A netizen shared how he started dating a ladyboy and when he brought her home to meet his parents, they were none too pleased about it and eventually disowned him.

Here is the story

“I met Lisa a couple of years ago at one of the pubs in central Singapore, and at the time I didn’t know that she was a ladyboy.

She looked just like a girl, and she was probably the most beautiful girl I had ever seen.

I managed to get her number and we then got to know each other a little more, before she told me that her real name is Lionel and that she was a ladyboy, and she asked if i minded.

i was already in love with her by then and of course I didn’t mind. As time went on, we started hanging out more and eventually got together.

I was very serious about her and felt that it was time for her to meet my family, and I asked her if she was willing and she said of course.

So I invited Lisa to my home to join us for dinner, and we then shared some stories about how we met and got together.

As the conversation flowed, I revealed to my parents that she was a ladyboy, and I could see the smiles on my parents’ face slowly turn into shock.

We finished our meal and I then sent Lisa back to her home, before going back home myself and found my parents waiting for me.

We had a very heated argument because they disapproved of my relationship with Lisa.

Point to note, my parents are very conservative and they hold very old fashioned beliefs, they see Lisa as nothing more than a man playing dress up.

i got angry and defended her, and the argument then escalated, as they told me if I want to continue dating her, then I can jolly well get out of the house and they don’t want me as a son.

I shouted “ok” and went back into my room, packed up some clothes and walked right out of my home, slamming the door behind me.

I had no where else to go so I went to Lisa’s place and asked if I could stay with her for a while, which she agreed.

it has been months since I last spoke to my parents, I didn’t even celebrate Chinese new year this year because of this whole drama and I don’t even know if they still think of me.

Did i make the right decision? or was I too rash?”

Editor’s note: This kind of situation ah, turn left also die, turn right also die, go straight also die. I don’t know ah, all the best and good luck.

To frustrating singles,

Why does life feel so unfair to me sometimes.. it’s getting frustrating that sometimes u just wanna be loved yet u can’t because the society now is kinda messed up.

Everyone’s ideal dream is to get in a relationship and then after get married right? But yet it seems almost impossible, throwing away other factors such as incompatible blah blah.

But why do girls divert their attentions to messed up bois and expect things to go well? Like are single, finding for marriage kinda guy expected to clean up your “ex situation”.

U can’t even get over the trauma and learn to love yourself why bother going to find guys to break their heart just because he is nice and he deserve better when he is already there for u, willingly to commit but u on the other hand just runs away (doesn’t the cycle repeats?)

And is it me or like finding a actual relationship is hard in this society?

It’s so frustrating to the point where I felt that maybe I’ll just die single coz nobody appreciates u despite the amount of effort u put in

Netizens’ comments

• go thailand vietnam philippines find lo. Got a lot of women there willing to settle down w you

• Being single is also good! Learn to love yourself first. Anyway the more fixated you are looking for the right guy, the harder it is to get him. Focus on yourself and the rest will flow nicely, whether single or attached.

A netizen shared how the small size of his manhood is ruining his life and affecting his mental health, and is causing him to lose the motivation to look for a woman.

Here is what he said

I’m a 24 year old male with a 2″ erect manhood, this has had a detrimental effect on my mental health.

I have no motivation to look for a woman that will eventually cheat on me like the last one did. It’s made me never want to try again, also I know I’ll never be able to give a girl a wild night.

I feel like my life has no meaning, some of you may read this and think it’s silly, but it’s hurting my mental state to a point where I don’t know how to live my life anymore.

Netizens’ comments

• There are 2 components to good intercourse for most women. Intimacy and “coming”. Neither requires your manhood at all. Research how to use your hands and mouth and you can leave a woman satisfied. I think a lot of people have trust issues after they are cheated on, its something you need to work to move forward, not the end of dating for you
• You have more than 2″….You have hands and a mouth. Invest in toys and things. Women LOVE these things! When you care about someone they are enough. You work with what you have and creativity.