million is monumental to us, we are hopeful in working towards it as it gives our son the best chance of survival and a better quality of life growing up. 

​​Follow us on instagram (@walkwithzayn) and Facebook (@Walk With Zayn) to stay updated on our journey. We would appreciate if you could share this fundraising link with your family and friends who might like to help us.

Should any of you may have any links to community groups, potential individual/ corporate sponsors or others who might be able to help, kindly reach out to us via email at [email protected]

Thank you for your prayers, help and support.

Fighting on.

Zayn, Syahirah & Nabeel

Update

Dear Donors,

We have good news to share. Baby Zayn’s campaign has received several large anonymous donations to reach the target goal of $3,015,167.50. Therefore Ray of Hope is closing the campaign before the target closing date at end November 2022.

The hospital is in the process of getting Zolgensma to Singapore for Baby Zayn. We will update donors again on when Baby Zayn will receive the treatment.

Here’s a thank you note from Baby Zayn’s parents Nabeel and Syahirah.

“We would like to humbly thank the community that has come together from different walks of life to help Baby Zayn in his journey. We are very touched by the spontaneity of how the community responds to Baby Zayn’s story.

A million thank you will never be enough for your kindness and generosity. The journey to recovery will be long, but you have given us hope that Baby Zayn can grow up and lead a healthy life knowing that the community has come together to support him. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.”

Source: Ray of Hope and Amrin Amin on Facebook

INSECURE GF WANTS TO DUMP BF BECAUSE SHE THINKS HE’S CHEATING WHEN HE GOES OUT

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Why does my boyfriend going out make me feel so horrible?

I completely and utterly hate this feeling. When your stomach just drops and everything feels completely still. I don’t even know why i feel like this?

Whenever my boyfriend says he’s got a party on or he’s out at one i just get that horrible gut wrenching feeling?

He has never given me any reason to not trust him which is what i’m confused about? Why cant i just be happy for him?

I don’t know if i’m insecure or if i’ve been hurt in the past or if i’m just a jealous and controlling freak but i can’t stand this feeling.

I try telling myself that ive got absolutely nothing to worry about but no matter what i tell myself i cant shake this feeling.

I love my boyfriend to utter bits and i don’t know if this is something i should breakup with him over so i can work on this and not drag him into this miserable hole with

BF FORCES GF TO EAT HIS BANANA IN THE PUBLIC UNTIL SHE WANT TO BREAK UP

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I (22F) think i am in a toxic relationship.

I (22F) have been dating my current boyfriend (22M) for about 4 months now. We’ve been friends for almost 8 months. Initially, I didn’t want anything serious because i had just gotten out of a relationship but eventually I decided to just follow my heart and be with him.

​In the beginning, it was really fun, we’d just make out all the time and then we decided to hang out at one of his friend’s places around 1 week into the relationship. We made out and stuff and then he asked me for a BJ. I thought it was way too soon so i refused and i wasn’t in the mood either. He kept asking me again and again and again. After some time, i got a little mad at him and then he apologized.

​After that everything was smooth for a while, we both fell in love. We’d have fights but we’d resolve it in day or two.

​Things got a bit weird after the last time we stayed at a hotel. We stayed, we madeout, we did oral the first day.

I think he came thrice in my mouth. I cannot have S because it is too painful for me, I have an imperforate hymen so S has always been out of the picture and he knew this.

The next day, when we were planning to leave, he asked me for a BJ then got mad when I said I wasn’t in the mood. He got so mad he wouldn’t even talk to me. We sat down and talked about it, he said that we can only do oral here so I should blow him, we had a huge fight over this because I thought that demanding for head and saying this, as if the only reason we stayed at a hotel was because he wanted head. We resolved it within a day.

​I was once talking to him excitedly about the things i had planned for an event, i was so excited, and he just said “can you stop talking about it and shut the hell up?” in a very rude tone. I have a very emotionally abusive dad and him saying that just made me remember all those years of my childhood I kept crying because I didn’t know why my parents didn’t love me. I told him this and his first response was “Well you wouldn’t shut up”.

This happened again a month later.

​A month later, we were sitting in a park and we made out and he fingered me. I then started to give him a hand job. It was dark and secluded so nothing was visible. He then asked me to blow him. I refused because it is way too riskier than fingering.

He kept asking me again and again and again. I kept saying now. There was a point at which he held my wrist and was trying to drag me to give him head. I got mad and then he got mad and called me selfish and what not. He said that i only think about myself, etc etc.

I just kept quiet the entire time because I couldn’t believe the irony of it. He then got really mad and threw whatever was in his pockets which was a lip balm. TBH, I was scared for my life so I told him i was not in the right mindset to talk and asked him to let me go. He refused. I apologized to him, started crying then I just ran away.

​The next day I told him everything, and his first response was “When i dropped the lip balm, you didn’t even pick it up for me” I was shocked, because if someone told me they were scared of me, I honestly wouldn’t be able to even look at myself and his lack of empathy just surprised me.

​AM i in a toxic relationship?

I don’t know how to end this because we have the same group of friends, we live close, we study in the same class, I can’t just end it. I know we’ll keep going back to each other.

GIRL HAS A CRUSH ON ANYONE WHO SHOWS HER KINDNESS OR SPEAKS TO HER NICELY

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My standards are so low that i will admire anyone who treats me with basic kindness, and that’s dangerous

I’ve been thinking about it recently. For context, I have always been self conscious. I’ve always assumed that people dislike me, even if they’re my friend.

I’ve always had a mindset that is so toxic and negative towards myself. So, when someone is even slightly nice to me, it seems like a big thing.

It doesn’t help either that I’ve never been popular, usually left out and not spoken to. When people as much as bother to speak to me at school, and seem nice, I immediately want to be their friend, or worse; I develop a crush on them.

This has happened multiple times, and usually the crush only lasts for a bit, but in doing this I’m starting to realize how vulnerable that makes me.

I could be emotionally manipulated SO EASILY.

My friend actually pointed this out recently, saying that I could even be groomed easily. And I hate to say it… but she had a point.

After living in a world that I think is against me, I will take any and all kindness I can get; I will treasure it, but not in a healthy way.

More in a way like I’ve been deprived of it. And I really haven’t. I think that I’ve been living inside my head so much that my whole world view has been twisted. Honestly, I just wish I knew why.

DAUGHTER REFUSE FATHER TO BRING HIS SUGARBABY GF TO HER WEDDING

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Am I wrong for refusing to invite my dad’s sugar baby to my wedding??

I’m 23F.

My parents split up when I was 4 because my mom was having an affair with my dad’s brother.

After that went down, my dad went back to uni and got another degree, and is now working a very good job that he got through a friend and is very wealthy.

My relationship with my parents was very strained as my mom didn’t let me see my dad until I was a teenager because she wanted to avoid talking to him.

In recent months, my dad has started having a “girlfriend” who we’ll call Sarah, 24F. Sarah is obviously a sugar baby. She doesn’t have a job and my dad pays for everything, and Sarah is always bragging about the expensive stuff that my dad buys her. All of her friends live a similar lifestyle (I have them as friends on social media). The fact that my dad is “dating” a woman who’s a year older than me makes me cringe to the core.

I’m getting married to my partner 24M next June and I’ve decided that I don’t want Sarah at my wedding. She’s not his girlfriend or partner, she’s his sugar baby.

My dad obviously didn’t take it well and said that Sarah is just as part of the family as my mom’s new husband, and said that I don’t get to decide which relationships are acceptable and which aren’t. He said I’m being self-righteous and continued to deny that Sarah is a sugar baby, and accused me of trying to manipulate him. He said I have my mom to thank for the fact that they aren’t together anymore.

My future MIL and FIL even got involved and said that if Sarah comes to the wedding they won’t be going as they think my dad’s relationship is disgusting.