resignation letter to boss

i’m a local and i’m working at a small company, i recently got a new job offer and now gonna tender my resignation letter to my boss.

all of my old companies has HR that i could email to but this company, i’m working under my boss. he’s the one who interviewed me and he’s the one that pay us. we have no HR at all and anyone doing payroll.

i wonder if should be respectful to send him the letter by hand or just email him.. need help. i also have social anxiety, so facing people sometimes makes me nervous.

Netizens’ comments

1. Email and bcc your personal email so you have evidence you tendered.
2. If this boss is someone you respect, just tell him you need to talk to him in private and then explain to him you are about to resign as you have a better offer.
   Any boss that takes care of his staff would enquire if this is due to any push or pull reasons. The conversation could begin there and you could then send a email to confirm the resignation.
3. In terms of notification of your last day, email would suffice. In it, you state your last working day.
   In terms of formality (and maybe respect), you can do it by hand. But you should do it discreetly. Like ask to meet or talk in the meeting room for awhile with the letter in between your files or laptop. This is so that you don’t let other employees see your intent to leave.

I’m thinking of leaving my husband due to him constantly farting in public.

My husband (let’s just call him Frotan) thinks he’s hilarious. He’s not. Whenever we go out, be it to a restaurant or the shops or absolutely anywhere, he will fart loudly and smirk or outright laugh. These aren’t normal farts, mind you.

They’re loud splurts, they’re wet, they’re squelchy, they’re toxic, and they they reek like just risen from hell itself.

People look at us, they avoid us, they judge us. I’m pretty certain there are friends of ours who no longer hang out with us due to the farting issue.

My husband doesn’t have a medical condition exactly, apart from a bit of lactose and glucose intolerance, but he does go out of his way to eat trigger food such as sour cream and milk and sourdough bread so he can fart the best he can.

Lately it’s come to a head though. I’ve noticed he is smelling like rank fart for a long time after the farts have passed. I do all the washing in the house as I’m not the bread winner and I’ve started to notice a clear jelly like residual substance in his underpants that smells like curdled turds.

Google tells me this is mucus. This has been going on for about two weeks now, and sometimes the fecal jelly ranges in consistence and is closer to looking like a brown poo paste similar to Nutella. So he has evolved from just farting to actually splurting turd goo and pooing his pants.

He still finds it funny, and he won’t stop. I told him it’s not normal for a man in his 40’s to poo his pants on the daily and he laughed at me and hand waved away the issue.

I’m mortified by his behaviour and embarrassed to be around him. I’m genuinely thinking about divorce, as he’s a disgusting embarrassment and I don’t want to be with someone whose idea of a joke is to loudly fill his pants with gut butter turds.

‘Customer Always Right’

This is a word that is glorified by customers when faced with a conflict with a salesperson.

I can say this is their main weapon to break the seller’s argument when faced with a problem regarding the purchased product.

I used to be a promoter, but not anymore. It’s been two months since I moved to another department and worked behind the scenes even though the salary was not as much as when I was a promoter.

Indeed, a job that involves human affairs is a difficult job that can lead to mental stress.

I’ve been wanting to make this confession for a long time, but it’s always delayed. Today, one of the promoters in my company was insulted and scolded by a customer. The customer’s voice echoed into the office.

And that’s why I’m writing today.

Dear customers, I’m sure everyone reading this is a customer including me.

Please plant in your head that the job of a promoter is to sell. In addition to selling, he also provides knowledge and explanations about a product. There may be promoters who don’t have knowledge, but there are many who have knowledge.

Most companies now provide classes and guidance to their salespeople, especially for new products.

Never look down on promoters, because not all promoters are poorly educated. Many of them have high qualifications and they have their own reasons for choosing this job.

The customer has to remember, not the salesperson who makes a product. All products are from the factory, sent to the supplier or dealer and then sent to the store. Before the promoter opened the box, he didn’t even know what was in the box.

Have to remember, in 10 products there may be one that is damaged. Maybe one is defective.

Not a single salesperson wants to sell a damaged product to a customer. Because of the consequences, the seller is still responsible.

When you buy, the seller does not open the box in front of you, does not test the item in front of you, you do have the right not to pay. But if you yourself don’t want to test it, when you return it suddenly it’s broken, it’s not the seller’s fault.

It’s the same if he has opened it, shows you A to Z about the product and when the product is in the store there is no problem, it’s not the seller’s fault.

He has done his duty well. And when he explains about the product, you have the right to ask him 1001 questions that you don’t know or are confused about.

If the product is damaged at home, please plant it near your head. It’s not the seller’s fault, especially if you’ve been using it for more than a month. Maybe the product has a problem, but the problem appears within a certain period of time after use.

As long as there is a warranty, you do have the right to claim at the store. But remember, not all warranties are fully covered by the store.

There is also a warranty that is borne by the service center, usually large companies have their own service center.

And the warranty also has certain conditions. One thing, the technician is not stupid to judge that the damage comes from the store or the customer. It’s not just your product that has a problem, he has dealt with hundreds of products.

When you take it to the store, please don’t curse the seller. As I said earlier, he himself did not know that the product was problematic.

Out of 10 customers, you might be the unlucky one. It rarely happens, but there are indeed some customers who like to come recklessly and continue to curse the seller in the store.

There is a good seller, he accepts your item back even though the item is under the responsibility of the service center. He himself will deal with the service center.

I just want to say one thing, be grateful. Be grateful that he helped you. Maybe he feels responsible because he is the one who sells the product.

Don’t force the seller to exchange new items or ask for a full refund. Remember, the seller is not a toupee who can take the company’s money at will or hand over new items to you. Same with the store manager, he’s not a tofu.

That’s why the warranty is provided by the store for cases like this. To request a full refund or 1 to 1 replacement from the company, the manager or seller must answer 1001 questions from the superior. Not everyone is lucky enough to have an angelic superior.

Remember, they only have a normal salary. Sometimes the things you buy are more expensive than their salary. Not all graduates are lucky, only graduates can achieve their goals. Many struggles and many run away. Many, too many.

As for the warranty, this happens a lot in my company. When sending the warranty, the customer is usually okay, still chill.

But if you have to wait a long time, start making a fuss near the store. Usually, customers who are too lazy to go to the service center themselves like to do this.

Today i was sitting by my desk working when my boss (m/60) showed up.

I had some questions, and instead of giving me a simple answer to the things im asking about, he starts mansplaining to me really simple stuff. Like a toddler would understand this.

And not enough with that. Imagine im sitting by my desk holding my pc mouse with my right hand, he just puts his whole arm over mine and has it lying there while continuing to mansplain.

It was a part of his demonstration. For like I wouldnt know what a water hose blocking a door means. This whole time I was silently sitting and waiting and thinking wtf is going on. I could feel the warmth of his hairy arm and that made me feel sick.