So I have known this guy for a while and I think we have mutual interest in each other.
Recently he told a ‘third party’ that we know mutually that he has several frustrations towards me that I am unaware of.
Some context is that I have a lot of guy friends in my circle. I have known for over a decade, and some I knew would always have my back. We are very playful when we are together because why not? Life is too short to be serious all the time. Besides, we have been like this since we met each other.
So I heard of a few frustrations but to be honest, idk what the whole thing is also la. Like this third party blabbering this that this that. Idk what is this that la. But one thing I can relate to is having fun with my bros lo.
So one day he asks what I am doing, and I being stupid, just say the truth lo. Then you know what? He called me ‘chicken’ ley. In translation is like, you know geylang chicken? Wah I blank out sia.
Never in my life have I met someone so disrespectful. So I got real pissed off, I just stop contacting him.
Afterall you cannot teach someone to respect you when they show zero respect right? Like you cannot explain to a dumbo what is wrong when they are dumb right?
Then hor idk he ki siao or what start showing me he hang out with a group of girls. I’m like okay lo. Fair ma, I got my male friends who am I to comment about him having girlfriends right. But I won’t call him quack quack la cos I am not raised to stoop to the level when they are being rude ma. But biang as I look back still angry sia. After that he said sorry, so tho I am still angry, I decided to letgo la. Ppl make mistakes and we cant always harp on to it.
For the rest of frustrations idk what is the blabbering about. But would y’all give up friends you knew for over a decade or always have your back in life and death situation over someone you knew for a couple of months? For me is a no brainer thing. If I have to choose between friendship and relationship, maybe this is not the relationship right? Relationship is about growing, complimenting etc. The way I see it is like shrinking, devaluing me, demoralizing. Who is to blame? Me lo kiampa.
The funny thing is he said he told me many times he didn’t like this that this this this. whatto??? Like what is this what is that and when huh?? Biang idk ley. halp la. Then I found out he string many girls along and still dared call me chicken??? kns ley. I said aiya you like so much then you go find one of the girls lo. Then he went. Haahha I give up la. Thanks for listening to the rant but would love to hear your thoughts too