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GIRL SLEPT WITH OTHER GUY THEN BLAMES BF FOR HERSELF CHEATING

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A netizen shared how her sister who lives with her family, tested positive for covid and as a result, her boyfriend has been avoiding visiting her home; and she then called him a coward.

She then invited another guy to her house and slept with him, then blames her boyfriend for herself cheating.

Here is the story

A week ago, my sister tested positive for covid and since then, she has been isolating herself. We share a room but I subsequently moved to my mom’s room. Though there’s only one toilet at home, my mom cleans the toilet frequently. Ever since I told my bf about my sister, he has been avoiding coming over my house.

My bf and I have been together for 6 years. He has always been very caring towards me. 5 days ago, I asked him to come over my house to cook dinner with me but he declined, saying he doesn’t want to risk contracting covid and passing the virus to his parents and grandparents who live with him. But I think it probably has nothing to do with his family because he doesn’t interact much with his family. So I don’t think he truly cares about infecting them. Honestly, I think he’s behaving like a useless coward. It’s just a virus, won’t die what.

I think it’s perfectly okay for him to come over my house because my mom cleans the house quite regularly. But he said we should wait for a week before seeing each other again. We used to meet up almost everyday but for the past week, he would just place my favourite food and desserts at my door everyday without coming inside my house.

And every single day, he would remind me to take the ART test, drink more water and sleep early.  I find him super annoying and hypocritical. If he really loves me, he shouldn’t have acted like a coward right? What’s the point of reminding me to take the test if we’re not gonna meet? What’s the point of placing food at my door everyday when I can order food myself?

So a few days ago, I asked one of my guy friends to come over my house. Because I felt quite lonely, we ended up sleeping with each other. My bf happened to see his shoes at the door when he was placing the food at my door and he confronted me about it. We ended up quarrelling and he got very upset at me for bringing a guy home.

I really don’t understand why he’s so upset. He chose to not come over my house and because he didn’t want to come over, I got lonely and had to resort to asking someone else to come. So this is all his fault. Yet he still had the audacity to get all upset over this. Worst of all, he said I should apologise for what I did. To be honest, I don’t think I’m wrong. It was just an accident so I don’t really wish to apologise but I also don’t want to lose my bf. We have been together for so long and I do love him a lot. What should I do?

Netizens’ comments

  • Please dump your bf. He deserves better. And yes, you should not apologise for sleeping around. Its your “harm’s” fault for being itchy.
  • You are a real piece of work
  • Accident? Y’all accidentally slept with each other ah? Jialat sia. Then no such things as murderers. They accidentally poked people with a weapon when playing tag only. How they know the person will die. Accidentally one leh.

GIRL’S FREE LOADING BROTHER-IN-LAW SPREAD COVID TO HER FATHER, NOW IN ICU

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A netizen shared how her brother-in-law is like a freeloading manchild and infected her entire family.

Here is the story

How do u forgive a relative that brought calamity on your family? (Hope admins post this)

With the recent hot topics of 1) husbands being man-childs and 2) visiting others when in close contact with covid positive ppl, I would like to share my story and get everyone’s thoughts on what I should do.

For context: I live with my parents. My sister, bro-in-law and their son have their own place but live together with us out of convenience. My bro-in-law is nearing 45 years old man. All he does everyday is either sleep/lie on bed after work or play games on his mobile phone. He has never participated in the taking care of his 5 year old son (like an absent parent), never paid for the son’s expenses, so of course, he had also not taken care of his in-laws (my parents). In short, he’s just another big kid.

My bro-in-law recently caught covid, because he works on-site and his colleagues find it a hassle to wear masks. Despite the fact that he got ill and was having a fever/cough/all the symptoms of covid for a few days already, he refused to isolate at his own place and continued staying with his in-laws, refused to see doctors, refused testing and refused medication. He just lie in bed with his mobile games. In the end he ended up infecting his son, his wife, his in-laws, and myself since we are all in the same house.

Now, his father-in-law (my dad) is struggling and fighting for his life in ICU because he caught covid from my bro-in-law. My dad has been faithfully staying home, wearing masks, keeping clean and going for jabs. To think that he has to catch covid this way from his ungrateful son-in-law and may just leave us at any point in time is really upsetting.

At this point idk what to do. Idk how to tell my bro-in-law to man up and start being responsible, take care of his own health so that he stops infecting ppl, and step up to take care of his own family, like how a 45 years old man should be behaving. He’s lucky that my parents have been caring for him and his son all along, but this will no longer be the case with my dad bedridden and my mum old.

I also dk how to forgive someone who brought nothing but harm to my family, and it’s hard for me to interfere in this because I am younger than him and it’s his marriage, but it’s also a fact that my dad is in this critical condition thanks to my bro-in-law. I am worried that I might just punch my bro-in-law one fine day.

Sometimes I think it’s much better to stay single than be in a marriage like this where the husband is nothing but a curse. Is there a hotline that I can call to report people who are covid positive but still goes out infecting everyone? What would you guys do in my situation?

Netizens’ comments

  • You shouldn’t punch him. You will be prosecuted for hurting animals. 
  • Report to police. Since he is absent parent, absent minded, absent intellegence, him not being ard will make little to no difference. Let him isolate in changi chalet.

Disclaimer: This post first appeared on NUS Whispers.

GIRL USED EDITED PHOTO OF HERSELF TO SCAM ONLINE DATE FOR FREE MEAL

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A guy took to Facebook to appeal to girls to stop using their photos to cheat a meal from him, he shared that he met someone from a dating app who looks completely different in real life.

Here is the story

I met with someone new from a dating app 2 weeks after breaking up with my ex, but it was the worst experience ever.

I am a simple man and I look decent (1.8M tall). I don’t need the girl to be especially pretty or chio bu, but just don’t manipulate photos. Especially using photos that cover up too much meat and the real person looks completely different.

I ended up paying for that $200+ Hotel International Buffet and sent her home quickly so that I could go back to work.

For all ladies out there…it’s real simple. Don’t use a photo to cheat a meal, just tell me and I can paynow you so you can eat the buffet yourself.

If you’re not genuinely here for a date, also just tell me you want to eat the buffet only… I am okay one. Just don’t waste my time.

Netizens’ comments

  • I dun mind a free international buffet. How do i contact u to paynow me?
  • can you paynow me for the Hotel international buffet too? haha
  • You can treat me. After buffet I can go home myself. Don’t worry.
  • Is it okay if you can treat me as well? You no need to send me. I will send you back home after that.

MAN BOUGHT A $1.3K LIFESIZE “MY LITTLE PONY” TO BE HIS “WAIFU”

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A man who has a girlfriend, shared how he has secretly bought a $1,350 lifesize My Little Pony plush toy that he calls his “waifu”, and that nobody knows about it.

Here is the story

I just ordered a $1350 lifesize My Little Pony plushie.

I have officially entered full degeneracy mode. I’ve gone down the path of no return to a place that I never thought I’d ever end up.

10 years ago a friend sent me a link to a video. It was My Little Pony. I hated it. My mind instantly rejected it. A week later they sent me another episode, and I told him “not really my thing man”. He stopped. Months go by and half my steam list has shifted from anime avatars and memes to ponies. Screw it I say, I dive in.

I end up liking it the more I watch. 4 years in I like it too much thanks to fan art people draw of the characters. A decade later and here we are.

For some background, aside from this I’m perfectly normal. I even just started a relationship 2 weeks ago with a new girlfriend. It’s not like I am one of those people that obsesses over my pony waifu 24/7. I just really love Luna (the pony). She’s cute and aesthetically pleasing.

And so, as of 2 days ago, I am finally on a list with half my deposit down for a lifesize waifu plushie of her.

I say this here because this will never see the light of day in my real life. If people come over, she will go to the literal closet. She will never come out of the closet if there is even an inkling of company. But I can’t wait to have a lifesize rendition of my favorite lunar pony.

And no, there isn’t a pocket in the back despite most of these having that. This is strictly wholesome appreciation. It’s still beyond insane though and I embrace it.

23 Y.O GIRL BEING TREATED LIKE A CHILD BY PARENTS, STILL HAS CURFEW

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A girl shared how she si 23 but her parents are still treating her like a child.

Here is the story

I’m a 23F but I’m still being treated like a child by my parents.

just a bit of context, because of my parents’ belief that getting a good job starts from getting good grades, my life was all about studying and tuition. since it’s only about academics, I’ve never had any form of part-time job. however, bc of that my parents think I’m sheltered and too naive to deal w the real world (whose fault I was wondering).

now at 23, I’m still treated like a sec sch kid:

  • curfew at 1030pm
  • not allowed to go for sleepover/ chalet even if they’re all girls
  • not allowed to go to bf house even during the day
  • cannot go out too many times a week

Because im already graduating from uni, coupled with the fact that covid robbed me of an exchange experience, i really want to have a grad trip before i start work proper.

so i asked my parents if i could go overseas in dec during my winter break to find my bf (we’re in LDR – long-distance relationship). took a lot of tries before they finally said yes. then they asked me how long im going for. me being dumb, said 6 weeks since that was how long my winter break was and i wasn’t going to do internships or part times. unfortunately, they flew into a rage and asked me why i was so desperate and don’t know how to self-love- they think all men want one thing only, and im just readily giving myself away. this is despite the fact that my bf and i have been together for 2 years at that point and spent one-year doing non-LDR, so we’re pretty stable and it is definitely not a fling.

so i asked them how long i can go for since we’re going by their standards anyway. they didn’t want to tell me becausec I was supposed to feel for myself how long i can go for. they also scorned me for even raising up 6 weeks. in her words she said “if you’re an employee, you won’t ask your employer for two times promotion right”

in my mind i was just thinking wtf im supposed to read their mind? and she’s not my boss, we’re family, im not supposed to say what i really want? in the end, i didn’t go but through shouting, at each other, the answer was 1-2 weeks.

fast forward to now, i try again. this time around take note of the 1-2 weeks limit. i didn’t even bother asking if i could find my bf. i just ask if i could travel to Canada by myself.

  • them: “no”
  • me: “why”
  • them: “why you want to go so badly”
  • me: “just want to travel before i start work since i won’t have time once i start?”
  • them: “you can use your annual leave”
  • me: “then why not now? im not even going w my bf, there’s nothing to worry about alr”
  • them: just shake head
  • me: “so im not supposed to go w bf. not supposed to go w all girls (bc unsafe in foreign country). not supposed to go w other guys. who am i supposed to go w if I can’t go alone?”
  • them: “don’t ask these kind of questions. you haven’t showed us you’re able to think on your own”

just want to ask parents out there/ ppl who face similar situations, what am I supposed to do to be treated like an adult? i know that no matter how old we are, we will always be children in our parent’s eyes and they want to protect us. but i feel like my parents are just restricting me at this point and it’s not like they can control me forever (which they also agree).

i alr found a job once i grad and might be doing part-time internship from now till then so i don’t know how else im supposed to show my parents im trustworthy.

DRIVER KANA PARKING FEE OF $1281.20, NETIZENS THINK HE TAILGATES BEFORE

A video is circulating of a car that was told to pay a parking fee of $1,281.20 by the gantry machine.

Many netizens who saw the video suspect the driver to have had tailgates before, tailgating is an offence that carries a fine of $35 for motorcycles and between $70 to $100 for cars and heavy vehicles.

Here is the video:

Here are what netizens think:

  • Tailgate some more
  • Yes, system showed car hasn’t leave the car park. Could be tailgating or driving away too fast before the system can validate your exit..
  • This person must hve tailgate exit during last visit.
  • Maybe buy other’s 2nd hand car then last owner is a tailgater

GIRL HOOKED UP WITH GUY, WOKE UP TO FIND HIM TOUCHING HIMSELF IN LIVING ROOM

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A woman shared how she hooked up with a man that she met on Tinder and when she woke up in the middle of the night and saw him touching himself and moaning in the living room.

Here is the story

A man I met on Tinder invited me out on a date on Tuesday. I was pleasantly surprised by the flow of our conversation; we talked about every possible topic on earth, understood each other’s jokes, and it felt like we had known each other for years. We shared a kiss that night, and both went home.

On Friday, he reached out to see if I was available to hang out again. I’ve rarely hung out with a new person this much, this soon, but I was really looking forward to it. Why not?!

Long story short, he came over for food and one thing led to another. We got intimate but it was quite bad. I usually try not to think about that too much because I understand that it takes time to get used to someone’s body and how it moves. I figured we could try one more time at a later date, and that I would then be able to assess. We are cuddling our way to sleep.

In the middle of the night, I wake up and notice he is not in bed with me. I thought he may have gone to the sofa (my room can get a little hot), and wanted to take a quick peek to make sure he was okay. As I walked to the door, I froze because I could hear him moaning. And it was growing louder and louder.

Long story short, he spent the whole night touching himself on my couch (multiple times) and moaning audibly, thinking I was asleep even though that makes NO sense and the door was WIDE open. Not only that, but as I stood there in horror, I could also hear him fart through the whole thing.

I quietly made my way back to bed and just laid there, listening to this go all night, without a SINGLE trip to the bathroom. At around 5:25, I was so over it that I set an alarm on my phone to pretend I was getting up. When he heard it, he fell silent. I gave it a minute, then left my room to “grab some water.” I was mortified to see he had used one of my favourite couch throws to cover himself and pretend he was asleep, meaning it probably has some of his man juice on it.

I spent the hours of 5:30-8:30 somewhat pretending to be awake or asleep, and as soon as the sun came up, I pretended I had some work stuff to do and asked him to leave.

I feel extremely grossed out. I am going to wash all of my couch cushion covers. I felt the need to deep clean my bathroom before taking a shower. I’m washing all of my sheets. And may throw out my throw. I don’t know why, but I feel deeply violated by this.

How should I go about telling him that this upset me? Or should I simply ghost him? I just want to be sure he doesn’t put anyone else through this ever again.

MAN UPGRADED TATTOO OF CHEATING WIFE’S NAME WITH A TOMBSTONE

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When me and my wife first got married we got matching tattoos of each other names.

Well recently she cheated on me and we got a divorce. She got her tattoo of my name removed, and I was planning on getting mine removed but then I got a better idea. I called my tattoo artist and I got a tombstone on her name and under it, it says “rot in H”.

When I went over to her apartment to pick up my 8-year-old daughter she pointed out the work I got on my Tattoo. I asked if she liked it, she just laughed awkwardly and that was the end of it for now.

Later that night I’m watching TV with my daughter and my phone start going off like crazy, it was my ex. She was saying how hurtful it was to see what I did to the tattoo, and how I should’ve gotten it removed.

I feel kinda bad after talking to her about the tattoo but well she cheated so she probably deserved it.

Here are what netizens think:

Divorce It’s tough on everyone, but especially on your children. This is an awful thing for your child to see. Whether you like your ex or not she is still her mother. This is a major jerk move

a few wives later and we’ll have a beautiful Cemetery-

as a woman, if I saw a man with this tattooed on his body I would run the other direction. It really does not show a healthy way of dealing with issues.

I wouldn’t date a man with a tattoo like that. No way would I want to be wife number 2 and risk eventually having my own tombstone on his arm.

Yea. I fully get wishing the ex was dead. But not if there is a kid

GIRL “HAVING FUN” INSIDE ROOM & FATHER HEARD HER MOANING INSIDE

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A girl shared how she was moaning very loudly while getting intimate with her boyfriend and didn’t realise that her dad had come home.

Here is the story

My dad told me he was going to be out for about an hour so me and my boyfriend decided to get intimate whilst he was out.

my bedroom is the furthest away from the front door, not to mention we had music playing so there was no way i would have heard him come in.

Anyway, we are doing our thing and we finish and everything but i heard moving outside. I looked outside my room and see him in the kitchen

we were very loud, so i knew my dad must have heard. Because of this i had to think of another reason as to what those noises were.

so we got dressed and i started to pretend to be wailing and crying and be mid panic attack after “hurting my ankle” to make it seem like we weren’t having loud intercourse.

I even went to the extent of bashing my ankle with a metal bottle in order to make it look hurt.

anyway my dad came up after a while of this and asked if i was ok and i explained my fake story whilst still wailing and crying, and i think he may have bought it.

Netizens’ comments

  • He may pretend to believe you but he knows
  • Girl…. He didn’t buy it 😂 sorry…. A for effort on the coverup tho
  • If I was your dad I would be offended at how dumb you think I am.
  • now he thinks you hurt your ankle during it

DRUNKARD HUSBAND DRINK UNTIL NO MONEY, NEED WIFE BUY FOOD FOR HIM

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My husband of 4 years and I work at the same place and get basically the same paycheck ($4k plus). He has a lot more bills than I do because of fines he has to pay monthly and his car insurance is extremely high. So usually I have like $900 after paying my bills and he has like maybe $240ish after all of his half and his other bills.

Just to break it down- we go halves on ALL household stuff- including grocery. But his car and fines is 100% his responsibility and my car is 100% mine.

So on Friday, we pay all of our bills per usual and his buddy asks to go hang out with him. I’ve seen this before and forewarned him ahead of time that he needs to be cautious on spending because I wasn’t covering things when he runs out of money (the last couple of times he went out with buddies he dropped like $140 for food and drinks and I ended up having to pay for his petrol for the next week and he does this at least once a month, sometimes twice).

He said that his buddy was covering dinner and paying for petrol because he was driving a bit over an hour to get him so it wasn’t an issue. Alright, no problem.

Well, he gets home on Saturday morning around maybe 4ish via taxi and tells me he was too drunk. And then he tells me that he spent $80 at the bar and that the food cost him almost $60 and his friend never gave him money because he “forgot”.
So $140 not including the petrol cost.

I went with him to get his car later, wasting $30 on a taxi. At this point, he only has $40 left. Which he used for petrol for work. Well, he ended up asking me to get him food for lunch (we have food at the house but he “doesnt like bringing that stuff” because it’s “not an easy meal”.

So he wanted me to buy snacks and sandwich stuff as well as buy him body wash and toothpaste because he ran out. It would be one thing if this man had cheaper taste but he doesn’t. He is materialistic.

So the body wash he gets is almost $18, the toothpaste he gets is almost $15 and his sandwiches consists of easily 8 pieces of meat (top of the line ham and roast beef) and two pieces of cheese per sandwich. So collectively this would have cost me nearly $60 and once again wouldn’t have any money left over for myself.

I wanted to get my hair done for my sister’s wedding next weekend and I wouldn’t have the money for it if I did this for him AGAIN. So I told him no. I warned him beforehand and he still went out and spent a ton of money. He says I’m stingy because he “would do this for me”.

Which is up for debate because who knows if he actually would- as I’ve ALWAYS been good with money and never needed his help so who knows.