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BF REFUSE TO MARRY GF AFTER 7 YEARS OF DATING BUT WANT BUY HOUSE WITH SIBLING INSTEAD

My bf (33M) of 7 years won’t commit to me (33F)

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I (33F) have been with my boyfriend (33M) for 7 years, going on 8 years in September. Not sure if this is too pertinent to my case, but we have known and liked each other since we were 15 years old and reconnected later in our mid-twenties.

Anyway, in the amount of time we have been together, we have lived together for 4 years and have a dog together.

To this date, he has not proposed to me, nor do we have any kids. We have previously talked about kids, but he worries about not being “ready” and we haven’t really touched the topic of marriage.

We just had a small argument over how he still has all his personal mail go to his mom’s house, and nothing that goes to the home we have shared in the last 4 years.

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Most recently, he tells me how he plans on buying a house with one of his siblings. It made me feel a little bad because I have been waiting for him to want to buy a house with me.

I can’t help but somehow feel he is not committed to me. When I playfully pester him and ask him “Why do you love me” he gives me dumb childish reasons that don’t feel genuine.

I would move the stars and the moon for this guy, but deep inside I feel he will not do the same for me. As a woman I feel my time is running up. I want the kids, marriage, or even just the damn commitment.

At this point, if he proposes, I will not accept it because why now, and not earlier? It makes me feel like a last resort. I know he may love me, but I feel he does not love me enough.

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