I want to let go of my stupidly high standards because he is truly a wonderful man and I love him, but goodness gracious I just want to dress him myself.
He is currently wearing a pair of vans and one ankle sock with one tube sock lol. In all honesty it is funny as hell in an endearing way now that I think about it.
The other day we went to the movies together and decided to call it a date. Naturally, I do my make up and try to dress a little cuter than I have been lately since we don’t get out of the house all that often.
We leave and he is still wearing the same outfit he’s been wearing for two days. Sweat pants scrunched up to his knees, an old shirt that didn’t match at all and a baseball cap that I can tell is too small for his head (I’m actually dying laughing as I type this because why do I care? He can dress how he wants lmao)
He just looked so crusty. I honestly felt a little embarrassed by it. I don’t think it’s unusual for a woman to want to dress nice for her man so why can’t a man dress nice for his woman? Am I just old fashioned?
Whatever. Like I said I love him and I know I’ll get over it but I had to get this one off of my chest.
so, my girlfriend and I met on discord around 3 years ago. I have always been calling her by her username “doll” so it kinda sounds like a name you would call your partner “doll, darling babe etc”
now we have seen each other’s face, we call with each other all the time and soon I might fly out to meet her but..
I can’t just call her “doll” in real life, in a crowd im not calling out to her as doll.. Now I don’t know what to do or how to ask her..
She never told me her name in the first place, she just said to call her doll but I feel like I should call her by her name
Netizens’ comments
don’t worry they tell you at the wedding ceremony
Does she know yours? 3 years and still not knowing her name is very bizarre. How do you go from acquaintances to in a relationship without even knowing their name? This scenario is weird.
Just ask her real name. Also add that you don’t want to embarrass her by calling her doll in the middle of a crowd.
A story was seen online where a guy claimed that the reason that he was dumped by his ex-girlfriend because she thinks that he is a good for nothing and financially poor.
Here is how the story goes
I was dumped by my ex girlfriend sometime in the middle of last year which put an end to our 6 years of relationship.
For context, I am 33 years of age and she is 25.
We have been talking of getting a house and to settle down for quite a while ever since I got my first ever proper job two years into the relationship when I was 29.
She was 21 at the time and studying in University while doing part time work.
To come out with enough money to get a house and for our wedding when the time came, we decided to save money together by opening up a joint account where we each would put a sum of money in every month.
We had agreed to put 20% of our salary in per month which came up to about $800 for me monthly and $400 from her monthly, something she and I agreed that it was comfortable enough for us to put in every month.
The plan was going well for a good few months till we had about $10,000 in our savings and that’s when things started to turn sour.
I started to develop an interest for online gaming and had most of my other 60% of my salary (since 20% also goes to CPF) on getting the best gaming equipment to have an edge over other gamers while gaming and had not much money left in my personal bank account.
This was when I started to withdraw money from the joint account.
To me, it is my share and I had all the rights to withdraw my share if I do not have enough in my own personal bank account.
Afterall, it is money that I have contributed so there is definitely no wrong in what I am doing.
She checked the account one day and flipped at me and asked to see mine personal account and when she saw that there was less than $500 inside, she called me ‘useless’ and ‘poor’ and decided to leave me.
I really don’t understand what is wrong with her.
I always thought that she just wants a simple life and will be contented as long as I can afford to pay for her daily meals and not let her go hungry.
In a devastating incident on January 17, Thailand witnessed a catastrophic explosion at a firework factory in Suphan Buri province, resulting in the tragic loss of at least 23 lives. This unforeseen disaster has left the nation in shock, prompting immediate responses from authorities and calls for a thorough investigation.
Introduction:
The explosion rocked the firework factory situated in Suphan Buri province, approximately 120km north of Bangkok. The incident unfolded at a time when an estimated 20 to 30 people were working at the factory, turning a routine workday into a scene of chaos and tragedy.
Suphan Buri Governor Nattapat Suwanprateep confirmed the devastating toll, stating, “We received reports from the Explosive Ordinance Disposal (EOD) team that there were 23 confirmed dead.” The loss of lives has left the community mourning and authorities grappling with the aftermath.
As of now, there is no clear indication of what might have caused the explosion. Authorities, including the Explosive Ordinance Disposal group, are working tirelessly to determine the root cause of this tragic incident.
Governor Nattapat emphasized that the factory was operating legally, holding valid licenses. This raises questions about whether the explosion was an unforeseen accident or if there were underlying issues that contributed to the catastrophic event.
Officials, including Police Lieutenant-General Naiyawat Phademchid, have taken swift action to seal the surrounding area. This measure aims to secure the scene for investigation and protect the community from potential hazards.
Governor Nattapat reassured the public that, aside from the factory, there seemed to be no significant damage within the surrounding area. However, the explosion did impact glass windows on one house, highlighting the force of the blast.
The explosion at the firework factory in Suphan Buri has left a profound impact on Thailand, claiming the lives of 23 individuals. As the nation mourns this tragic event, the pressing need for a comprehensive investigation, stringent safety measures, and accountability in the firework industry comes to the forefront. The government’s commitment to enforcing the law and prioritizing the safety of its citizens is crucial in preventing future calamities of this nature.
Our hearts go out to the families affected by this tragedy, and we hope that swift action will be taken to prevent such incidents in the future.
In recent days, an unsettling incident unfolded on the grounds of a condominium in Malaysia, as recounted by a female student on the UTAR Confessions Facebook page, shedding light on her encounter with a night-duty guard at Cypress. This incident raises concerns about condominium safety and the appropriate conduct of security personnel.
As recounted by the anonymous female student, the incident occurred after she returned from a local mamak eatery. In the early hours of the morning, she found herself alone when the guard on duty at Cypress, who is known for his nightly shifts, unexpectedly confessed his feelings to her.
Promises To Buy Her Anything She Wants
The guard claimed that he was aged 22, revealed that he had been single until now and emphasized that he differs from others.
He promised to take care of the student’s needs, expressing a willingness to purchase anything she desires. Furthermore, he assured her that if she develops feelings for someone else, he would gracefully step aside.
“He Looked More Like He’s In His 30s”
Despite the guard’s promises, the student conveyed her lack of romantic interest, emphasizing that she perceives him as an elder due to his appearance resembling someone in their thirties. The post reveals her confusion and fear of potential extreme reactions if she were to reject the guard.
The post concludes with the student inquiring about others who may have faced similar encounters with the night-duty guard. She expresses a strong desire to move away from the situation, indicating a broader concern about the security and conduct of campus guards.
What The Girl Said (Translated)
Yesterday, (I’m a girl) when I was returning after eating at the mamak, I was confessed to by the guard who is on duty every night at Cypress (a condominium).
He told me that he is 22 years old this year and has been single until now. He mentioned that he is different from others and will take good care of me. He assured me that he would buy anything I want, and if I develop feelings for someone else, he would step back.
At that time, it was early morning, and I was the only girl. I didn’t know what to do. I was afraid that rejecting him might lead to extreme actions.
I don’t have any romantic feelings for him; I always see him as an elder because he looks like he’s in his thirties (in my personal opinion).
Has anyone else experienced a confession from the guard on night duty? I really want to move away.
Covid is really contagious now. After my sister contracted Covid from her workplace, our whole family kenna even she have done everything to self quarantine.
Now we all have Covid and cannot got out for 3 days, our only option is to call for GrabFood delivery.
Sigh. But my father damn niao so he nags everytime we ordered Grab. Honestly, what else can we do? We have some ‘keep stock’ but since 4 of us eating, within 2 days, finished already. We’re not suppose to go out. It’s damn inconsiderate too if we go out. Plus, you won’t want to go out because it’s damn uncomfortable. We all have sore and muscle aches. My mother’s temperature reach 38.4. my head is always heavy else light… Just don’t feel right.
On the 4th day, my sister took ART and still positive (expected because she is still coughing and having sore throat) so she cannot go out still. (Her 4th day is our 3rd day so still no one can go out).
We have to plan who take ART test also because we only have 3 kits left and the ones I ordered online haven’t arrived.
A girl shared a story online after realising her socks was constantly missing and reappear after a week or two. She posted the story on how she escaped from her sick boyfriend.
Here is the story:
I just made the most shocking discovery of my life, my boyfriend has been together with me for 2 years has a weird habit or fetish or whatever you wanna call it.
We are staying together and I realised my socks have been missing every other week. I asked my boyfriend he said that he has no idea. I started to digged around the house and I find it under the mattress and they were stacked in a pile as if someone gathered it.
I confronted my boyfriend as no one stays in the house only me and him, I asked why did he hide all my socks. He said that it’s a prank and I forgive him as it was a small matter. But something felt wrong.
I installed a CCTV secretly without my boyfriend knowing and mount it above the cabinet and faced the bed. The camera could auto-detect motion and start to record. I installed it and reviewed it a week later.
To my horror, I saw my boyfriend sniffing at my socks while “beating the aeroplane”…….
It’s not fresh socks from the laundry, its dirty socks leh.
Should I leave him or should I confront him, something is definitely not right with his head if I confront him. It would be like talking to a crazy person.
The second COE bidding exercise of 2024 has concluded, and the results reveal interesting insights into the market dynamics. In this article, we will delve into the bidding outcomes for different vehicle categories, analyzing the premiums, bids received, and the overall trends observed.
Category
Current COE Price ($)
Quota
Bids Received
A
CAR UP TO 1600cc
81,589
923
1,880
B
CAR OVER 1600cc
112,000
657
1,308
C
GOODS VEHICLE & BUS
68,001
191
394
D
MOTORCYCLE
9,309
520
615
E
OPEN-ALL EXCEPT MOTORCYCLE
109,004
140
267
Cat A (cars up to 1600cc and 130bhp, and EVs up to 110kW) got 1,880 bids for 923 COEs, increasing its premium by $16,579. The Category A COE closed at $81,589.
Cat B (cars over 1600cc and 130bhp, and EVs over 110kW) got 1,308 bids for 657 COEs, increasing its cost by $26,990. The Category B COE concluded at $112,000.
Cat C (goods vehicle and bus) got 394 bids for 191 COEs, and the price increased by just $402. Category C COE ended at $68,001.
Cat D got 615 bids for 520 COEs, and its premium increased/decreased by just $195. The Category D COE concluded at $9,309.
Cat E received 267 bids for 140 COEs and increased by $2,616. The Category E COE concluded at $109,004.
Conclusion
In the second COE bidding exercise of 2024, the automotive landscape witnessed intriguing developments across various categories. Understanding these dynamics is crucial for both industry players and consumers. As we navigate the complex world of COE bidding, staying informed empowers us to make more informed decisions.
Me (m28) kind of piss off my gf (f26). Need advice on how to apologise.
A little backstory: my gf (foreigner)had to leave her family (singaporean & pr) during covid to go back to her home country. At the start, she would be very excited to share every small little details about her life be it happy things or unpleasant things. but as time go on and a few job changes, i find that she does not share to me about her life anymore. on & off we still video call n msg a little here n there but mostly dependent on her mood. sometimes i feel that i am left to wander if she is still interested in me? in this relationship?
Now recently during the long weekends, her country is also having a long weekends, so i thought she would be free to talk so i videoed called her on fb n a msging app. but she avoided my calls and said to msg her instead. Thus i msged her. But aft sending 2-3 msg, she blocked me on the chat app n fb. Her ig is still open to me though. have tried to apologise to her thru her ig but she is still ignoring me. not even a mention of if she want a breakup.
I kind of unable to move on with this sudden blocking of communication. any suggestion or advice on what can i do?
Here are what netizens think:
I think the LDR is taking a toll on her and she simply want to end it.Here is what I would do: I won’t try to contact her at all for a week. If after a week and she doesn’t even bother to unblock you, that means you need to move on.Honestly, she act like a kid with no sense of responsibility. Why do you even bother?
In this case I think she should be the one who apologize to you isn’t it?She’s probably uncomfortable with confrontations so she’s using this to tire you out. Leave her a message and let her know u hope to have a closure? And hope for the best.
Try give her space, after a while just ask her if she wants to cont or end the rs. Only when ur get a closure u will know what to do. But she blocked u, thats already a bad sign. Just prepare to move on
I don’t understand why some MRT commuters (especially aunties) are so inconsiderate and selfish. this has happened a few times to me and i have seen it happen to other people.
sometimes you are just leaning against the glass beside the door and minding your own business.
a random aunty will appear and lean very near to you, trying to displace you from the glass so that they can stand there.
there are variations to this tactic. some will lean against the metal pole with their back touching your arm, some will even squeeze beside you, shoulder to shoulder.
eventually, you buay tahan this close proximity and move away from the glass, then they will shamelessly and happily occupy the space they have been coveting.
it is really ridiculous, if they are indeed in need of some place to rest, they should just ask the people sitting on the reserve seat to give up their seat.
i also wonder if these aunties have a specific type of people that they choose to bully. so far i have only seen it happen to younger guys and girls that will usually just move away and let them stand. couldn’t these old people just open their mouth and say can you let me lean because i am tired etc instead of physically pushing people until they get what they want.
Here are what netizens think:
Most likely those aunties are generally more or less losers in life, kinda unhappy with themselves and with the world, often lonely & sort of depressed. So such selfish & bullying behaviour is common with them.Sometimes I just feel a bit pity for them and try to accommodate wherever possible. Sometimes the way they talk is kinda rude, but what to do!
Being uncouth bottom-feeders themselves, they already have nothing to lose. That’s why they thrive on these small “victories” against another person.You, on the other hand…Anyway, a nugget of wisdom I’ve picked up from somewhere: a smart person knows how to get out of trouble, a wise one knows how to avoid it.Do pick and choose your battles. It makes for a quieter and enjoyable ride for all.
My RBF sends a strong message not to come near 1m of my proximity especially during the last two years. Yup I don’t tolerate people who invade my personal space. Have told people off in public before ie the ones who are constantly at my back in queues.
Not just in MRT, they feel self entitled everywhere. Including cutting your queue in supermarkets etc. I hope they can just ask politely.
