I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years and he still finishes within 5 seconds of penetration
We’re both early 30s M/F. The first time I slept with my boyfriend, he finished before he even fully penetrated. I figured with time and frequent intimacy he would last longer but it’s really just 5 seconds on average.
I maybe thrust twice and he’s done. It’s endearing because I feel he finds me immensely attractive but just not sure if this is overall normal.
I never finished from penetration and overall believe I’m just unable to. My boyfriend understands he finishes incredibly fast so he has a ‘she comes first policy’, where we do foreplay + toys initially so at least I’m satisfied before we decide to actually have PIV.
I’ve had casual hookups with other men during my schooling days and sometimes it was so long that I got tired and didn’t feel like doing it anymore and they never actually would finish either (neither did I since I cannot cum from just penetration).
When I told my boyfriend about how other guys in my experience sometimes wouldn’t finish and how our hookups would last a long time, he said alcohol + excessive adult video watching makes finishing in the actual moment difficult.
He doesn’t really watch AV so when we do sleep together (~once biweekly) it’s his only stimulation and not sure if this is why?
Anyway just wondering if others have this experience as well? Im overall neutral to this issue but it’s just different from my past experiences so I’m curious.
Netizens’ comments
- Have him finish earlier in the day so that it’ll be round two for him by the time you start. Hopefully that’ll help.
- Curious question. Do you guys use condoms? If not maybe possibly trying one. Could possibly help reduce the feeling with penetration. Maybe try finding some thicker ones.
- This might be an unpopular opinion, but once every two weeks is infrequent, IMO. You do you, but he may need it more frequently in order to extend his time. If my husband and I don’t do it for a week then he climaxes very quickly, but we usually go about 3 to 6 times a week and he lasts much longer.