not sure how to approach a new gf with a stinky vajajayy
We have been dating for a few weeks. We started having our exercise session around date 3 or 4. After the first time I noticed a smell when we were doing it but just let it go as I know that sometimes it can have different smells.
We have been going for a few weeks now and it just doesn’t get any better, to the point where I haven’t been able to perform because I am so taken back by the smell. It is hard to concentrate on the nut when there is a literal garbage truck smell.
I have noticed myself already getting annoyed with her being around and I don’t get excited to go on dates.
I am not sure if I prematurely asked her to be my gf and am now realizing that we are not meant for each other or if I am only getting annoyed because of this problem I have in the bedroom.
I am trying to figure out how to approach it with her without coming off like a complete a-hole. We are so new into dating that.
Is it even worth it to tell her something so personal and sensitive? Or should I just break it off?
Netizens’ comments
- You’ve got nothing to lose by telling her. She will either take it on board and get checked out, potentially resolving the issue, or she will get offended and break it off, which is where you’re at anyway. Just be gentle.
- Genuinely approach her with concern and say you’ve noticed an abnormal smell. You can say you saw online it can be a symptom of certain infections.
If you frame it as a health concern instead of how it impacts “your nut” you’re less likely to come across as a jerk.
Alternatively you can just break up. - Why is no one talking about how you wrote that you get annoyed with her and don’t get excited for dates?? Sounds like the issue is beyond the smell. When you really have a connection with someone, talking about smells isn’t such a huge issue. It seems like you aren’t that into her and need to break it off.