A netizen shared how she is worried her daughter is going to lose her V to her boyfriend, after he booked a hotel stay for the two of them.

Here is the story:

“I as a mother of 2 daughters, am actually quite worried. My daughter’s boyfriend booked a hotel stay a few months ago for a staycation for her 18th birthday using rediscover vouchers.

Although we were invited to celebrate my daughters birthday together, my husband and I decided not to stay in the hotel as we have work the next day.

Her boyfriend is a nice and kind person, but I as a parent, have my fears that my daughter lost her v-card to him during their night stay ALONE TOGETHER.

After all, with the normalisation of local celebrities and influencers getting pregnant before marriage (which many were lucky that their partners did not leave them), I do not wish for this to happen to my daughter(s)!

Should I talk to my daughter about their hotel stay? Should I ban my daughters from going to a hotel? Set a daily 9pm curfew? What should I do?”

Editor’s note: I think you need to have a talk with your daughter before the staycay.

A girl shared how she slept with one of her friends and after that, he started treating her coldly because he thinks of her as a pushover.

She later came to the realisation that he was only using her all along.

Here is her story in full

“So after I had s-x with one of my friends (no one knows about this except us), he started to treat me differently.

He is such a nice guy to everyone but when it comes to me he is very cold. At first I thought it was because he was very comfortable with me.

But then I realised that he thinks of me as a pushover and he was just using me. We are in the same clique and it annoys me every time I can sense the differential treatment.

Should i just not be friends with him anymore?

Editor’s note: Yeap, you should leave him and get better friends.

A netizen shared how he finds dating to be a tiresome and boring affair because he found that he is the only one making the effort and the girls he dated are expecting him to do everything.

Here is his story:

“I am starting to find dating boring, tiring and expensive. I also find that it is unfair that guys have to do almost everything. I will be putting the juicy part about me complaining about girls’ lack of efforts in dates in the 3rd last para. Burn me if you want to in the comments section. If you think girls put in a lot more effort than guys, list the things in the comments as well. Would love to hear about those.

Most of the time it goes to 2-3 dates and some don’t even go beyond 1. The worst ones are those that you spend weeks or months on the app and never meet in real life. I love it when they find something stupid to stop dating me like my salary or my choice in music (yup that happened) or because I don’t drink alcohol or the best one and the most common one, because I want to have intercourse after marriage. I do ask them why they want to stop and those are the reasons they give. The more polite girls use the ghosting method which makes me feel more respected

My salary, though average, is definitely sufficient to run a family. I am just not rich. You do realize that I could get a better job in the future right? I might be the next Elon Musk who speaks Singlish. Get ready to eat your words! Oh yes, if I was a girl and I wanted to sleep with the guy after marriage, my wish is to be respected and I am apparently holy. If I have the same request as a guy, I am a loser? Love the double standard!!! I only reject girls who are rude, manipulative or think they are made of gold unlike everyone else

Guy has to pay for first date

The rule is that guy has to pay for the first date so free meal for the lady. If I ask to go dutch, I seem petty. If I pick a simple place, they complain so I have to find something that is at least mid-tier. To be honest, I don’t mind paying for meals even it means for the rest of our lives together. The problem is that we stop seeing each other after a few dates and this happens so often. I am losing a lot of money.

I also feel that the guy has to put in more effort. Come on, the competition is rough out there. I am not exactly Chris Evans. To make myself stand out, I have to put in a lot more effort. Based on the person’s profile, I would think of a relevant place or activity for the dates. I would research the things they mention in their profile like a certain sport or some famous figure. We will have more to talk about and most of the time, it impresses most of them except for the ice queens. They just need to come and enjoy the date, no effort from them at all. They might not even remember my profile or what was in it. If the date sucks, then it is my fault. Yes, I feel amazing when that happens, especially listening to them complain.

I have done this dating thing so many times that I have a routine like those guys performing shows on stages. I have experimented on various jokes or types of humor and found the most optimal ones. The only thing is that since I pay attention to their profile, I might customize it to them. We also talk about things. Literally the same darn things. Deal breakers, interests, etc. Same thing over and over and over and over and over and over and over (approaches infinity).

Finds lack of effort from the girls annoying

As I mentioned, I am not Chris Evans but I do groom myself as best as I can. Most girls would come to dates in a decent outfit. I love it when girls come as if they just woke up from their bed and show how much they care about the date.

I find the lack of effort from girls extremely annoying. Some come to dates not remembering my profile. If the conversation is dry, I have to be the one who has to keep it lively and prevent it from turning awkward. Most girls don’t even try anything. They get a free meal on the first date. They don’t have to plan dates. They can give the uninterested face and it is fine. If I do it, then it is a sin.

Out of all the girls I have dated, only 3, that is right, only 3 girls have seemed to put in the effort. 2 of them made an effort to keep the conversation fun. The last girl planned the second date voluntarily. I am still friends with all 3 of them till today because they are WORTH IT.

Honestly, I don’t mind putting in the effort. It is fun to do some of the things. If nothing else, the least I expect is for the girl to put effort into the conversation and as a plus, remember something about me from my profile or our chats. The problem I have is that despite putting in all the effort, it keeps failing for stupid reasons (2nd para). Guys deserve to be respected too by the way.”

Hi everyone, I am 25 years old. If you do not have a photograph, please do not send me a request. I’ll inform you upfront that I am in search of a wealthy man.

He have to be financially capable of pay for EVERYTHING- payments, petrol, groceries, mortgage, youngsters, wedding ceremony, honeymoon, and so forth…and I shouldn’t should pitch in a single cent.

I have very costly style and I benefit from the finer issues in life. I am not a easy woman with easy tastes. I need a man who will present me with an extravagant way of life- he should be capable of take me on costly cruises and holidays and keep at H star inns and dine on the best eating places and take me on purchasing sprees. I need a man who treats me like a princess on a regular basis.

I won’t entertain sleazy guys, impolite idiots or guys which are filled with themselves. There’s a effective line between self-confidence and vanity.

I am NOT paying for something. With me, there isn’t any such factor as ‘going halves’, ‘you pay this, I pay that’ or ‘let’s cut up the bills’- none of that nonsense. I consider the man pays for every part and I am by no means backing down from that ever.

Money is the second most essential factor to me. Poverty scares me greater than demise itself. I’ve been in conditions with out cash and I’ve had a relationship the place the man was poor. I don’t need to go there ever once more.

I additionally need the kind of man who would give me entry to his cash without questions without reservations. It’s about belief and the man I finally select should be capable of give me that.

I need a man who buys me presents, plenty of presents comparable to costly jewellery, perfumes, garments, shock getaways, takes me out to fancy dinners and balls and is all the time prepared to go to the ends of the earth to ensure I keep comfortable on a regular basis.

I recently met a guy online, he seems to be a ‘well to do guy’ and he is very polite that’s why I agreed to meet him for a meal.

I told him that eating anywhere is fine and he insist that I dress up as he said that our first meal together should be special and he brought me to an atas restaurant.

He told me that he is a regular at the restaurant as he enjoys the food there, I started to ask him if he brings a lot of girls there. He said I’m the first one and I started to suspect him.

We enjoyed our food and chit-chatted more and more, I really enjoyed talking to him. He said that he will send me home after the meal and he called the waiter for the bill.

When his wallet opened there were a lot of cards inside, most of them look like visa credit cards.

While we were waiting for the bill he started to talk about his career and said that he got promoted recently as a senior manager and started to brag, which was a different side of him.

The waiter came back and said that his credit card has been declined and I was kinda shocked. I decided to save some face for him and played my phone and pretend that I did not hear it.

He took another credit card from his wallet and he tried again, he then tried to explain that maybe he forgot to pay the bills for his credit card and I told him it’s okay.

This time he did not wait for the waiter to return and he went to the counter and watch the waiter tried to charge his credit card. I decided to play some games on my phone while waiting for him.

When I turned around, he was gone. I asked the waiter where he went, the waiter said:

“He said that you will settle the bill and he has already left as he was in a hurry for something”

I was like wth… I don’t mind paying but this kind of behaviour is just too loser. He could have told me the truth about him, I don’t care if he had money anot. Just find that he’s nice to talk to. But everything is a lie, that’s why wallet have so many credit cards. He is living a life of loans and lies.

I settled the bill and tried to contact him but he has already blocked me on Whatsapp and on the dating app.

A netizen shared how she was set up on a blind date with her aunt’s colleague’s son, who was advertised as “super smart, funny and a high-flyer at a Big 4 firm”.

Here is her story:

“Really need to rant about my horror blind date, which was my aunt’s colleague’s son, advertised to me as “super smart”, “funny” and a “high-flyer at a Big 4 accounting firm”.

He turned out to be an insufferable elitist with a serious b–bs fetish.

Part 1: The Pure-Blood Rafflesian in the Valley of Gods

We met at Subway, and as there was a queue we started chatting. Apparently, he was also from RJC, and then –

Him: Were you IP?

Me: No, I was from a neighborhood sec sch.

Him: Aha! So you are a half-blood!

Me: What?

Him: You were not from RGS, so you are only a half-blood Rafflesian. I am pure-blood, I was from RI.

Me: (Nani tf?! Are we in Harry Potter??? But before I could respond – )

Him: Impressive cleavage by the way, really appreciate the effort. *creepy smile*

Me: Uh…thanks…

Him: You know, we guys call it the Valley of Gods, because from top-down or bottom-up, girls’ cleavages look like a valley, and because b–bs are made of men’s hopes and dreams, we name it Valley of Gods.

6 years of Raffles education, you say?

Part 2: 5,318,008 lettuce letters

At this point already texting 3 close friends to do the fake emergency call strategy, and then –

Waitress: Do you want any vegetables? Tomatoes? Lettuce?

Him: No I don’t want “leh-tuse”, I want “letters”.

*turns to me and grins*

Me: *expands my texting to non-close friends*

Him: (after we got our food) Have to say, you really have a magnificent pair.

Me: Ummm…okay?

Him: Do you have a favorite number?

Me: No, do you?

Him: Yes! 5,318,008 – because upside down on a calculator it spells B–BIES.

*deranged laughter*

If any of you has had a worse date experience please share so I can feel better and not have to seek counseling.”

Editor’s note: Who were you on a date with? A primary school kid? The guy has the maturity of a 10-year-old…

I told a guy I had a crush on him and I deeply regret it. His reaction was utterly disgusting and disturbing

He said we’ll need to get to know each other before he decides if he likes me back or not and I agreed and asked what he would like to know about me.

Instead of asking any normal questions one would ask to get to know a fellow human being, he told me to send him “naughty pics” of myself in “bra and panties” from the “front and back view”.

When I told him I wasn’t comfortable with doing that he asked why. I told him I don’t have to justify myself and he was like “why are you giving me attitude” and “I can’t feel attracted to a girl if she doesn’t send me pics, I’m not attracted to faces and I don’t talk to people unless I’m attracted and the only way is those pics.

If you don’t send them then we can’t talk and I’ll delete you because then I won’t be attracted. Also note if you send them we won’t immediately be in a relationship. It can take a year for people to fall in love.”

I was utterly repulsed by this and called him out on his emotional blackmail and manipulative behavior. Then he started blaming me and saying I put myself in these situations by being obsessed with boys.

His hypocrisy is surreal as he was just asking me for pics but it’s my fault that he objectified and dehumanized me?? Wtf!!

I was baffled and utterly disgusted with this awful excuse of a human being. I cussed him out and we blocked each other. I feel so angry because I made myself vulnerable for someone so trashy. I regret ever talking to him. Just thinking about the way he acted makes me wanna puke all over him.