This really creepy thing happened and we don’t know what to do. Can someone please give me advice

Hey guys, me and my girlfriend moved to a new apartment at the beginning of this year. We are both very sceptical about ghosts/paranormal activities etc. But after the last few days we are both really on edge. I would like to get your guys opinion because we both don’t know what exactly to make of the situation and what to do now.

It began a few months back when me and my girlfriend were lying in bed talking and suddenly my girlfriend just froze and started breathing very heavily. I asked her if everything was okay and the only thing she could do was shush me. After 3-4 minutes she told me she saw a woman right above me just staring at me the whole time. We didn’t really think anything of this it was sort of just a creepy experience. However more of these so called sightings have happened in the past few weeks. It’s always a girl looking at me or a man in the corner of the room trying to make contact with my girlfriend. Still we always just blamed it on sleep deprivation because we do tend to party a lot and sleep late.

This was until two days ago. I was in bed with my girlfriend again and the same thing happened. She saw a guy in the corner waving at her. Because I didn’t really believe in ghosts or anything I started to make a few jokes (not too kind I know but I was really sceptical at the time). My girlfriend told me I really should be quite for a moment. After she said this I saw a look in her eyes which I will never forget. She grabbed my arm very tightly and after about 1 minute she said she had the feeling that something had scratched her. We do have 2 cats but they were both not in the room with us. After talking for a while I looked at her shoulder and yes: I saw a really big scratch mark on her shoulder. This was the moment that I knew something was not right. After doing some research the following day we agreed that we would just not make any jokes about it and ignore it for as much as we could.

Well tonight the real horror began. After watching a movie and falling asleep peacefully I am woken up by my girlfriend shaking in bed the whole time. After not responding for a minute she started to suffocate. I ran to the lights to see what was going on. Luckily she woke up and after asking if everything was okay she told me that she saw everything happen from te corner of the room where she normally sees the man standing. She had the feeling that she was being pulled into some other space. She didn’t know what is was but the only thing she knew was that she definitely had to avoid this space.

After talking for a few minutes (keep in mind my girlfriend was really scared the whole time) my girlfriend turned to me really casual and said: “babe let’s just go to sleep.” I was weirded out by this a lot because she had been panicking for the last few minutes. I also saw a really calm, yet aggressive glance in her eyes. I told her I wanted to turn the lights back on and talk for a bit. However she just kept on pushing me to go to sleep. I had the feeling something was terribly wrong so I tried to test her reaction with a few jokes that we always make with each other. She didn’t react AT ALL. She just kept saying “it’s fine let’s go to sleep. My girlfriend HATES laying on her back and here she is laying on her back the WHOLE time. I really did not know what to do. After having the same conversation with her for 15 minutes with me wanting to turn the lights on and her reacting in a really firm way saying I SHOULD go to sleep now. She just turned around and started shaking again. I ran to the lights and as soon as I turned them on I saw her normal look again. The most terrifying part of all is that she did not remember a single part of the conversation which literally happened 10 seconds before!!

We are now both sure that there is something here with very bad intentions.

I am just really looking for advice about what to do with this. If anyone has had any similar experiences in the past please tell us what you did to make this nightmare go away.

Netizens’ comments

• Move out NOW

• That might not be a ghost. It might be something worse. I’m worried for your girlfriend. Could you two stay anywhere else for a couple of days?

• that is something evil, not a ghost, you should leave that place.

My life is miserable being surrounded by “successful” friends.

We are group of 4, close since schooling days. I was the smartest, did the best in school. The other 3 often hanged around in my place, then I came up with games and activities for us to have fun. I could feel their admiration to me, and I also treated them well. We were happy brothers.

10 years passed, things change. I work at Meta now, take home more than 15k/month. High income, good reputation company, by normal standard, that is considered quite successful. But it was nothing as compared to the other 3.

1st guy was not smart enough and failed uni. He opened an online store with his parent’s money. The store turned out to be successful, now is one of the most popular brand in SG and some SEA countries.

2nd guy got to the same major with me. We graduated together, but unlike me, he failed the interviews at all big companies like Google Facebook, and had to go for Shopee.

Guess what? Their stock skyrocketed. The companies grew so fast that he soon became a manager and a millionaire.

3rd guy, slacking around and barely made it to finish uni. He then married his girlfriend, whose father happens to own a really big company. He was admitted to that company, got promoted real fast and is now at high management level.

And me? Just a loser, trying to climb the corporate ladder, little by little, in a company that is sinking.

I felt really unfair and bitter, to see people that is below my level, but now at a better position, because of luck.

After becoming big, they suddenly became very active in social media, sharing their successful story and how hard work brought them there.

What a joke. I laughed, and cried inside. Our gathering is now a place for them to brag about their next projects, their big plans, promotions, etc., and I could no longer join that circle.

I had the talents, studied hard, worked hard, but now had to suffer this humiliated life. For once I even thought about ending their lives and mine as well, so we could reset, and I could do better in the next.

Marriage is just a piece of paper or is it not?

I met this guy. He was perfect. He checked all the boxes of being an eligible bachelor. It was love at first sight for the both of us. We met each other at a friend’s party and got together soon after.

A few months into the relationship we started to talk about us. He felt he is not marriage or kids material but he loves me a lot and can see a future with me. He was very clear about this and wanted me to understand before we continue. At that time he also suggested that we get a place together. Eventually he ended up getting a place on his own and I moved in with him. He told me I need not pay anything but I contributed by paying some of the bills and minor house expenses. I felt I was very much in love with him that a part of me believe I can forsake marriage as long as we are happy together. Besides I dislike children myself.

We are not married but we lived like a married couple. We cook for each other, did chores, managed the bills, visited each other’s parents and we did everything together. I thought we had the perfect life. We lived like we are married and yet we have the time to date each other. I was envied by friends who witnessed our love. He still buys me flowers and gifts on special days like anniversaries, after being together for 10 years.

The final few months of our relationship I sensed his increasing distance. I convinced myself we are just busy with work and other things. He was out more, he stopped telling me about his day. It got to a point I felt we were like roommates living under the same roof. Then he told me he met someone. He needed me to move out because the other woman wants to move in.

I haven’t had time to compose myself and react to this utter betrayal and I had to pack up. 10 years meant nothing to him?.. I moved back to my parents and lied to them that his place is under construction.

I haven’t even had time to process my anger and grief then I heard he had a vehicle accident. His parents wasn’t aware that we broke up so I was called first. I found out he was severely injured that his life won’t be the same forever. The other woman didn’t hesitate to dump him after seeing his condition.

Since his parents didn’t know we had broken up, I choose to pretend I’m still his gf and stayed with him at the hospital. I took over most of the caregivers job because he was so helpless. I stayed over at his place often and took care of him for a while. He couldn’t carry on with his current job anymore so he had to settle for a simpler job which pays lesser. The lucky thing is he had almost paid off the house so he didn’t need to downgrade.

He had been needy towards me since the accident. I can understand that. How can I not feel for him? We did have a lot of happy times till this happened. I continued being there for him as he needed a lot of help and support. One day he asked me if I wanted to get married. I realised this was what I wanted all along. But not like this. I said no and realised it is time to leave him. I didn’t want to take care of him anymore. So I left.

Now, I’m already past the age of having kids safely. I did try to move on. I tried to date but without much success. I met 2 who were quite persistent in chasing me. But none interest me or can even compare to him. I’ve got my own place during the time I was taking care of him. I think a part of me already know I won’t get back together with him. I just needed a push to move on with my own life. Did I regret not getting married when I was younger? Definitely. I may have lived a very different life if I walked away the moment he told me he is not marriage material. If he cheated while we are married maybe he wouldn’t have got hurt because I may not have moved out so easily.

Without a marriage certificate, it’s very easy to walk away when things happen. So what kind of a person did I wanted to be? One who walks away or one who stays because of a piece of paper?

On the outside i am a stoic guy,when I’m home alone i crossdress… I identify as a cis male,but i love watching myself acting like a girl in the mirror.

When i dont have uni class/come back earlier and i have some time before work,i love to put on a bra and look at myself in the mirror.

I love to rub my “chests” under my shirt and occasionally will strut around while accentuating my backside and hips.

Last week i took my pants off and wore an oversized hoodie like girls do sometimes and i posed in front of the mirror.

I dont look much like a woman still (too tall/hairy i think lol) but it just turns me ON.

Next week I think I’m gonna try wearing heels and maybe panties too.I can’t wait. Use this story as a reminder that you don’t really know anyone lol, cuz anyone I know probably doesn’t think I’d do this. Aren’t humans amazing?

Thank you for reading.

Netizens’ comments

• Im the same but reverse lol. I love dressing to be a guy as a cis female. Tbh only reason I work out is to look more masculine haha. Experimenting with my gender a few times and came to the consensus im (likely) cisgender but just like crossdressing. Do whatever makes ya happy

• I’m the same way man. They’re just clothes. Think of how fortunate we are to have been born in a time where it’s so much more accepted now.