I can’t stop thinking about sleeping with my wife after my baby was born.

My wife(26f) and I(25m) just had a baby 6 days ago. We didn’t really get much intimate time in bed during pregnancy because of work, our two sons(4m, 5m), and my wife being uncomfortable sometimes.

I watched my wife give birth a few days ago yet I still want to bang her all the time. I even find her dependable (woman diapers) sexy.

Now that she got bigger milk jugs and look finer than ever I can’t help it but to be turned on whenever I look at her. Is this normal? Any other dads feel like this?

Yes I dont leave my wife alone I’m still touchy touchy to her and obviously find her sexy.

She always reminds me heyy I’m still stitched up and I get it. She is in pain because of labour and has after birth pains.

My wife told me to make this post only because she doesn’t know how I’m still wanting to bang or finding her attractive even after giving birth and if its normal

Netizens’ comments

You sound like a wonderful husband. Just keep telling her how beautiful she is, and how much she turns you on. She won’t get tired of hearing it!! When the time is right it’ll happen, just be very VERY gentle. Hubs and I did it 9 days after my c-section, and everything was fine, we just took it very slowly.

My boyfriend can’t get hard/stay hard in bed.

I (22F) met my boyfriend (25M) online a while ago, and we clicked really really well in every other aspect except in bed. He has a really high libido, and recently overcame an addiction to adult videos that consumed a lot of his later teen years/early twenties.

Because of his high libido, we had a lot of self-stimulation through the phone after we started dating but before we met, in which he built this idea in my mind of what he was like in bed, among other things. He had several intense fantasies that he showed me, and because I enjoyed making him happy, I helped indulge in those fantasies.

We had an online relationship and finally met up in May. He never ever mentioned to me having previous erectile issues, ever, to much of my surprise he quite literally couldn’t get hard, or if he could, he couldn’t stay hard whilst we would hook up.

It was (and is) really really tough for me. I questioned whether he was actually attracted to me. He assured me that it wasn’t my fault, and we had a rocky few days where he admitted that he had been experiencing erectile issues for the last few years but kept avoiding the subject because he didn’t want to believe there was something wrong.

It’s difficult, because I’ve watched him get himself off so many times. He can stay hard and shoot with ease over the phone or even on video calls. I couldn’t understand what it was about us that had him go soft everytime I put him in my mouth or tried to put him inside of me.

He stayed with me for an entire month, and we only had successful “proper” intercourse once, but he went soft after 5 or so minutes. I don’t get turned on much by his fantasies, and I felt sad that fantasies were the only way I could get him off. I just want to have normal intimacy like a normal couple.

I fear that due to prolonged exposure to adult videos, he has lost the ability to find typical intercourse attractive. He told me he would book an appointment with a doctor to try and resolve this issue.

I told him I didn’t want to touch myself over the phone with him anymore because I felt like it really negatively affected my expectations of him and also affected his degree of excitement to do naughty things with me.

Does anyone have any tips or ideas? I feel I am missing such an important part of our relationship. I’m really worried it won’t ever get better.

Need End of Relationship Advice. She wants to stay on as my roommate.

broke off the loveless, unfulfilling relationship. She moved into my home last year. Since rental is expensive right now and she has utterly refused and rejected all notions of fiscal responsibility

(yes, this was a contributor to our demise – play and party were always prioritized over any kind of “adulting” – we’re in our late 40s, early 50s, btw)

she’s living paycheck to paycheck and has no savings (but lots of upcoming cruises, airline reservations, and concert tickets on order!) and has just asked if she could move into the spare room and stay on as my roommate.

Even though it certainly would be nice to have continued financial assistance, and even though I don’t want her to suffer, my gut is screaming, “NO! She needs to leave as soon as reasonably possible because this will get messy and a clean break is best.”

I’d really appreciate the diversity of perspective because I am vacillating heavily on this. Thanks in advance, reddit!

Netizens’ comments

Get her out of there! You can’t go No Contact if she’s still living in your house! She basically wants all the benefits of being in a relationship, without being in a relationship.

Caught my sister watching my husband sleep for the 3rd time. Can’t make sense of this.

My f32 sister f30 has been visiting a lot lately, and spend time with me to talk about her issues with her husband.

She visits around the time my husband takes his nap in the bedroom. She’d usually sit with me in the living room but when I excuse myself to go into the kitchen and make her tea or coffee, I’d later find her in the bedroom standing where my husband’s sleeping.

This happened twice before she’d just stand near him and when I asked her she told me she was looking for something.

First time I believed her, 2nd time I was hesitant but now that she did it for the 3rd time (which was yesterday) I just stopped believing this was coincidental.

I couldn’t make sense of this even after I asked her she insisted she was looking for a charger, etc etc…. she sat down with me, drank her coffee then left shortly after.

Am I missing something.? My husband is asleep at the time obviously so he has no idea what’s going on.

Oh by the way we’ve only been married for 5 months so my husband is still not used to my family and vice versa.

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Sometimes I feel forced to have intercourse with my gf. I’m so just tired of my gf begging me to have sleep with her or feeling forced to do it with her.

I don’t even know how to put that in a better way.

I didn’t think it would be so bad until we started living together. It’s not that I don’t want to do it with her at all, I just need a break sometimes and I’m just tired.

But she doesn’t take no as an answer even when I try to explain why. Even when she does try to sympathize with me I always end up sleeping with her anyways because she explains how she feels or sometimes I feel like she’ll break up with me if I don’t do it with her.

I felt like she was gonna try and do it today and she did. She promised we were gonna go straight to sleep after we got home today and then she tried to get intimate with me.

I told her that I just wanted to go to sleep

I had a whole breakdown over this in the bathroom and I feel so embarrassed for myself. I just feel used and tired. Not of her- just the situations.