Boyfriend won’t have S with me
So I’ve been living with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we never had a lot of S. We were long-distance for a while and then when we moved in together S was maybe 3 times a week.
Which was fine with me, that’s my sweet spot. But now he refuses to have S with me entirely. I ask him about it and he just says he’s tired and even when he’s not tired that he just doesn’t feel like it. I told him I couldn’t possibly go on like this as we talk about getting married and having kids often.
Yet despite our trying to schedule it and our talks, he continues to put it off. He assures me it’s not me and I do know that his S drive isn’t very high but I’m not sure I can do this anymore. I even got on birth control so we could do it unprotected and still… nothing.
It’s all gotten to a point where it’s not healthy at all, I end up angry and frustrated and feeling awful, my self-esteem gets thrown out and he feels pressured and stressed which doesn’t make it better. I just feel like I’m sick of waiting and waiting until he feels like it and keeping my mouth shut and repressing all of my feelings.
Plus, he thinks I’m his mother. I don’t know I love him but I’m not sure what to do anymore.
What am I doing wrong? What should I do?