I’ve been married for 12 years now and my wife has always been adamant about wanting to drive. I, however, have never let her behind the wheel of my car.

Why? Well, it’s pretty simple — she’s a terrible driver.

I’m not sexist, but statistically speaking, women are more likely to get into an accident than men. In fact, according to the latest statistics available, women are twice as likely to get into a car accident than men. That’s why I’ve always been so adamant about not letting her drive.

Not only is she more likely to get into an accident, but she also tends to scratch up the car. To put it bluntly, she’s just not all that careful when it comes to driving. She’s always in a rush and tends to take corners too tight or go too fast. This has resulted in the car getting scratches and dents on a regular basis.

My wife is always asking me why I don’t let her drive, and I always tell her the same thing — because I don’t want her to get into an accident and because I don’t want her to scratch up the car. She doesn’t like hearing it, but it’s the truth.

I always tell her that if she’s really that desperate to drive, then she should get her own car. But she always says that she doesn’t have the money to buy a car and that it’s too much of a hassle. I understand where she’s coming from, but I still don’t think it’s worth the risk of letting her drive my car.

So, for the past 12 years, I’ve been the sole driver of our car. It’s a huge hassle at times, as I’m always the one having to drive her places. But I’d rather be the one to drive than to risk her getting into an accident or scratching up the car.

I know there are some people who think I’m being sexist by not letting her drive, but I don’t think that’s the case at all. I’m simply trying to protect our car and keep us both safe. I think any responsible husband would do the same.

’m just trying to do what’s best for my wife and myself. I love her and I want to keep her safe. I don’t want her to get into an accident or to scratch up the car. That’s why I refuse to let her drive — and I’m not going to change my mind anytime soon.

 Whisky with weird names can be incredibly fun and interesting. While it can be difficult to find whisky with these names, there are some out there that are worth exploring.

Kukujiao Whisky

Recently, we saw a post on Facebook about a unique brand of Whisky named “KUKUJIAO”

It is a Japanese Single Malt whisky, and prices are an astounding RM15000 (SGD 5000) a set.

The KUKUJIAO Whisky has a collections set which consists of 4 liquor aged 19-28 years, and its alcohol content is between 46.7- 56%.

Check out the collection in the image below:

KUKUJIAO Whisky collections set:

1) Linkwood 1992 28 years bot. 2020

2) Springbank 1993 27 years bot. 2020

3) Inchmurrin 2001 19 years bot. 2019

4) Glen Scotia 2001 19 years bot. 2019

There is also a bottle of whisky by them named: “I LOVE CHIBAI”

Other Whisky with weird names

One of the most common names is “Monkey Shoulder,” which is a blended malt whisky made by William Grant & Sons. It has a smooth, sweet taste and is popular among whisky connoisseurs. Another popular whisky brand is “Highland Park,” which is made in Scotland. It has a smoky flavor and is named after the Highland Park whisky distillery in Orkney. Another weird name for whisky is “The Balvenie,” which is a single malt whisky from Speyside, Scotland. It has a complex flavor profile with a hint of vanilla and honey. Lastly, “Jack Daniel’s” is a Tennessee whiskey that is aged for at least four years in white oak barrels. It has a smooth, sweet flavor with hints of caramel and oak.

These are just a few of the weird whisky names out there. Whether you’re looking for a unique whisky to explore or just want something different to try, these are all great options. Whisky with weird names can be a great way to expand your knowledge and taste the different flavors that come from the different types of whisky.

Image source: Kukujiao.com

Can anyone, especially the girls, explain this?

I know it’s an old topic but it seems to be more and more relevant as days passed by. But this time it happened to me so I need help from any of you to explain.

In short, my gf broke up with me few years ago. When I asked why she wants to leave, she said “You’re too nice and too good for me”. Thing is, I’m not being like “creepy” nice. I’m just being me. And I treated her well. We didn’t argue or fight for any small reasons. I never raise my voice towards her, and whatever other qualities that is deemed “nice”. You know like care for her, cooked for her, supported her emotionally, mentally, financially, etc.

I didn’t want to force someone to stay when they don’t want to, so I let her go. I did fought for her but I stopped when I know she made up her mind.

So basically…what exactly do girls like this actually want? They want us to cheat? Want us to start being abusive? Want us to spit on their face? What is it? And if we did, do they actually feel loved more?

Also, she ended up being together with someone who’s actually abusive. She came to me and I saw blue black marks on her face and hands. Pretty sure there’s more on her body as well. She complained that her new bf didn’t treat her with respect. But…when she was with me… That’s what I gave to her…and she didn’t want that? I don’t get it.

Anyways, it’s not about me trying to be with my ex. I’m okay with her really. I’m together with someone else who appreciates me now. But I’m just posting here asking about the kind of girl my ex is cause nowadays, her kind is appearing more and more. And it makes me curious really.

Would appreciate any answers from anyone here. Thank you for reading.

A 33-year-old woman shared how she has been married to her husband for 3 years but is unhappy.

She reasoned that it was because her S life is dull and she feels lonely.

She says that they have S on average, once every two months.

She feels that her husband has zero interest in her and she had requested to split up.

Here is the story:

“I’m a 33 yo lady married to my husband for 3 years and dated for 10 years.

To him, we are having mostly happy, friendly, and supportive relationship.

To me, I am not happy with the dull S life, in average once in 2 months. While the relationship seems fine but I feel extremely lonely, rejected, angry, and helpless, especially I have no explanation for why this is going on.

I have talked to him about this multiple times, telling him my feeling and wanting to understand his too. He always just simply brush off with lame excuses e.g. he forgot.

After several attempts of discussions, I have resigned myself to the fact that he has zero interest in me. So, I requested to split up a few times, he always reject. I don’t understand why is he so mean for dragging me down like that. Why can’t we just move on. I am stuck I don’t enjoy my marriage life.

If I am to take the chance, I have to try to accept that I will always be unfulfilled, feeling rejected by his lack of affection.”

How to save a marriage

The first step to salvaging a marriage is to communicate with your partner. You and your partner need to be honest and open with each other about what is causing the strain. You need to find out why things have gone wrong, and then come up with a plan to fix it.

The next step is to be understanding. It is important to remember that everyone has their own perspective and feelings. You and your partner should be willing to listen to each other and show understanding and respect. This kind of communication is key to salvaging a marriage.

The third step is to be willing to compromise. There will be times when it is necessary to compromise in order to move forward. This can be difficult, but it is necessary in order for the marriage to be salvaged.

The fourth step is to focus on the positive. It can be easy to focus on the negative in a marriage, but it is important to focus on the positive as well. Spend more time focusing on the things that make you both happy and the things that you both enjoy doing together.

Finally, take time for each other. Make sure that you are taking time to spend quality time together. This can be anything from going out on a date or just having a night in and watching movies. This will help to build intimacy and connection.

These are just a few tips that can help to salvage a marriage. It may not be easy, but with patience, understanding and communication, it is possible to save a marriage.

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Divorce hurts everyone, not just you

Just a PSA to everyone to treat relationships leading to marriage seriously. Open your eyes wide before getting into a marriage. Nobody wants a failed relationship, and no doubt, and we all know a divorce hurts. For some only momentarily, before experiencing a sense of relief. But what many don’t realise, is the impact it may have on people around you, and the consequences it may have on your future relationships.

Divorce is traumatic not just for you, but the people close to you who had to support you through those difficult times. Even worse if the circumstances leading to the divorce was toxic in ways that affected your family and friends. Your loved ones are going to remember that trauma, and that trauma WILL resurface when you are finally in a good place and in a healthy relationship, when you’re about to marry a good person. Not because they can’t see that the person is different and that the circumstances are different, but because of trauma, it’s going to take time for trust to be rebuilt, for faith that history won’t repeat itself again.

And you will get secondary hurt, again, from the reactions of your loved ones around you as you prepare to get married a second time. It will make you doubt if you should even get married again if it’s going to trigger everyone so badly. Even if they admit your new partner is different. Their words and actions, advice on precautions, and reactions WILL hurt you, again. Both out of love for you, but also out of fear of having to go through the same thing all over again.

So think through it carefully, and make sure the person you’re marrying is the right person to marry. Don’t take it lightly. It’s a solemn life-changing affair. It’s not so easy and consequence free to get out of a marriage as the culture today would like us to believe.

I’m still a proponent of marriage. But just really be sure and committed before you do it.