With the border reopening, it is good news for most of us but for one woman it was her nightmare.

Her husband’s “business” trip turns out to be the start of her nightmare and end of her marriage.

Here is her story:

To all the women out there, be careful if your husband and boyfriend are going to Thailand for whatever reasons. Be it going for a business or leisure, make sure you are going with him or his not going.

My soon to be ex-husband works in an MNC that has offices around Asia.

When the border opened, he told me that he was flying to the Bangkok offices to do some work, initially I just nod my head and said ok as it was his income and I could not say no. But deep down, I am wary of men that visit Thailand.

After he flew to Bangkok he was still contactable and he would video called me after he reaches the hotel. There were one or two nights he was drunk and said that he is treating his Thailand co-workers for a drink and did not call me.

Now I know that the “drunk” is probably a lie, after 3 nights. He told me that, he is taking the opportunity to visit Chiang Mai since he is in Thailand.

He soon went MIA after he touch down in Chiang Mai. His last message to me was “Dear, I reached CNX”.

The MIA continued on for 3 more days and I started to get worried and I expected the worse, I did not tell my friends about it as I know that this will turn out as nothing but an embarrassment for both my husband and me.

Telling friends won’t change the fact that he has gone MIA, friends would most likely put worse thoughts in my mind. I kept quiet and continued to wait, hoping that it might be an accident or his phone got stolen or something.

He finally replied to me on the 4 nights later and said that he is boarding the plane now to return to Singapore via Scoot airlines.

When he was finally home, I asked him why did not reply or call me for that 72 hours. He sat down at the sofa, drank his beer and ignored me.

I finally raise my voice and shouted at him. The words that came out of his mouth was:

“I’m visiting a law firm tomorrow, let’s not waste time”

Deep down I know that I have not been the best wife but I have never cheated on him. He finally gave in and said that he met his “true love” in Bangkok who is his colleague from the Bangkok office. He went to Chiang Mai for a short holiday with the girl he met and said that he wants to be with her.

I agreed to the divorce as I could not accept anyone who is cheating on me.

I am very lost right now, what should I do next, I took a week-long leave and I am currently alone in Johor now for a short get away from him and work.

men will listen to other men but not women

I went out dancing with a friend last night, we had a lot of fun until a dude came on strong and started trying to dance with/at us.

We gave him the normal cues of “no thank you” and shook our heads, he didn’t go away. We danced away from him, he followed us. We couldn’t get rid of him. We kept telling him to stop and leave us alone, but he wouldn’t do that, and I got really pissed and loud about it too.

We then left the dance floor and he kept following us, suddenly a random man (that must’ve seen some of it) came up to him and told him to stop. Once. The dude then left and he didn’t do anything for the rest of the night (at least to us).

Am I thankful for this random bloke saying something? Yes.

Am I pissed that he only had to tell him stop once and it immediately worked? Yes.

Men don’t care about women’s opinions and boundaries, they only care about men.

Why are they like this!!

Netizens’ comments

Had a situation at a bar where my female friend got shoved by a man almost down to the ground. Long story short, the manager (a man) didn’t want to believe her or me and our friends until her boyfriend came up and told the manager what happened to which he responded: “oh I didn’t know it had escalated to that point I’m sorry”. Like wtfff we literally have been telling you that. We left immediately.

Got caught by boss walking out of a psychiatrist clinic, how to handle the fallout?

Just some context, I just got this job a few months ago and yesterday, my boss caught me coming out of a psychiatrist clinic…

It was in this place where there were many clinics so I’m not sure where she came from. We left at the same time and I took the bus while she drove a car.

Anyways… I was so shocked I just gave a “hi” and then ran off.

On hindsight I should have just ignored her and maybe denied everything but… well, whats done is done.

Problem is I didn’t declare that I had mental illness and to be fair, they didn’t ask. Idk how am I going to face her on Monday morning… so far she hasn’t asked me about it yet…

Netizens’ comments

• Maybe your boss also goes to the same psychiatrist clinic.

• She won’t ask you about it unless she’s also prepared to answer why she was also there herself. Just behave normally lah, there’s absolutely nothing to feel anxious about. The more you stigmatise seeking mental health treatment, the more it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

A man shared his story of how he managed to bump into a woman who took his first time when he visited Geylang in his younger years.

To some people, the first time is important but in this day and age, it’s a bit overrated.

Here is the story:

I cannot believe my eyes, earlier today I was at Geylang as my colleague insisted on going there for some beef kway teow.

It’s been 20 years since I came to Geylang as I do not have any business here and often eat near my home on the Westside.

While we were eating, a familiar woman came and sat at the table next to us. Memories start to flow back and I could not believe my eyes.

When I was still a student, my friend brought me to Geylang to drink and I ended up following them to a “chicken house” and I lost my first to the “chicken”.

Time has not been forgiving for her and she looks like the auntie that sells Bar Chor Mee near my house.

I smiled at her and she smiled back, I then asked if she remember me. Obviously, she does not, there must be tons of customers like me.

But to my surprise, she said “Did I give you a red packet before”. I replied: “Yes!”. She laugh and asked how long has it been since I visited her.

I told her “20 years”, she was surprised as I was still able to remember her.

She said that she is no longer working in that “profession” as her age is no longer suitable, she is working as an admin at an office nearby.

Seems like you will never know who does what, as she looks like a regular office lady now.