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TODDLER DROWNED IN POOL BECAUSE MOTHER BUSY POSING FOR ONLYFANS

A model in Thailand, Wiyada Pontawee, who is a mother of two, was partying at a villa at Pattaya on Valentine’s Day when her son drowned in the swimming pool.

Wiyada is a model of posts racy photos of herself online, and she was partying with her husband and other adult models at the time of the incident.

The party was also a photoshoot for her OnlyFans account, where her subscribers pay to see her photos (and videos).

Her two-year-old son was playing in the water at the time, when his father noticed him struggling inside the water.

He then rushed over to save the boy, jumping into the water, but it was too late.

According to The Sun, the parents of the boy carried his body and asked for help at the villa’s entrance, and rescuers tried to revive the boy and pumped his heart but to no avail.

The boy was rushed to the hospital as his parents wept, but the hospital was unable to save him despite their best efforts.

Wiyada then shared a post onto her Facebook, mourning the passing of her toddler, who would’ve turned 3-years-old on Wednesday (16 February).

Images source: วิยะดา ผลทวี on Facebook

SUV DRIVER ALLEGEDLY PUSHED SECURITY GUARD, WHO FRACTURED HIS HAND

The Union of Security Employees (USE) shared an incident onto Facebook on 16 February involving one of their security officers.

The incident happened at United Square on 6 November 2021.

The security officer had signaled for an SUV driver to stop, and the driver then drove into a barricaded lane at a drop-off point.

The driver then allegedly shoved the security guard onto the ground after alighting from his car to confront the guard, resulting in the guard suffering a fracture to his pal and an injured lower back.

The police are investigating the incident and the union is assisting the officer, who is on medical leave because of the alleged incident.

The injured security officer who has been a senior security officer deployed at United Square to control traffic at United Square’s drop-off point, has been working for about 5 years prior to the alleged assault.

Here is USE’s statement

USE General Secretary Raymond Chin visited our member SSO P at his home recently. SSO P is currently on medical leave as a result of an assault he suffered at work.

SSO P was deployed at the drop-off point of a mall when a BMW car attempted to cut into the taxi lane illegally. When SSO P stopped the car, the driver of the BMW allegedly alighted and assaulted him. The driver then drove off. SSO P suffered a fracture on his palm and hurt his lower back. He has filed a police report and investigations are ongoing. USE is assisting SSO P on this and have also provided quick relief funds to him.

Our officers perform duties as provided for under the Private Security Industry Act (PSIA). In our latest survey conducted with the Singapore University of Social Sciences, 39% of officers reported facing abuse at work, with the general public forming the largest group of abusers.

The PSIA was amended in 2021 to offer stronger protection to our security officers. Penalties for offences against officers were increased, with the heaviest penalties increased to a $10,000 fine and up to 5 years imprisonment for voluntarily causing hurt. 

USE, together with Ministry of Home Affairs (MHA), Security Association Singapore (SAS) and Association of Certified Security Agencies (ACSA), have issued decals to sites in Singapore where officers are deployed to, urging the public to respect our officers. USE has also launched a mobile app and also runs fortnightly newspaper advertisements for officers to report abuse.

USE will continue to protect our officers, including taking legal action against perpetrators.

Images source: Union of Security Employees (USE)

MAN’S HAIR STARTED TO BECOME GREY, BOSS DEMANDS HIM TO DYE IT BLACK

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A netizen shared how he is 30 and his hair is starting to turn grey and his boss demanded him to dye it black because he is “representing the brand”.

Here is the story

I’m 30 and suddenly my hair started to turn white very rapidly. I have long black hair and it’s very noticeable. It’s like in the span of two months a third of my hair suddenly turned white.

It does not bother me in the slightest and I never wanted to cover it with dye because I actually like it.

My boss is one of those people who inherited a company and only shows up at our workplace a few times a year (usually to take Instagram pics to show off and post “inspiring” BS about being “self-made”) so I had not seen him since early 2021. The two other times he was in the offices we didn’t coincide so Tuesday was the first time he saw me in about a year.

Without even saying hello he asked “what’s wrong with your hair?”. I told him that since last summer my hair had started turning grey. He said this is a workplace and I have to “maintain my hygiene” and “make an effort to look professional” because I’m representing “his brand”. I work in an office space with 14 other people and I only interact with clients over the phone.

I do maintain my hygiene, my hair is clean and well kept and my grey hair doesn’t represent his brand for shit because not one of our clients has ever seen my face and I seriously doubt they’d care I have grey hair.

So this morning I arrive at work and HR, who is the owner’s brother in law and has that title just to collect a paycheck but does nothing, asks me why I haven’t coloured my hair yet after my talk with the boss. I told him you can’t be serious right? And tried to explain how grey hair has nothing to do with hygiene or being professional. He said he gets it but his BIL told me to fix it because he wants me to “be my best self” and if I don’t comply he’s gonna have to discipline me for insubordination. Is that even a thing? What for? For refusing to use chemical products to alter my physical image to please my boss’ male gaze?

So I’m thinking there’s never been a better moment to quit.

I have enough money saved to allow myself to stop working for a few months until I get a new job. My job is in demand and I won’t have any problem finding a new one.

I’ve been at work since 9 am, I’ve talked to my sisters and my mum and they all agree I should walk out. So now I’m sorting out some things and as soon as I’m done I’m gone.

HORRIFIED MAN KENA CHASED BY DOG, RUNNING FOR HIS LIFE “EH! EHHHHH!”

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A video emerged online showing a man getting chased by a dog at Lim Chu Kang, while he was on a walk, and he then started running for his life.

The man was seen holding onto a camera in his hand and filming himself as he explored the Lim Chu Kang area when he realised a dog was chasing him from behind.

The man then started running, beginning by running away slowly and eventually picking up pace as the dog ran faster.

He then started full on sprinting when he realised the dog wasn’t relenting, as he shouted “eh… eh! EHH! EHHHHHHH!!!!!!”

The dog eventually slowed down and gave up on its “prey”, as netizens found bemusement at the man’s ordeal.

Some netizens advised him to not run when being chased by a dog.

Netizens’ comments

  • Legend says he’s still running and shouting hey hey hey till this day…
  • No lah, the doggie was out taking a stroll lah… The chap is just fearful of the doggie and run like a girl…. Muahahahahaha
  • No common sense. The more you run, the more the dog will come after you. If you stay calm, the dog will stop going after you. That there is someone taking a video, the one who posts this video is up to some mischief.
  • Sorry for laughing but the more I repeat watching the video, the funnier it gets

MAN STRUGGLING TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE, WORKS 2 JOBS TO MAKE ENDS MEET

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A netizen shared how he is struggling to make ends meet to put food on the table for his family and wonders if he is breaking the law by working two jobs.

Here is the story

I need some advice from the general public without exposing myself in case I have broken the law.

Due to the rise in costs and zero pay increases, with many mouths to feed and many expenses to pay… I have picked up a second job without informing either employer.

However one is self employed and the other is a more of a traditional office job but work from home and in a different industry. Am I allowed to do so ? After all it’s not good to my family if I have to pay any fines or serve jail time… I just wanted to give my family a better life and be able to eat a little better every now and then.

Currently we are barely making ends meet and on some days me and my SO have to eat instant noodles just to make sure the young and old have proper food.

Hope to hear from you guys.

– desperate Singaporean-

Netizens’ comments

  • As long as there is no conflict of interest and you are doing outside of your employment time and not using company resources, I don’t think they care. If they caught u, just quit. Won’t be jailed lah… cost a lot of money to jail someone.
  • I don’t think you have broke any law if you take 2 jobs to make ends meet. Employment is a contract between you and the employer.
  • Talk to your employer about your current situation. Better to have transparency from the onset and whether your employer is able to make any better adjustment. Rather than for you to worry yourself out with this and tire yourself out with the second job too..

35 Y.O MAN TIRED OF HIS BEST FRIEND FOR BEING IMMATURE & ACTING LIKE A KID

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A netizen shared how his best friend is immature and acting like a child, and that he is growing tired of him.

Here is the story

I’m growing tired of my best friend.

We met in secondary school and he was my best friend every since. We had a lot to talk about despite our differences. Over the last few years, I find myself getting increasingly irritated by his lack of maturity. We are both 35 now and bro I’m seriously sick of your horrible lack of general knowledge and growing-up.

You can’t even speak clearly. Your words are always so vague. You run away from commitments. Your mum does everything for you. You get upset with a little bit of criticism. You can’t treat your girlfriend right.

The time you caused a split in our group bcus you spilled a secret that you were specifically instructed not to tell. What’s the deal man?! Is it you want to be hero?

The times you twisted a story and made me look bad in front of your parents bcus you didn’t want to face the music.

The time we went on a double date and your sister called to say your parents are fighting and ignoring each other. You abandoned your gf to rush home. For what?! What can you do even if you go home?! My wife and I feel so sorry for the girl. When we hang out all you know is talk. You talk and talk and talk. I see your gf ordering the food, getting the utensils and sauces and paying the bill. I wanted to smack you on the head man.

The time we went to eat Korean bbq and you poured the raw meat over a pile of cooked meat. When our mutual friend nagged at you for it, you couldn’t take it. To be honest. You deserved it.

The time one of our friends said he is into architecture lego and you burst out laughing insulting that legos are for children. You said the only legos you know are those big bricks for kids. You didn’t know there are legos in the shape of worldly landmarks. Isn’t that general knowledge?

The time you said the bto in clementi is only 100k. I’m not sure what world you are living in.

It’s OK to not know stuff but instead of brushing up on your general knowledge, you spend all your time reading love novels.

The time when I said I needed to buy a bulb because the one at home blew. You said to call and electrician. Not sure this is lack of general knowledge or common sense. I’m guessing your mum does everything for you to the point you never had to take care of anything. You don’t even buy your own shaver.

Due to your very poor general knowledge  I have to stop every 5 mins in our conversations to explain things to you. I was okay with that in the past but I’m getting tired. You have the general knowledge of a 10 year old.

For all the times you blamed everyone instead of yourself. Hey. It’s never your problem right?

You make reference to Disney characters maybe a quarter of the time. Don’t get me wrong. I’m like Disney too.

The time your gf had enough of you and broke up with you. You called me and said the girl must have been brainwashed to break up with you. Seriously?? Brainwashed?? I think she had been brainwashed to stay so long with you lol. Instead of looking in the mirror you trash your gf the first chance you got?

You cna never be trusted to do anything. You have no sense of responsibility. You have never taken care of anyone or anything.

You colleagues are so nice to pick up after you screwed the projects. Most people who have been fired.

There is so much more…

You need to grow up man. You have lost all your friends. No one wants to talk yo you. No one wants to hang out with you. Your ignorance is just unbelievable. Don’t make me leave you too. I’m getting tired of you.

Revently I get frustrated everytime I talk to you. I really try very hard to not to. What should I do?

GIRL NOT SURE IF HER BOYFRIEND IS BECOMING A GOLD DIGGER

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A girl shared that she is not sure if her boyfriend is becoming a gold digger.

Here is the story

I don’t know if my boyfriend is becoming a gold digger or if he just doesn’t love me anymore…. We have been dating for 11 months now. Both in our early 30s, working full-time and financially independent. For context our salary are in the same range (4-5k). However, our backgrounds are vastly different. He had a more frugal lifestyle while growing up. This did not matter to me at all as I very well knew that I was fully capable of supporting myself financially.

But recently I felt that he isn’t putting in as much effort as I am and it feels like he is becoming a gold digger. We planned to dine at a japanese restaurant for Vday, he knew I was looking forward to it. But he cancelled on me last minute and the reason was he had to console his friend who broke up the day before (guy friend).

That was when I realize, I am never his priority. He had to console his friend while abandoning his girlfriend on Valentines? I was angry and we had a fight. He ended the fight by saying he will make up to me on the 15th. So on 15th we had dinner and exchanged our Vday gifts. Now this is the part where I got really angry. Obviously on Vday there should be effort put in from both sides no? I bought him a shirt and necktie from a high-end brand.

But guess what he bought me? Just a few normal chocolates and 1 stalk of flower. Not saying he has to get me something expensive from a high-end brand too but at least show me that he had put in the effort to get a better gift, especially when he knew I will be getting something in the mid-range for him. We had agreed on a $100 budget each for our Vday gifts too! Plus it is also not the first time that this happened.

For Christmas last year I got him a Secret Lab chair (he kept hinting that he wanted it, saying things like “If only I can get a SL chair for Christmas”. He did not just say say only as afterwards he kept showing me the picture of the chair he wanted). 2 weeks before Christmas, he accidentally went into my inbox and saw the order confirmation mail so he already knew I bought the chair for him. In return he gave me a pair of Nike sneakers.

Often I would also buy food and desserts for his family when I went over. But when he comes over to my place, he never once bought anything, at most he only bought 2-3 packets of food when we had dinner on New Year’s Eve.

Yesterday, I confronted him about the differences of our spending for each other but he brushed it off by saying he was brought up to be frugal, cannot change one. When I asked him if I should lower the price of my gifts to him to match his, he said no he rather receive expensive gifts than cheap ones that he will not want or use.

I don’t know what to do, I still love him but it feels like he don’t bother to put in effort as he enjoys the feeling of just receiving and not giving. But it can’t be only one party giving in a relationship right. I also cannnot understand why is his friend more important than me on Vday. I don’t feel loved by him anymore. What should I do?

DRIVER OF CRASHED CAR APPEALING FOR WITNESSES FOR ACCIDENT @ AMK

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A motorist is appealing for witnesses for a a vehicular accident that happened at the junction of Ang Mo Kio Avenue 1 and Avenue 6.

The accident happened on 16 February at about 7.20am, involving a Volvo and a Subaru.

Here is his statement

Hi all, i would like to appeal for witness to an accident this morning at the junction of AMK Ave 3 and 6 at 0720, 16 Feb 21 between a Volvo and Subaru.

I was going northbound along Ave 6 with the green light in my favour, when the other car making a discretionary right turn crashed into my vehicle.

The other driver now claims that i beat the red light and refuses admit guilt. Unfortunately, the sdcard in my in-car camera got corrupted when i removed the card while the camera was still on.

If anyone witnessed the accident and have a footage would you kindly be able to link up with me. Thanks!!

WOMAN’S FIANCE LAUGHED AT HER FACE WHEN SHE TRIED ON LINGERIE

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A woman shared how her fiance laughed at her face when she was trying on lingerie for him in bed.

Here is the story

Fiancé laughed in my face when I wore lingerie, then told me it was stupid.

We were on a perfect vacation with my fiancé of 6 years (been together 10). Our intimacye is relatively dull, which is on both of us, however we were on a pretty good run this trip.

We came back from a nice dinner, few cocktails deep. I took a shower and literally shaved every inch of my body and was about to throw on my normal shorts/tank for bed. Instead I grabbed a piece of lingerie I brought (I’ve maybe worn lingerie a couple times for him and he’s never seemed crazy into it, but at least we would have gotten intimate and act impressed with the gesture, etc) lingerie tends to make me feel a little more confident. Sometimes I feel like a little boy and have insecurities around that, which he is very well aware of. Lingerie at least makes me feel a little more womanly.

Anyways. I walk around the corner and he literally just starts laughing in my face. I go over to the bed and try to keep the mood going and ask why are you laughing? He proceeds to tell me “lingerie is stupid and he doesn’t like it”…

I’ve never felt worse in my life. I took it immediately off and put my shorts and tank back on.

Frankly at this point I’m almost stunned for being ridiculed.

Fast forward I roll away and cry myself to sleep.

Next morning, I still can’t shake it. I’m crying in the shower and he hears. We try to talk, I explain the lingerie makes me feel a little more womanly because of my boyish body… he just continues on that I look better without anything on (which I appreciated), but no matter how I said it he would not acknowledge what he did was very hurtful and why lingerie may make me feel good.

I keep getting spells of just wanting to cry. I feel so aweful about myself, I threw all the lingerie in the trash and just told him I needed some time alone at the pool.

Am I being crazy for feeling this defeated? I feel so unheard and I also feel like any other guy on the planet would have been appreciative and at least tried to make me feel better after laughing in my face.

BF WANTS SURPRISE PROPOSAL TO GF, BUT SHE ACCUSES HIM OF CHEATING

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It started a few months ago. I started noticing small things that seemed weird to me. He would hide his phone and change the password constantly. He kept switching from numbers to a weird design to numbers again. Whenever I would catch him on his computer late at night (he’s an insomniac and sometimes spends entire nights in the living room watching stuff on his laptop and headphones) he would shut it real quick. Anytime I would ask about it, he would brush it off or change the subject or reassure me it was “nothing to worry about” or “work stuff”.

He was always super good at sending me surprises like flowers at work or funny memes while I was visiting family and he couldn’t tag along. But a few times when I got really upset about the weirdness he would take me out to eat at nice places or places I really like even if he doesn’t like them much. It just sorta felt like he was trying to cover tracks and make me forget why I was upset. He would even do extra chores around the house (since we split 50/50) so I could just put my feet up after work.

There were also times he just seemed super excited or happy but when I would ask about it, he would stammer through some lame excuse like he didn’t realize I was there to see or had to think up something fast. Something was just gnawing at my insides because I just knew he was keeping something from me. But I just didn’t have the proof.

So earlier tonight we had my sister and her husband over for dinner. I was sitting talking with them while he went to grab the dessert from the kitchen but he was taking so long that I went in with my sister to see what was up. That’s when I heard, “yes, let’s do that…..no, I think we’re good, she doesn’t know anything.” And he sounded so proud that “she” didn’t know.

And it was like everything just came crashing down because I thought, that’s it. That’s my proof. And I started crying and my sister jumped to the same conclusion and started yelling. Then I started yelling, pointing out everything these last few months and she yelled some more. Her husband watched from the dining room, wide-eyed and totally freaked out too because his wife was. After we all finished yelling at him, while he was on the phone, he said, “Mom I have to call u back” and hung up.

He just….offered me his phone with this weird look on his face. On his phone were plane tickets, tickets for tours and a concert, hotel reservations, an email exchange with my boss about approving time off for me and a picture of a ring sent to his mother. The tickets were to a place I have always wanted to go. The tours were for things I wanted to do.

My brain went blue screen, I couldn’t even think and he went into our room and locked the door. He won’t come out and he won’t talk to me and I can’t even text him because I have his phone which his mom is blowing up and asking what happened, who was yelling, is he ok….

I’m a bad person. I know this. I had no real proof like pictures or emails or texts or anything. What can I do? Can I fix this? How do I even begin to apologize? I’m so lost and my sister has no idea what to say or do either. I feel so fucking awful. I just kept remembering all the stories of women who let go of red flags or dismissed weird behavior only to find out the guy was cheating, and it built up so far into my head that it just spilled over. My gut was telling me he was hiding something and he was, but it was not what the panic in my mind told me it was.