GUY’S FEMALE FRIEND PLAY PLAY SIT ON HIS LAP, HIS KKJ SUDDENLY STAND & HE PAISEH

Is it wrong to get hard when a friend sits on my lap?
I (M18) have a friend (F18) who I have a crush on. She is pretty flirty and will often sit on my lap when we are out as a group.

The problem is I find her so attractive that I get hard as I feel her bum push against me and it’s embarrassing. I’m pretty sure she would be able to feel it, and I get so anxious about being a creep or her thinking I’m being super inappropriate by getting an erection with her on me.

She hasn’t said anything but I’m trying to avoid those situations now as I know I can’t control myself, I still find times where it will happen though.

Ladies, assuming she has no interest in me romantically, would you be creeped out in that situation?

Netizens’ comments

1. You haven’t tried the line, “Sit on my lap and we’ll talk about the first thing that pops up” before?
   Anyway, it normal so long as you’re not trying to press it on her like some sort of sleaze. The fact you’re worried about it shows you have some respect for women too. That’s a good thing.
   Now just ask her out already. She’s not sitting on your lap for comfort.
2. Often sit on your lap? She might be into you aswell, but ask her about it. The worst outcome is she says ‘no’ and you can just politely say that maybe she shouldn’t sit on your lap all the time, because it sends mixed signals.
3. There is a reason she’s flirty with you and will sit on your lap. It’s almost certain she knows what is happening. Why do you think she hasn’t said anything negative?
   Ask her out already!
4. Gotta say here, as a girl who used to act very similar with a male friend at a younger age… I was praying he’d do something about the flirtation we had. Can’t count how many dreams I had of him taking me off alone and showing me what I could feel I was doing to him.
   All we ever had was flirtation and mixed signals. Even years and years later as a very happily married women, I can’t say I don’t still think about the what if from time to time. There’s a reason friends to lovers is such a popular trope. Because we all want it at some point!