To tell this story I have to go back to when I was younger. So when I was in kindergarten school I was tongue-tied. For people who don’t know that’s where the muscle underneath your tongue is near the tip of your tongue restricting its growth and movement. I had a surgery done when I was younger to have it fixed because I had trouble saying certain words. I did it and never really thought about it since.
Fast forward to a couple of days ago when my wife ragged on me because I don’t give her oral as much as she likes and proceeded to tell one of my coworker’s significant other about it to the point that they proceeded to tell me that if I won’t eat her out there seriously gonna be problems. We both laughed it off but i was sure if shes tell others might as well give her what she wants.
Well after I did I had serious pain underneath my tongue like I had pulled a muscle didn’t think much of it was like okay maybe I just overworked it and it’s just achy. Now a few days have passed and I’ve noticed myself slurring some words and talking a little funny due to the pain so I decided id take a look under my tongue to see if it was swollen to discover I have a tear across the muscle with a nasty scab over it as well as its swollen. So now I’m having to make sure I let my tongue rest and heal up by trying to not talk and use it too much. Needless to say the wife not only feels bad but is also turned on that i ate her out so hard i tore my tongue.
she proceeded to tell me that if i dont eat her best friend out theres seriously gonna be problems
When a guy asked me when was my last rs and my reply was “none” they just don’t believe me. But that’s the reality of my life.
From young I was guarded fiercely by my lion and lioness parents. Ever once at the age of 12 I tried going on a steady but that lasted only a day coz my mom with her source and Intel managed to caught the boy I went on a steady RS with.
I have no idea what was said to that boy that made him run farrrr awayyyy from me. And so I take it as it’s not the right time to focus on rs, and that’s where I studied hard and 15 yrs later now at my twenties struggling to create a connection especially with guys out there.
It’s so awkward for me coz I don’t know how to find myself a boyfriend. Now, my parents are divorced and they no longer got the energy to filter my friends and all…Just need an advise on how do I embark on the journey out of being a single girl for entire 27 years of my life now….they say the clock is ticking and as I’m getting older I will be less appealing due to my age…help me out please!
Here are what netizens think:
If those guys asked and do not believe it, they do not carry real heart at all. When your time is near, you will meet your Mr Right. Next time when you telling your story, tell them your parents, and your 1 day steady, that why you have been single at these time.
Don’t stress it. Let nature take its course. You will find someone or your someone will find you when the time is right
Just make friends as per usual and make the first move if you like a dude! Guys love it when you take initiative.
I’m 21 this year. I’ve been with my boyfriend since JC1. I was 19 when I got pregnant. I chose to go for an abortion.
I never told him about the baby or the abortion. I knew he would have wanted me to keep it. He was that kind of guy who would have done the right thing and taken responsibility.
I wanted the baby too, but it was bad timing. He was in NS, due to start school in NUS, and I was already in NUS at the time.
I made the decision to abort even though every fiber of my being told me not to. I paid a taxi driver $80 for his time and to make sure that I got home safe after the procedure.
Every year, on the 14th of August, today, I feel guilt and sadness. The kind that feels overwhelming that I find it hard to get through my day.
Today, two years ago, was the day I got my abortion. I never knew my baby’s gender, but I chose Sam for the name itself was ambiguous.
I miss you so much, Sam, I’m so, so sorry. Not here, but loved and remembered all the same for the rest of my life.
I’m (30M) freaking out. I thought we had a happy marriage. We’ve been married for 6 years and dating for 10. Edit: We started dating when I was 20 and she was 23.
My wife (33F) and I have always been very open with each other. We share passwords and have never hidden anything. When we have disagreements we get through it together. We’ve never screamed or yelled at each other. We’re in couples and individual therapy, not because of anything wrong with our relationship but because we want to make sure that we’re happy. My wife always says better prevention than cure.
Yesterday, she left her laptop open and I saw she was looking up new york divorce papers and how to see if someone was cheating. There was 5 or 6 six tabs open. I pretended I didn’t see anything and but went into the bathroom and threw up. I’ve been shaking in anxiety and my wife has noticed I haven’t left her side and she’s asked me if anything was wrong.
Readers I’ve NEVER cheated and never even thought of cheating. I don’t even watch stuff. I don’t even know how she could think I would betray her like this.
If it’s the opposite and she’s cheating, I don’t even know how she would do it because even if she didn’t love me she doesn’t even have the time. I checked her phone and computer and she doesn’t have anything previously downloaded, there’s nothing fishy and nothing suggesting even an emotional affair. She’s been incredibly affectionate. She loves me and would never hurt me. So it’s me she thinks.
I have a part time bakery catering business I run from home and she works from home for literally 70-80 hour work weeks and is the breadwinner. We haven’t left each other’s side and I love it that way. Covid was actually good for us because we could spend so much time together.
My wife is the love of my life. I’m in the process of being diagnosed and looking at symptoms online I’m pretty sure she’s my Favorite Person (FP). It’s unhealthy but she’s never complained about me being clingy or overbearing. I don’t know why she would want a divorce.
I’m afraid to talk to her about it because what if she starts thinks of divorcing me and realizes that she’s so much better and deserves so much more and just leaves. I feel like like somehow talking about the d word will manifest it and ruin all the happiness I have. I wished I never saw it.
Today she joked that we’d literally melt together because I haven’t stopped holding her all morning. I’m afraid that I’ll fall asleep and she’ll disappear from my life.
In a disturbing incident that unfolded at Shashlik Restaurant in Far East Shopping Centre on June 18 last year, a 54-year-old American, Greg Austin Lynn, has been fined S$5,500 (US$4,100) for a racially fueled outburst directed at the restaurant manager, Tan Tong Kein, according to Channel NewsAsia. (Full video of the incident below)
Lynn pleaded guilty to one count of using criminal force and another of using abusive words, with two additional charges considered during sentencing.
The Incident Unfolds
Before the incident, Lynn had called the restaurant and was informed by Mr. Tan that the last order would be taken at 9 pm. However, when Lynn arrived at the restaurant at about 9 pm that night, he was informed that the kitchen was already closed. This led to a sequence of events captured on closed-circuit television footage.
Lynn pushed Mr. Tan on the chest, causing the restaurant manager to stumble backward. Despite Mr. Tan’s attempts to de-escalate the situation, Lynn continued to speak loudly, using vulgarities that drew the attention of an off-duty police officer. Even after being confronted by another customer, Lynn persisted in his aggressive behavior.
Legal Proceedings and Guilty Plea
Originally slated for trial, Lynn decided on Monday morning to accept the charges. In the court hearing, Deputy Public Prosecutor Ryan Lim called for the maximum fine of S$5,000 for the abusive words charge and an additional S$500 fine for using criminal force.
Lim emphasized the highly insulting and abusive nature of Lynn’s words, pointing out the element of violence when Lynn threatened, “I will drop every last one of you.” Lynn also insulted the victim’s family, threatened harm to his business, and concluded his tirade with racially charged language.
Lynn’s Response
Despite the severity of the charges, Deputy Public Prosecutor Ryan Lim noted Lynn’s guilty plea and, “on balance,” requested a fine rather than a jail term. Lynn interjected during the proceedings, expressing his acceptance of the high fine and offering restitution of S$3,000 to the restaurant.
In his defense, Lynn explained that he stayed in the restaurant to seek police assistance in resolving the situation. He cited miscommunication, cultural shock, and timing as factors contributing to his unexpected outburst. Lynn expressed a willingness to make restitution and proposed probation with community service to avoid a criminal record.
Full Recap
In an incident at Shashlik Restaurant that took place on 18 June last year, a Caucasian man, now identified at 54-year-old American Greg Austin Lynn, unleashed a profanity-laden tirade at the staff, threatening to close down the establishment.
This display of anger and racial slurs disrupted the peaceful atmosphere of the restaurant and left many patrons in disbelief.
The incident, captured on video by a concerned diner, depicted Lynn directing his anger towards a male staff member who was dressed in a black polo shirt.
He resorted to a barrage of profanities, spewing insults and threats in a loud and disturbing manner. The video, recorded from a nearby table, captured his vehement outburst.
His aggressive behavior escalated as he approached the male staff member, coming face-to-face while continuing his verbal assault.
“I Will F- Every Family Member You’ve Ever Got From Here To China”
He was heard in the video screaming at the staff, saying: “I will drop every f-ing last one of you, now f- off and back the f- off! I will close your establishment down and I will f- every family member you’ve ever got from here to china you little b- because I own China too, f- you!
The sheer volume of his shouts reverberated through the restaurant, reaching the ears of patrons at nearby tables. The intense confrontation disrupted the otherwise calm environment of the establishment.
Amidst the chaos, a woman, presumably another staff member, intervened in an effort to defuse the escalating tension between the two men as she tried to calm the enraged customer and bring the situation under control.
The situation escalated to the point where the restaurant had to call the police for assistance, as the customer refused to leave the premises.
Eyewitness Accounts
According to a witness who captured the incident, the altercation occurred between 9:15pm and 9:20pm. It was speculated that the customer’s anger stemmed from arriving at the restaurant after the last order time, as indicated on Shashlik Restaurant’s website, which is 9:00pm.
Despite the prominent “Closed” sign displayed at the door, the customer insisted on being served immediately.
The staff explained the situation, emphasizing that the kitchen was no longer operational and had already started the cleaning process.
However, the customer vehemently rejected their explanation and grew increasingly aggressive. He began hurling insults at the restaurant staff, creating an uncomfortable and hostile environment for both employees and other patrons.
The witness, who condemned the customer’s behavior, noted the excessive use of profanity and the presence of racially charged remarks.
The other customers within the restaurant attempted to calm the furious man. Witness accounts confirm that several patrons stood up and requested the customer to compose himself.
Despite their efforts, the man continued his disruptive behavior from a corner table near the entrance. Another customer took it upon themselves to engage in a conversation with the agitated individual, striving to alleviate the situation.
Restaurant’s Response
The primary concern of the restaurant’s co-owner, Alan Tan, was the safety of their guests and staff members. Recognizing the potential for further escalation, Tan decided to involve the authorities to ensure a swift and peaceful resolution to the situation.
By seeking police assistance, the restaurant aimed to protect the well-being and experience of their customers.
Alan Tan strongly condemned the racist actions and offensive language used by the unruly customer. He stated that such behavior could never be tolerated, particularly in Singapore, which prides itself on being a harmonious and inclusive society.
The restaurant’s commitment to providing a welcoming environment to all guests was unwavering, and this isolated incident did not reflect their values or their relationship with their customers.
The incident at Shashlik Restaurant was an exceptional occurrence in their 37 years of operation. Alan Tan expressed gratitude for the support and positive experiences the restaurant has had with its patrons over the years.
The incident served as a stark reminder that even in an otherwise remarkable track record, unexpected situations can arise, and the staff’s ability to handle them professionally and responsibly is paramount.
I honestly think im gonna be alone forever (romantically)
Im 24(f), virgin, never have been in a relationship other than a couple one night kiss in clubs. Like seriously now it just feels weird to imagine myself in a relationship.
My friends ask me if i honestly believe im gonna be alone forever and i so confidently tell them that yes i do. And i know i believe this.
Some say that that’s really sad, others say that it won’t happen, that one day i will find someone. But honestly, many people die alone and never marry, never are in a relationship, and then they die alone in their house.
Why couldn’t that happen to me?
Idk i think about this so much it keeps me up at night. People say not to stress about it, that “one day love will come” but i feel that’s nonsense. You either get lucky or you don’t.
Netizens’ comments
I don’t think it’s down to luck. It’s more like you either put yourself out there or don’t. If you are content in being alone in your own company and building a life onward without a romantic partner, then that is what will more than likely happen. You’ll sort of manifest that lifestyle.
If not, you’ll find someone you like and they’ll like you, and you’ll build a life together and make it work if that’s what you both want.
A netizen shared how he finds it thrilling to get women who are attached or married to cheat on their partners by sleeping with him.
He confesses that he is a relationship wrecker with a “success rate of 25%”.
Here is his story:
“Hi. Just wanna confess that I’m a relationship wrecker. I find it thrilling to get attached/married ladies to fall in love with me and cheat on their partner.
Obviously, once I got them to cheat, I would end up losing interest and ghost them because hey, mission accomplished?.
The thrill is just isn’t there anymore.
Boasts of “success rate”
Not easy and I would say my success rate is decent at best (25%~). Used to feel guilty at first.
But anyway, if they cheat it’s their fault right. Still, I wouldn’t try it on my close friends’ relationship. At least that’s one line I wouldn’t cross.
Obviously, I never tell them any of these because I wouldn’t wanna lose them as friends. So I’ll just post my confession here.
In a somber turn of events, a man’s life came to a tragic end as his body was discovered at the foot of a Simei block. The incident, reported by STOMP on January 6, has left residents in shock and raised questions about the circumstances surrounding the untimely demise.
Eyewitness Account
The discovery was made after a resident heard a “loud impact” while at the HDB void deck. The resident, Louis, shared photos capturing the unsettling scene of the man’s legs protruding from the bushes near Block 253 Simei Street 1. According to Louis, the incident occurred around 8:35 pm when he was wheeling his mother home.
“I heard a loud impact. I looked around, nothing. So I carried on wheeling her to the lift lobby. While waiting for the lift, I turned my head to look around again. Then I saw two legs sticking out from the bushes,” Louis recounted.
Prompt Response by Authorities
Upon making the discovery, Louis promptly alerted the police and the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF). Both emergency services arrived at the location approximately 15 to 20 minutes later. The SCDF paramedic, unfortunately, pronounced the 26-year-old man dead at the scene.
Based on a preliminary examination of the body, it was noted that the deceased appeared to be a Chinese man aged between 20 to 30 years old. In the aftermath of the incident, the police undertook a thorough search of the block, checking each floor and unit to determine if the individual resided in the same block.
Responding to inquiries, the police reported that they were alerted at 8:40 pm to a case of unnatural death at the Simei block. The SCDF corroborated the timeline, stating that they received a call for assistance at the same time. Despite the grim nature of the discovery, early investigations do not suggest foul play.
My wife and I have been together for 5 years have a 3 year old daughter together and have been through some rough patches but I’ve always loved her.
She’s always had bouts with addiction to alcohol to the point that she gets blacked out drunk. She goes to bars at least twice a month otherwise she’ll drink at home.
I developed severe pain in the genitals and went to the doctor and it turns out I had gonorrhea. I’ve only been with my wife.
She says nothing happened but like I said above she gets blacked out drunk occasionally. So what do I do. Was she raped, is she lying, should I leave or stay?
Any advice would be appreciated. I’ve already talked to her about it. I can narrow it down to her last escapade since she does get tested regularly due to a lot of bacterial infections.
So it had to of been her last visit to the bar that’s the only thing I can think of.
Netizens’ comments
After reading some of your other replies, she’s a train wreck.
At this point, your priority should be your daughter. You need to divorce her and focus on your child’s safety.
In recent months, the corruption probe into Transport Minister S. Iswaran has become a cause for concern, creating ripples that extend beyond the political landscape.
National Development Minister Desmond Lee, who oversees the Boon Lay ward in West Coast GRC, has described this development as “very worrying” and emphasized its notable impact on the constituency, according to The Straits Times.
However, amidst the shadows cast by the probe, MPs in West Coast GRC are resolute in their commitment to engage residents and address pressing issues.
The Corruption Probe
On July 11, 2023, S. Iswaran was arrested by the Corrupt Practices Investigation Bureau (CPIB) in connection with an ongoing investigation.
Notably, the details of the investigation remain undisclosed, creating a sense of mystery around the situation. The minister has been placed on leave of absence, with a reduction in his monthly pay, while still retaining his MP allowance.
Impact on West Coast GRC
Desmond Lee, when questioned about the incident, admitted that it had left a significant impact on West Coast GRC. The exact nature of this impact was not explicitly stated, leaving room for speculation.
Despite the challenges, Lee emphasized the cohesion of the GRC team, highlighting their ability to stay focused on serving residents and avoiding disruptions to service continuity.
As the corruption probe unfolds, S. Iswaran remains on leave of absence, with his monthly pay reduced. However, he is continuing to draw his reduced MP allowance of $8,500 per month.
Contrary to the potential distractions posed by the probe, MPs in West Coast GRC remain dedicated to their mission of serving residents.
Desmond Lee stressed the importance of ensuring that residents have continued access to assistance and support, deflecting any disruptive trends.
Leadership Handover and Singapore’s Future
Looking beyond the current situation, Desmond Lee shared insights into the upcoming leadership handover in Singapore. Deputy Prime Minister Lawrence Wong is anticipated to lead the People’s Action Party in the next general election, with assurances from Lee that the transition will be a continuum rather than a disruptive reformation.
Lee, part of the PAP’s fourth-generation leadership team, expressed commitment to supporting the government’s policy priorities. These priorities, stemming from the Forward Singapore engagement exercise, include initiatives aimed at helping senior citizens age well.
Community Initiatives for Senior Citizens
Highlighting the community’s collaborative efforts, Lee discussed how grassroots volunteers and leaders are partnering with social service agencies to establish senior activity centres and active ageing centres. These initiatives aim to provide a supportive environment for the elderly.
In addition to community initiatives, there are ongoing efforts to upgrade infrastructure across West Coast and other estates in Singapore. This includes the installation of ramps and the creation of senior citizen corners to enhance accessibility.
Cabinet Composition and Future Leadership
Lee acknowledged that the composition of the future Cabinet will be determined by the next prime minister. However, he expressed confidence that younger ministers will continue to benefit from the wisdom and experience of their older counterparts, who possess the capability to make tough decisions for the nation’s well-being.
In a heartfelt wish, Desmond Lee expressed his desire for Singaporeans to support the leadership transition. He sees this transition as vital for the 4G team to carry the nation into the future, especially during these challenging times on a global and local scale.
