Are men are born to provide?
To the guy who has no ambition.
I don’t blame you for thinking like this. Your upbringing plus your family background probably led you to think it’s easier to give up on life and be on your own. I have many friends who are also like you, myself included. They took the easy way out and chose to stay single for life.
But is it truly the easy way?
You are not career driven or ambitious is likely you do not have the means or ability to do better than your peers in terms of career advancement and income. Let’s be frank here. If you’re earning 15k, 20k a month, you won’t be whining here.
Its easy to say something doesn’t interest you. But the true reason is that it’s something you can never attain. Beneath your fake confidence and nonchalant persona, your low self-esteem is showing. Only someone who thinks they have nothing to look forward to will have no drive or goals in life.
You complain about being in the rat race because you are at the bottom tier and have already given up being better.
Women are not hard to understand.
They want someone who is willing to work together with them for a better future together. You cannot expect a woman to give you her time, body, mind and money while you act like a manchild preaching about them being a feminist.
Do you even know what you’re talking about?
A man who loves a woman will want to provide for her. Either you haven’t met one that you’re willing to spend on or you’re just too selfish.
Then you try to give advice to men on how to be dishonest and disguise their manchild mentality in order to trick a woman into starting a relationship with you. You may be able to trick one or two. How long do you think it’s going to last the moment they know your true intention? Men like you are the reason why some women look down on us.
I’m not married but at the very least I’m honest about my intentions when I’m dating women. When I just want a fling or romantic trip with no strings attached, I am upfront. Short of being a sugar daddy I haven’t had much issues with women who are out for a good time like me. I did have one serious relationship in the past and I have come to the realization that I do not want to start a family. So I will move on quickly if a woman wants what I do not want.
You can’t have companionship without doing the work. Period.