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MHA RESPONDS TO RICHARD BRANSON’S DEBATE REJECTION, CALLS HIS REASONS “LAME”

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The Ministry of Home Affairs previously invited Sir Richard Branson for a debate with minister K Shanmugam on Singapore’s imposing of death penalties for drug traffickers.

Branson rejected the MHA’s invitation, and the ministry has since responded to his reasons for rejection, saying that they “do not hold water”.

MHA’s response to Sir Richard Branson

MHA’s Response to Sir Richard Branson’s Blog Post on 31 Oct 2022

  1. Sir Richard Branson (“Mr Branson”) has, for some time now, been making untrue statements about the penalties imposed on drug traffickers in Singapore.
  2. On 22 October 2022, the Ministry of Home Affairs (MHA) responded to Mr Branson, pointing out his errors. He was also invited to a live televised debate, where he could argue his case, and seek to convince Singaporeans of these views. Regrettably, Mr Branson has declined.
  3. Mr Branson’s reasons for declining do not hold water:

(a) He says that a televised debate would be limited in time and scope, “always at risk of prioritising personalities over issues”, and cannot do the complexity of the death penalty any service. He adds that it would reduce “nuanced discourse into soundbites”.

This is surprising. The Government offered the debate precisely to give Mr Branson every opportunity to explain himself fully. He would have been able to put forward his views (nuanced or otherwise), and explain fully whatever he wants to explain. There was no suggestion that he should only engage in soundbites.

We can only surmise that Mr Branson realises he will be shown up, because what he has been saying about Singapore is not true.

Mr Branson’s sudden scrupulous desire not to engage in soundbites is at odds with the soundbites and broad unsubstantiated allegations, which he has been making, in his blog posts.

(b) Mr Branson suggests the Government engages Singaporeans instead of him on the Death Penalty (“DP”). He may not be aware that the Government has engaged Singaporeans extensively on the DP:

(i) This year alone, the Government has engaged in discussions on the DP with thousands of Singaporeans.

(ii) In Singapore, important matters are discussed in Parliament by MPs, as elected representatives of the people. The discussions reflect not just the Government’s view, but the different perspectives of Singaporeans. The DP has been discussed in Parliament several times in recent years.

(iii) The Leader of the Opposition has agreed that in Singapore, the imposition of the DP is necessary.

(iv) Singaporeans overwhelmingly support the imposition of the DP. One study showed 74% supported the DP for the most serious crimes. Another study found more than 80% agreed that it deters crimes like drug trafficking, firearms offences, and murder, and 66% agreed that the mandatory death penalty is appropriate for those convicted of trafficking a significant quantity of drugs.

  1. The Government’s offer to debate Mr Branson was in addition to its ongoing engagements with Singaporeans. He has been publicly peddling falsehoods about Singapore, using his celebrity status to campaign to change Singapore’s position. If his facts are wrong, it is important this be publicly exposed. If Mr Branson is convinced he is correct, he should take up our offer of a debate, and not offer lame excuses to opt out.
  2. It is not for Mr Branson to tell the Singapore Government who in Singapore it should talk to. He names several persons and organisations he says the Government should engage. Some of them are quite clearly among those who have been feeding him misinformation and untruths. Interestingly, a few of the persons indirectly referenced by Mr Branson travelled to Malaysia in 2018 to congratulate Dr Mahathir on being elected Prime Minister, and to ask Dr Mahathir to bring democracy to Southeast Asia (including Singapore). These are persons who turn to foreigners like Dr Mahathir and Mr Branson to pressure Singapore, because they do not get much support from Singaporeans.
  3. Mr Branson suggests that we study lessons from other countries. We do. We look at what is happening in the UK, US, Europe, and other parts of the world. We see the high rates of drug abuse and drug related crime, and the countless lives lost and families destroyed. Singapore is not completely free from the drug menace either, but our drug situation is under much better control.
  4. We adapt what works to our own situation, and avoid practices that have failed. Our children largely grow up free from drugs, people live in our city state without fear of violence or crime, and Singaporeans and foreigners alike enjoy the genuine freedoms in a vibrant, global city with a very low crime rate.
  5. We ask only for our right to choose our own path, to continue keeping Singapore and Singaporeans safe. The elected Government of Singapore is fully capable of taking our own decisions, explaining them to Singaporeans, and getting support for them, including at the polls.
  6. Mr Branson’s disregard for facts, his condescension in declining a debate, and his failure to recognise that we have considered these matters carefully, all point to one of two possible conclusions:

(a) He either believes that he should be listened to without question, simply because of who he is; OR

(b) He knows that what he has said cannot be defended. And to avoid being exposed, he has offered an elaborate set of non-explanations.

  1. We do not accuse Mr Branson of hypocrisy as some British media have done. We do not question (as others have), his prioritisation of profit over the human rights principles which he so loudly professes. Nor do we judge him for taking drugs together with his son (as he has publicly admitted to doing). But Mr Branson should act with some honour. If he takes a public position on a matter which can impact thousands of lives in another country, then he should be prepared to explain himself.
  2. Pontificating from a distant mountaintop, and then avoiding a serious discussion when challenged, does not suggest any respect either for principle, nor for the people whose well being he claims to champion.

MAN CAUGHT TAKING PHOTO OF WOMAN AT JURONG POINT, GETS CONFRONTED BY WOMAN

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Facebook user Gigi shared how she had her photo secretly taken by a man at a Jollibee outlet in Jurong Point, and confronting the man.

Here is what she said

Imagine waiting for your number to be called at Jollibee Jurong Point only to realize someone is taking pictures of you without your consent.

Was there around 9pm yesterday and took a seat after keying in my order. While waiting I noticed this guy looking in my direction twice, which I thought nothing much of – the typical male gaze. So I looked down at my phone and looked up to see him pointing his phone camera at me twice, to which he quickly pretended to be on the phone. Subsequently my number was called and upon reaching the counter to grab my order, I turned to see him doing it again for the third time. After confronting him at the counter, he suddenly got very defensive and loud.

I didn’t want to cause a scene inside so I waited outside Jollibee to call a friend to ask what I should do. At this point he suddenly walked out closely to me and told me he was calling his WIFE and said “why would I take pictures of you?”. Mind you I was alone. When I requested to see his phone gallery, he got even more defensive and agitated. During the confrontation, I asked another bystander for help as he was getting too close to me. The bystander stood behind the guy and SAW HIM deleting 6-9 pictures of me.

He then tried to walk away fast but was escorted by Jurong Point’s security team to the loading Bay area for interrogation. Police came, took statement, said they will investigate, but ultimately he was let off scot-free. I was also told by the IO that taking pictures of anyone (without consent) is NOT a chargeable offence.

While waiting for the police to do their job, please help to share and warn other girls to be careful especially at JP because he’s able to walk away with no charges. Pretty sure this fella lives near too. Today it may just be “taking pictures”, next time it may be upskirting or worse.

Source: Gigi on Facebook

ONG YE KUNG VS TAN CHUAN JIN, 1V1 MUAY THAI FIGHT – “MY OPPONENT NOT SO STRONG”

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Minister of Health Ong Ye Kung posted a video onto his TikTok account, showing himself wearing Muay Thai garbs and sparring with Speaker of Parliament Tan Chuan Jin inside a ring, ala Street Fighter.

He captioned the video “when your good friend jios you for Muay Thai, you do Muay Thai. #HealthierSG”

The video begins with Tan calling Ong out to try Muay Thai together, which the latter then duly accepted the “jio”.

The two then began their warm up exercises inside the ring, with Ong throwing a few punches to get himself ready.

Ong and Tan then start sparring, throwing punches and kicks at each other, before pressing their hands together after the sparring, as a sign of respect for the opponent.

Tan then asked Ong how he felt about his first Muay Thai experience, to which he said “luckily my opponent not so strong.”

Ong then added “there’s a sport for everyone, so keep healthy.”

@ongyekung When your good friend jios you for Muay Thai, you do Muay Thai. #HealthierSG ♬ original sound – Tiktoker

HUSBAND WORKS 12 HRS/DAY, WANTS TO PLAY GAMES WHEN HE COMES HOME & WIFE UPSET

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So I (37m) work as a service manager for a high volume dealer and am out of the house for 12 hours a day (leave at 6 am and don’t get home until 6pm) 5 days a week.

My wife (33f) gets upset when I get home and after eating dinner want to get a couple of rounds of COD in.

My wife is a SAHM with our 18 month old and thinks it’s absolutely criminal that I want to get some decompress time at the end of the day.

My daughter is still in the “mommy all the time” phase so she prefers to spend more time with my wife than I. Usually when I get home I will eat dinner, do whatever honey-do’s she has for me, and then play for a little.

After I’m done I will join them and spend time with my family which usually is her watching a movie/show and I reading the same book to my daughter 10 times lol.

My wife says that even when I’m chilling with them I spend too much time on my phone. While we are all hanging out if my daughter is asking for my attention I will stop what I’m doing and do whatever she’s asking me to do.

Whenever she wants to go back to mommy I will browse my phone since I usually have absolutely zero interest in what she is watching.

She accuses me of being absent/not present since I don’t focus all my free time on her and the baby. Also side note she is currently 20 weeks pregnant.

Edit: I get up at 5am and usually fall asleep by 930-10pm. My wife and daughter nap through the day so when I’m sleeping they are usually awake for another hour or two.

GOLD DIGGER SAYS BF ONLY EARNS $4.5K, “TOOK A YEAR TO SAVE UP & BUY ME A GUCCI BAG”

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I need some advice.

At age 37 my bf is only at the executive level. he earns around $4500 a month. I expect him to earn around $15k a month for a director-level position.

At his age, he should be a GM/Director by now but he is just a lowly legal counsel with low pay working for an SME business with little to no benefits.

Should I leave him? Should I look for something better for myself?

I am a 23-year-old local Chinese. And I still feel that I have a future unlike him. I don’t want to waste other opportunities for other men to provide me a better life. FYI he took a year just save up for a Gucci Bag. How pathetic is that?

We have been together for 5 years and I had not seen him get a promotion or increment since then. Girls and Guys please help. my BF is a local guy Chinese

Netizens’ comments

  1. Pathetic? Indeed but not him, it’s YOU. Shallow, deluded and materialistic. At 23 yrs old, barely any working experience, no career to begin with, unable to afford your own luxury and earn your own keep. Yet all you can think of is to leech on other men. Answer to your qn: yes, you shld leave him for his gd i.e. but pls stay single until you can stop thinking of being a parasite to anyone. Geez, it’s already 2021, quit living like we’re in ancient times.
  2. Please send picture, so “other men” can see if they really want to provide you with a “better life”
  3. errr… he buy gucci for you, you still complain? save up for a year just to buy you that, and you feel he’s pathetic, instead of feeling touched?
    then you own self cannot buy one yourself meh? kp, you really no backbone. you also no money right, thats why ask bf buy for you. think youre the kind that wear branded goods but wallet inside no money kind LOL
    Leave lor, then prove to him (and us) that you are able to earn more than him la, since you said your future brighter than him. wait.. then depend on him to buy gucci for fk?

WIFE REFUSES TO EAT AT COFFEESHOP, SAYS IT’S “UNBEARABLE”, MAKES HUSBAND PAY FOR EVERYTHING

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I am 30 years old male, married with 1 kid and already moved into our new BTO.

Wife and I met 8 years ago, got married 2 years ago and have a kid 1 year ago.

Starting of the relationship was ok, she is ok for me to smoke and portray herself as those very nice and understanding woman. Slowly 1 year into the relationship, her true colour slowly review itself. She say I smell so bad after smoking and refuse to kiss me. I respect that as non smokers usually dislike the smell. So everytime when I’m out with her, I would leave my cigarettes in the car. I have to pay for every single thing and dinner at coffee shop seems unbearable for her.

Moving forward a bit, we had a huge quarrel with her about 4 years into the relationship as she found out that I owe my credit card debt for about 14k. FYI, I don’t buy stuff for myself, I don’t drink, don’t party and don’t game. All my money were basically spent on her and us. She love to compare me and her life with those influencer’s and their boyfriend. Her attitude towards me is like towards a dog and she constantly scolds me with vulgar everytime she has mood swing. Her mood swing can be a weekly thing which traumatised me a lot. And she chose to dump me knowing that I am on debt. Felt really hurt inside as I chose to put myself in debt just so I can spend on her and let her lead the kind of life she wants to, but it’s still not enough to satisfy her. I chose to accept and left. And it was just that day itself when I got dumped, a very good female friend of mine since poly days contacted me and asked me out to chill, so since I’m down, I said ok and met up with her. Told her exactly what happened and she told me if she has a boyfriend like me, she would cherish so much and never let go (she knows how I treated all my exs and we were there for each other everytime we have BGR issue).

So I joking said, “when is our turn to be together?” , and she say actually she likes me too and if I have the same feeling towards her too, we can get together. I’ve read stuff online saying that best friend who got married usually last forever. We know exactly how our past were like, as such we will not quarrel over a lot of stuff new couples might face. I told her that I’m in debt and not able to buy her stuff and bring her for holidays, and she say she is ok to be the one paying and ok to eat bread with me until I clear off my debts. I’m so touched inside and I admit I had a crush on her before, and we got together.

Few weeks went by, my ex that I mentioned above came calling me, texting me and even came to my house begging me to come back and giving all the reasons that she could think of and how remorseful she were. I rejected her and said nasty things to her but she was very determined to get me back. Ultimately, still not moved on yet from her, I chose to let down my best friend and got back to her and indeed she was a changed person. But it was the worst decision I have ever made in my life. Shortly after we reconcile, probably 1 year later, her pattern came back and it got even worse. Nearing to our bto completion, I have to follow the flow and proposed to her, got married and move in our new house.

We had a child and I did everything I can to help. From feeding, to bathing to washing and cleaning, from doing ALL household chores and wash clothes mop floor hang clothes keep clothes wash milk bottle sterilised bottle, I paid for house renovation loan, wifi, utility bills, milk powder and every single meal including breakfast to dinner. She was not satisfied. She still compare her life with me with influencers. She said what I did was what I should as a husband and daddy and that I never do anything for her but only for our child. She complains how I never bring her to holiday after giving birth a child for me and says I never buy branded bags for her anymore. Honestly, I’m in debt again and I can’t tell her. She is the type that I can’t share any of my unhappiness or difficulties to her because she will have an even bigger reaction.

When baby is sick, we all can’t sleep and she will start go crazy shouting at our infant baby and telling me how I didn’t help her and even say she has market value still and don’t dare her to go look for another older richer man. She has been scolding vulgar to me and threatening to divorce me. I really don’t understand what have I done wrong or what have I not done enough. When I’m tired from work, she says don’t bring work back home ad affect the family, but she does that herself every single day. If it wasn’t for my child, I would have fought back and agree to a divorce. I’m so lost now.

MANY PEOPLE IN CREDIT CARD DEBT OR TAKE BANK LOANS JUST TO LOOK RICH ON SOCIAL MEDIA

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Suddenly feel that most people around me are in debts. Either owe credit card or bank loan to satisfy their lifestyle.

They simply scared people despise them, borrow to buy and go for expensive meals to post on fb or Instagram. Just to show off that they are doing well but actually not.

They can every month just pay interest and still owe the credit card more than $10k. But you can see them buy this buy that go holiday, shopping and post that their kids go 1 round of the shopping mall can spend few hundred bucks.

I really don’t understand why they can’t just pay off the debt and enjoy later. Imagine their income 3-4K per month and owe credit card and bank loan about 20-40k.

Every month use 1-2k to repay loan and interest, need to wait how long can pay off? Curious to know! ????

I seriously find that he/she do not know how to manage their finances?

Ps: these people still can show off telling people he/she earn alot. I got the urge telling them wake up from your dream and face the reality! Your kids will suffer too because they learn from you.

Netizens’ comments

  • Blame ig n social media. Last time friends can only show off in front of u once a year during gathering. Now they can show off to u everyday.
  • Too many people wanna look good, too little income. Thus, kaput
  • Depends. My credit card offers 0% interest rate. So I just take it as a monthly cost to spread out my big purchase/splurge.

EMPLOYER THREATENED TO GIVE RESIGNING STAFF (WHO’S SERVING NOTICE), A BAD REFERENCE

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I submitted my resignation letter after tolerating all the intimidation, micromanaging and taunting for close to 3 years. I was also hinted to leave by my manager and her boss recently.

After I tendered, they became much more passive aggressive and insulting. I was given an ultimatum to complete a detailed list of all of my work within less than a day as I was informed at night and they wanted it the morning after.

If not, they threatened to give me a bad reference to all my future employers. As I tendered right on the date where I’m able to get my bonus, they also told me that my bonus will decrease because of my departure.

Is there anyone who has been through something similar and how did you deal with handling such unprofessional people?

I’ve thought of going to MOM but that is more on wages rather than workplace harassment.

I really think Singapore as a whole need to have better employee welfare policy or implement the 2 weeks notice period like the US does. Especially in my case where using logic to rebut any unreasonable request won’t work.

Netizens’ comments

  • Workplace harassment is covered under MOM as well. The department you should be looking for is Tripartite Alliance for Dispute Management (TADM).
  • You may also want to check if your company is unionised, if it is, you can seek out the respective union for advice.
  • You could have drawn a line right from the start. No point making a report to MOM now. Wish you the best for your next job and know your rights as an employee.
  • Keep all the evidence and lawyer up.

NUS GRAD – MANY EMPLOYERS STILL HAVE THE “I EAT SALT MORE THAN YOU EAT RICE” MINDSET

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I know that there may indeed be some applicants which are unreasonable, but for most of the other cases, I feel that whatever was brought up were valid questions that can, and should be asked during the interview to set expectations right from the start.

For example, I remember one of the applicants asking for transport allowance, which imo is a legit concern especially if you are working in tuas or jurong island. And asking for more pay isn’t wrong what, who wouldn’t want more money?

The key is finding a balance between what the employer is willing to give and what the employee is willing to take.

However, the post seems to be bashing applicants simply because they had dared open their mouths to request for more pay in the midst of “the worst pandemic ever”.

Which brings me to my next point, many of these sme bosses/hiring managers always have this boomer mindset which I seriously cannot tahan.

They seem to not like the idea of a fresh grad/young working adult getting fairly paid, and would often say things along the lines of how youngsters nowadays are not willing “suffer a bit and learn”, and “think they are worth a lot simply because they have a uni cert”.

Well, isn’t it a fact that most people pursue a higher education in order to get a better start in their career? So why this double standard?

This boomer mindset of having to go through hardship first is seriously nonsense; it is the 21st century already, we work smart, not work hard. If you wanna rely on working hard only, prepare to get replaced by new technologies in the future lol.

Just a little rant. I know many boomers will call me a strawberry but whatever. I am getting paid a decent salary that I am happy with, and I work smart enough such that I can impress my boss and yet still not need to OT very often. Something “hardworking” and “I-eat-salt-more-than-you-eat-rice” boomers will never understand.

WOMAN REJECTED BF’S MARRIAGE PROPOSAL BECAUSE THE ENGAGEMENT RING TOO “LOW CLASS”

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My bf of 3 years just proposed to me. He opened up the box containing the engagement ring to show me the ring inside, and I was about to say yes when I noticed that the ring didn’t look very atas.

I immediately questioned my bf on what brand that engagement ring was and he said that it was Chow Tai Fook. I felt that such an Asian brand was too low class for me and so I rejected his proposal on the spot.

If he really want to propose, I’d at least expect some ang mor brand like Cartier or Swarovski, which is much more high class than some random asian branded ring!

Seriously, this bf of mine deserve to stay single forever. Must be his mother never teach him properly from young, that’s why he don’t possess such common sense when it comes to such things.

His father also isn’t any better, confirm is never buy proper rings for my bf’s mother when they were dating many years ago. Like that make until my bf’s mother don’t know how to teach my bf about what ring to buy for a girl.

Netizens’ comments

  • Count yourself lucky if you get a K grade stainless steel plated moissanite for that pleb Swarovski comment
  • Girl I think you deserve to stay single forever. He deserve someone so much better than you. Dude, please change your partner. I believe there’s nicer, prettier girl for you to choose from in NUS. THANK GOD THAT SHE REJECTED.
  • Chow Tai Fook is a very popular jewellery chain from HK. And honestly I find their yellow gold design more fanciful and elegant than others. I don’t see anything wrong with his choice.
  • Lol. Swarovski is rhinestones. Not even real diamonds. And to classify Cartier with Swarovski, ur IQ same as your mentality.