Hi everyone. I don’t want to brag you with too much details, so I’ll shorten it as much possible.

One night, when my family and I were heading back to our house w our car, my dad accidentally read a suspicious text from my mom’s phone. When we got back home, my mom begged me to confirm her story that the text my dad read is text from my boyfriend that’s directed to me because my phone battery died. I agreed but with one condition; to stop texting him. At that time I didn’t know that she didn’t just text him but actually dated him, (and probably still does), because she had sworn to me that nothing else is going on but texts. After I helped her, our relationship has begun to fall down.

She’d always insult me in front of everybody, telling me that I was just a mistake, telling her side of family that I’m just like my dad’s sister, that I have no manners and that I’ll never succeed in life etc. I was really hurt by that but couldn’t do anything about it.

Today a friend of my dad’s confronted him and told him about my mom’s affair but she denies it. Idk what to do… I’ll worsen up my relationship w my mom that is already destroyed even tho I don’t have a clue why, i’ll break up their marriage and my dad will be devastated but I feel like I’m letting him down. I love my mom and dad and I’m miserable that such burden is placed on me and I don’t know what to do. Sorry about my grammatical mistakes, English isn’t the best

Please don’t say my mum doesn’t love me or etc, i’m sure she does. We have moments where she behaves nice to me and tells me that I’m well mannered and nice but most of the time she doesn’t. I’m their first-borned and they got married because of me (i was made accidentally) so maybe she just has a hard time considering the fact that everything started w me. She’s my mom and i’m sure she in the depth of her heart loves me, just doesn’t show it up often like she does w my brothers..

What should I do?

What netizens say:

You didn’t take part in anything. You mom did what she does best which is manipulate and lie to you. She has said terrible things to you and tell posters here not to say she doesn’t love you. You don’t know what love is because she has never shown it yo you. Some people are not capable of love. After all the horrible things she has done you want to protect her because you think it will get her to show you love. It won’t. She will continue to be a terrible person and treat you badly. Tell your father the truth. She will be nasty to you regardless but he deserves to know the truth. Don’t cover for her any longer.

So, my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me with my very own of a best friend.

I was part of a local band that did gigs for bars and coffee shops around town. And during those times, my ex (who was my girlfriend then) joined us from time to time on both the gigs and even rehearsals/practices and needless to say, she got close to all my other band mates including my former best friend who was also in the band. By then, I started noticing how she would constantly get close to my best friend by being flirty with him in front of me. Needless to say, I became jealous. So, I did what any good boyfriend would do, and talk to her nicely about her behavior. But, she blew me off, and even had the audacity to scream at me and say that I was being too “un-trusting.” So, I decided to let it slide, since I knew she was a very touchy person to everyone.

But after a while, she started spending too much time on her phone, laughing and smiling all the while. And my best friend would start missing rehearsals for our gigs. It was unusual of him since he was a pretty dedicated guy when it came to our band. And each time he misses a session, my ex would be away as well. I started getting suspicious after seeing signs of cheating from her. I didn’t want to suspect her nor my best friend having an affair, but there are so many things pointing to it.

So, I decided to take action. I wanted to find out the truth. So, I secretly took her phone and checked her DMs in Instagram and Facebook. Lo and behold, there it is. The conversation between her and my best friend ranged from flirty to raunchy. Needless to say, I was fuming. I decided to take a picture of the DMs as proof of her infidelity.

So, out of the blue, I decided to do something for our upcoming 2nd anniversary. We had a gig on the day of the anniversary so I told her that she could come with us after the gig to celebrate. During rehearsals, I told the band that I would like to sing a few solo songs for my girlfriend during the gig. They agreed to it, and that includes the GUY she was cheating with.

He even wished us a happy anniversary. All the while, I was resisting the urge to bash his head with my guitar. Little did they know, I was planning to sing a few original songs about cheating to see how she would react.

The day came and we did the gig. We finished up all our setlist, and that was the moment for my small bit for her. While on the mic, I announced to the crowd in the bar that it was our anniversary, and people cheered with congratulations. I pretty much “thanked” her for the 2 years she’s been with me and all that jazz. She was even beaming at me as if she knew nothing about what she’s done. So, I started singing one of the original songs I wrote for her. As expected, her smile turned to a frown slowly as she realized that I wrote these songs for her. She then stood up in the middle of one of my songs fuming in anger. She came in front of me screaming her head off. Pretty much expected of her reaction. I told her that I knew what she was doing with my best friend and asked her why did she do that. She kept denying it, until I pulled out my phone and showed her the conversation she’s been having with him. She became silent in front of the crowd. I pulled up the mic and announced to everyone, “Thanks for the two years, B. This is goodbye.”

After more than 3 years has passed since that incident, many things have happened. Me, kicking her out of our place, ending my friendship with the so called “best friend”, and sadly the disbandment of our group to pursue other things. But, hey!

Single life is happy, and I’m still doing some music. But it’s just more of a hobby. Looking back, I can never understand why cheaters do this.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. I am 4 months pregnant and we were both shocked but excited. The other day he went through my phone and found nothing. The week before he kept accusing me of cheating and I was confused because I’ve never cheated on him and considering I’m newly pregnant and focused on that. Cheat would be the last thing on my to do list….. later that day I snatched his phone ran and locked myself in the car and to my surprise he’s been cheating… for quite sometime… my entire pregnancy to be exact.

I am so enraged. I’ve been faithful took trips, loved, and did my part with this man…. and decided to keep our child… we made plans to move and begin a new life with our family but this has me putting on my running shoes. We talked and he admitted it and told me other things but I really have no idea what to do.

I want my family. I want my child to grow up in a 2 parent home with two loving parents. But I can’t get pass this although it’s been 3 days I literally have no trust for him. Should I save my family or walk on. I don’t want to be a single mom or have my child grow up without a father.

Here are what netizens said:

• Honestly, I would not be able to maintain a romantic relationship with someone who shows they have no respect for me (and as you said you have no trust in him). If anything, I would walk away while still trying to maintain a parental relationship for the sake of the child. Obviously this is different if you don’t have much of a support system but if you do I think it would be beneficial to lean on them for advice and to clear your head. Just remember being a “family” can still happen without you sacrificing your own mental wellbeing to stay with a man who violated your trust. He is still be the child’s father though he doesn’t have to be your boyfriend.

• I’m sorry you are going through this! No one can tell you what to do or what is right for you. There is always a reason for the cheating so if you look to stay together, that reason needs to be found and trust needs to be rebuilt All the best to you

• Im so sorry. My thoughts he was blaming you of cheating checking your phone for receipts. I think he looking for a way out this baby made it real for him. He Doesn’t deserve this family yet!! Right now take your time with this decision. Take a step back and look after ur health and the baby. Stress can hurt him/her. You want that baby to have a family. You can provide the love to ur baby separately. Dont allow yourself to be so disrecpted. Ask yourself can you live knowing his? Will u always question where he’s at? Will you check up on him? Is this how you want to live or do you want to focus on that precious bundle inside you. Will you ever trust him 100%? Good luck and congrats on the baby.

I recently ran across my fiancées’s location via Snapchat while I was looking for something else on the map and found her at her co-worker’s house.

Long story short I told her I didn’t want her giving him rides anymore as I suspect he would take advantage of her character and use her as a chauffeur. I messaged her just to tell her I was thinking about her and asked what she was up to. She said she was watching a movie and didn’t include any other details. I asked her to take food from the freezer to thaw. As soon as I messaged her she disappeared from the snap map and didn’t come home for another hour or so. When I got home she never took the food from the freezer and said she forgot to even though she in the kitchen.

Which I knew she was lying because I had seen her on snap map moments before and the security camera in the driveway showed no cars in the driveway.

I know she lied to me. I want to give her the benefit of doubt, but what are the different thoughts of you guys here?

She’s secretly met up with other guys before, and intentionally omitted details about stories without knowing I knew the actual story. I wonder if she’s cheating, or trying to save the awkward conversation in fear that I would be jealous. She’s also been very affectionate towards me the following days and I wonder if she’s trying to make herself feel better for what she may have done.

Here are what netizens said:

• Look…she lied to you. Period. As they say, “If it walks like a duck and sounds like a duck, it probably is a duck”
  
• Right now the only way you might know is to confront her and her what you before things get out of hand and your relationship erodes. Could be either or at this time. But either way she needs to take some giant steps backwards and she respect for her relationship with you because of the way you’re uncomfortable with what she doing and she knows it

I was lie to from day one about who they are how they think and what they feel it got worse as time progressed and by five months I was told he loved me but things seem too good to be true I asked him if there was anything I should know about because some of his things he said didn’t match up he said I was being paranoid.

One night he left some criminating evidence out and I saw it and from that point on I was the bad person it was my fault because I saw the incriminating evidence forget about the part where I warned him please be honest please don’t hurt me my heart still messed up from my last relationship let’s just take things slow. He told me all this stuff about his ex-wife stupid me I believed him.

Well turns out everything he told me that his ex-wife did she had a reason to do it because he did all those things he hired hookers he chased after girls half his age he joined every dating hook up site there was he send money to young girls he had S with other women “chickens” with no protection on and then he wondered why his wife wouldn’t want to do it with him.

Now the fed up thing is the few friends that he has he tells them the crazy ex girlfriend just like his crazy “chickens” dating or trying to hook up with 30-year-old girls have his age he lies and cheats and steals but his supposedly real friends don’t even know who he really is.

He cannot understand how come I am upset because he doesn’t admit that him lying to me for 18 months until I found proof how this isn’t my fault me being hurt and devastated and broken isn’t his fault the lying and cheating and the stealing that he does none of that is his fault everything is my fault I fing don’t get it how do you lie to someone and in the same breath tell them that you love them.

How do you go f your ex-girlfriend and then come over to your house and f your new girlfriend without protection on. Then I wondered why when he came home from the doctor saying he didn’t have any sexual diseases I am thinking or why would he were only one sleeping with each other well it made sense once I found the incriminating evidence.

If the format sucks I apologize if the spelling is messed up I apologize I’m really upset right now and I’m dictating to my phone and I’m ready to I don’t even know I I just want revenge so bad and I know life lived well is good revenge but right now that is not gonna make me happy I wanna f-ing rip out every hair he has left on his head I want to show up where he’s going to be tonight and tell his but he calls his real friends who really don’t know who the hell he is everything about him but it will just make me look worse because as far as they’re concerned he walks on water.