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WOMAN FOUND OUT FIANCE TOLD HIS FRIENDS THAT HE THINKS SHE’S “TOO FAT”

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WOMAN FOUND OUT FIANCE TOLD HIS FRIENDS THAT HE THINKS SHE’S “TOO FAT”

A woman shared how her fiance has been talking behind her back and telling his friends that he thinks she’s “too fat”.

Here is the story:

“My fiance told his friends that he thought I was too fat.

To these days I still consider meeting him to be the luckiest thing that ever happened to me. I have been a fat girl since I was a child. During puberty, I became heavier due to the many hormone medications I was taking. I have always had problems with body image anxiety.

When I met Neil, I was at a low point in my life. Two years after graduation, I still couldn’t find a decent job and was working three part-time jobs. When we started dating, we quickly moved in together, and although I covered most of the expenses, he kept trying to split the costs even though he didn’t have much income. He also encouraged me to go back to studying to get a better-paying job, so I went back and got my master degree.

I always thought our relationship was very strong and that we had each other’s backs. The biggest argument between us was before covid, I had an unplanned pregnancy and Neil wanted to keep the baby, but I was just starting out in a business and I didn’t think it was a good time to get pregnant, so I ended up opting for an abortion. He was reluctant but respected my decision. He mentioned the baby several times afterward. I’m sorry about that, but I don’t regret going through with the abortion. Other than this incident, we hardly had any conflicts.

We got engaged last year and moved close to his parents. Since we moved there, he has been hanging out with his friends a lot. I was alone at home.

One day I met his friend’s wife while I was out and we spent some time in a cafe. She said, “I don’t know if I should tell you this, but Jiahao (Neil’s friend) said that Neil had said a lot of bad things about you in front of him. Neil says you’re too fat and selfish and there’s no point in getting another degree.”

I was shocked and confused because he had never said those words to me before. I was already fat when I met him, he was in great shape and went to the gym a few times a week, but he never asked me to lose weight. He also didn’t shame me when I talked to him about how I wanted to go get another degree.

Neil didn’t know I knew about it, he was still talking about the wedding and the house, and he told me he hoped I’d get pregnant soon because I owed him a baby. I have absolutely no idea how to handle this. Should I tell him I know all about it? I honestly love him so much and I don’t want to leave him.”

Editor’s note: Confront him about it.

MAN EMBARASSED & BLAMES WIFE FOR FAILING TO KEEP HOUSE CLEAN

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MAN EMBARASSED & BLAMES WIFE FOR FAILING TO KEEP HOUSE CLEAN

I am the breadwinner, my wife is a stay-at-home wife. We have 3 kids so the house is a little too messy oftentimes. My wife does her best to keep up with the cleaning and keeping the house tidy and I feel for her, I really do so I told her she doesn’t have to clean up all the time since the kids are running up and down all day and making huge messes, I did tell her that she only has to make sure the house is clean when we have guests over and she agreed with me.

Well, the other day I brought over some friends from work and when I opened the door all I could see was an utter mess, food and toys and clutter everywhere. I was shocked I was embarrassed and just mortified that my friends saw my home looking like this. Also I have a couple of guys who came over for the first time so the first impression must’ve been horrible to them.

I took the guests into the least messy part of the house and my friends kept giving me weird looks and making indirect comments about the state of home.

I was livid, I waited till they left then went into the bedroom to see that my wife was actually sleeping, I woke her up to ask why she didn’t tidy up the house knowing I was going to bring friends over. She said she didn’t know but I sent her a text letting her know and she said she didn’t see it. I told her it seemed like she did see the text but decided to ignore it? She said no but she wasn’t feeling well and had a headache so she thought of getting an hour long nap. I told her that it was so so embarrassing that the house looked like this when my friends came over and that this was avoidable had she cleaned up and prepared the house for the guests.

She argued that first of all, the kids are the ones causing this mess and second of all, it was my fault for not checking twice with her and making sure the house was ready for guests. I thought that was ridiculous because she was basically blaming me for her own actions (or lack of) which I didn’t appreciate so much. I told her it was embarrassing and yes she gets part of the blame for the house looking like a complete mess and being out of control like that. She called me a jerk then walked out of the room and avoided speaking to me about it insisting that I’m the one at fault in this situation.

Am I?

I feel like more relevant context is needed here so 1. The reason I only texted was that this is our usual way of communication so it seemed unusual that she didn’t check her phone for any texts.

My kids are under 10 and my oldest is basically glued to her tablet and does nothing to help out.

My wife and I rarely argue about the guests coming over since we would at least have the living room ready any time someone shows up.

GUY HAS CRUSH ON COLLEAGUE, CANNOT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER

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GUY HAS CRUSH ON COLLEAGUE, CANNOT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER

A guy shared how he has been having a crush on his colleague for the longest time since the day he joined the company.

He has been working in the same department as her for two years as of date but can never confess to her because she is happily married and shares a loving relationship with her husband and only treats him like a colleague and if anything more, just a bro.

He adds on that he cannot stop thinking about her for most of the day and always imagine both of them together in different life scenarios.

Here is the story

“There is this girl at work, living rent free in my head. I just keep thinking about her in various scenarios. I don’t find her very attractive, she just has a good personality and fun to be around.

She is happily married to a guy and they share a loving relationship and also only treats me like a colleague and if anything more a bro.

Every time she calls me bro, my heart just breaks a little.

Honestly, I am not someone who will break a loving couple up and there I won’t want anything to happen with her, though I won’t mind sleeping around with her if I ever get the chance.

However I don’t see that happening either and I’m also honestly fine with it.

Just need to get her out of my mind asap as it is mentally draining for my emotional state living like this.”

Editor’s notes: Images used are for illustration purposes only

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PERFECTIONIST GUY LOSES FRIENDS BECAUSE THEY CANNOT STAND HIM, NOW WANTS TO CHANGE

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PERFECTIONIST GUY LOSES FRIENDS BECAUSE THEY CANNOT STAND HIM, NOW WANTS TO CHANGE

A guy shared how he has always been a perfectionist in everything that he does and finds it hard to accept anything that is not up to his standards.

As a result, he lost many friends throughout the years who cannot stand his attitude and his way of getting things done.

He now has not much friends left, and is seeking advice on how to change his perfectionist attitude as he does not want to be without friends to go through life experiences with him.

Here is the story

“I have this habit of doing things with utter perfection. Maybe, I just can’t take criticism or maybe its my perfectionist attitude that makes me want to do everything super nicely.

As a result, many friends have fallen out with me throughout the years.

All of them before parting ways with me have told me that though they admire my character of being serious in my work and trying to always make my work perfect, they do not like my perfectionist attitude in terms of my friendship with them as friendship is all about give and take.

I can understand while they think that way but I just cannot stop myself from having this kind of perfectionist mindset even for the most trivial things.

Years have passed since I last had someone which I can really call a friend and I feel like I want a change to stop this perfectionist mindset and character of mine.

How do I stop being this way???”

Editor’s notes: You just have to accept the fact that there is no such thing as a perfect world.

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GIRL BECAME 3RD PARTY IN GUY’S RELATIONSHIP, SAYS SHE IS A BAD PERSON

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GIRL BECAME 3RD PARTY IN GUY’S RELATIONSHIP, SAYS SHE IS A BAD PERSON

A girl shared how she “can’t believe” that she became a third party in someone else’s relationship and that she feels miserable.

Here is the story:

“Can’t believe this but I ended up as a third party of someone else relationship.

I allow someone who’s attached to date me out, and I allow myself to sink into this.

Every single day I feel miserable thinking I am a bad person, but yet I find myself being so intellectually and emotionally attached which is so hard to come by.

I am completely wrecked.”

Editor’s note: Well no arguments there, you deserve to feel wrecked for ruining someone else’s relationship.

Netizen’s two cents

A netizen commented on the girl’s post with some words of advice:

“You are indeed what you think you are, if you carry on this relationship.

Are you waiting for him to give up his official relationship to be with you? If you are willing to be underground, why should he make a choice when he can enjoy both worlds or even a third willing one if one comes along?

If this guy can two time you and the other girl, he can do this even if he really leaves that girl “for you”. And it will never be “for you”, it will always be “for him”.

He is a downright jerk and you allowed him to be one.

He will be everything you want him to be, for you to feel the “intellectual and emotional” connection, because he does not need to commit to you at all and there’s no reality that he needs to deal with and with you, he can be the oppa and be the romantic lover you think you need.

You have some conscience to feel miserable but not enough conscience to get yourself out of this ditch.

I can only hope that he is not married and you’re not breaking up a marriage, or even a family with kids.”

GIRL MATCHES WITH CLINGY GUY ON TINDER WHO WANTS TO MEET IMMEDIATELY

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GIRL MATCHES WITH CLINGY GUY ON TINDER WHO WANTS TO MEET IMMEDIATELY

A girl shared a story of how she once matched with a certain guy on dating application Tinder and the guy asked to meet up straight away.

She told him that she will consider because she was performing in a show as part of a band.

The guy then told her that he goes to watch performances quite regularly and asked her where she was performing.

Thinking that he had an interest in watching performances, she told him the venue and he turned up as he was very insistent on meeting her.

Here is the story

“I once matched with a guy on tinder and he wanted to meet up later on that night, I told him I’ll let him know because I’m playing at a show (I was in a band).

He asked where the show was at and I told him the location because he went to shows occasionally.

I got to the venue, switched off my phone throughout (to conserve battery), switch it back on after my band played and I see tons of missed calls and texts, he insists that he really wants to see me and next thing I know I see him walking towards me.

He was like “you! I need to talk to you” in front of all my friends and me.

I went to a corner with him and told him he shouldn’t have come here.

So uncomfortable and embarrassing.

Eventually my friends told him to buzz off :)”

Editor’s notes: Must be your Tinder picture too pretty that he can’t wait.

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WOMAN ‘DID IT’ WITH HUSBAND’S BROTHERS & FATHER BEFORE MARRYING HIM

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WOMAN ‘DID IT’ WITH HUSBAND’S BROTHERS & FATHER BEFORE MARRYING HIM

A lady shared a story online on how she had intimate relations with her husband’s brothers and his father before marrying him.

It happened in different phases of her life from starting from when she was still studying in University.

Fast forward to today, she is 33 years old and happily married to her husband who she says does not know of what she has done with his family members in the past and will probably never find out as she has no intention of letting him know.

On the other hand, he has never asked her about her past.

Here is the story

“I had relations with my husband’s brothers and his dad at different phases in life, starting from when I was studying in University.

The following which I will be sharing are in chronological order.

Husband’s Younger brother: He was my first encounter from the family. We both were schoolmates in University. I was a bit wild then and got introduced to him through my friends and we had relations with each other quite often though it was on and off till graduation.

Father in law: I met him when I was in University. I was still active with the brother. It was that brief phase when I was into elder men. I walked into him at a supermarket while we both were in the same aisle. We chatted up and I sensed that he was into me. We checked out and I found myself in his car in a secluded carpark “moving” on top of him in the back seat. We had relations a few more times in his car on different occasions until I went back to sch and never met him again as I had grown out of that elder men phase.

Husband’s elder brother: This was a one off incident when I met him and his friend at a club. We talked and danced and all three of us went to this friend’s apartment for the night where they both double teamed me for the entire night.

After all this, I met my husband through a friend. It was also the phase when I was done with being wild and wanted to settle down. It was love that I was craving now than physical pleasure alone. I went out for dates with my hubby and fell in love with him.

Then when I went to meet his family and I was shell shocked to see his father and younger brother there. And a family photo of all three brothers. I think they were more shocked to see me there.

Neither of us talked about that. My husband wasn’t aware of this and I still couldn’t tell him. I mostly talked to his mother then.

Fast forward to now, I have a normal relationship with them. We have never talked about the past and I don’t think that will ever happen.“

Editor’s Notes: Images used are for illustration purposes.

Editor’s Comments: Wow lady you are one of a kind.

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GIRL GOT INTO NUS WITH STRAIGHT A’S BUT SIBLING CALLS HER SCHOOL “TRASH”

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GIRL GOT INTO NUS WITH STRAIGHT A’S BUT SIBLING CALLS HER SCHOOL “TRASH”

A netizen shared how her own sibling mocked her for getting into NUS while they got into Oxbridge, calling her a “trash person from a trash school”.

Here is the story:

My own older sibling has always looked down on my academic standing. I have always gotten into good schools but never as good as them.

I got nearly straight As for A levels with 1 B but never their perfect As. I got into NUS and they got into Oxbridge.

Recently they told me I’m some “trash person from some trash school” and even if it happened a month ago it still makes me really sad.

I think I’m just ranting here to get it off my chest because sometimes I feel fine but whenever I think about it it makes me sad.

Editor’s note: Life is a marathon, not a sprint. And many times when a person is mocking you, they are projecting their own insecurities onto you.

And what’s the point of your sibling getting into prestigious schools with perfect scores but their characters are dirtier than a rubbish dump?

They won’t make it far in life with their attitudes, be patient and let nature run its course.

WOMAN KENA “TOUCHED” BY HUSBAND’S FAMILY & WAS “EMOTIONALLY” CHEATED ON

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WOMAN KENA “TOUCHED” BY HUSBAND’S FAMILY & WAS “EMOTIONALLY” CHEATED ON

A woman shared how she was molested by her husband’s family member and that there was a 3rd party trying to wreck her marriage.

Here is the story:

“Emotional infidelity is something only when you experience it yourself then you will know how it feels.

My husband emotionally cheated on me 5 years ago and no matter how much I busy myself the thought still comes back to haunt me as and when. I don’t believe he’s cheating anymore and he has corrected his behavior towards women since but I don’t feel settled even when I have access to his phone to check anytime I want. 

A lot of things happened to lead to this. I was molested by a family member of his and it took years for me to expose it and cut ties with this person.

This person had been ‘accidentally’ brushing into my chest/inner thigh/butt over the years when no one is noticing. I am aware he leers at me at times. I dread it when this person is around because he is also a narcissist, talks down and interrupts me everytime. I’m not a large sized person, and the other male family members have always respected my personal space. After the first assault, then I was sure this pervert had been doing it on purpose.

The first time this person assaulted me, I told my husband and was ignored. I know my husband values family ties and he chose to ignore what I said. Things start to go downhill and I stop telling my husband whenever I feel unsafe. I slowly dread family meetings and start to not show up and disguised it as needing ‘me time’ or purposely set up other meetings.

At time goes by, I was seeing a counselor because I cannot cope with daily life. At that time I have this phobia that the pervert will break into my house and attack me for telling the family that he had been molesting me. (I know it’s not possible anymore but I cannot help how I feel at that time)

My husband felt guilty, and was at a loss for cutting off this family member, so he start to indulge in his sports, a female friend joined his team and start to get close to him. By the time I discovered it, the daily texting/flirting had been going on for 6 months and the final month he was meeting and training her once, twice a week alone. I was seeing my counselor for the last session when I found out so fortunately by then I was mentally strong enough to ‘take the blow’.

He insisted he had no attraction because she looked like a man, that’s why he dare to spend time with her because she ‘needed his help’ on how to improve on the sport and he also pitied her so he try to take care of her like a sister. The woman is in her late 30s and going through failed relationships one after another. He just cheer her up as a friend and share manly explicit jokes with her because she kept acting like a man. Then he admitted he was attracted to the talking because we aren’t talking much that time. I feel like he cannot be trusted. He never considered that she was interested in him.

From the texts I can tell the 3rd party was in love with my husband and kept trying to hint my husband to take things further and I can tell my husband isn’t understanding what she want. I cannot imagine if he had more time with her, what could have happened.

I have a few mutual friends who told me to be glad they didn’t sleep together. This is a small issue. If flirt for 6 months and nothing happened, nothing is going to happen. My husband was stupid and won’t do it again. They paint my husband as an innocent blur head who got manipulated by this woman. But none of them have been cheated on like this. Emotional infidelity is so painful. The pain completely wiped away the anguish of being molested and disrespected by the pervert for years.

BTW the woman tried to make contact a year later. Thankfully he told me asap.

When I see shows that mention or show infidelity, I still get triggered. I feel no matter how much our marriage has improved, how sweet, loving, attentive my husband is now, there is still a part of me wondering if he will cheat again when times get tough.”

RUDE AND SMELLY PASSENGER ON PLANE, OTHER PASSENGERS DISGUSTED

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RUDE AND SMELLY PASSENGER ON PLANE, OTHER PASSENGERS DISGUSTED

Air travel can be a fascinating experience, but sometimes, one encounters disruptive and unpleasant individuals who can turn the journey into a nightmare

Disgusting Passenger Onboard! Dealing with Difficult Air Travelers

A netizen who was on the plane encountered an unruly passenger on the plane who treated the plane like her backyard.

The unfortunate story begins with a passenger who displayed outright unruly behaviour right from the moment she boarded the aircraft. Upon being asked to fasten her seatbelt, she refused to comply and even went on to scream at the crew members, causing discomfort to those around her. Such actions not only violate safety regulations but also create an unpleasant environment for fellow passengers and the airline staff.

As the flight approached its destination and the crew requested all passengers to adjust their seats to an upright position, the unruly passenger outrightly refused to comply. Landing involves precise maneuvers and requires all passengers to follow instructions to ensure a safe descent. Non-compliance with seat adjustments can disrupt the landing process, posing risks to everyone on board.

Aside from her disregard for safety protocols, the unpleasant passenger’s rudeness made the situation even more intolerable. Fellow travelers were uncomfortable with her behavior, and despite attracting glares from other passengers, she remained unfazed.

Here is what the netizen said:

Disgusting passenger onboard !

1. Didn’t want to put on seat belt and scream at the crew.

2. Refuse to straighten the chair when ask to do so when about to land

3. Rude and irritating and smelly! Everyone was looking at her but she don’t care

4. The crew ask her

Crew: “madam , do u want chicken or fish”

CECA “what’s the name of the fish”

Crew: “ it’s a white fish”

CECA “ I ASK YOU, WHAT IS THE FISH NAME???”

What’s wrong with this idiot, seriously!

Conclusion

Encountering a disgusting and unruly passenger onboard a flight can be a challenging and discomforting experience for everyone involved. It is essential for airlines to have robust policies in place to handle such situations with tact and firmness, prioritizing the safety and comfort of all passengers. By promoting awareness, empathy, and adherence to safety regulations, we can create a more enjoyable and secure air travel experience for all.

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