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GUY SUSPECTS GF CHEATING BECAUSE HER MANAGER BOUGHT HER A $170 HANDBAG

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A netizen shared how he thinks his girlfriend is cheating on him because her manager bought her a handbag worth about $170.

Here is the story:

“Admin, please please post this as I really need some clarity and advice on my issue.

Recently, my girlfriend’s company had a Secret Santa where the minimum spend was $40. Today was the day where they got to exchange presents and it happens so that my girlfriend’s Santa was a high-ranking manager.

From what my girlfriend has said to me before regarding the manager’s salary, it should be ranging from 8-9k. Furthermore, their company did well this quarter so they did receive much more in bonuses as compared to the norm.

So coming to the point, the manager had bought for my girlfriend a $170 handbag that she has been wanting for a while. However, me being a student and also not having enough money for myself, I only was able to buy for her presents (a collection of mini presents) that totaled up to $70.

I am feeling slightly curious as to how this manager is so willing to spend $100++ above the required spending for my girlfriend. There is no way that I suspect my girlfriend of adultery at all but I just feel uneasy and I guess emasculated?

Even when my girlfriend’s family and I were having dinner together, my girlfriend only mentioned the gift that she got during Secret Santa to her parents but did not mention what I had bought for her.

I am trying not to feel weird about this but my mind is just running in circles. Someone, please help to put this in perspective for me.”

Editor’s note: I think you think too much bro.

MAN KIDNAPPED EX-SCHOOLMATE, BEATS HIM UP THEN DUMP HIM AT LABRADOR PARK

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Mohamed Shamir Noor Mohamed Noor, 20-years-old, pleaded guilty to one count of abduction on 21 December.

He had kidnapped his former schoolmate, Harry Hilmie Harrahap Hassan, a 19-year-old, who attacked him earlier and beat him up after driving to a park, before leaving him there.

A probation suitability report was called for by the judge.

Backstory

Shahmir was attacked by Harry on 17 February near Redhill Market and suffered multiple facial injuries as a result.

One of Shahmir’s colleagues, Abdul Ridha Mohamed Hashim, 41-years-old, found out about the attack by Harry.

One of Abdul’s friends told him that her daughter was dating Harry and that harry was sleeping at a staircase outside her Clementi home.

The woman then asked Abdul to chase him away as she thought he was a bad influence on her daughter.

The kidnapping

on 19 March, Abdul Ridha, Shahmir, and two of their colleagues decided to confront Harry.

The four of them drove to the block of flats in a van as Shahmir waited in the van near the rubbish bin center of a carpark at about 9.50pm.

The other three guys brought Harry down from the 2nd floor, with one of them punching him and asking why he hit Shahmir previously – He was assaulted again as he was being led into the van.

Shahmir saw Harry approaching and immediately alighted from the van and punched Harry in the face, kicking him as well.

Harry was then led into the van and Shahmir then punched him again.

Abdul then asked Harry why he was at the block hanging out with his friend’s daughter, and Harry replied while crying that he just wanted to hang out there.

Two witnesses saw the attack and one of them called the police after the van had left – one of them approached the van before it drove off.

Along the way, Shahmir continued to punch Harry and when they reached Labrador Park, they pushed him out of the vehicle where he then fell onto the ground.

Harry was then punched in the face several times by Shahmir, as well as being kicked, punched, and slapped by two other men of the group.

Shahmir then challenged Harry to a “one on one” fight, with the group driving on to a more remote area of the park.

Shahmir then kicked and punched Harry during the fight, who kept blocking his (Shahmir’s) blows, and apart from one failed attempt at a punch, he (Harry) didn’t fight back.

The assailants then left the scene, leaving Harry on the ground, who was then woken up by an elderly man a while later, with his vision blurry.

Harry then asked the man for help to return to his girlfriend, and he was then attended to by paramedics for his injuries.

Shahmir is expected to be sentenced on 23 February with another charge of voluntarily causing hurt to be considered during his sentencing.

The cases for the three remaining attackers are still pending at the moment.

Meanwhile, Harry has also been convicted for his earlier attack on Shahmir and is awaiting his sentence.

HORRIFIC ACCIDENT @ TAMPINES, SPEEDING MERC CRASHED INTO 4 CARS

A horrific accident happened along Tampines on 23 December at around 11pm, involving a Mercedes that was allegedly speeding.

The Mercedes was seen traveling at a very high speed before crashing through 4 other vehicles across 3 lanes, with the accident looking very bad for the motorists involved.

At least 4 ambulances and 3 fire engines were seen deployed to the accident site, with one of the drivers having to be extricated from his vehicle.

Eyewitnesses reported seeing the Mercedes speeding along Tampines Avenue 1 before losing control of the car.

The speeding Mercedes then crashed into the vehicles that were waiting for the traffic light at Avenue 10.

At the time of writing, the conditions of the drivers and motorcyclists involved are unclear.

Update: A 59-year-old driver has died from his injuries sustained at the accident that happened at the junction of Tampines Avenue 10 and 1.

Four other motorists between the ages of 22 and 38 were also hurt in the fatal accident.

A 33-year-old man has also been arrested for drink-driving.

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Source: SGRV

BAMBOO POLE WITH PANTIES CLIPPED ON IT, FELL FROM HDB AND PIERCED CAR BELOW

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A video emerged online showing a freak accident that happened to a vehicle that was parked below a HDB building.

A bamboo pole that was presumably used to hang clothes by one of the residents living in the block upstairs had fallen down.

The bamboo pole then pierced through the back window of the car, leaving a gaping hole in the unfortunate vehicle.

The bamboo pole was also seen with some plastic pegs still clipped onto it, with what appears to be a pair of women’s panties still clipped onto the pole.

It is unclear who the bamboo pole or panties belong to, or where the incident happened.

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MAN STALKED HIS VICTIMS FOR 5 MONTHS AFTER THEY REJECTED HIS GIFTS

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Soon Xian Feng, pleaded guilty to one count of harassment on Thursday as well as one more unrelated charge of entering a victim’s home to steal $150.

He had stalked two residents of a flat after the two rejected his gift, and the stalking lasted from February to July earlier this year.

He also left cigarette butts near their front door and threw eggs on the floor outside.

The victims cannot be identified due to a gag order protecting their identities.

What happened?

Sometime in February, Soon left a package that contained a jar of cookies and two jerseys outside the victims’ home with a letter stating that he wanted to be friends.

The victims then returned the package to Soon’s father, which upset him and he started stalking them.

On 24 February, he removed some Chinese New Year decorations that were outside the victims’ home and continue his harassment between April and July.

He also took their footwear, doormat, and a parcel from outside their home and threw it down a rubbish chute.

Separately in an unrelated offense, he entered a flat at Clementi and stole $150 on 26 February 2020.

Soon is expected to be sentenced on 7 February 2022.

GUY’S FATHER RUDE AND VULGAR TO HIS GF, BUT GUY DOESN’T SAY ANYTHING

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A girl shared how her boyfriend’s father is rude and vulgar to not just her but everyone, and that he boyfriend doesn’t say anything.

Here is the story:

“I really need to get this off my chest sigh.

I really dislike my boyfriend’s father. He is rude and vulgar to people and he often says very nasty things to everyone (like everyone). This is just the surface of the issues he has. I understand nobody is perfect and I just try to distance myself and ignore the things he says or does. I can get along with the rest of the family and have no issue with them. 

My question is I am worried on how he will impact my life if I do get married with my boyfriend. Will everything get better or will it get worse? When we have kids, will he affect my children (this is something I think I have zero tolerance on). 

My boyfriend does not agree with his father but does not say anything out of respect and he is generally a more tolerant person. I get that and I don’t want to make his life difficult but it really just makes me afraid, annoyed and upset. Every time it gets too much my bf just says he knows but some things are out of control and our convo ends because I also don’t know what else to say.

I never had any issue with any of my ex-s family and I can’t help but feel horrible that when I have a stable relationship, this has to happen… Any advice? Thank you very much. I appreciate all and stay safe”

Editor’s note: Stand up to him and let him know how you feel.

GIRL SAYS SHE DOESN’T KNOW WHY SHE IGNORED HER BF TO MEET ANOTHER GUY

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A girl shared how she ignored her boyfriend’s calls when he was at her school to pick her up, only to go out with another schoolmate.

Here is the story:

“Anyone has similar experience or advice for me? While I was doing a part-time Master’s degree course, I get to know a few course mates.

My boyfriend used to pick me up from school so I think my coursemates know I have a boyfriend. We have a few dinner gatherings, movies gathering, and bbq at my coursemate’s Condo.

We are not really close, but more for business contacts and helping one another with school works, taking notes if one of us is busy with work.

A few coursemates would call and we would talk about school works and some of them did call, chit chat, and ask me out for dates a few times.

I would turn them down as I am still studying full time for professional certification and examinations plus helping out at my boyfriend’s family business and really no time to know more guy friends.

One day, after class, one of my schoolmates asked me to go for dinner and I actually met my boyfriend but I don’t know why I can’t say no to him.

My boyfriend waited for me at the school and called my handphone but I did not pick up or answer his calls. I left and went out with my coursemate A,

when I reached home, my parents and siblings later told me I was like another person. I was sick for the next few days but when I go to see a doctor, the doctor said I am OK, no fever, nothing.

Maybe I am too tired. I would feel very tired but when I go to school and A asks me to go out with him after school, I would say yes although I really want to go home and rest.

I cannot remember much when I went out with A but when I woke up the next morning at home, I would feel sick and very tired but cannot remember what happened after class yesterday.”

Editor’s note: This one gong tao already.

NETIZEN AGREES WITH DAVID ROSAL, SAYS HE IS HORRIFIED BY GIRLS’ ARMPIT HAIR

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A netizen shared how he agrees with the infamous TikToker David Rosal, who said that Singaporean girls don’t know how to groom themselves like the Americans.

Here is the story:

“David Rosal’s mistake was in the manner of his delivery, which is a shame because he was making fundamentally sound points.

It is true that Singaporean girls rarely wear makeup, be it in school or at work. Tell that to any China/Japanese/Korean girl and she will be horrified; girls in these countries never leave the house without makeup, as they were correctly taught from young that it is an integral part of being feminine.

The same goes with body hair. I think all local guys can relate to this PTSD: remember that horrifying moment when your female classmate in sec sch rose her arms to tie her hair and BAM!

A black forest of armpit hair right in your face.

I even had a female friend in UNI who had hairy legs. Femininity is sadly a foreign concept in Singapore.

This is why we – and David Rosal – should thank local influencers for their tireless efforts to change the social fabric.

We laugh at their cringe Insta captions and shame them for their sl**ty outfits, but have we ever stopped to think about the underlying message they are trying to promulgate? GIRLS SHOULD BE FEMININE.

On behalf of Singaporean guys, I thank all local influencers for trying to make a difference, bit by bit, day by day, to the lupsup half of our population.”

Editor’s note: What is wrong with you…

Recap

GIRL SAYS GUYS STOP TALKING TO HER WHENEVER SHE REPLY WITH “HAHA” OR “LOL”

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A girl shared how guys stop talking to her whenever she replied to them with “haha” or “lol”, and that she doesn’t know why.

Here is the story:

“Why every single time I say “haha” or “ahaha” or laugh emoji then the guy stops talking.

Actually not just guys, girls also. They just talk to me when the convo feels normal. When I say “haha” or a bit non-serious they get so repulsed they avoid me for the rest of their life lmao.

Is it because we are not close enough? It’s as efficient as a block. Is it because they think I’m very serious when I don’t say “hehe” or “haha”.

Please. It’s just the same, it’s just a habit to sometimes decorate the convo with “hahas” and “lols” when the previous text bubbles are too plain.

Is it because all the ones that left me after I say “hehe” or “haha” were previously engaging with me for serious matters.

And when I don’t laugh the convo is too serious and no air for them to leave? Haha. Or do they think I’m filled with awkwardness when I mention “haha”.

Or is it because the text message that reaches them exudes awkwardness. The convo continues on and on when there’s no “hehe” and “haha”, and they finally escape when I let out a “haha”.

It happens every time.”

Editor’s note: Haha, lol, lollzzz, hahahaz

GUY HACKED INTO CRUSH’S FACEBOOK AND FOUND HER TALKING TO ANOTHER GUY

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A netizen shared how he was talking to a girl that he liked, then he hacked into her Facebook and found out that she was talking to another guy.

Here is the story:

“I have no intention to brag about myself, but the information I’m giving is gonna be relevant to the story I’m sharing. I’m from Vietnam. I studied and graduated from NTU a few years ago. I’m currently working in Singapore in a pretty hot domain with a respectable salary.

About 1.5 years ago, I got to know a girl in Vietnam through social networks. She is good-looking and smart. She is in her second year at the Vietnam national academy of music. She is from Hanoi (North of Vietnam), while my hometown is in Ho Chi Minh City (South of Vietnam).

We have been messaging each other a lot, almost every day. Most of the time, I’m the one who initiates. I shared almost everything about my daily life with her. She wouldn’t do the same if I don’t ask her to.

Due to the Covid 19 situation, I haven’t been able to fly back to Vietnam to see her. I’ve occasionally bought gifts and food for her and she liked those. She never accepted too valuable gifts, such as iPhone, though.

Earlier this year, I made an attempt to confess to her. She told me that she still got 2 more years to finish her degree, and it could lead to nothing because her family didn’t want her to get married to someone staying too far away.

I responded to her that I’m willing to relocate to her place. She still rejected me. I supposed that my attempt failed. I decided to give up and not disturb her anymore.

Sometime later, she initiates to message me again and I perceived positive changes in her feelings towards me. So I hacked her Facebook to know what was happening. I know that is bad, I apologize.

I discovered that she was having a relationship with a guy for almost 4 years now. He is a Ph.D. student in Japan and is doing a part-time job for his study.

His hometown is a small city in the South of Vietnam. I saw him commenting and giving heart reactions on my crush posts. From her Messenger, they were messaging and video chatting every day. She made birthday cakes for him.

They haven’t met but they had planned to see each other and to get married. I even found her sending to him sexy photos and, I can’t believe it, screenshots of my confession messages too.

I don’t know what to do. My heart crumbles. I know I’m silly, but I still hope for her change of mind. Appreciate help and advice from you guys.”

Editor’s note: Seems like you’re the appetizer bro, block her and move on.