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WOMAN GETTING MARRIED, BUT STILL MISSES EX-BF WHO USED TO BEAT HER

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I was in a relationship the whole of secondary school. I was together with my ex from 13 to 16. I realise i crave for male validation a lot since i knew what it was due to not having a father figure since birth.

The 3.5y i was tgt w my ex started off sweet & simple, till the 2.5y mark. He cheated on me and was very violent. The first time he laid hands on me was the first time i confronted him about his cheating. I left immediately because i knew i will not stay in an rs like this,

That night he came to my house and got on his knees to beg me for forgiveness and promised he wont ever lay hands on me. I believed. My heart was soft. I was young & dumb.

This was a toxic cycle that went on for a year. We broke up on and off, i too seeked validation from other males during the period we broke and patch constantly.

The relationship came to an end when i graduated from sec sch, i was determined tht it was going to be a phase of my life i need to leave behind so i left for good. No closure on his end no nothing, i was always the one holding onto the rs.

It took loads of courage. It was extremely difficult bc aft all i did give him 3.5y of my life. I did extremely well for O levels, i was so happy & i wanted to let him know but i didnt want to go back crawling. Fast forward 7 years ltr, he still wishes me on my birthday yearly even till now.

I’m 23. I stopped replying to his birthday texts about 3 years after our rs ended. I regret giving him all of me when i was young, i was stupid & i took extremely long to heal properly from the relationship and the trauma it has brought me. I became rebellious after secondary school & almost dropped out of JC because i didnt know how to cope with these feelings. I was literally living on edge during JC till i met my fiancé whn i was in uni.

I’m getting married next septemeber with my fiancé who ive been seeing for 4 years, who showed me I deserve to be loved. Gave me emotional support throughout my whole uni life & when i first started working. Understood what ive been through and has always been understanding.

My fiancé is a great guy, 25, smart, tall & good looking. He has never once made me insecure or doubt him and constantly showering me with love & reassurance.

Dont get me wrong, i am extremely happy in this relationship but first loves.. they always have a special place in your heart. But just a bittersweet feeling of how my first love & i couldve been getting married if he didn’t cheat.

Ive nvr told anyone this or shared this story because i dont like the sympathy, everyone thought we broke up due to us growing apart when i was studying for my Os. I cant wait to get married to my fiancé, but i dont know if i wanna invite my first love because i want him to witness how happy i am with my life & relationship now.

27 Y.O MAN SCARED 34 Y.O GF WON’T ACCEPT HIM FOR BEING YOUNGER, LIES THAT HE’S 30

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Help

I’m 27 and my girlfriend is 34. We have know each other for about 5-6months and officially together as a couple for about 4 months.

Here’s the thing, I didn’t told her my real age in the beginning as I’m afraid that she wouldn’t wanna date me because I’m younger than her and hence I told her I’m 30.

I’m stuck between confessing to her about my real age or I just don’t tell her at all. What should I do??? I really love her and want this relationship with her

Netizens’ comments

  1. Not much difference between 27 and 30. I don’t get what’s the hoohah about. You told a lie at the end of the day. It’s the lie that you should be trying to resolve, not the age gap matter. You are still too immature for her I think.
  2. There shouldn’t be lies between you two. If you wanna continue and eventually have family of your own. Honesty is the foundation. Think of making a family like building house. If you don’t have a solid foundation, and continue to build on the lie, eventually everything will crumble. Fix the foundation now.
  3. listen to her response when you tell her a story about a couple of of 7 years age difference then you decide whether to tell her the real age or not
  4. listen to her response when you tell her a story about a couple of of 7 years age difference then you decide whether to tell her the real age or not

CRAZY BOSS TEXTS STAFF 24 HOURS A DAY ABOUT WORK, EXPECT THEM TO BE ON PHONE ALL DAY

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I just want people to help me clarify something here; I used to work for a large corporation but recently switched to a small company. When I first arrived, the boss and director were extremely pleasant. After two months in the company, the boss’ true colors emerged.

1) He texted me about work 24 hours a day, seven days a week. He also asked my colleague not to text him on Sunday because that is his day off.

2) He has an extreme mood swing. Everything is fine as long as he is happy. When he’s in a bad mood, he treats his employees like they’re his dogs.

He can bite on something minor, text hurtful words, and the way he talks makes you feel like he could fire you at any time. He can even call you and speak to you rudely. But when he sees us in the office, he will say hello, bye, and smile.

It feels like I’ll be subjected to mental torture by him, but I’ve only been with this new company for four months. I have worked at all of my previous jobs for at least three years.

Will you all consider whether this type of culture is healthy in the long run?

FOUNDER OF MINISTRY OF FOOD DECLARED BANKRUPT, HAD MORE THAN S$5.4M OF DEBTS

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The founder of Ministry of Food (MOF), Lena Sim, who once owned more than 80 restaurants around Singapore, has declared bankrupt after accruing more than $5.4 million in debt.

The bankruptcy order against her came in the wake of her being ordered by the court to shut down Ministry of FOod over debts that were owed in 2021, according to Straits Times.

At the height of its success, MOF has more than 80 restaurants in Singapore, after its first outlet opened in 2006 at Marina Square.

Sim was sued in 2017 by a Korean restaurant chain for outstanding payments of $4.8 million that was not paid.

She had reportedly agreed to buy the restaurant chain for $5.5 million, but only paid them $700,000,

Ever since, MOF’s creditors, Star Sino Developments, issued 4 statutory demands to Sim from 2017 to 2021, during which Sim acknowledged the debt and entered into repayment agreements with the creditors.

But Sim then allegedly defaulted on her payment in 2021, after which Star Sino then began bankruptcy proceedings against her last year.

In an attempt to stave off the bankruptcy, Sim applied in court to set aside the fourth and latest statutory demand, stating in her application that she was not indebted to Star Sino.

She also said in her application that they had tried to avoid the provisions of the Moneylenders Act by disbursing the money into her bank account.

Her application was ultimately dismissed by the High Court, along with her subsequent appeal – she is also facing charges from IRAS for not providing information on 2 companies.

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ENGINEERING VEHICLE STUCK ON MRT PLATFORM, SMRT: “SORRY TO AFFECT YOUR COMMUTE”

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Train services were not available this morning between Yio Chu Kang to Canberra MRT stations due to a faulty engineering vehicle being stuck on the northbound platform on the North South Line, near Yishun station.

SMRT issued a statement on Facebook explaining the incident, as well as apologising for “affect(ing) your early morning commute”.

SMRT’s statement on Facebook

[UPDATE: North-South Line, 19 October 2022, at 10.17am]:

On 19 Oct, at about 4.30am during engineering hours, a faulty engineering maintenance vehicle could not move from the northbound platform near Yishun station on the North-South Line. Our engineers were deployed on site to recover service.

Commuters were advised to add 15 minutes to their train travel time. They were advised to take alternative transport via the Thomson-East Coast and Circle lines, or the free regular bus and bridging bus services that were activated between Woodlands and Ang Mo Kio stations in both directions. Southbound train service was available from Jurong East to Marina South Pier stations.

At about 6.40am, northbound train service was stopped from Yio Chu Kang to Canberra stations for the engineers to access the faulty engineering maintenance vehicle. We assessed that it would be withdrawn to the depot after revenue service.

Regular train services resumed progressively from 7.45am.

We are sorry to have affected your early morning commute.

[UPDATE: North-South Line, 19 October 2022, at 8.48am]:

Train services have resumed. Free regular bus and free bridging bus services have ceased.

[UPDATE: North-South Line, 19 October 2022, at 7.45am]:

Train service from Yio Chu Kang to Canberra is progressively returning to normal. Free regular bus and free bridging bus services are still available between Ang Mo Kio and Woodlands.

On 19 Oct, at about 4:30am during engineering hours, a faulty engineering vehicle could not move from the northbound platform near Yishun station on the North-South Line. There is no train service from Yio Chu Kang to Canberra stations. Train service is available from Jurong East to Marina South Pier stations.

Our engineers have been deployed on site to recover service.

Free regular bus and bridging bus services have been activated between Woodlands and Ang Mo Kio stations in both directions. Commuters are advised to take alternative transport via the Thomson-East Coast Line or the free and bridging bus services that have been activated.

We are sorry to affect your early morning commute.

Image source: W De’ Arte on Facebook

MAN SETS EX-GF’S FIANCE’S HOME ON FIRE DURING THEIR WEDDING BECAUSE HE WAS JEALOUS

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30-year-old Surenthiran Sugumaran pleaded guilty on 18 October to one count of mischief by fire, with another charge of wrongful confinement being taken into consideration during his sentencing.

He had set fire to his ex-girlfriend’s fiance’s home in Jurong because he was allegedly jealous of their impending nuptials.

What happened?

Sugumaran discovered through an Instagram post in March earlier this year that his ex-girlfriend was getting married.

He then planned to lock her fiance’s home and set it on fire because he felt resentful and jealous, according to Channel NewsAsia.

Sugumaran allegedly drew up a plan and in the early hours of 12 March, he rode his motorbike to his home in Jurong West, armed with a bottle that was filled with petrol.

Wearing a black hoodie, he pulled the hood over his face to hide his identity from the CCTV at the victim’s lift lobby.

He also took the lift to the 12th floor before climbing the stairs up one level to avoid being detected by police cameras.

At about 4.40am, he blocked off the victim’s main gate using a bicycle lock before pouring petrol onto his shoe rack outside and setting it on fire.

He then fled the scene and walked down the stairs before taking the lift to the ground level, and he then threw the lighter into the bushes before riding home on his motorcycle.

The victim suffered about $410 in losses, including damages to 6 pairs of shoes and a pair of slippers.

Sugumaran is set to return to court in December for his sentencing and if convicted, he faces a jail term of up to 7 years and a fine.

NTUC LISTS ADULT TOY IN FACEBOOK AD UNDER “SHOP FAMILY ESSENTIALS”

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Photos emerged online showing an NTUC FairPrice ad on Facebook, with the caption “Save as you shop with your home-grown grover this May! Enjoy great deals across our wide selection of groceries, shop now!”

Everything appeared fine and dandy until one looks at the product being advertised, showing a “Svakom Hedy Blue” device retailing at $39.92.

The device is apparently a “male stimulation adult toy”.

A netizen who took a screenshot of the ad, shared on his Instagram and captioned it:

“Am questioning the agency or in-house digital team at FairPrice, please explain why I am pushed a paid ad with a male (adult toy) as the first carousel? Err. Clearly someone needs to be questioned or fired. Somemore it’s an expired ad because it says MAY?”

He then received another ad from Facebook with the same device being advertised, this time under a photo of a family.

The ad was captioned “Give yourself the gift of time! Kick back with your loved ones while we deliver your groceries!”

There was also the words “Enjoy more time with your loved ones” emblazoned across the photo of the young family of four.

And under the photo was the adult toy, listed under “shop family essentials”.

EXPAT SHARES HER $5K MONTHLY EXPENSES IN S’PORE, INCLUDING $200 FOR “CHINESE LESSONS”

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A 25-year-old expat, Amandine, who is working as a software engineer in Singapore, shared a video onto her TikTok page breaking down her monthly expenditure for living here.

Amandine shared that she had been working and living in Singapore for 3 years, and says that she pays about $1,250 for a rental bedroom with her boyfriend, who pays the other half – their rental is actually $2900.

She shared that she also spends $30 for her gym membership because of her company’s special discount with the gym, as well as another $800 on food per month.

Among her expenses, are $200 for Chinese lessons, $200 for her taxes, $20 for her phone bill, $200 for her transport to get around and $150 for healthcare.

She also manages to save $2,000 per month, despite her expenses and it all adds up to about $5,000 total expenditure per month.

Netizens’ comments

  • Rent $1250 – very cheap!! Where do u get it??? Sharing or whole unit?? 😳😳😳
    • (OP) Luckily I’m renting a master bedroom and I get to share with my bf (renting the whole unit would be 2,900)
  • cries. its getting so expensive living in sg
    • (OP) It is! Used to pay only 800 for rent!
  • Food at 800!!???? What and where are you having meal? 😳 That’s for one? 😳
    • (OP) Yes for one! Mostly at food courts, so my meals are between 5 and 8 dollars~ Then I do a bit of groceries shopping and go to restaurants on week ends
  • Which gym is $30?!?!?!?!?
    • (OP) I think most people pay around 200, my company got us good rate at Pure fitness (Suntec)
@new_to_singapore My monthly budget living in Singapore~ #singapore #sgtiktok #livinginsingapore #singaporetiktok ♬ Lovefool – 90s allstars

AMERICAN MAN ACCUSED OF DRIVING INTO S’PORE POLICEWOMAN & CAUSING HER DEATH

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54-year-old American, Andrew Charles Vasko, who is a Singapore PR, is being accused of causing the death of 40-year-old Singapore policewoman Salinah Mohamed by driving his Aston Martin into her back in 2019.

He went on trial yesterday for causing the death of Salinah, who was crossing the road when the traffic lights were in her favour at a traffic junction at Shenton Way.

Vasko is facing one charge of causing death by a negligent act not amounting to culpable homicide for not keeping a proper lookout when making a turn with his car.

Salinah suffered skull fractures as a result of the accident and was ultimately declared brain dead on 14 February 2019, with the cause of her death being a head injury that was sustained during the accident.

What happened?

On 10 February 2019, Vasko drank 2 glasses of white wine at about 7pm at Sentosa, with the last of his drink being consumed at 7.45pm.

He then drove his Aston Martin at 9.25pm into the far right lane of Maxwell Road that was heading towards the Straits Boulevard.

He then stopped at the stop line when the traffic light turned red at the junction of Shenton Way, and he was on the far right turning lane.

The traffic light then turned green for him and he then moved his car to the middle of the junction and waited to make a discretionary right turn.

As he was turning right, his Aston Martin then hit Salinah, who was crossing the road halfway from Vasko’s left-to-right view, and the traffic light was in her favour at the time.

She was then thrown onto the road from the impact and sustained a severe injury to her head, and was unconscious when conveyed to the hospital.

She succumbed to her injuries and died 4 days later after being declared brain dead, leaving behind her husband and 3 young children.

Vasko was reportedly driving within the speed limit and passed a breathalyser test, according to court documents.

The case has been adjourned to November, and the court has also granted Vasko’s application to leave Singapore for a few months before returning in January.

THIS IS MISS UNIVERSE SINGAPORE 2022

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22-year-old Carissa Yap has been crowned Miss Universe Singapore 2022. The 1st Runner Up is Yvonne Sashirekha.

According to the Facebook page Miss Universe Singapore, She impressed the judges with her X-factor, confidence and intelligence during the 2 Q&A rounds. We can’t wait to watch you shine on the international stage!

MISS UNIVERSE SINGAPORE 2022 – Carissa Yap

1st Runner Up – Yvonne Sashirekha

2nd Runner Up – Denissia Delange

Miss Universe 2022 will be the 71st Miss Universe pageant, to be held at the New Orleans Morial Convention Center in New Orleans, Louisiana in the United States on January 14, 2023. Harnaaz Sandhu of India will crown her successor at the end of the event.

Good luck in the finals.

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Image Source: Miss Universe Singapore