A girl shared how she was recently seeing this guy for about 3 months, but thought about leaving him because he is “skinny”.

She said that she is more into muscular guys.

But one time, she saw him buying durians to her home and opening the fruit, bending and pushing the fruit lips apart to get the seeds.

She then said that the sight of him doing that turned her on and made her “a bit wet”.

She is now reconsidering leaving him.

Here is the story:

“Hi, I recently found a guy thru a friend.

We have been together for roughly 3 months. He is ok, I mean he is nice and all that, skinny arms, tall, specky and those nerdy type. We have nice conversations and sometimes we laugh together.

But, I see no future in us.

I think I am more into the more muscular type of guys and at least drive.

But last week, he did something totally unexpected. omg. You know the durian season is here and the people here are all nuts for this.

He suggested we buy some durians and eat at my place. He then chose some durians himself.

omg. I never knew he has these skills.

He declined the opening of the fruit and insisted to open the fruit at home. woah.

once at home, he displayed his opening and cutting skills. You know the part where you needed to bend and push the fruit lips apart to get the seeds? omg, he did with such strength.

I admit, I was a bit wet and turned on. omg, such hidden skills.

what should I do now?”

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A netizen shared how her boyfriend has a really “hot” female best friend.

The best friend then played some p*rn videos and watched it with him and some other people.

Her boyfriend then started talking to her about his best friend’s “vibrant s*x life”, to which the girl then started crying.

She then started having a lot of nightmares about her boyfriend and his best friend doing kinky stuff.

Here is the story:

My boyfriend has a really really really hot female best friend. (AKA the girl that he tells me not to worry about)

There was once, when he was in a gathering with his friends, his hot female bestie played and showed p*rn to everyone. There was no consent. My boyfriend felt extremely uncomfortable but he kept quiet as he was shy and didn’t dare to speak up. I was not present at the gathering.

A little background of myself: I was diagnosed with PTSD last year. My trauma was related to s*xual trauma.

When I first found out about the p*rn incident from my boyfriend, I wasn’t affected yet as the triggers did not blow up back then. I shrugged the matter off.

A few months later, my boyfriend started talking to me a lot about the vibrant s*x life of his hot female bestie. Somehow, I just broke down immediately.

I told him that she is really damn hot. I started to have flashbacks of the p*rn incident. Reflecting back on it, I felt damn uncomfortable. To me, when my partner watches p*rn with someone of the opposite gender, it is a crossing of boundaries.

What’s more, he watched p*rn with the girl that he told me not to worry about. I was so afraid that my boyfriend may accidentally be turned on by his hot bestie, or fantasise about her.

I started to have a lot of nightmares and flashbacks. The nightmares are uncomfortable to me as it’s about my boyfriend and his female bestie doing kinky s*xual stuff together.

Whenever I have such intrusive flashbacks and nightmares, I get so depressed and traumatised. I would cry the whole day. I lost all my self-confidence as well. At the same time, I felt super guilty for being affected by the p*rn incident only months after it occurred.

I kept telling myself that “it’s his female bestie. Why should I worry? Why should I cry? It’s wrong to cry as it happened a while back.”

I started blaming myself for being affected… after knowing that some ppl are okay with their partners watching p*rn with opposite gender friends.

Is it wrong for me to be affected and cry only some time later? Is watching p*rn with friends normal and will you allow your partner to watch p*rn with ppl of opposite s*x?

Any advice?”

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A netizen shared how he had a girl confess to him but he rejected her.

But now, it seems he is reciprocating her feelings but she doesn’t reply him anymore.

So he turned to guys instead, finding a guy to “blow” him, and now he is addicted.

Here is the full story:

“Hey guys, 28 male. Back in uni I had a friend who wanted to be more than friends but I politely told her I wanted to focus on my studies and not into a relationship at the moment instead of me not being interested in her.

But now she doesn’t even reply me.

I’m single and have been meeting some girls on dating apps but usually nothing serious.

Now and then, I’ll go online search for people to meet but the thing is I was kind of surprise when a guy text me asking if I’m open to meet him and enjoy.

Feeling weird, he told me he wanted to blow me and doesn’t need a return.

One thing led to another and now we are meeting once a week and he would just blow me and that’s all.

He doesn’t need me to do anything, he likes what I have to offer.

Initially I told myself I will stop after a few meet ups but I think I’m addicted to it too. While I feel it should end because it is wrong in a way but I just can’t cos he gets me high and always meeting my needs.

Everyone have the urge to satisfy our needs but do you guys think I should stop? Right now, I’m single but I believe I would stop should I find a gf.

Any advice on what I should do at this moment? To stop or keep it going until I find a gf?”

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Several parts of Singapore saw extremely heavy rains earlier this morning.

One tree in Yishun was even uprooted by the rain and almost crushed the cars parked below it.

Thankfully the tree only fell between the two cars and no damaged was caused.

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A man who is 7 years into his marriage said he needs to “release” his frustrations and talk about the non-existent sex life between him and his wife, he then asked if it’s wrong for him to go for a special massage to release his inner demons.

Here is the story:

I am 37yr old male, married for the last 7yrs to my wife, who is a 36yr old female. We had met a year before our marriage and had hit it off instantly.

However, over the course of that year, we figured some negative sides about each other. To the extent that she was opposed to the marriage in the last 2 months. However, after family intervened and a lot of discussions, we went forward hoping for the best.

Cut to the present – we have never had sexual intercourse ever. In the initial years, she didn’t want to, then I started losing interest because of her not showing any interest and now it looks like she has lost all interest in sex. We love each other a lot and care for each other.

I have zero doubt that she is very very emotionally attached to me and cannot imagine life without me, and neither can I – hence separation is not an option at all. Very recently, she has started saying that we should slowly start to initiate our sexual journey – though, it has not been a stage where she is ready to go! Also, she doesn’t like talking dirty or talking about sex stuff much – and I Love it. I have this wish to be a Dom to a Sub, which I used to hope my wife would be for me but looks like all that is surely not a thing to happen in this lifetime. Given my situation, would it be wrong for me to long for an erotic massage just to let myself off? I am a strict no-no for any relationship at all, and I will never want to cheat on my wife. But is getting an erotic massage cheating – especially in my situation?

I see a lot of posts on other sites where people say how their sex life became better after attending a massage, etc. Given that I have zero ideas about sex, maybe a massage session will open me up too? Or maybe it would just be a gateway to explore my fetishes?

A netizen who was waiting for his vaccination at Clementi vaccination centre managed to capture photos of a community cat that came in to have a sit.

The cute ginger cat photos have been retweeted over 12,000 times on Twitter.

The staff had to carry the cat and bring it out.

so this ket came to join the line for covid-19 vaccine jab but he got his ass hauled out shortly 🥺🥺🤣🤣😍😍 SO KEWT!!!!! pic.twitter.com/lUT53GLMgg

— waihong (@ohohwaihong) July 11, 2021

Nicholas Tan Siew Chye, a 25-year-old student from NTU, allegedly trespassed into the campus lobby area and used his phone camera to look into a girl’s clothes.

He is also being accused of taking upskirt photos of a woman in a lift at a block of HDB flats at Canberra Road.

He was charged with 2 counts of voyeurism and 1 count of criminal trespass.

What happened?

Tan allegedly trespassed into the campus lobby on 19 October last year at around 6.17pm, with the intention of annoying a woman there.

He allegedly used his phone’s camera to look under her dress or skirt.

In a separate incident, Tan also allegedly took upskirt pictures of a woman at a block of flats in Canberra Road on 25 February at around 4.40pm.

His case has been adjourned to 16 August.

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A girl shared her story about how she is attached but crushing on an attached guy, because he is going to a top “ivy” for his PhD.

She said that people call her shallow for liking him because of his PhD but asks “is it my fault?” (yes)

Here is the story:

“My feelings for my crush came back strong not only because he is going to a top Ivy for his PhD, but also because of him as a person.

I have observed him taking care of his gf through Instagram since the beginning of their relationship.

He is smart, caring, and truly a gentleman. My bf is nice to me, but he doesn’t have such traits. He did pretty well academically, but it seems to take him so much time and effort to achieve good grades.

My crush, on the other hand, always travels around the world, while still remains as the cream of the crop.

People may call me shallow to have fallen for my crush again just because of his PhD, but there is no doubt that my crush will make it very big (I wouldn’t go into details here), either in SG or USA.

I understand that some of you guys may hate me and think that I am materialistic, but am I at fault for desiring someone better? Same for men who always chase after good looking and sexy girls, why can’t us women aim for someone more successful?

I admit that I do feel guilty towards my boyfriend, that’s why I am trying to suppress my feelings towards my crush.”

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A netizen shared a story about a guy who met her friend on a dating app.

They met for the first time after a week of chatting, after which they went to his house to have s*x.

They then booked a staycay at a hotel which is paid by her, because the guy said that he was using a POSB Kids Account and he was afraid his parents will find out.

They then had s*x in the hotel and he filmed them in the act.

A week later he messaged her that he wasn’t ready to date.

Here is the full story:

“I would like to expose an NUS student holding a scholarship with SMRT.

My friend had met him on a dating app and in early June. After about a week of conversation they decides to meet but it was during the phrase 2 circuit breaker where no dining in is allowed and therefore they went to his house and had an intimate session on their first meet.

Things was going smoothly with them where he came to stay over at her place the following week where she paid for his condoms and took the unused back with him.

They booked a staycation with Hotel G which is fully paid by her. During the 2 days 1 night staycay, he told her that he wants to show her something hot. While they were having s*x, took out his phone and video down the act of their s*x without her consent.

My friend felt comfortable and did not know what to do, and decides to approach me for advice. 1 day after their staycay, she ask him to send her the video and asked her “is it(the video) nice?” She felt humiliated and did not know what to reply to him as they were seeing each other.

The next few days he asked her when are they having their next staycation and send her a zoom link that night to discuss on the details.

During the zoom call, he mention that he could not use his card to pay for the stay as he is holding a POSB kid account and was afraid his parents will find out about the staycay and therefore requested her to pay first and he will return ti her shortly.

However, a week later he send her a long message tell her that he is busy catching up with friends and client and realise that he wasn’t ready to date. My friend was also hospitalised that day and did not inform him so he send her another message to tell her that they should stop seeing each other and he will not be going for the staycation or even paying her the money.

I just want to warn other girls that might be seeing him currently to be careful of him as he is a wolf in a sheep’s clothing.”

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