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MAN GOES TO VIETNAM TO FIND WIFE, REGRETS AS HE HAS TO FEED A WHOLE KAMPONG

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So I’ve known this girl in Ho Chi Minh City. I even went to Vietnam and travelled the country with her and now marriage has come up.

So we got married and eventually, I had to help her apply for a Long-term visitor pass to let her stay in Singapore.

But here is the problem, she is telling me that she works in Singapore but she has next to zero qualifications and she has a language barrier.

So I paid for her to go for some English courses but she failed terribly and gave up.

When I married her I already told her that I am not rich and will have trouble feeding her if she decides to be a housewife.

But here comes the bigger problem, I can spend less and make sure I can give her the essentials like food, home and a phone but she wanted more.

Just 3 months into the marriage, she said she wanted to go back to Vietnam to find work to feed her family.

Of course, I did not want that to happen and I took up a 2nd part-time job as a Grab driver to basically to earn more and let her feed her whole kampong in Vietnam.

However, after a few months. This is getting very tiring. Day time I work office, evening time I work Grab, and other Grab drivers will agree that one bad Grab customer can really spoil the whole day. I am even driving Grab on weekends.

She is still not having any intention to upgrade herself and wants me to feed her and her whole damn kampong while she is on the bed all day watching Youtube or something.

I am at a loss and thinking about what to do.

My friends told me about the annulment of marriage but I don’t what to do. Time is ticking as there is like a “1-year rule” for the annulment of marriages.

WIFE LISTEN TO FRIENDS TO INVEST IN STOCKS AND LOSES CHILD’S UNI FUND

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My wife has her own business she started when our daughter was born. She makes baby products, blankets, etc.

This started in 2017 and was originally supposed to be a small thing she did in her spare time.

Her mother got involved and it’s morphed into a monster. We are hugely in debt (I didn’t know how bad until recently) due to it. She has a card that is carrying as much debt in it as I make in a year!

So we had a big blow-up about that and I thought it was settled she would only work with what she has already. That didn’t hold true and I found out she has spent more on the business.

Now she keeps investing in stocks after listening to her friends hoping that it will “come back” but its gone, she used our child’s education fund which I have saved to make sure my daughter has university in the future and a bit extra.

Now on top of the financial issues, she also spends every spare minute I’m not at work or sleeping working on the business or on social media for it.

This leaves me to handle 90% of the household chores along with watching our daughter anytime I’m awake and not at work. I’ve expressed my concern about this several times, including indicating that it was making our marriage suffer. H

er retort is that because of my work and having to watch our daughter while I’m gone that she can’t get anything done for her business. I point out I’m only gone about 9 hours a day, so if I come home at 4pm and she works 4 that’s 8 pm.

This is pretty fair considering she does indeed get some work done during the day. Also I said if she wants to have 8 hours Saturday and Sunday I don’t mind. Instead of taking this reasonable schedule. She works until 11-1 at night EVERY DAY!

And then gets upset when I point out that she hasn’t spent time with our daughter or me, Hell most times I have to nag at her to take a shower etc because she begrudges the 20 minutes that that takes.

Also the stress her mom and the business puts on her makes her constantly have breakdowns or outbursts.

It came to a head when I went to pay our electric bill and I saw that our checking was down $200.00 more than it should have been and I was almost short of being able to pay the bill because she had bought something for her business.

She says I don’t support her in her endeavour either. This isn’t true, in the beginning, I always helped in any way I could. That’s how this whole routine started. Now I regret even that.

It’s not that she doesn’t make nice things, it just seems to not be working, it’s eating all her time and energy and quite honestly at this point I’m resentful.

I even offered that we should go to counseling but she refused. Now at this point I’ve kind of started talking to different people online and I feel guilty but not that guilty honestly.

Which scares me, I never ever wanted to be that guy. So I’m coming to the point of feeling like I have to set an ultimatum, but I have no idea if that will work and I just sit her wondering if anyone has a suggestion that can pull my marriage away from the cliff.

Because she has to either cut back or just close this business and focus on us as a family or it will collapse. (I’m not saying she can’t work or anything but our relationship and our daughter have to come first)

SINGLE FATHER SAYS THAT WOMEN ARE MORE CONCERNED DATING THOSE WITH CHILDREN

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I am a single father myself, I have the custody of my child.

It’s never easy for a single parent to find another partner who can accept us with a “package”.

Tried dating and nothing goes well… Reading from the post you have mentioned that your parents are not supportive of this relationship. And they have caused other issues/obstacles for both of you.

But those kids are innocent. They don’t have a choice when they’re born. But we have the choice to make it happened and guide them the right way. The route ahead of you it might not be easy…but as long as you set your determination right, things will be easy.

At least you’ve got a partner to discuss…. If you really see a future with this lady. Don’t neglect her and do what you think it’s right. Not asking you to be unfilial to your parents. But ultimately, you are the one calling the shots and living the rest of the life with your partner.

I realised a lot of men have no issues accepting a woman who has a child from previous marriages but women on the other hand has a lot of things to say.

Back then when I was single this was never the issue, career and lookswise (not bragging) I am above average. When the child gets bring into the picture, the date goes cold and stop replying.

I totally understand that you got caught in between the situation kind of feelings. It’s never easy. But it’ll be fruitful if you take the step and follow your heart.

MAN FAKES ACCIDENT, DASH OUT & LIES DOWN IN MIDDLE OF ROAD

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A man was seen dashing out of the road trying to stage an accident.

Thankfully, the man managed to stop in time and witness the person on the road. The man then refused to budge and continued to block the traffic.

In the early parts of the video, the man could be seen waiting for a vehicle to approach before running out onto the road.

Other cars had to take over the vehicle that had stopped in front of the scammer.

Always install cameras for your vehicle to ensure safety and to avoid such scammers.

It is unclear if the police were contacted.

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This is not the first time something like this has happened in Singapore. Back in 2016, Police received several reports of fake accident scams. In these cases, the suspect would claim to be knocked down by the victim’s vehicle and request for compensation for his alleged injuries. The victims had paid the suspect between $26 and $50.

If the man is caught:

The penalties for the offence of Cheating which carries a punishment of imprisonment for a term which may extend to 10 years and shall also be liable to a fine.

WILD BOAR THAT WAS STUCK IN ROAD DIVIDER, EUTHANISED DUE TO INJURIES – NPARKS

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A wild boar was previously seen being stuck in between the bars of a road divider in Sengkang, before being rescued by NParks officers.

However, NParks has since confirmed that the wild boar has been euthanised, because it has suffered multiple injuries during the incident.

NParks said they responded to the incident on 21 September at about 6pm and their officers found the wild boar stuck in a road divider along Punggol Road.

Officers were seen in a video taken by witnesses trying to free the boar from the divider, and NParks said they first sedated the boar with a tranquiliser before freeing it.

A vet at the site then assessed the boar and found it to be in poor condition, with its numerous injuries likely to have been caused during its attempt to free itself from the divider.

It was then humanely euthanised.

MAN ORDERED $330 WORTH OF SEAFOOD AT RESTAURANT, THEN LEAVES WITHOUT PAYING

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The boss of a seafood restaurant The Morning Catch Seafood at New Industrial Road, spoke to Shin Min Daily News about how a man ordered $334.50 worth of seafood and left without paying.

The incident happened on 19 September at about 7.50pm.

The boss of the restaurant, Tan Huiyun, shared that she was not around on the day of the incident but heard about what happened from her workers.

The customer known only as Mr Jia, had ordered 3 lobsters, 9 mantis shrimp, 9 abalones and 1kg of red flower crab, with the final charges being $334.50.

Jia then told them that he knew their boss personally and would transfer the money to her, and the employee who was writing the bill tried to get his contact details but the man left in a hurry, saying that he was “in a rush”.

The worker only managed to get a photo of his car, as the man drove away.

A police report has since been lodged by the owner after 5 days and the police confirmed that they are investigating.

WOMAN ALLEGEDLY CHARGED MORE FOR SINGTEL BILL AFTER HER CONTRACT OVER

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Facebook user Charlotte Susanna shared how she “observed” that she has been paying $128 for her Singtel bill instead of her “usual” $85 fees for her Mio TV and home internet.

She then contacted Singtel and was allegedly told that her contract was over but she claims that she didnb’t receive any notification to recontract.

She said that she then wanted to recontract but was told that there are no promotions for Mio Tv and she will still have to pay $128

Here is what she said

Hi all , do be very careful about having contracts with Singtel.

Recently I have been observed that I have been paying $128 for my Singtel bill instead of the usual $85 monthly for Mio TV and home internet.

When I contacted the staff , they replied my contract is over but NO LETTER OR MESSAGE WAS SENT TO NOTIFY TO RECONTRACT ???

So I said to recontract with SINGTEL and was informed that MIO TV has no promotion and the bill will be the same $128.

If I want to recontract ……. there will be a $5 rebate and will be with SINGTEL FOR 2 years .

I will source for a cheaper telcos and will return all my equipments to SINGTEL .

With the inflation so high , SINGTEL is like robbing innocent subscriber of our money .

INSURANCE AGENT FAKED INVOICES TO CLAIM $3.2K FROM PRUDENTIAL, JAILED 6 WEEKS

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On 26 September 2022, Huang Mengting was convicted in court of cheating Prudential Assurance Company Singapore (“Prudential”) by submitting edited invoices to deceive Prudential into disbursing funds for accident claims made by her clients.

Between July 2019 to November 2020, she allegedly submitted 11 edited invoices to Prudential, to facilitate accident injury claims for her clients. She knew that her clients’ claims were likely to be rejected by Prudential. As such, she submitted edited invoices with false details of the circumstances of her clients’ accidents to substantiate their claims, and deceived Prudential into disbursing a total of $3,287.82.

Huang was sentenced to six weeks’ imprisonment following her conviction on four counts of cheating under Section 417 of the Penal Code, with seven other charges taken into consideration for the purpose of sentencing. The offence of cheating under Section 417 of the Penal Code carries an imprisonment term of up to three years.

The Police have zero tolerance towards such criminal acts and will not hesitate to take action against those who blatantly disregard the law, and have also referred Huang to the Monetary Authority of Singapore for regulatory actions to be taken against her.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
26 September 2022 @ 2:40 PM

17 Y.O SENT TO HOSPITAL UNCONSCIOUS AFTER FIGHT AT FULLERTON RD, 5 MEN ARRESTED

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The Police have arrested five men, aged between 16 and 21, for their suspected involvement in a case of rioting.

On 24 September 2022 at about 4.45am, the Police received a call for assistance for a fight in the vicinity of Fullerton Road. On Police’s arrival, a 17-year-old victim was found to have sustained multiple laceration wounds on his head, arms, shoulders and left knee. He was conveyed unconscious to the hospital and subsequently regained consciousness. His condition is now stable.

Through ground enquiries, follow-up investigations and with the aid of images from Police cameras, officers from Central Police Division and the Police Operations Command Centre established the identities of the men involved and arrested them.

On 25 September 2022, four men, aged between 16 and 21, were charged in court with the offence of rioting under Section 147 of the Penal Code 1871. Another 20-year-old man was arrested on 26 September 2022 for his suspected involvement in the incident. He will be charged in court on 28 September 2022 for rioting as well.

The offence of rioting carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years and caning. Police investigations are ongoing.

The Police will not tolerate brazen acts of violence and blatant disregard for the law. We will spare no effort to apprehend such offenders and deal with them in accordance with the law.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
26 September 2022 @ 8:35 PM

28 AND 38 Y.O MEN ARRESTED FOR STEALING MOTOR VEHICLE @ TAMPINES

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The Police have arrested two men, aged 28 and 38, for their suspected involvement in a case of theft of motor vehicle with common intention.

On 25 September 2022 at about 5.50 pm, the Police received a report of a motor vehicle theft along Tampines Street 81.

Through ground enquiries and with the aid of images from Police cameras and CCTVs, officers from Bedok Police Division established the identities of the duo involved and arrested them on 25 and 26 September 2022. The motor vehicle was also recovered. Preliminary investigations revealed that both men are believed to be involved in other similar cases of theft of motor vehicles and theft from vehicles. Police investigations are ongoing.

Both men will be charged in court on 27 September 2022 with theft of motor vehicle with common intention under Section 379A read with Section 34 of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years and a fine.

The Police would like to advise all vehicle owners to refrain from leaving their car keys in their vehicle, and to lock their vehicle whenever it is left unattended, even for a short while.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
26 September 2022 @ 10:53 PM