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WOMAN SAYS SHE MARRIED FOR “LOOKS, MONEY AND POWER”, TREATS MARRIAGE AS COMPETITION

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I have looks money and power and I married for looks, money and power!

Somehow the thought of him cheating never did cross my mind once. And somehow I never did once feel like going outside of my marriage (even though it is very easy for me to do so with what I have).

It’s not for me to say my husband is objectively handsome, but he is subjectively pleasant to look at. I am very attracted to him. He is losing hair and growing a belly from aging but when I look at him my heart still swells. If anything the signs of aging is an urgent reminder I must cherish him more as we have less and less days together. I love it when he laughs. It really warms my heart and I enjoy making him laugh. I guess his happiness is important to me. When he is happy somehow I cannot help but feel happy too.

It’s not for me to say if he is objectively rich. But I can for a fact see he spends within his means. He sets aside some savings for the rainy days. He makes career plans. He manages his finances well. He is practical. Someone dependable I can work with to build a future together and overcome hardships and challenges with in life. And us having a roof over the head, stable jobs with good prospects and secured future for kids is very attractice. Well at least it gives me the headspace and bandwidth to relax and feel attractive.

He is strong. Don’t get me wrong, he does not have the body of a gym rat but he exercises. Eats well. Keeps his mind sharp, importantly. His real strength though is his ability to lift people around him up. He brings out the best in people. Identifies potentials and synergises them to make magic happen.

I guess it’s how genuinely happy I am in my own marriage. I can feel his love and devotion everyday (like how he never fails to kiss me good morning before going to work for 7 years and says I love you before bed every night). How attentive he is to my every need.

Fortunately and unfortunately for him, I am super competitive. So I make it a personal mission to be better than him in everything we do, including loving him. And because I give my 10000% it’s hard for me to imagine how anyone can do better.

One of the things I remember most was how we were both holding the door for each other waiting on the other. And that dynamic continued on. How we always have each other in our contemplation.

The devotion and selfless love are what allowed us to have deep conversations and a healthy life in bed. During our relationship and the first 3 years of our marriage, we got intimate daily and sometimes twice a day I had to Google if that’s normal. Now that we are both older and with kids, we get intimate once every few days (which I think is more normal haha).

I must say, there are many affair-themed confessions and reading them did rattle me a little and made me begin to wonder if my perfect marriage is maybe not so perfect.

Having thought about it, I write this to spread some positivity and maybe share how important it is to have “love” in a marriage. When there isn’t love, a lot if petty things can take center stage very easily especially with kids. And without love, people are motivated by selfish and not selfless reasons in most situations leading to the total breakdown of a relationship. Love, even if not present at first is something that can be cultivated. It starts with a selfless act that is then reciprocated by a selfless act by the other. Just as a relationship or a marriage can be driven to the ground, it can be built up.

Just my 2 cents.

47 Y.O MAN JAILED FOR SLEEPING WITH UNDERAGED GIRL FROM “SUGARBOOK” WEBSITE

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47-year-old Aloi Gregory Marshall, was sentenced to 12 weeks imprisonment on 19 October after pleading guilty to obtaining explicit services of a minor.

He had paid an underaged girl that he met on Sugarbook $1,000 to engage in intercourse with her despite being told that she wasn’t 18-years-old yet.

The identity of the victim cannot be revealed due to a court order.

What happened?

In early 2021, Marshall was browsing the Sugarbook website (a website that matchmakes women with men who are willing to pay for their time) to look for companionship.

He then saw the victim’s profile on the website, claiming to be 18-years-old, and they then chatted on Sugarbook before moving their conversation onto Telegram.

Aloi asked the girl if she was 18 and she replied that she was turning 18 in December.

He then offered her $1,000 for a 2 hour session where they would have intercourse twice, and the girl agreed, and they then met in April 2021 at his home where they had intercourse.

He then left $1,000 by her bag for her services and she took the money before leaving his home.

Later that month, Aloi then reached out to her again on Telegram asking her if she wanted to meet up again, and they then tried to arrange but couldn’t find an available date.

He then contacted her twice in May asking if she was free to meet up but didn’t get a response from her.

Aloi is set to begin his jail term on 16 November after his request to defer his jail term to settle personal matters was approved.

MAN SELLING MBS STAYCATION FOR $750 AFTER BREAKUP, WORTH AT LEAST $1.4K

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Facebook user Hrmn Wong shared how he booked a 3 days 2 nights staycation at the Marina Bay Sands Hotel for his girlfriend but they broke up and he is now looking to sell the staycation for a much lower price.

He said that he decorated the room with roses, champagne, chocolates, balloons and “I love you” signs only for their relationship to end.

He said that he was devastated and that his dreams are broken, and that he has no one to go on the staycation with except for “myself and myself and only myself.”

He is offering to sell his staycation for only $750, and a quick search online shows that the room costs at least $699 per night, meaning the staycation is worth at least $1.4k.

Here is what he said

Hi guys , it’s me again ….as you guys know I’ve been away from Singapore for almost 1 year and before I came back to Singapore ,

I had a wonderful and romantic plan in mind for my then GF (now no more already become ex gf Liao ) to be able to have a romantic and passionate staycation like all other couple’s have…decorating the bed and room with roses , champagne, chocolate , balloons bought from Bugis party shop, I love you sign .

But it all came to a naught and we broken up ….. very devastating , my dreams are broken again ….. I have no one to go on this staycation with except for myself and myself and only myself .

You couldn’t expect me to decorate some balloons and instead of having the “I love you “ change to “ love yourself before you love others “ correct anot .

Very (sad) but on a positive note , im thinking I should just let go this room to a happy and loving couple … I know it’s abit too fast to suddenly tell your gf bf husband wife suddenly you have staycation but take this chance to surprise them and if you still have no idea ,

I’ve already upload some decoration ideas for you and just nice Halloween is around the corner just ask your gf or wife not to have any makeup on and she will totally suit the theme for Halloween and at the same time surprise her this room and surprise herself when she look at the mirror .

it’s a 3 days 2 nights stay at MBS HOTEL PREMIER ROOM and you might be able to do a free upgrade too ( no promise but will try my best ok ) dated 18,19,20 October .

And for those of you guys no gf no bf no husband no wife . No worries …. You can dabao your 小三,fling , Fwb, KTV girls aka your lao po lao gong , Siamdui girls aka your teerak aka the girl you hang 5000sgd one night, club girls, bar host , boys club host to let them enjoy this wonderful hotel with you .

I will keep it a secret don’t worry . So how much will it cost ? 3 days 2 nights just a fee of $750…. Y’all go see the price for each day lor I posted on the last photo .

So I never disappoint you all one ok … don’t come tell me I just want 1 day can anot ? , can change date anot .. no cannot !!!!

Day fix at 18,19,20 October ok . $750 only la . Y’all cannot find this price one la . Y’all want faster pm me la ok . Decoration ideas , whatever idea I already post for you all Liao la .

You want then Pm me . Don’t GONG WU GONG BO ASK ASK ASK FOR FUN LA PLS TOLONG LA.

UPDATED : ROOM SOLD TO A WONDERFUL FAMILY FROM THAILAND ENJOY YOUR STAY

Source: Hrmn Wong on Facebook

YISHUN TEEN WHO ALLEGEDLY MURDERED FATHER, REMANDED 3 MORE WEEKS FOR PSYCHIATRIC ASSESSMENT

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19-year-old Sylesnar Seah Jie Kai, who is being accused of murdering his father in Yishun, appeared in a district court yesterday (19 October) via video link.

He has been remanded for a further 3 weeks for psychiatric assessment, and his case has been adjourned to 9 November.

Recap

47-year-old Eddie Seah Wee Teck was previously reported to have been allegedly killed by his 19-year-old son Sylesnar Seah Jie Kai on 10 October at Block 653 Yishun Avenue 4.

The 19-year-old was arrested by the police, and was charged in court on 12 October with his murder, and has been remanded ever since.

According to Shin Min Daily News, the victim had an argument with his son and walked out of the house, and the accused then allegedly grabbed a knife from the kitchen and chased after his father.

He then allegedly used the knife to slash his father in the neck from behind, before slashing home again across the back.

The victim then escaped through the staircase and called for help from his neighbours, according to Lianhe Zaobao.

The victim eventually collapsed in front of a neighbour’s unit one floor below, and the Straits Times reported that the neighbour heard frantic knocking at her door before calling the police when she saw the victim sprawled on the ground with a metallic object.

The victim reportedly had a bloodstained knife near his body when the police found him, which measured about 10cm long; and he had stopped breathing by the time the paramedics arrived at the scene.

He was found motionless and declared dead at the scene by paramedics.

BENTLEY DRIVER WHO TRIED TO RUN OVER SECURITY @ RED SWASTIKA SCHOOL, JAILED 8 WEEKS

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61-year-old Neo Hong Chye, who was seen in a viral video earlier this year trying to run over a 62-year-old security guard outside the Red Swastika School, pleaded guilty on 19 October to causing hurt by performing a rash act, as well as another count of driving his car without insurance coverage.

He was sentenced to 8 weeks imprisonment and fined $600, as well as being disqualified from holding all classes of driving licenses for 12 months.

His 28-year-old son, Glynn Neo Jia, was also previously charged in May with one count of altering the Bentley’s license plate number and letting his father drive it without insurance coverage.

Singapore Police’s statement on 10 May

The Police and LTA will be charging two men, the 61-year-old car driver and a 28-year-old car owner, for their suspected involvement in an incident which occurred at Red Swastika School on 11 January 2022.

On 11 January 2022 at about 11.40am, the Police received a report on a case involving a car driver who was allegedly endangering the safety of a security guard at the school. On the same day, at about 3.35pm, the Police arrested the car driver for rash act causing hurt. Subsequent investigations by Police and LTA revealed that the vehicle’s number plate was purportedly altered, and the driver had driven the vehicle without insurance coverage.

The driver will be charged in court with the offence of rash act causing hurt, and for driving a vehicle without insurance coverage on 11 May 2022.

The owner of the vehicle involved, who is the driver’s son, will also be charged in court on 11 May 2022 with the offence of altering the licence plate number and permitting another individual to use a vehicle without insurance coverage.

ENG’S WANTAN NOODLES FINED $3.3K AFTER 68 PEOPLE HAD STOMACHACHE FROM THEIR FOOD

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Lao Huo Tang Group Pte Ltd, licensee of ENG’s Wanton Noodles, fined $3,300 for the sale of food unfit for consumption

Lao Huo Tang Group Pte Ltd, licensee of ENG’s Wanton Noodles, was fined $3,300 by the Court today for selling food unfit for consumption.

2 In May 2021, the Singapore Food Agency (SFA) received multiple feedback involving 68 affected cases who exhibited suspected gastroenteritis symptoms after consuming food at ENG’s Wanton Noodles, located at 287 Tanjong Katong Road.

3 A joint investigation with the Ministry of Health (MOH) was conducted, which found that the ready-to-eat food items such as char siew and choi sim prepared failed the microbiological limits stipulated under the Singapore Food Regulations. SFA suspended the food business operations of ENG’s Wanton Noodles located at 287 Tanjong Katong Road from 18 May 2021 to 28 Jun 2021.

4 Food safety is a joint responsibility. While SFA continues to be vigilant and works to ensure that the regulatory measures are in place and properly enforced, the industry and consumers should also play their part.

5 All food operators should ensure that their premises are clean and well-maintained, and staff are adequately trained on proper food safety management. SFA will not hesitate to take firm action against anyone found to be in violation of the Environmental Public Health Act. Offenders are liable on conviction to a fine not exceeding $2,000 and, in the case of a continuing offence, to a further fine not exceeding $100 for every day or part thereof during which the offence continues after conviction.

6 Members of the public who come across poor hygiene practices in food establishments are advised not to patronise them and provide feedback via our online feedback form (www.sfa.gov.sg/feedback) with details for our follow-up investigations.

Issued by SFA
19 Oct 2022

SCAMMERS PRETENDING TO BE FROM LTA, ASKING VICTIMS TO PAY THEIR “UNPAID FINES”

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The Police would like to alert members of the public on the emergence of a new variant of phishing scams involving unpaid tolls. Since 13 October 2022, the Police have received at least 20 reports, with losses amounting to at least $22,000.

Victims of such phishing scams would receive text messages, purportedly from the Land Transport Authority (LTA), notifying them of unpaid bills or fines. A Uniform Resource Locator (URL) link would be embedded in the messages and some of the messages would show that it was sent from ‘ERP’. Upon clicking on the URL, victims would be directed to a fraudulent LTA website, where the victims would be required to provide their credit/debit card details and One-Time Passwords (OTPs). Victims would subsequently discover unauthorised transactions made to their credit or debit cards.

The Police would like to advise members of the public to follow these crime prevention measures:

  • Do not click on URL links provided in unsolicited text messages;
  • Always verify the authenticity of the information with the official sources or website;
  • Never disclose your personal or Internet banking details and OTP to anyone; and
  • Report any fraudulent credit/debit card charges to your bank and cancel your card immediately.

If you have any information related to such crimes, please call the Police Hotline at 1800-255-0000, or submit it online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness. All information will be kept strictly confidential. Please dial ‘999’ if you require urgent Police assistance.

For more information on scams, members of the public can visit www.scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Hotline at 1800-722-6688. Join the ‘Spot the Signs. Stop the Crimes’ campaign at www.scamalert.sg/fight by signing up as an advocate to receive up-to-date messages and share them with your family and friends. Together, we can help stop scams and prevent our loved ones from becoming the next victim.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
18 October 2022 @ 10:00 PM

ILLEGAL GAMBLING DENS @ GEYLANG & UBI RAIDED BY ICA & MOM, 11 PEOPLE ARRESTED

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A total of 19 men and 13 women, aged between 21 and 73, are being investigated for various offences, following a multi-agency enforcement operation conducted from 25 September 2022 to 8 October 2022.

Illegal Gambling

In a joint enforcement operation against illegal gambling involving ICA and MOM, Police raided an industrial unit along Lorong 23 Geylang. In another joint operation, Police raided a commercial unit along Ubi Road 1 and an F&B establishment along Lorong 29 Geylang. Ten men and one woman, aged between 46 and 73, are under investigation for their suspected involvement in gambling offences under the Gambling Control Act 2022. Makeshift gambling tables and other gambling paraphernalia were seized during the operation.

Under Section 20(3) of the Gambling Control Act 2022, an individual who gambles with an unlicensed gambling service provider or at unlawful gambling place shall be guilty of an offence and be liable on conviction to a fine of up to $10,000 or an imprisonment term of up to six months or both. Under Section 18(3) of the Gambling Control Act 2022, an individual who conducts betting operations, gaming or lotteries unlawfully, shall be guilty of an offence and be liable on conviction to a fine of up to $200,000 and imprisonment term of up to five years.

Unregistered Health Products and Illegal E-Vaporisers

In a series of joint operations along the Geylang Lorongs involving HSA, ICA and CNB, unregistered health products consisting of cough syrup and various enhancement products with an estimated value of around $14,687 were seized. Four men are being investigated under the Health Products Act 2007. One e-vaporiser and related accessories were also seized during the operation.

Those found guilty of importing, manufacturing and/or supplying of unregistered health products, may be liable to an imprisonment term for up to two years and/or fine of up to $50,000. Those found guilty of selling, offering for sale, possessing for sale, importing or distributing e-vaporisers and its accessories, are liable, for the first offence, to a fine of up to $10,000, an imprisonment term of up to six months, or both; and for the second or subsequent offence, may be liable to a fine not exceeding $20,000, an imprisonment term of up to 12 months, or both. In addition, for possessing, using and purchasing such items, offenders are liable to a fine of up to $2,000.

The Commanding Officer of Geylang Neighbourhood Police Centre, Superintendent of Police Muhammad Firdaus Bin Abdul Raub expressed his appreciation to all the agencies involved for their strong support and commended the officers for their professionalism and excellent teamwork during the operation. He added, “The Police will continue to work closely with other enforcement agencies to clamp down on illegal activities.”

The Police have zero tolerance towards illegal activities and will take firm action against those who blatantly disregard the law. Members of the public are advised to report those engaging in unlawful activities to the Police.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
19 October 2022 @ 7:25 PM

12 WOMEN ARRESTED DURING VICE RAIDS ON MASSAGE PARLOURS @ GEYLANG RD

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A total of 19 men and 13 women, aged between 21 and 73, are being investigated for various offences, following a multi-agency enforcement operation conducted from 25 September 2022 to 8 October 2022.

Vice-Related Activities

As part of the enforcement operation against vice activities, two massage establishments located along Geylang Road are being investigated for purportedly operating without a valid licence under the Massage Establishments Act 2017.

Two women, aged 39 and 54, were arrested for offences under the Women’s Charter 1961.

Anti-vice operations were also conducted by the CID and Bedok Police Division, with support from ICA, focusing on the Geylang Lorongs and hotels in the area.

Ten women and one man, aged between 24 and 41, were arrested for offences under the Women’s Charter 1961.

Enforcement operations were also conducted at public entertainment outlets along Geylang Road and Geylang Lorongs 18, 20 and 35. Two men, aged 25 and 26, were arrested under the Societies Act 1966.

Duty-Unpaid Cigarettes

Officers from the Singapore Customs conducted enforcement against duty-unpaid cigarettes. Two men, both aged 69, were arrested under the Customs Act 1960, for purportedly dealing with duty-unpaid cigarettes, while another man, aged 64, was issued with a composition fine for being in possession of duty-unpaid cigarettes. Buying, selling, conveying, delivering, storing, keeping, possessing, or dealing with duty-unpaid cigarettes are serious offences under the Customs Act 1960. The offence carries a fine of up to 40 times the amount of duty and GST evaded and/or imprisonment for up to six years.

Investigations against the 32 individuals and two massage establishments are ongoing.

The Commanding Officer of Geylang Neighbourhood Police Centre, Superintendent of Police Muhammad Firdaus Bin Abdul Raub expressed his appreciation to all the agencies involved for their strong support and commended the officers for their professionalism and excellent teamwork during the operation. He added, “The Police will continue to work closely with other enforcement agencies to clamp down on illegal activities.”

The Police have zero tolerance towards illegal activities and will take firm action against those who blatantly disregard the law. Members of the public are advised to report those engaging in unlawful activities to the Police.

The Commanding Officer of Geylang Neighbourhood Police Centre, Superintendent of Police Muhammad Firdaus Bin Abdul Raub expressed his appreciation to all the agencies involved for their strong support and commended the officers for their professionalism and excellent teamwork during the operation. He added, “The Police will continue to work closely with other enforcement agencies to clamp down on illegal activities.”

The Police have zero tolerance towards illegal activities and will take firm action against those who blatantly disregard the law. Members of the public are advised to report those engaging in unlawful activities to the Police.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
19 October 2022 @ 7:25 PM

MAN ADMIRING “BEAUTIFUL” PORSCHE, THEN GETS BRUTALLY ATTACKED BY OWNERS

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A 47-year-old man in Thailand, Somkuan Songkhot, was admiring a Porsche that was parked on the road, when the owners of the car brutally assaulted him for no reason on 15 October, according to Thaiger.

He ended up in a coma and is in critical condition following the unprovoked assault.

What happened?

Songkhot was driving home with his wife Lakhana Salao after picking her up from her cleaning job at Central Mall at Koh Samui, in the Surat Thani province.

They then rode past a white Porsche and Songkhot then told his wife “that car is so beautiful, when can we afford a car like that?”

They then followed the car to admire it for a while more before passing it.

The Porsche then started following them and tailgating the couple’s motorcycle, honking at them until they stopped at the side of the road.

The Porsche driver then blocked off traffic by parking perpendicular to the road, and Somkuan noticed that the two inhabitants of the Porsche were foreigners, and he thought they were lost.

He then approached them and asked them in English if they needed help, and a man in a black shirt then alighted from the passenger side of the car and attacked him.

he was seen kicking and punching Songkhot in the face, knocking him into the ground where he hit his head hard against the pavement and fell unconscious.

The 28 and 34-year-old Frenchmen were then arrested and charged by the police and their car was also seized, and they confessed to attacking the victim.

Songkhot was rushed to Koh Samui Hospital where he went through emergency brain surgery for a brain haemorrhage and is currently in critical condition.