I started seeing this girl recently. No idea what her salary is but my best guess is it’s a comfortable amount and around a third of mine.
She is very nice to me and makes me very happy. Not that it matters to me but she is also very submissive and listens to everything I say. She is also incredible in bed.
Here’s the weird part. We’ve been to nice restaurants twice since we started dating and she has never offered to split the bill or even thanked me when I paid. All our other dates have been free of charge activities. Normally most girls will pretend to reach for the wallet on the first date or offer to pay on the second date or offer to get you dessert or movie tickets or something small. Or at the very least express acknowledgement and appreciation. None of that from her.
I don’t expect a girl to split the bill with me but some token form like the examples I listed I think is normal. In the past, I’ve also stopped dating girls if they behave like this past 3 dates. I do like this girl though and so far in all other aspects, she is really good to me.
What do people here think of this situation and the way she is behaving?
Is there also some good way for me to bring this up? I am also concerned bringing it up might ruin the relaxed but fun dynamic between us.
A woman posted on Facebook claiming that a dog groomer has mistreated dogs who are ungoing haircuts at the Fur Room.
In her Facebook post she said:
dited: Avs has contacted me , fast n speed response. Thank you IO in charge, never failed me b4
Posting on behalf
Looking for owner n awareness
Voices need to be heard n create awareness, I cannot keep silent when someone need help by pm me this video while trying her best way to help this poor poodle.
Owner of the shop can you address to this ?
This happened yesterday 23/10/21 around 6.26pm) The Fur Room
As a pawparent we are sending our pawfamily to enjoy the grooming session and not for them to cause distress, traumatised , injuries, mistreating
From the video , there is no disobedient or misbehaving of this poodle. A metal comb can be seen hitting the poodle too. Rough handling by pulling hard combing the poodle head.
Pulling and lifting up the tail ( are you handicap)
Video can be seen when the poodle fall from the ground , the groomer act as normal, no checking on the poodle condition. Strangling the neck instead of holding the chin to cut
(Video won’t tell lies , it showing the solid evidence)
Even if any dog not cooperate during grooming session, as a grooming industry I am aware that you are trained professionally on how to handle in a gentle way.
This is so uncalled . No animals should be treated in this manner. Zero empathy towards handling of animal
We, as a owner, we giving you fully trust that you taking good care of our lovely pet.
Who should we entrust and losing faith finding a good groomer by publishing only a good image on your shop ?
Pulling Tail damages spinal cord
Tail pulling will cause damage on the spinal core. Rough handling will causing stress to the animal. Fall from the grooming table will cause injury on their leg. (There is cases happening in Malaysia that a poodle being hanged on the air and death when only a collar using on that particular dog). Rough handling by two groomers pulling tail (Showing only a handicap person doing this). Treated like toy WTF
If you have no patience grooming a dog, you are NOT FIT to be a groomer and OUT in this industry . You need to be passionate to join this industry so you can keep up your good work , mutual trust and build long relationship with your clients. So you think the animal don’t have a voice to speak for themself, you can do anything you like .
There are many cases happening behind the wall , the authority should look into it and this case must be look into it . A mandatory CCTV must be installed at all angle except cashier counter n toliet submitted to the relevant government department daily at the end of the day’s to ensure the well-being of dog welfare and safeguard the animals, this applies to all pet industry (daycare, breeding farm, pet grooming shop, dog farm, dog training school) , mandatory to take up course on handling animals and certified before opening a shop
Under code of Pet industry this is violent the rule and regulations
A netizen shared an unsavoury experience that she allegedly had at a bread shop.
Here is the story:
“I heard this *name withheld* having bad review online and a lot people complained that the breads there have ‘green molded’ on it.
Despite hearing that, I happened to just pass by to purchase the breads at this store.
Shockingly, even customer service also very bad, I pay for the bread is like I begging for the food.
The staff there scold people mother, father and scold people crazy while I was trying to talk nicely to her although she missed out some bread from my order that I purchased for.
The staff even throw breads at customers face and even tongs. What kind of attitude is this for a staff!
I (24m) work for as a security guard at a mental hospital
So it’s a regular day at work and around 10am and I get a call from my girlfriend and she sounded distressed she tells me that she fell at work (luckily didn’t hit her stomach).
I tell my boss Kevin (not his real name btw) that I need to leave to go to the hospital to get her checked in the labour and delivery unit. He gives me the go-ahead and I leave and pick up my girlfriend from work and go to the hospital.
It takes two hours everything said and she’s alright to leave. I drop her off and head back to work, only to be told by my best friend that Kevin had said that I shouldn’t have leftover something so trivial and for some reason said that “babies die all time from stuff like that”.
Why he would say that I have no effing clue but it pissed me off enough that I didn’t speak to him for the rest of the day.
The next day I hear him going on about me in the office how I’m always calling in sick and making up excuses to get out of work (I have IBS and have called in twice because of it).
I opened the door to the office and lost my temper at him and told him that he should keep people’s lives out of the limelight in the office and not talk about my kid dying so lightly. What I didn’t realize was not only were there 3 other guards besides him and me there was a nursing supervisor. I got two write-ups for the outburst now I’m on a final warning.
I know I should have taken this up with HR but I lost my head and reacted poorly. This was a week ago I’m still mad and equally scared that I’m going to lose my job at this detail over the way I handled it.
A file from AirDrop was sent to a Taiwanese woman who took the train in Taipei just a few days back. It was a photograph of a man holding his ‘ku ku jiao’. After she discovered what the file was. She looked up, and right before she managed to see the face of the bird man he ran quickly from the scene and got out of the train.
The man was captured on the train’s CCTV
He was unable to escape the law. After reviewing the CCTV footage, the police were able to locate the man by the surname of Chen which lead to his arrest.
The Taiwan police also noticed that similar cases are occurring more often in recent years. They believe this to be a new type of criminal act and have named this crime “sexual harassment digital wireless anonymous transmission graphic information.”
AirDrop is used by suspects to send explicit files in crowds
Police also confirmed that AirDrop could transmit data at a distance of nine meters if two iPhones have the function enabled. If you don’t want to be harassed with information, set AirDrop as “contact only” on your mobile phone.
We hear these stories from time to time and it can be a bit disturbing, about students who are taking degrees working as hostesses or something “even more”.
Here is the story:
I’m not proud to say this so I will share this story anonymously. I needed some advice as I feel kind of wrong doing this.
I managed to pay for my $20,000+ degree in 2 instalments. My classmates knew that I do not come from a well to do family and they wondered how did I manage to pay for my degree in two instalments.
I often lie to them and tell them that I saved up alot of my earnings but when I go out with them… The way I spend money sometimes gave it away.
The truth is… it started out as an innocent waitressing job and I eventually became a hostess as the money was good. But I got greedy and tired from working as a hostess as I’m often drunk.
Studying for a degree is not easy and there are always endless assignments to submit and the deadline is always tight. While drinking with some customers, I told a few of them of my situation and some of them advised me to stop working as a hostess while some others told me to “tahan”
One of the customers actually offered me a deal, he said that I can quit my job and focus on my degree. I asked him “then how would I pay for my degree?”
He said that the deal was to give me a $2,000 allowance a month to be his “girlfriend”. I asked if he is asking me to be his “SugarB”. He said yes… So I asked what I needed to do, he said
“everything a girlfriend does with her boyfriend”
I was tempted but I rejected him.
Degree soon became a lesser concern
Months went by and the stress from studying was getting higher and higher, I met the same guy at the pub again and somehow this time he convinced me. I feel like a soulless doll when he was using me but the money was good.
After 2 months, I felt that I can earn much more than that and I started to do freelance and eventually MIA from that customer.
Freelancing was earning me even more, within a few months I could not only pay up my degree’s fee but also buy good things for myself. I started to think… even with a degree, I will not come close to earning this kind of money until I’m old.
By the time I’m old, I don’t have the energy to have fun anymore. Now I’m thinking should I finish my degree or just do freelance till I can afford my own property. I am really confused, a bit of me is feeling disgusted with myself. But I can’t say no to money.
The Ministry of Health detected 3,174 new COVID-19 cases in Singapore as of 12pm on 25 October 2021. There were 2,843 cases in the community, 322 at migrant worker dormitories, and 9 imported cases.
The weekly infection growth rate is 1.18.
14 additional cases, ranging in age from 60 to 93 years old, died of complications caused by COVID-19 infection. They all had various medical conditions.
