A guy shared a story of how his ‘little brother’ in so sensitive to the point that he always ‘finishes’ in less than one minute upon gaining entry into his partner.

It came to a point where there was once he hanged out with a group of female friends who he mostly did the ‘deed’ with before and accidentally eavesdropped on them talking about his skills in the bedroom and he even heard them laughing at how quickly the deed is all over.

This took a big hit on his ego and he decided that he should do something about it.

However, he shared that he did not want to seek professional help for it as he feels very embarrassed about it so he came out with a method to help him keep ‘going’ longer when he is doing the ‘deed’.

He wants to share his story as he feels that this is an efficient way and will be able to help fellow bros out there who suffer from the same issue as him.

He claims that doing this enabled him to be able to last ‘longer’.

Here is the story

‘Hi, I would like to share a story about one of the most embarrassing period that has ever happened to me in my life.

For context, I am a guy in my mid 20s and am considered by my peers as minimally above average looking, friendly and charismatic.

This ‘characteristics’ of me as described by my peers got me a lot of female attention and mind you, they are all pretty decent looking as well.

I bring a fair share of girls back home quite frequently and while people might be envious of me, there is one secret which makes me quite embarrassed.

My ‘little brother’ is quite sensitive and usually by the time it ‘gains entry’, I would feel like finishing and would really finish.

This is something that I could not control and it has brought a lot of disbelief to the girls which followed me back.

Just imagine that they are about to get in the mood and I just leave them hanging there after 1 minute of fun.

I thought that I could hide this fact but there was once where I hung out with a group of girls which most of them I have brought back before and I accidentally heard them discussing about me and how quickly I ‘finish’.

This took a big hit on my ego and I told myself that I should seek help for this but I did not want to seek professional help as I was too embarrassed.

Hence, I thought of a way to improve on my stamina which would not make me embarrassed and will not cost money.

It then came to me that I was not good at math back in my days of studying and every time I think of how to do a sum, I get distracted and will lose my focus because I will take a long time to think of the answer to the mathematical sum.

I decided that maybe I can apply this to my time with the girl in my bedroom in future to see if it will help me to improve my stamina.

Fast forward to a few days later, I went out to party and got a girl to go back with me.

As we went through all the motion, it was time for me to ‘gain entry’ and I found myself already wanting to ‘finish’.

I quickly applied the method which I thought previously and started doing all the mathematical sums in my head.

I continuously did all the addition, subtraction, multiplication and division in my head to distract my ‘little brother’ till the point where I got so good with mental sums and I proceeded to root and square root numbers to keep me more distracted.

At last, it was almost half an hour and I decided that I have done well and I ‘finished’.

Sharing this to let all brothers out there who have a similar issue with me to know that it is not the end and to try this out in future.’

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Hi, I shared a story of giving my ‘first time’ to a ladyboy a while back and I would just like to continue sharing my experience from that day onwards.

You might want to include a recap before sharing ‘Part 2’ of my story.

Recap

The story

Yeah I know I said that I will never go a lady boy again but I still went back to find them in the end after I had a few hookups with a few females.

Yes I finally managed to have a one night stand with a real woman after my experience.

However, their skills were subpar as compared to the mind blowing ‘first time’ that I had with the ladyboy in Geylang.

At first I thought that it was just a one off and I cannot judge the whole gender based on just a one off incident with one member of the gender but as I hooked up with more women, the memories of the experience with the lady boy just keep flowing back into my head.

I couldn’t take it anymore and wanted to feel like a King again and that made me go back to find my ‘first lover’.

After my second time with ‘her’, I realised that only doing the deed with ladyboys can make me feel like a King.

The borders have now opened and I have planned a solo trip to Thailand just to satisfy my ‘needs’ of feeling like a King.

Before you get me wrong, I am still a Straight guy but I guess I will never get any satisfaction from doing it with real females and so I would just prefer to do the deed with ladyboys instead.

Please respect my preferences and I would also welcome any recommendations on where to find the best ladyboys.

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A netizen shared how she cut contact with a guy because the relationship was toxic but is still hoping he comes back to make her feel wanted.

Here is the story:

“These days, I feel that people are taking relationships very lightly. Having so many cases of extra-marital affairs surfacing, fwb, cross partner exchanges etc, I cannot comprehend.

I have been pretty down recently. So I cut contact with a guy, now for 4-5 months already. I had initiated it because I knew that the relationship was toxic right from the beginning. We already knew we were going nowhere, and eventually the day would come when we needed to go our separate ways. Yet each time, he reaches out to me, again and again, I will unknowingly fall deeper for him.

It came to a point where I knew it wasn’t sustainable anymore. So I told him that we needed to stop so I can move on. Knowing that he knows the right words to say to make my heart turn back, I even blocked all channels of communication between us. Eventually, he still managed to reach out to me and drop a last msg, saying he accepts this, but he was still sad.

Somewhere within me, I actually still hoped that he would come back and make me feel wanted. I wish he gave me the feeling that I would have some reason to return to him. But no. We ended via message, with me saying “Let’s just end here”.

Between months, I still find myself missing him so much. I would uncontrollably contact him. When I messaged him, he seemed quite contented with his life. I realized I had always been the one holding on to things that don’t belong to me, thinking that he would miss me as much as I missed him.

I know I am silly. I should move on to find someone else I can rely on. But yet when guys approached me, I only wished that I could be back with him. Many times I had told myself to move on, but when I reached the stage of  “getting to know each other”, I would feel exhausted and the thought that he is no longer with me will bring me sorrow. Why am I so enclosed?

I question myself sometimes – perhaps if I don’t love anyone, I would not get myself so upset. That’s why when I look at people who play too much, I often wonder if they have been hurt badly before too?”

I met my sec school crush…

Usually, I don’t take the MRT to work as I drive to send my kids to school but it was a special day cos I’ve sent my car for servicing. And it is as though God had intended it, my chanced upon my sec school crush in the same train.

The last time I met her was 24 yrs ago in school. She is sweet and demure and I’m always mesmerise by her smiles and cheerful yet soft spoken personality. I will never forget that lovey dovey feeling. When my frens told me she also had a crush on me and I was elated!

But alas. I was young as stupid then. I always liked her to be my girl. But I couldn’t muster the courage to confess to her. My social skills was weak and I’m rather reserved. Sec 3 and Sec 4 moved past quickly and we’ve lost contact. I would occasionally think of her at times and would sigh over the missed opportunity. That was my greatest teenage regret.

24yrs later, she had definately changed as I did too. She is abit chubbier now but more well groomed. she seemed more mature now with her office clothes but she still looks great!

I move ahead to greet her. She was initially stunted, as I was, but composed herself. She knew who I am without introduction! Her eyes and the way she smile are exactly how I remembered. Inside me I wanted to burst out and hug her.

I asked her how is she doing and if she worked around here? She told me her office is 3 stops away. The next 5 mins were all the usual catching up all these years. I found out she is happily married for 12 years and had 3 kids, the oldest already in primary 3. For that I felt glad and relief that she is doing good. Likewise, I shared that I’m married too with kids, which she joked that maybe we can share parenting tips.

We exchanged phone numbers. As her station is reaching. I can’t help but to feel sadness. Inside me, I wanted to be with her longer, I wanted to ask if I confessed 24 years ago will she accept? I have so much to tell her, to ask her and to share with her.

She said “I’m glad we met. Let’s catch up again one of these days!” As she waved goodbye and alight. Outside the train, she looked towards me and gestured me to call, I replied with a thumb up. I might be overly sensitive but I thought I saw her wiping her eyes, like as if there were tears. My heart broke for a 2nd time, and I might have broken her heart again that day too.

As for the call or catch up… it never happen. No calls, no whatsapp or texts since we met 3 months ago. I did spy on her profile pics and see her family pic. Her kids are cute and nice and her hubby looks great for her. No need to add additional emotions to her.

Yes, she is my crush, but I’m also happily married with two wonderful kids. She belongs to a different era of my life and will stay as such. I can only reminisce the teenage years when looking, talking and being with her in school brought me to good feelings.

Thank you for being the shining star of my teenage year. Glad you found happiness. Fate had me met you and alas we may not be together, I’m still glad I knew you.

Here are what netizens think:

• If you had met her 24 years ago maybe u all already divorced.
• Bro, u married don’t think too much.
• Every one also young before.

My girlfriend doesn’t want to work, and she hasn’t worked throughout our relationship. She wants the taitai life because her father is rich and her mother got to be a housewife. So I have been supporting both of us with my pay alone, which is not much, and I don’t get to save even though I have been working for years. We are living paycheck to paycheck, which was okay for me last time but now that we are talking about long-term, I’m not sure if I can live like this forever.

I get stressed about our BTO thinking about the money I need to fork out, but she will just tell me to find another job that has higher pay and she even told me to borrow from my family. Her family doesn’t want to lend us the money for our house, because my girlfriend has never contributed to the family business. She has been pressuring me to get money from my family whenever I bring up about financial issues, but my family is just a low to medium income family. I have tried borrowing and even forced money from my family members and it has caused a lot of arguments.

We have been living together and she doesn’t do housework either, my parents are the ones doing all the housework while she just does nothing at home and watch her dramas. She doesn’t even offer to buy meals for my parents when they are at home.

She insists that I propose with a diamond ring which will take months for me to save up for, otherwise she says it will make her look bad and she will not marry me, which is why I’m in a dilemma now. I feel that she doesn’t care about my financial pressures and she’s willing to make me suffer for what she wants.

In case you are wondering..she’s not very attractive either. We are both considered unattractive, which is why I hesitate to break up because I know I can’t find someone else. I’ve been wanting to lose weight but she insists I stay fat so I won’t attract other girls, but I am concerned about my health as well.

What should I do?