The guy i’ve mentioned i’ve knows for a few years. we both met through temporary work and exchanged contact info since we had similar hobbies snd interests.
i had a feeling this guy liked me. he was very flirty from the get-go.he’s an alright guy; funny, nice, but i just felt no connection or attraction that i’ve felt in past relationships.
when we first starting talking, i didn’t know how to turn him down. i was 19, had only had a few short relationships, and was stuck in the mentality of agreeing or going along with things to avoid confrontation. i would hang out with him once in a while and then go my separate way.
we recently planned to hang out, and he asked if it was a date. i was straight up and told him no. he asked if he had a chance in the future and i also said no. he was disappointed but said he respected my choice.
i’m proud that i’ve gotten to the place where i feel like i can firmly say no to things i don’t want. i just thought i would share this small victory.
I am a limited edition goods, I won’t accept any dogs and cats and other strays that come to me. I expect a man who is good looking and has a fancy looking car to fit my status.
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The best part is that the more you do it, the easier it gets. Be EXTREMELY proud of yourself. There are people, women and men, who never get to that point in life.
That’s got to feel so good! And honestly good for him for taking it like an adult. Hopefully he meant it when he said he would respect it.
Yeah you’re about to go from limited edition to antique in a few years.