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WIFE WANTS OPEN MARRIAGE IF NOT SHE’LL LEAVE, HUSBAND GIVES IN

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WIFE WANTS OPEN MARRIAGE IF NOT SHE’LL LEAVE, HUSBAND GIVES IN

wife wanted an open marriage for years. i gave in

For years she wanted one and I always said no thanks. Its not what I want. She tells me she’s unhappy. She’s not monogamous. She was either going to do it and hurt me or leave me and hurt me or don’t do it and hurt herself, I didn’t want to lose her so gave in.

I said we would try it. And as expected I hate it. She has several guys. After her and her after them. She only wants fwb no relationships. I can’t stand the thought. It made me think violent thoughts. The other night she was nearby with one of them and I legit had the thought to go confront them. That isnt me. I’m a very calm person and never want to incite violence.

But when I thought about it I was one binary option away from doing something that I would have regretted..

She doesn’t want to stop. I told her I wasn’t ok with this anymore. And she hit me with well I’m having fun and I don’t want to stop. I see that it’s ruining our relationship.

Before I agreed to being open our marriage wasn’t great. We have had issues for a long time. Me not engaging with her how she likes. Or even having hobbies together.. Maybe I deserve to watch her connect with people like we never could.

So we’re done. We’re gonna get a divorce. But idk when because divorces aren’t exactly cheap. And I’m the only income. I have her car payment. Her insurance. Our rent. I can’t pay for a divorce rn. also since she doesn’t have a job she can’t move out. So I lm here with her. Together but not together. It’s maddening.

Everyone is Saying to divorce and stop paying for everything, but it’s not that easy. She’s the mother of my child. But I can’t have her lose her only way to potentially get food for my child.

Like I had said our marriage before being open had it’s fair share of problems.

We got married too early. We had a child too young. We placed ourselves in boxes that no longer fit, she changed or rather she embraced what was there. She started choosing herself. After years of putting us first and being unhappy. I can’t be mad at her.

I do wish she could just not… At least until we are separated. And I dont have to sleep in the same bed..

NETIZEN COMPARES BETWEEN DATING VIET BU & SIAM BU

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NETIZEN COMPARES BETWEEN DATING VIET BU & SIAM BU

An article was seen online whereby a netizen who have dated Thai and Vietnamese girls before were comparing his preference of girls from both Thailand and Vietnam and what is his ideal from these two nationalities.

Do note that the article is the view of the netizen alone and does not represent any of the views of the writers over at Singapore Uncensored.

Here are some of the pointers which were pointed out.

Physical appearance and attractiveness

Skin type: Vietnamese tend to have fairer/paler skin as compared to Thai girls who are generally darker and tanner.

However, not all Thai girls are dark and tan especially those who stay in the Northeastern region who have lighter and fairer skin.

Body figure: Vietnamese girls tends to be curvier and more well endowed at places where it matters even though they are petite and smaller sized as compared to the Thais.

Thai girls are not as well endowed as their Vietnamese counterparts and even if there is, most of it are usually ‘fake’.

Height: Vietnamese girls tends to be shorter compared to Thai girls.

They say that heaven is fair which is why Vietnamese girls gets the fairer skin type and nicer figure and Thai girls get the height but lose out to their Vietnamese counterparts in terms of complexion and figure.

Netizen’s choice: Vietnamese Girls

Hook up culture

Vietnamese Girls: Girls from Vietnam are more conservative, so don’t expect to get them into bed after just one meeting or so.

Patience is key in the game plan if you want to get them into bed and on top of patience, you will have to put in effort in the relationship before she will even think of sleeping with you.

Thai Girls: Girls from Thailand are more open as compared to their Vietnamese counterparts, which is why you often see foreigners with Thai girls.

Especially in city areas like Bangkok, the girls are not as traditional compared to those from the more rural areas and it is easier to get casual relationships there.

Even so, there are many Thai girls in Bangkok which are girlfriend material.

Netizen’s choice: Thai Girls

Appeal to men

Vietnamese Girls: Despite being more conservative by nature, Vietnamese girls are so much more appealing to men.

Many Vietnamese Girls go for the classy look of wearing their traditional Ao Dai wear, and it is as though that they are revealing everything when they are actually revealing nothing.

Other girls who do not don the Ao Dai usually wears those extremely tight short jeans which shows the curves at their bottoms and also wear tank tops/summer dresses which reveals their bosoms.

Go to Vietnam and see for yourself what the netizen means.

He describes the look as a look where gets him too mesmerised and weak all over.

Thai Girls: Most Thai Girls do not show as much skin as their Vietnamese counterparts unless they are working at a bar.

The local women in Thailand also tend to go for the classier dress sense which do not show much skin and on top of that, their figures are not as good as Vietnamese girls.

Netizen’s Choice: Vietnamese Girls

Overall Winner

The overall winner from the netizen’s point of view are the Vietnamese Girls.

He describes them as more friendly, ambitious, appealing and feminine as compared to their Thai counterparts and even so, they are more conservative, making them a good choice as a dating partner or future wife.

However, the netizen also adds that if you are looking for something more casual or just a companion, Thai girls will be a better choice as they are more friendly and open to trying new things.

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FOREIGN GF SAY MUST GO GOLDEN MILE BUY FOOD CAUSE LOCAL FOOD “DISGUSTING”

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FOREIGN GF SAY MUST GO GOLDEN MILE BUY FOOD CAUSE LOCAL FOOD “DISGUSTING”

One “superpower” that Singaporeans have without knowing is our adtability of eating all sorts of food as we have a diverse culture, but this is something many foreigners are not able to do.

A man shared a story about how his foreign GF is unable to eat local food and describe our Singaporean cuisine as “disgusting”

Here is the story:

I just got a foreign GF, I no need to tell you guys what country you also can guess lah.

So my gf ah, die die have to get all the ingredients from Golden Mile to cook at home or eat there or da bao from there.

I asked her why she does not want to try out local delicacy and she said that most of the food is “disgusting”.

So I started to do an experiment and here is the list of local food she accepted and rejected

Rejected

  • Chicken Rice
  • Ayam Penyet
  • Kambing Soup
  • Ba Chor Mee
  • Hokkien Mee
  • Fish Soup Noodle
  • Curry Chicken
  • Chinese Bun and Dim Sum
  • Lor Mai Gai
  • Cai Peng
  • Mee Rebus

Accepted

  • Laksa
  • Mee Soto

One thing good about we local people, we can accept a wide variety of food. Hope this relationship last, NOT. I am a food lover, I don’t want everyday eat Pak Ka Pao and Som Tum leh.

MAN INSIST ON WEARING ROLEX & GOLD TO JB, M’SIAN FRIEND TELLS HIM GOOD LUCK

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MAN INSIST ON WEARING ROLEX & GOLD TO JB, M’SIAN FRIEND TELLS HIM GOOD LUCK

When people are travelling, the number one priority is often safety while others prefer to be a walking ATM.

A netizen shared his concerns about travelling with a friend that insist on wearing his branded items to Johor Bahru.

Here is the story:

Thanks for accepting my submission. To make it clear, I’m a Malaysian that has been working in Singapore for over 10 years and most of my close friends are Singaporeans.

My colleague and I planned a 1 night trip to Johor and he told me to meet at his house before driving in. While I was drinking coffee at his home, he was preparing to change clothes for the trip.

I noticed he put on his Rolex and gold chain and I told him not to wear them to Johor. I’m a local johorian, even my 30-year-old Toyota has a steering wheel lock and he is wearing this that could make us a target.

He insisted on wearing them as he wanted to attract easy gold digger girls for a “good night”. I told him not to as it might bring unnecessary danger to us. But he die die want to wear, So I told him good luck and let him be.

After we arrived in Johor and check-in at a hotel, he started to doubt himself as he realised that a lot of people were staring at him shortly after he left his vehicle.

He then started to be scared as we have plans to go out for a drinks tonight, he finally removed the gold chain and rolex and placed them in a hidden compartment of his luggage.

My moral of the story is, even for local johor people we do not wear like this when going out so please remember sometimes safety is more important than how you look.

MAN SAID HE MET HIS GF ON A FORUM, NETIZENS ASK IF ITS SAMMYBOY

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MAN SAID HE MET HIS GF ON A FORUM, NETIZENS ASK IF ITS SAMMYBOY

Finding a girlfriend or a boyfriend is something everyone wants or secretly wants, a netizen posted a question on how he can meet girls and find a girlfriend.

Here is his question

Just curious. Hate me all you want but I don’t really trust dating sites as they’re full of questionable people and I feel like the site profits on failed matches. But anyways onto the main point.

For those who found love without a dating site, where did you find your significant other and how did it happen

Responses

There were a few valid replies such as:

  • I met my wife at work, same graduate program. We were just close friends and hung out together for lunch or teabreak in the office. Only after we both left years later did we start dating.
  • Was supposed to date a guy i met online, but he brought his friends along (10 guys vs 1 girl at coffeeshop. Damn sus) Ended up dating and married one of his friends
  • He sold me a fish tank and pump. Didnt know how to operate the pump. He came my hse to fix it and asked me out for lunch. Tog 9 years this year.

One of the responses that stands out and became a thread on it’s own was this:

  • Met my ex when I was on vacation in Aus, stayed in touch after the trip and was tgt for 4 years LDR. Knew my current gf from online forum(don’t ask me which), she found out I went to the same secondary school and DM-ed me. 2 months later she just became my gf.

Questions started coming in and ask if the forum is Sammyboy Forum

  • Which online forum? Sammyboy?

FOODPANDA RIDER KILLED TRYING TO AVOID VAN, VAN DRIVER ARRESTED

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FOODPANDA RIDER KILLED TRYING TO AVOID VAN, VAN DRIVER ARRESTED

A fatal traffic accident took place yesterday (10 April) on Gambas Avenue heading towards Yishun Avenue 7 at about 1pm.

A 24-year-old motorcyclist was killed after trying to avoid a van that had abruptly changed lanes, and crashed into another motorcyclist, according to Shin Min Daily News.

A video emerged online showing the deceased lying on the road unconscious while his motorbike lay beside him.

Members of the public could be seen gathering around him trying to render aid to the stricken man, while another group was attending to the other motorcyclist that was hit.

The 36-year-old van driver has since been arrested for careless driving causing death, according to SMDN.

The 24-year-old delivery rider was pronounced dead at the scene by paramedics while the other stricken motorcyclist was conveyed to Khoo Teck Puat Hospital.

According to Shin Min Daily News, the family of the deceased arrived at the scene of the accident to identify his body.

The elder brother of the deceased was also reportedly heard at the scene calling out to his brother, saying:

“Little brother! Dad and mum loved you the most, and your child hasn’t even been born yet…

He also reportedly spoke to the Chinese newspaper that his brother’s wife is 3 months pregnant at the moment.

WOMAN USING PHONE IN MIDDLE OF THE ROAD LIKE HER AH GONG BUILT IT

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WOMAN USING PHONE IN MIDDLE OF THE ROAD LIKE HER AH GONG BUILT IT

A video emerged online showing a woman using her phone while walking in the middle of a road, hoggin the lane.

She was seen using her phone in the middle of the road, completely oblivious to her surroundings and without a care in the world.

A car could be seen behind the woman, slowly coming to a stop and unable to drive on as the woman was blocking the way.

The netizen who posted the video on Facebook, captioned her post:

“Saw this woman walking in the middle of a 2 lanes road. Looking at her phone like she is at some shopping mall.”

Netizens’ comments

  • Can’t wait to meet her maker
  • She want to test if she got 9 lives. The car from far see her ard scared worry their car shattered if hit her.
  • Going for reincarnation
  • Nowadays a lot of siao people….

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LAWYER CAUSED MOTORCYCLIST’S DEATH BY NEGLIGENT DRIVING

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LAWYER CAUSED MOTORCYCLIST’S DEATH BY NEGLIGENT DRIVING

Laurence Goh Eng Yau, 57-years-old, pleaded guilty in court earlier today (11 April) to causing the death of 33-year-old Wong Yew Wai in 2018, by performing a negligent act.

The 57-year-old man is the sole proprietor of a law firm, Laurence Goh Eng Yau & Co, and he is expected to be sentenced on 29 April.

The incident happened on 12 September 2019, and Goh was driving on the AYE heading towards Tuas at about 5pm.

He was driving at about 75 to 80km/h on a road with a speed limit of 90km/h, and at about 5.19pm, Goh noticed that the car in front of him had stopped due to congestion in front.

Goh then abruptly swerved his car into the second lane on his left and avoid a collision.

However, he did not check to make sure there was oncoming traffic and sideswiped the deceased’s motorcycle, causing the motorcyclist to end up in the path of an oncoming lorry.

The driver of the lorry was unable to stop in time, and rolled over Wong before stopping.

The police were informed of the accident at about 5.20pm and Wong was then pronounced dead at the scene by paramedics.

NEW ZEALAND PM TO VISIT PM LEE IN S’PORE THIS MONTH FOR “TRADE MISSION”

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NEW ZEALAND PM TO VISIT PM LEE IN S’PORE THIS MONTH FOR “TRADE MISSION”

Jacinda Ardern, the Prime Minister of New Zealand, will be visiting Singapore later this month for a trade mission, according to a press release by the New Zealand government.

Here is what the New Zealand government said

Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern will lead a trade mission to Singapore and Japan to support New Zealand’s economic rebuild through reconnecting with two of its closest Indo-Pacific economic and security partners.

The Prime Minister will be accompanied by Minister for Trade and Export Growth Damien O’Connor and 13 business leaders.

“With a strongly positioned economy and an important delegation of New Zealand companies alongside us, our message abroad will be very clear – New Zealand is open for business,” Jacinda Ardern said.

“This first trade mission is part of our wider plan to reconnect with the world following the devastation caused by the COVID-19 pandemic, strengthening partnerships between government, business and industry will help accelerate our strong economic recovery.   

“This trade delegation will include impressive representatives from New Zealand’s dairy, food and beverage, technology, tourism and renewable energy sectors, with a focus on promoting sustainability and innovation.

“I will be highlighting New Zealand’s reopening for tourism and education, as well as supporting our businesses as they rebuild and grow connections with partners and customers in these two significant markets.

“It’s just over two years since COVID-19 hit New Zealand’s shores, prompting us to close the borders to protect lives and livelihoods. Now we must continue to reconnect with the world and I look forward to supporting our businesses across a range of sectors, and seeing my political counterparts in person,” Jacinda Ardern said.

In Singapore the Prime Minister will meet with Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong and make a call on President Halimah Yacob. She will also address key Singapore entrepreneurs and business leaders as part of a NZ hosted gala dinner.

The Prime Minister will also; visit one of Singapore’s major ports to discuss ways to future proof our supply chain, engage with aviation sector leaders on making aviation more sustainable, take part in a customary welcome ceremony, at the request of the Singapore government, and will attend a Kūwaha unveiling at Gardens by the Bay as a symbol of the strong cultural ties between the two countries.

In Japan, the Prime Minister will, for the first time, meet with Prime Minister Fumio Kishida to discuss global and regional challenges. She will also address the Japan-New Zealand Business Council, meet with high profile business and industry leader’s including in the clean energy and tech sectors.

The Prime Minister will also highlight Aotearoa New Zealand’s tourism and education sectors through events with Japanese media and education partners.

This year also marks the 70th anniversary of diplomatic relations with Japan.

Minister for Trade and Export Growth Damien O’Connor said unlocking opportunities in key markets is an important part of New Zealand’s Trade Recovery Strategy as we reconnect with the world.

“Japan is New Zealand’s fourth largest trading partner, with our major exports including horticulture, dairy and meat. Our two-way trade totalled NZ$8.34 billion to the year ended December 2021.

“Singapore is our fifth largest with a total of NZ$6.56 billion in two-way trade over the same period. Singapore is an important market for dairy and tourism and are also a key regional hub for New Zealand exports and imports.

“We will do everything we can to support our New Zealand businesses and exporters to gain further access, and deeper connections, within these important markets,” Damien O’Connor said.  

The Prime Minister and her accompanying delegation will be travelling on a NZDF Boeing 757 and will depart New Zealand on April 18 and return on April 24.

DRIVER HITS PARKED CAR, INSPECTS DAMAGED CAR THEN FLEES THE SCENE

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DRIVER HITS PARKED CAR, INSPECTS DAMAGED CAR THEN FLEES THE SCENE

A video emerged online showing an alleged hit and run accident that took place on 4 April at about 11.12am.

The incident happened at an open carpark at Simei Street 1, on 4 April.

The driver of the Toyota Vios had allegedly hit a parked Mitsubishi Lancer, before parking a distance away from the damaged vehicle.

The driver then alighted to inspect the damaged car, before walking away and fleeing the scene.

Potential penalties

It is a punishable offence to leave the scene of an accident, which is considered a hit-and-run – upon conviction, first-time offenders face a fine of up to $3,000 or a jail term of up to 12 months.

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