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WOMAN COMTEMPLATING TO REPORT NEIGHBOUR WHO LEAVES PETS IN THE RAIN

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So I moved in with my partner about 2 and half years ago, I didn’t know anyone in the area and seen that his neighbour who we will call Jane was around our age, just alittle bit older (28) and she seemed nice so I thought I’d get to know her and maybe become friends.

We ended up becoming really good friends for about a year, at this point she had 2 dogs and was properly caring for them but then the friendship ended in a big argument due to conflict about how she takes care of her pets after one of the dogs had puppies and she kept one and started treating them differently.

She currently has 4 big dogs and 2 cats and she now keeps the dogs in kennels in the garden, all day everyday no matter what the weather is like , the kennels are bigish for 1 dog but they have 2 each in so they are quite small for them, (these are BIG dogs) , the cats don’t get let in the house at all and are fed once a day by jane putting the wet food on the floor outside which is filthy, she’s constantly breeding the girl dogs and when they have the puppies , they are also kept outside in the kennels making them even smaller and she sometimes keeps atleast one of the puppies , sometimes 2 and then eventually will randomly get rid of one of them or both of them, her 2 cats are female and are constantly having kittens which jane puts into a cage and leaves them in the garden with the dogs , even if it’s raining or really cold , it doesn’t matter , they are always outside!

She has quite a big 4 bedroom house and it’s just her and her husband , they don’t have any children , so it’s not like she hasn’t got the room to atleast keep the kittens or puppies inside , she says she just doesn’t want the animals in her house ruining things so I told her that she shouldn’t have pets if she isn’t going to take on the responsibilities that come with them, we argued and haven’t spoke in a couple of months.

She hasn’t changed the way she looks after her pets and it really upsets me seeing them constantly outside, when it rains I always hear them crying wanting to go inside because they are cold and wet. I feel like reporting her to so hopefully these animals will either go to a home that would actually love and care for them or they will scare her into actually caring for them, they are such sweet animals and would never hurt anyone and I feel like they deserve better than this! I said this to my partner and he told me not to in case the SPCA tell her who reported it and it causes drama between neighbours.

Should I do her

DRUNK WOMAN TELLS FRIEND’S HUSBAND “I LOVE YOU”, WANTS TO SLEEP WITH HIM

friend drunkenly told my husband she is in love with him

I am so hurt. My husband and I, along with our two kids, rented an air bnb for the long weekend with a couple he has been friends with for years.

We have met up with them several times and it has always been fun. They have a 3 yr old son, so they’re our only friends with a young child, which makes it much easier to plan activities together.

Anyway…They have recently had marriage problems and the wife has been drinking heavily to cope. She was drunk when we arrived at the rental house, and I didn’t notice right away.

However, we put the kids to bed and began playing a card game, and things went bad quickly. My husband drew a card where he had to wear the next player’s underwear on his head (mine), and when he did this, she grabbed them off of his head and put them on her head.

She was saying they smelled amazing and her husband got visibly uncomfortable. We were all laughing, except her husband.

He got up without a word and went to their bedroom. We assumed he was coming back, and continued to play. She started rambling about how my husband is like a brother to her, and she promised she wasn’t trying to make me uncomfortable but she loves him.

Then, with a completely serious expression on her face, she started telling my husband she was in love with him. My husband and I were looking at each other like “wtf…”.

I was pretty drunk and couldn’t figure out how to react. At one point, I accidentally knocked over my wine glass and she got on the floor and was wiping up the mess. She didn’t get up from the floor and my husband bent down to ask if she was okay.

She started grabbing his arms and leaning toward him like she wanted to kiss him. My husband called out to her husband for help and when he came out of their bedroom, she was literally saying “I want to sleep with them”

He brought her to their room and my husband and I went to bed almost speechless. In the morning, she was saying over and over that she couldn’t remember anything.

Really overselling it, in my opinion. She apologized for whatever had happened after her husband told her, and I said it was fine. The rest of the trip was super awkward though.

She eventually sat down with me and said that seeing how great my husband is with me and our kids makes her feelings about her own marriage problems that much more obvious.

She said she would never disrespect our marriage and that she loves that my husband is with me. I told her I accepted her apology and I went to my room to be alone for awhile. It was a lot to absorb.

She started coming to the door and knocking, saying “I hope you’re not mad at me” over and over. My husband came in and she started knocking again, then was opening the door herself. My husband said “not right now”, to which she persisted trying to come in the room. She said “I just need to talk to her”, ignoring my husband completely.

Eventually she left and my husband and I talked about it. I told him I just felt weird and like there were no boundaries there.

Her behavior seemed unhinged and it was making me really uncomfortable. Like I could never accept her apology enough. I don’t know how to react to this situation. We were really good friends, and my husband has been friends with them since school.

Her husband doesn’t even seem phased by the situation, and I feel like I’m either overreacting or not reacting enough, if that makes any sense. I can’t figure out which.

My husband realizes how this makes me feel and also has trouble with deciding how the friendship will be going forward. Any input or advice is welcomed.

GIRL TOLD STEPFATHER THAT HE CAN NEVER BE HIS REAL FATHER

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I have a heavily strained relationship with my biological father (56 M), we basically have no contact.

My parents have been divorced since I was 6 and have both had a couple of different partners since. Recently my mother (52 F) entered into a relationship with someone and -at first- insisted they were just friends. It was pretty clear it was more though.

They’ve known each other for about a year or two and decided to get married so I’ve had a lot of contact with him.

Before the wedding, it started with him spontaneously joining us for Christmas as his mother had recently passed and my mother didn’t feel comfortable leaving him alone. Then he started joining us for more things and we attended his mother’s funeral as he (without asking us) put our names on the flowers even though I’m uncomfortable around funerals/graveyards.

They then got married and he offered to be a father figure in my life as he is aware of my relationship with my biological father, talking about how we were a family and even calling me his daughter at one point.

I’ve put up with it but refused to invite him to my recent graduation ceremony as my mother requested (even though she knew cards were limited). I’ve tried to be polite and he is a kind man but I can’t stand how he pushes himself into my life and family without even talking to me or considering I might not accept him, as I feel I am old enough to not want/need a father figure (I’ve accepted that’s not something I’m going to have in my life as my biological father is indifferent towards me and a raging narcissist) as I’m turning graduating this month.

I told him that he’ll never be my father.

At the day of the graduation ceremony, I was already quite stressed but I snapped when I saw he was standing outside of the venue, knocking on the window and waving toward us.

He left after that apparently just wanting to wish me well but I didn’t care at that point. I didn’t invite him for a reason and I felt humiliated in front of all of my friends who at first thought he was some random guy.

I’m still processing everything and quite uncomfortable with the fact that everything is going so fast and he is suddenly being pushed into my life so I’ve decided to talk about my boundaries and tell him I will never see him as my father and I am happy for him and my mother but we are not family and I do not want him in my life. I’m really uncomfortable but also a little guilty as he has always been kind to us so…. 

How to settle him…

MAN BOUGHT $37 DURIAN, OPENS IT UP & FINDS NOTHING INSIDE, KOSONG

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A netizen, Kan Kok Yan, shared how he bought a Black Thorn Durian for RM117 in Malaysia, and ended up getting nothing but an empty husk.

He said that he paid RM117 (which is about SGD$37) for the 1.8kg Black Thorn Durian and brought it home, looking forward to eating it.

The durian weighed 1.8kg, so he could be forgiven for expecting a healthy amount of durian flesh from inside the fruit.

He then opened up ther durian and found nothing inside, nothing but disappointment.

He then split the durian open even further, and there was not a single seed or flesh inside.

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Source: Han Kok Yan on Facebook

INPATIENT UNCLE KICKING MRT DOOR AS IF MRT WILL COME FASTER

We meet all kinds of different people when taking public transport and some are just weird as they can get.

A man was seen kicking the MRT doors in hopes that it will make the arriving train come faster.

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Here are what netizens think:

  • Don’t stop, KICK HARDER!1) Damage gov property = fine $5000, maybe jail.2) Break your own foot = farking painful but cannot claim from medisave or insurance coz it was a DELIBERATE DUMB ASS ACTION.
  • Kick also can’t open! Haha
  • Kick macham come faster ah, uncle the brain inside got water.
  • Why used legs???Use your head better, maybe use head already u become smarter
  • Out of his mind, he can tear down the doors.. The train is gg to be late… Is going to be death.
  • Uncle checking the quality of the door.Must b Quality check 
  • He should go get his own car if his always in a hurry
  • Break the glass , train delayed. All passengers Delayed.
  • He was checking how strong the doors are…
  • How u know he in hurry.. maybe he is trying to get an itch off his toe or something
  • he rushing go home pang sai cause outside toilet cannot pang sai
  • Hurry also no use , when inside also must take time to reach the places. After covid all become craziness.

MAN RESIGNS & JOINS NEW COMPANY, NEW EMPLOYER CANCELS CONTRACT ON 1ST DAY

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New employer cancels contract on first day

Well one of my ex-colleague who I’m in contact with, he had resigned from the company & was supposed to join a new company this wk.

It’s a new crypto startup & has a small office here. He went for several rounds of interviews & they offered him attractive benefits plus salary & hence he decided to make a move to the company.

Contract signed & everything. He served his 30-day notice & left without any issues. Was supposed to join this wk.

But on the day he’s supposed to start his first day, the company calls him & tells him that they found someone else last min for the role & they apologize for not informing earlier.

No further contact from that company

The dude is now at a loss on what to do & he called me up to tell me he’s in deep shit, he doesn’t know what to do. Is there any solutions for him? Like what can he do?

GUY USES FEMALE FRIEND AS SPARE TYRE, WHEN NEED HER THEN FIND HER

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So I’ve known this guy for like 4 almost 5 years and we’ve been off and on.

and in the past whenever he would get a boyfriend he’d completely ghost me, like very low contact and everything.

But once they split or have issues he comes running to me and begging for attention, and once he gets back with that girlfriend I’m completely ghosted again.

This happens every time he gets a new girlfriend, and whenever I’m right about someone being toxic he comes crawling to me and wanted me to make him feel better until he moves onto another girlfriend. I will admit I’ve always had feelings for him, they’ve never gone away.

We’re only on and off because of him. Anyways, for the past couple days we have been super close, like yk the basics. And we slept on call last night but I wake up to him leaving it with no explanation but being online and I knew he was on call with someone else because this has happened before.

Well, I wake up to his “about me” on social media saying “Semi’s Kitten” and in a server of his on discord he’s claimed somebody. Now I have told him that I don’t want to be some reusable hoe to him and I wanted to have a serious relationship.

So I was pissed and upset so I wrote a vent in my own server directly calling him out for it. My server has about 100 people in it so everybody saw it. I even gave them his username but not the tags under the vent. He came to me angry and saying stuff like he was planning on asking me out, etc. and that it was all jokes.

So, am I wrong for assuming?

VIET GIRL TOOK LOAN TO WORK AS KTV HOSTESS IN S’PORE, EARNED $20K IN 1 MONTH

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A netizen shared how she took a loan of about $5k to pay an “agent” of hers to bring her to Singapore to work as a KTV hostess.

Here is her story

“I am currently living in Ho Chi Minh, and I came to Singapore a few years ago for a short “work” trip to make some money before heading home.

I took a loan of about $5k and paid the agent, and the money included accommodations and etc for my time in Singapore.

After I reached Singapore, I had to start working to quickly raise the sum of money to repay the loan, as well as to pay for my living expenses.

The rest of the money, I saved up to bring back to Vietnam, for a better life.

At first i was very stressed because all I had at the back of my mind was the loan and wanting to pay off the loan as quickly as possible, so that the rest of the money that I took back was mine.

Working at a KTV is very tough, because I have to let the men touch me and I have to drink A LOT of alcohol each night.

But the only thing on my mind was money, and the money was very good.

On a good night, I can take back about $1k, if I provide extra services to the men, on top of the tips that they give us at the end of the KTV session.

I stayed in Singapore for about 2 months, and made a total of $40k, and after minusing the initial loan that I took to come to Singapore and all my other debts, I managed to bring back about $30k.

The money is too good to refuse, and I will be back soon.”

GIRL SAY SHE IS AVAILABLE, END UP “THE HUSBAND COME FIND ME”

A man shared a story about how a girl he met claims that she is single and available but end up getting confronted by her husband.

The husband flaunts his wealth to the man and got scolded for no reason.

Here is the story:

I recently met a girl in a pub at Clark Quay through a mutual friend, she is quite cute and I decided to make a move after I caught her staring at me a few times.

So I went up to her and chat and had a couple of drinks with her, then I asked if she is available and she said she is. I was curious as she was really good-looking and only 27 years old. I am 30 years old this year and thought that there might be a chance to develop into something further.

Shortly after, we exchange our contact information and we started texting regularly. We met a couple of times and we eventually shared our first kiss at Fort Canning hill.

Yesterday, I met her at Boat Quay for dinner and drinks and a man approached us and started shouting.

She accused my date of cheating on him and said that she should not forget about their 3-year-old son who is at home.

I acted casually and quickly realised that she has a husband, So I said that I am just selling her insurance and I am working for AXA.

The husband happened to be an insurance agent and told me not to try getting his wife as a customer as he is a “big deal” in the industry and he is also a Top of Table MDRT or whatever insurance title.

Which means he is very rich. I don’t know much about insurance as I worked in the construction industry.

He then started to say that he is very rich and powerful telling me that he can destroy me in the insurance industry.

I then casually replied: “Hey, we are just having dinner and please control your behaviour in public”.

He then started saying he drives a 7 series BMW and he is the cream of the crop in the insurance industry and told me to stay away from his wife.

His wife also told him to stop over-reacting and told him off.

We eventually ended the date early and did not meet for a couple of weeks. Until she called me and apologize for lying about her marital status.

She then asked if it is possible to have a companion relationship with her and just enjoy physically without any status.

I was dumbfounded and said yes, as I am not losing anything. While I am still getting “some” and keeping my options open.

I really feel that in this era, things are started to get more open and many people you meet might not be truthful and just make use of each other.

DIRECTOR OF SUSPECTED SHELL COMPANIES CHARGED WITH OFFENCES UNDER THE COMPANIES ACT AND CORRUPTION

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On 4 July 2022, Susila Hyrawatty Binte Hashim (“Susila”), a 43-year-old woman, was charged with two counts of offences under Section 157(1) punishable under Section 157(3)(b) of the Companies Act (Cap 50, 2006 Rev Ed) (“Companies Act”) for allegedly failing to exercise reasonable diligence in the discharge of her duties as a director of two Singapore companies.

Susila was also charged for one count of possessing funds in her company’s bank account, which were reasonably suspected of being another person’s benefits from criminal conduct, which she had failed to account satisfactorily how she came by the same, under Section 47AA(1) of the Corruption, Drug Trafficking and Other Serious Crimes (Confiscation of Benefits) Act, Chapter 65A (“CDSA”).

Investigations revealed that Susila purportedly incorporated two Singapore companies Noxt Lightings Pte Ltd (“Noxt”) and Aubright Lightings Pte Ltd (“Aubright”) at the behest of an unidentified person, who is believed to have engaged in criminal conduct, and to have accessed the companies’ bank accounts to launder proceeds of crime.

In consequence of Susila’s failure to exercise reasonable diligence in the discharge of her duties as Aubright’s sole director, Aubright received a sum of USD 265,720 in its bank account on 30 September 2021, which may be reasonably suspected of being another person’s benefits from criminal conduct, and for which she failed to account satisfactorily how she came by the same.

The offence under Section 157(1) punishable under Section 157(3)(b) of the Companies Act carries a fine of up to $5,000 or imprisonment of up to 12 months. Under Section 154(2)(a) read with Section 154(4)(a) of the Companies Act, offenders may also be fined and disqualified from acting as a director for up to five years.

The offence under Section 47AA(1) punishable under Section 47AA(2)(a) of CDSA carries a fine of up to $150,000 or imprisonment of up to three years, or both.