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CYCLIST BEATS RED LIGHT, ALMOST TURNED HIS RED PACKETS INTO WHITE PACKETS

A video emerged online showing a near-miss between an errant cyclist and several other vehicles at a busy road junction.

The errant cyclist was seen beating the red light at the junction of Bedok South Avenue 1 and East Coast Road, on 2 February at about 6.58am.

He then escaped being run over by a van by a mere few seconds.

Potential penalties

It is an offence to beat a red light in Singapore.

Drivers found guilty of failing to conform to traffic light signals face a composition fine of $400 for light vehicles and $500 for heavy vehicles.

They also face 12 demerit points and if a driver accumulates 24 or more demerit points within 24 months, their license will be suspended.

WOMAN REFUSES REUNION DINNER WITH IN-LAWS, TOOK CHILDREN WITH HER

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A woman refused to meet her in-laws for reunion dinner because they “die die” want to have it at dinner time and want their son and daughter-in-law (OP’s husband and her) to come back on CNY Day 1, and their (the in laws’) daughters to go back on Day 2.

Here is the story:

To ppl who don’t want to meet in-laws for CNY.

My in-laws are very traditional people where they die die want to have reunion dinner only on CNY eve dinner time (without their daughters) and only want their son (my husband) and I to go back on Chu 1 and their daughters to go back on Chu 2.

Even when we now have children, because of their stupid logic, the cousins cannot meet at their house during CNY.

They have an earlier reunion dinner every year with their married daughters and don’t mind us joining but still want us to have reunion dinner on CNY eve dinner time with them.

We die die have to go back on Chu 1 and don’t mind us joining on Chu 2 as long as we go back on Chu 1.

What logic?!?!

Anyway, my in laws did something to upset me a lot since 3 years ago so enough is enough (with my husband upsetting me too), and this year I told my husband I’m not going for reunion dinner and visit my in-laws’ place and my children will follow me. This has gotta be the best decision made. Lol.

I don’t mind burning relationships so if you don’t mind too, just do it.

HOOLIGAN DRIVER DRIVING DANGEROUSLY TO INTIMIDATE MOTORCYCLIST

A motorcyclist shared how he was pillion riding on his friend’s motorcycle along Ang Mo Kio when a white Porsche started driving dangerously near them.

The incident happened on 29 January at about 3.04pm.

Here is the story:

“On 29/01/2022, we were on Ang Mo Kio Avenue 6 heading to Bishan. My friend was fetching me on his motorcycle.

When we waiting for the traffic light at the junction of Ang Mo Kio Avenue 3 and Avenue 6, a white Porsche with number plate SJA1143R, stopped very near to us.

When the green light came on, the Porsche accelerated very near to us on our left at a very fast speed. Then my friend sounded his horn to warn the car about the dangerous driving.

Then the driver not happy and tried to put our lives in risk. He slows down his speed and doesn’t allow us to take over. (U may refer to footage at 21 seconds). After that, he suddenly emergency brake (25 seconds) and tried to cause an accident. Luckily my friend managed to control his motorcycle. Else both of us lying in hospital now.

After that, from the footage, we can see the Porsche purposely jam braked and stopped in the 1st lane (fast lane), there were no cars in front of the Porsche.

So we take over the Porsche, while we wait for another traffic light, (1 minute 2 seconds). The driver looked like he was in his 30s to 40s.

He opens his car door and half got out of his car + starts insulting us in Hokkien. Like “horn lj horn” + show us the middle finger.

My friend just replied him ” I have a video recording”. Then we continue our journey.

The footage after 1 minute 23 seconds shows how he drove so fast and dangerous (especially 1 minute 43 second).”

BODY OF 64 Y.O MISSING S’POREAN WOMAN FOUND IN JOHOR RIVER ON CNY

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A 64-year-old Singaporean woman was previously reported as missing on 31 January in Permas Jaya, Johor Bahru, by her family.

Her body was found yesterday morning (2 February) floating on the bank of the Pelentong River a at about 10.45am.

Left home without personal belongings

According to China Press, the woman was married to a Malaysian and went to live in Permas Jaya, and she was believed to have left her home on 31 January – she never returned home.

Her family said that she was last seen leaving the home in the morning without her mobile phone, wallet, passport or NRIC (Singapore), and they appealed for help on social media.

Body found in river

The finally received news from the Johor police who found her body floating on the river bank, and they have preliminarily ruled out foul play as there were no signs of injuries – her body will be sent for an autopsy.

The deceased’s family identified her by the clothes worn on the retrieved body.

Investigations are ongoing.

WOMAN WANTS TO CUT OFF ALL TIES WITH TOXIC FAMILY TO PROTECT HER KIDS

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A woman shared how she was not the favoured child and went through a lot of drama growing up, and now the same thing is happening to her children and she wants to cut off all ties with her parents and sibling to protect her children.

Here is the story:

How do you deal with a toxic family?

I grew up in a family that practices favoritism and obviously, I am not the favored one.

As what we watched from dramas, the favored one usually grows up to be less capable and rely heavily on the family for support and help. This is the exact case that is happening in my family.

On the other hand, because of what I have been through, I became strong. I know to be positive, I should be thankful.

But what I have been through – physical, mental, there is no way I can be thankful to them for not letting me starve to death.

So now that I have my own family, I became super protective because I do not want the same abuse to happen to my children.

Unfortunately, things have started to unfold and we are going through the same cycle… This toxic family relies heavily on me to support them in terms of finances and all other family help like reading letters, paying bills, settling the internet, etc.

However, this did not stop them from being toxic to my children and my family. I am on the verge on saying goodbye to them forever and cutting all ties. But I worry they will not be able to cope…

We have had many family meetings to address these issues. But it always bounces back to the same state. It’s pointless to try anymore.

Now there are only 2 outcomes, accept and let my children be victims or break off all ties. I am more inclined to break all ties because I do not want my children to suffer.

SPIRITS OF CHILDREN LIVING IN GUY’S HOME, WATCHES HIM AT NIGHT

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A netizen shared a chilling story of how there are spirits of children in his home who used to watch him at night when he was a child himself, and even heard voices and had his things moved around.

Here is the story:

It’s commonly known within my family that our house is haunted, but my parents don’t like us discussing it with people outside the family, for some reason.

So, as the title says, there are spirits (or ghosts, I’m not sure the difference) that live inside the home.

So the first time I remember seeing them was when I was around 8 years old, my parents wanted to prepare me to become independent at a young age ( and don’t even get me started on that place and paranormal activity) and so started to encourage me to sleep in my own room.

The thing is, after a while weird things started to happen, I started hearing children’s voices, my toys would go missing or move from where I’d put them while I slept and several times I would wake up in the middle of the night with something holding down my arms and legs so I couldn’t move and there was once where a handprint, too small to be my own, was on the side of my butt/hip area.

You might say “Oh that could just be a case of sleep paralysis” or something like that, but I truly don’t believe it was as these things would only happen when I slept alone in the bedroom and not when I was sleeping with my parents or taking a nap in the living room.

This also doesn’t happen to me at all when I’m sleeping at a relative’s house or at a friend’s sleepover.

This is the bit that confirms that they’re child spirits to me, you may think I’m crazy when reading this next bit but I know what I saw. So a couple of times over the years when waking up, or walking into the room, or whatever, I would see them.

This rarely happened. I can only think of 4 times I know I saw them over the years I lived there. I remember each time vividly, the first I was 11 I had woken up to use the bathroom and when I walked back into my room there were 3 boys looking back at me, they didn’t seem sad, or angry or anything like that, they looked at me with confusion and maybe fear, like they couldn’t figure out what was happening either.

I slammed the door and ran to my parents room and I slept with them that night.

As I grew up and had gotten a little “braver” and used to the presence, and my parents later told me that they knew about the spirits.

And when I asked them why they still made me sleep in the room alone, they told me the spirits were harmless, and added “then what? you want to sleep with us until you become an adult meh?”

So yeah, that is my story.

GUY THINKS THAT BODY AND ARMPIT HAIR ON WOMEN IS HOT, LOVES IT

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A guy shared how he thinks that body and armpit hair on women is “hot” and that he loves it.

Here is the story:

I’m a guy but I couldn’t care about what people say, I really love body hair on women. I remember being outside on a warm day once but there was this woman who was wearing a pair of jeans but I got a glimpse of her private hair down there sticking out the top of her jeans, I got so turned on by it man lol.

A bit of body hair is way more attractive than completely smooth in my opinion, even if I notice hair on a woman’s legs or arms I get turned on

I mean, shave if you want but I just find body hair on women attractive, and adult women are meant to have body hair anyway.

Honestly, it’s hot in my opinion!

Netizens’ comments

  • This made me feel less insecure body hair 🙂
  • I had an ex that loved a full bush. And I loved him for that. He disapproved of me even trimming it up. It actually helps when you’re riding on your BF by allowing you to glide rather than being stuck on bald skin.
  • I’ve been so insecure because I had surgery and shaving has been so hard. This made me feel a lot better about it 🙂 makes me feel a lot more positive and almost allows me to stop stressing about not being able to shave atm
  • Some might call this a fetish, but it’s a primal thing that most modern men avoid. Even the aroma is primal, with pheromones and all.
  • I’ve always been so worried focusing on the men who don’t like body hair that I’ve never realized there are men who do like it. It makes me feel less overwhelmed or stressed over shaving. Thank you for existing and putting this out there.

MAN’S “MOTIVATION” JOURNEY, CYCLING FROM 100KG TO NEW WEIGHT

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Weight gain during the festive season is common and many “typical” people will always say that their new year resolution is to lose a few kilograms.

We spend the first months of the year full of motivation to change our lives for the better. This process starts with a lot of willpower and ends, in most cases, with failure.

But a man on his bicycle journey shows you his realistic “motivational” on how he transformed from 100kg to…

Watch the video below so we don’t spoil it.

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The year is already off to a fast start and many of us have already begun our journey to a new, healthier lifestyle. It’s a great feeling to have the motivation to change your life, but it can be difficult to sustain that motivation when you find out how much work it is to maintain a healthy lifestyle.

So how do you stay motivated?

The key to losing weight and keeping it off is to find a diet that is sustainable for you. This can be hard to do because you need to find a diet that you can stick to for the rest of your life.

There are a lot of diets out there that are hard to stick to because they are too restrictive or they put you in a situation where you are very hungry all of the time. If you can find a diet that is sustainable for you, that is the best way to lose weight and keep it off.

WOMAN CONDO ALARM TRIPPED, SHE THOUGHT GOT BURGLAR END UP IS

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Long background story so please bare with me. Im 24 years old and I started living alone 6 months ago. I got a security system, it’s a motion sensor in the living room, & an alarm on my door. Both are turned “on” when I leave the condo.

I only turn off the motion when I’m actually inside hence only leaving the door alarm on (relevant later).

Last week, about 6am, I woke up to this blaring sound I could only compare to police sirens/ambulance. I was half asleep thinking “wow they are literally right outside my window, they’re so loud”. But it wasn’t, I gathered myself realizing it was my dang security alarm. I got up & panicked. All I could think of was shutting it off because it was TOO loud & my neighbours are probably annoyed. It was stupid for me not even thinking about the obvious that something tripped my alarm.

Prior to this, I have never heard it go off as when the company offered to test it, I didn’t bother.

The hub was in the living room so I put my password in to stop it. I stood there & realized that the only thing that could’ve tripped it off was the door opening cause the motion sensor isn’t on when I’m inside. But the front door was locked & I panicked thinking “DID SOMEONE LOCK IT FROM THE INSIDE”. I was frozen in fear, barely woke up & checked the whole place. The security company called me as my alarm is linked to them + police.

They asked if I was ok since it indicated my front door was opened this morning. I did another check inside, still couldn’t explain what happened & thought maybe the alarm tripped on accident. I went outside & a neighbour approached me to ask about the sound this morning coming from my place. She said it woke her up so she peeked outside to check. She mentioned she saw our maintenance guy speed walking away from my apt this morning. She had a ring camera, even showed me the video of him going towards my entrance and couple of seconds later, alarms blaring, speeding away from my apt.

This just gave me chills. I only met the guy once, a middle-aged guy & we had only exchanged a convo when he fixed my toilet 3 wks ago. I called my landlord right away to explain what happened so she called the guy. My landlord calls me back & told me the maintenance guy was gonna fix something at a diff apartment that day & he got the apartment wrong so he accidentally entered the mine, tripped my alarm so he locked my door again and left.

Like wtf? He didn’t even bother to let anybody know? What if I didn’t have an alarm system & he proceeded to go inside the apt while I’m sleeping? And at 6am at that? LL said she was sorry. I have some repairs lined up next week & I told her, I’m not comfortable having that maintenance guy around my place. She’s telling me he’s the main guy in our apts & it would be hard for her to contact somebody else but I insisted there’s no repairs happening unless it’s someone else.

Maybe I’m too paranoid or just not used to living in a condo but this whole thing was scary for me, especially watching the video of him speeding away that morning and not telling a soul about it until I inquired.

WOMAN DOESN’T ENJOY BEING A MOTHER, ONCE TRIED TO ABORT HER KIDS

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A mother of 2 shared how she didn’t want kids right from the start and when her first pregnancy happened, she even set up an abortion appointment.

Here is the story:

I’m 33 and I have 2 kids ages 5 and 3. My husband and I agreed that we didn’t want kids and I was on birth control when the first one happened. I cried for months and we even set up an appt at an abortion clinic.

Obviously, we (mostly me since he was of the “your body your choice” mindset) decided against it. The second happened because of peer pressure and people telling us our first would be spoiled if we only had one.

He has turned out to be the world’s best father. He genuinely enjoys spending time with them, playing with them, cuddling with them, etc. I’m very happy for him that we didn’t end up with a kid-free lifestyle because he was obviously meant to be a dad.

I, on the other hand, am not meant to be a mother. Don’t get me wrong, I love them, I feed them, help them with their homework, play with them, and do all of the things I’m supposed to do… I just don’t enjoy it.

I’m a very solitary person. I enjoy reading and watching movies in peace. My husband is the only person I’m okay with being around all of the time because we can sit on the couch and cuddle while we do our own things.

The kids aren’t like that. They are ALWAYS THERE! Everything feels like a chore when they’re involved and I know I can only fake it so much. I’m constantly scared that they are going to notice my struggles and aren’t going to think I love them or they are going to need therapy or be screwed up, and I constantly feel guilty for not being the best parent I can be like their father is.

I feel like he knows how I feel and feels like he has to pick up the extra slack and be super dad and I hate that.

People say things like “I know some days are hard but enjoy this time with them because in 10 years they won’t want to be around you at all” but it’s hard EVERY DAY and all I feel when people say that is anticipation for the time when they don’t want me around…

Looking back, I know canceling that appt. was the best thing for my husband… and I personally don’t ever think I could go through with it even knowing what I do now, but sometimes I picture our life had I never gotten pregnant. I’m a terrible person.

Editor’s note: This is actually very common and you don’t have to beat yourself about it, feeling like that is absolutely normal. it’s not easy being a mother, and that’s why mothers are the greatest creatures in the world.