A friend of a Singaporean guy shared a story with us and wants the internet to judge what he’s doing. He is truly concerned with his friend. But it seems that his friend is blinded by what he defined as “love”.

I would like to share a story of my friend that I have already given up helping. My friend met a Vietnamese girl in a disco and he started hanging out with her. It did not take long for them to become BFGF status, Things started escalating quickly. First I would like to say my friend is not physically attractive, he has very low self-esteem and the intelligence of a buffalo. Initially, none of our clique was bothered with what kind of girl he is with and he is free to “love” anyone until he started to prioritizing the girl over regular day to day activities and started asking us for money.

Girl’s Birthday

It was the girl’s birthday and my friend who just joined the workforce did not have much money. Despite knowing that my friend does not have much money the girlfriend insisted that she wants an iPhone for her birthday or she will break up with him.

My friend began going around and begged people to loan him some money so that he can afford the iPhone, My group of friends explained that a real loving girlfriend who knows about his financial status will not force him to take money from other people to satisfy her materialistic needs.

He turned a blind eye to all of our advice. One of our friend’s who pities him loan him the money. It took him months before he was able to return the money and it did not stop here. In many countries, having an Apple device was like having a branded bag, proud that she had gotten her hands on the iPhone she now wants an Apple Watch from him.

Of course, he bought it for her since he already “invested” so much with the girl, in his terms he defines it as “investment”. In my terms, I called it “Gamble” and “burning money”.

Of course for a “buffalo”, eating where your sh*tting is “investment”

Rental

Having a long-distance relationship is obviously difficult and now the girl wants even more from him. He is now paying rent for her home in Vietnam and despite spending so much money he felt insecure.

Every refusal to her financial needs will result in an argument between the couple, this is no longer a healthy relationship, more like “You pay for my stuff and I will suck your fat d***”.

He would often go to the girl’s Facebook and click on “Like” on every single post to make his presence known to her male friends.

Chinese New Year Coming

In Vietnam, Chinese New Year is just as a big deal over there, when CNY is coming it means that he would need to fork out money for her the celebration in Vietnam, where he does not even attend.

It did happen and she is still leeching on to him today.

A netizen shared a story of how a man continuously shows his branded goods to his friends but turns out it is fake.

Here is the story:

I have a friend who likes to flaunt his wealth to us by showing up in branded clothing during our meetups. He sometimes wears Louis Vuitton clothing or Givenchy and several branded watches.

When we compliment his clothing he would say: “aiya all this very cheap one lah, you all want i give you all lah. I a lot of money”. We were a bit pissed off when he said that sibei hao lian. Then as it turns out the goods he wears were fake.

I was browsing Facebook when a page selling fake branded goods was suggested to me because I have a mutual friend who likes the page. I got curious and click on the page. I could see him commenting on the post that is on the page asking the price and to PM him.

Only after that, we realised not 1 or 2 of his clothing are fake. All of it is fake, when we dug deeper we found out that he is actually on a lot of debts and draw money from his credit card to hao lian to others.

What a moron.

The lesson learned is not to judge people by what they wear, it’s always the quiet person that has the most cash.

22(F) here, my best friend of many years seem to be strung along by a guy. Initially, when they got together, I was kinda sour because I lost a companion, but I was pretty supportive of her.

They had fights, I even encouraged her to try longer, try harder because fights are a common thing. I went to find out some of his histories and it is not very pretty. When I found about the things he did and in general the way he treats her, I just did not like him and tried warning my girl about him.

She immediately pretty much hates me right now and thinks im lesbian

they still had fights and she would be the one begging him to get back together. Like many of the previous posts, she is showing signs that she is just keeping quiet so the guy has no reason to fight with her.

She has one condition if we are to be friends again, and that is to accept and be friends with that lousy guy of her’s. Tried asking the reason why and working around that because it is damn obvious he isn’t anything good and is just using her, and I would never want anything to do with him.

She will not accept anything else and just ghosts me, someone who had been with her for years.What can I do about this if she is someone like my family, is there any way I could even accept that guy?

Its not like I do not accept the fact that she is in a relationship, but its more like, why can’t she just keep her bf out of our things and insists that her bf is to be invited or allowed around me .

She would just shut me out and hate me more if I tried saying anything negative about the guy. And she will not listen to outsider opinion about how she is obviously being led around. that guy just hurts her and she will keep running back to him like she is blind. Help me.

A woman shares her story of the boyfriend abusing her and beat up her all the time. She has since reported the incident to the Police.

Here is what she went through:

1. kicks to my stomach knowing i was pregnant
2. strangled
3. punch in the face and kicked in the rib, cut himself several times on his upper arms and blamed me for it
4. got punched in the jaw, braces tore through my inner cheeks and lips
5. was choked and suffocated and collapsed unable to from being unable to breath
6. had a cupful of water poured on my face while i was asleep and choked be water went into my nose 7 time and broke 2 of my phones
7. Punched me at an industrial park prior to a job interview because i was not walking properly
8. turned off wifi in the house and personal hotspot on mutiple occasions so that i will not be able to contact people, knowing i had no simcard
9. Punched me in the left eye because i wanted to leave the house and go home. popped a blood vessel in my eye and now i have floaters in my eyes & partial blindness
10. Smacked my head and pinned me to the bed causing bruises on my arms and abrasions on my knuckles because i wouldnt wake up to watch a movie with them or follow him to the 7/11 to buy food (i was 8/10 drunk, mind you) this is just the physical abuse. there was much more manipulation and gaslighting but let’s save that for another day ittzy

Four-man were charged in court for running a Telegram group that shares sexual content.

Among them is Wong Ming Ming who is also infamous for writing an article and slamming the SG government for handling COVID-19 clusters such as the KTV.

A Tik Tok user made a video online saying that Wong should rot in jail.

Here is the video:

According to the media release, A 66-year-old man was arrested after he started a fire at a building along Ubi Road.

At 4.05 p.m. on July 11, police were notified of a fire that had broken out in a unit of an industrial building on Ubi Road 1.

The fire appeared to have been started on purpose, according to the initial inquiry.

Before arresting him on Friday, police conducted extensive ground investigations and used photos from police cameras to determine the man’s identification.

He could face a lifetime in prison as well as a fine if convicted of mischief by fire with the intent to destroy a building.

Photos of a Ferrari crashing into a barricade has been circulating on Whatsapp and social media.

The photo invited a bunch of hilarious comments from netizens:

“No big deal. Its just another Toyota to his father”

“He can drive Good car but handle like poor driver….”

“Ferrari owner better buy Myvi car to drive”

The car cost

A Ferrari in Singapore can cost between SGD$880,000 to over SGD$1.4 million. It is unclear which model this Ferrari is but it appears to be Ferrari 812 SuperFast which cost over SGD$1.4m.

A netizen who was driving was shocked when a speeding PMD goes past him and takes a sharp turn to the left.

The YP is speeding to hell’s gate.

PMD riders who use their e-scooters on the road can be fined up to $2,000 and/or jailed up to 3 months.

Repeat offenders can be fined up to $5,000 and/or jailed up to 6 months. Your e-scooter/PMD can also be seized.