I always thought that having a friends with benefits relationship was the best way to go, especially when I wasn’t looking for anything serious.

I thought it was the perfect way to have no strings attached fun with someone that I enjoyed spending time with.

Started to realise that I wanted more than just a FWB relationship with him

But I never imagined that I’d be in a situation where I’d be so unhappy.

At first, I was happy with my FWB. We had a great connection and he was always up for having a good time. We had a lot of fun together and I felt like I could trust him.

But then things started to change. I noticed that he was spending more and more time with other partners. He seemed to be seeing more partners other than me and I was feeling a little jealous and left out.

I asked him about it and he said that he was just having fun and that he wasn’t looking for anything serious, plus the relationship that I was having with him was not supposed to be serious.

That was when I realised that I might have developed some feelings for him because I wanted more. I wanted to be exclusive with him and I wanted him to be exclusive with me.

But he didn’t seem to be interested in that. I was starting to feel like I was falling in love with him and I knew that I shouldn’t be feeling that way. I was so confused and I didn’t know what to do.

I decided to end the relationship. It was a difficult decision but I knew that it was for the best. I couldn’t keep feeling like this and I knew that I had to do something.

I was scared that if I stayed in the relationship, I would really fall for him and get hurt even more.

I’m sure a lot of people can relate to the feeling of being really ‘excited’ after a good workout. It’s like my body is just begging me to do something to release the pent up energy and frustration.

That’s why I’ve developed a habit of ‘piak-ing’ after a few hours of exercise no matter what kind of exercise it is.

Noticed it when I was a teenager

It all started back when I was a teenager. I had just started to get into working out and was finding out what kind of exercise I liked. I started to notice that after I worked out, I would get this overwhelming feeling of ‘excitedness’.

I would often ‘beat my aeroplane’ after my workouts when I was a teenager.

As I grew up, it had always been the same.

No matter whether it is after a football game or basketball game in my 20s to even after a round of golf now in my 30s, my body still feels the same ‘excitedness’ after I am done with exercise and showered up.

It was like my body was telling me to do something to release all that built up energy.

At first, I would ignore the feeling, but after a while I started to give in to it. My ‘little brother’ would feel different, and it would easily be at ‘attention’ from anything.

The feeling of release also felt much better when I ‘piak’ after a workout.

It became a weekly routine for me now, to exercise and then go ‘piak’

Now in my 30s, I started to have a weekly routine where I would go for a round of golf and thereafter head to find ‘services’ with my kaki.

I’ve now been doing this for years. It’s become a part of my routine every week and something I look forward to.

Maybe at my age now I enjoy it because it helps me get away from my hectic work schedule for a while.

My friend who I shall call Jane (not her real name) had been a compulsive gambler since she was a young adult. She had tried to quit a couple of times, but she was never able to stay away from the tables.

Won a lot until buy car and condominium, but still not contented

She had been on a winning streak some time back and had won a large amount of money which she used to buy herself a car and a condominium.

However, instead of being contented with what she had, she kept playing and ended up losing it all.

Now she is in a situation where she had no money, no way to pay for her expenses and no way to get back on her feet or even no way to fight back her money from the casino.

End up selling everything and even considered selling her body

Desperate and in need of money, Jane had resorted to selling her car and condominium. She even considered selling her body to interested men in order to make some money.

Luckily for her, she woke up to her senses and decided not to gamble anymore.

She decided to also ban herself from the casinos and doesn’t even indulge in social gambling with her friends and families during Chinese New Year.

She realises that gambling can be fun and exciting, but it can also have devastating consequences if it is not done responsibly.

I am happy to say that Jane is now doing well and is back on her feet. She is finally free from her addiction and is leading a much more fulfilling life.

I remember when my friend first announced he was a manager at the bank. He was so proud of himself, and I could tell he was looking forward to showing off his new position.

Thinks his manager rank is very big, but it is just like an executive in jobs outside the bank

But what he didn’t know was that a manager in a bank was just like an executive position in other jobs outside the bank.

My friend had been working in the bank for quite a few years and was finally promoted to manager. He was used to being the go-to person for all the employees and the customers, which made him feel important and powerful.

He was always talking about how he was the manager and how he was in charge of everything at the bank. But he didn’t understand that a manager in a bank is just like an executive position in other jobs outside the bank.

The truth is, a manager in a bank is still just an employee, no matter how high up they are in the hierarchy. They are responsible for managing the staff and making sure all the rules and regulations are being followed, but they don’t have the power to make decisions or change policies.

They are in a similar position to an executive in any other business. They are responsible for making sure the business runs smoothly, but they don’t have the power to make the final decisions.

My friend had a hard time understanding this concept and it was difficult to explain to him. He thought that because he was the manager, he was the most important person in the bank and that everyone had to do whatever he said.

It took some time for him to understand that he was still part of the team and that everyone had a role to play, no matter their rank.