Just a question. I’ve signed a contract bond with the company but do I need to pay one month’s salary if resign before the contract finish?

This is because the job has been affecting my mental health and body so I’m planning to resign. But the contract states that ‘by signing this letter, it is agreed that employment will be bonded for a period of 3 years. You understand that by accepting this bond agreement, you will be required to continue in employment until the date specified above.

If for any reason, you terminate the employment before the bond date is reached, you will need to pay the cost of a full month’s salary. Failure to repay the amount for breaching the agreement will result in the remaining balance being deducted from your final pay or legal action will be taken against you.

Must I really pay?

Here are what netizens think:

Yes, woah, new job and they bond u for three years? They pay for your studies ah?

nowadays they sponser u for course also can get bonded one , even though the full amt also they claim from govt dunno for wat fcuk must bond us for

Go to IMH to get certification on your mental health by doctor there and you can use those letter to get the company to release you on medical reason without penalty.

U everyday go there n sleep lor.. Since u cannot fire them n they cannot fire u.

The short answer is Yes. You need to pay when you break contract. If they terminate you, they have to pay. Contract is two ways.

What if they terminate you instead? Maybe no need pay. You just need to every week see the cheapest doctor/polyclinic get 1 week MC say you diarrhea or u went near covid patient or u tc of sm1 with small pox or hfmd. N keep going toilet break all the time. Surely they can’t go toilet cubicle look at u poo right? I learn this from my 8yr old. Dun want study every period go toilet and everyone had to wait till he comes out. They gave up on getting him to go class. N if he does go class he stare at ceiling fans.

What if the job is giving my constant headache & stress, do I have to continue finish the bond?

It’s a legally bonding contract, so legally you have to abide. But you can go to court to dispute it, albeit with cost worth more than a month salary.

What to do

Nope, that contract is not going by MOM law. You can go ahead and resign, there are many chinese-china owned company that does that. It’s illegal.

To be bonded, they will pay for your school fees, are they? Because bonded on knowledge transfer is not binding.

Just wait till your salary for the month worked and then just leave.

It’s a one-sided contract drafted by the company as it would be considered an unfair employment- MOM will side with you. (Practically the contract that you sign will be voided and unenforceable) So what the company will do is, after you decide to leave, they will use scare tactics by using a lawyer to send LOD (sometimes up to 3) You can ignore it. Because they won’t really pursue to court , not worth their time.

Usually companies who force you to sign such documents, don’t have a qualified HR. (Certified/ Diploma or degree) as a qualified HR will be able to advise the employer of such unfair and illegal practices .

Also don’t pay them a single cent, usually the HR person (from those china companies), they take commission from what you pay back, and those unlawful binding wouldn’t be in the contract at all.

Worst case:

What you can fight for is you signed under duress and or there was a misrepresentation of the contract.

Belle Delphine, at the age of 19, has carved a unique niche for herself in the online world. Known as a UK-based cosplayer, model, self-proclaimed gamer girl, and now, a businesswoman, she boasts an impressive 3.9 million followers on Instagram. This article explores the intriguing journey of Mary-Belle Kirschner, popularly known as Belle Delphine, and her recent foray into the world of unconventional business ventures.

Introduction

In the vast realm of online personalities, Belle Delphine stands out. With a massive following on Instagram, she has become a notable figure in the realms of cosplay, gaming, and more recently, commerce. The next sections delve into the fascinating details of her recent business venture that caught the attention of many.

The Unusual Product: GamerGirl Bath Water

One cannot discuss Belle Delphine without mentioning her infamous “GamerGirl Bath Water.” Priced at US$30 (S$40.72), this peculiar product created a stir on July 2 when she posted a photo on Instagram, playfully promoting the bottled bath water. The Instagram post, linked here, provides a glimpse into the quirky product description, emphasizing its sentimental use.

The Hype and Sales Surge

To the surprise of many, the GamerGirl Bath Water reportedly sold out within a day. Belle Delphine’s subsequent video, posted on July 5 and viewable here, captures her genuine astonishment at the product’s rapid sell-out. The article estimates the potential earnings, showcasing the financial success of this unorthodox venture.

Public Reaction and Controversy

As with any unconventional product, the public reaction was swift and diverse. Social media platforms buzzed with discussions, ranging from amusement to criticism. This section explores the varied responses and addresses any controversy or concerns surrounding the product. Additionally, Belle Delphine’s response to the reactions is highlighted.

Belle Delphine’s Marketing Strategy

Belle Delphine’s marketing tactics are as unconventional as her products. This section delves into her unique approach, emphasizing her Patreon page and other content creation methods. The article aims to unravel the strategy behind her online presence and the allure of her brand.

The Intersection of Cosplay, Gaming, and Business

One of the intriguing aspects of Belle Delphine’s journey is how she seamlessly merges her interests. This section explores the synergy between cosplay, gaming, and her burgeoning business ventures, shedding light on the impact this intersection has on her fanbase and overall online presence.

The Power of Personal Branding

In the digital age, personal branding is paramount. Belle Delphine serves as a compelling case study in this regard. This section delves into the significance of personal branding, using her journey as an illustration of how it can shape an individual’s online persona and business endeavors.

Behind the Scenes: Creating Raunchy Content

Beyond the bath water, Belle Delphine is known for creating explicit content on her Patreon page. This section provides a brief overview of the nature of this content and explores the business aspect of selling such material, offering insights into a lesser-known facet of her entrepreneurial ventures.

Critics vs. Fans: A Balancing Act

Navigating the dichotomy of critics and fans is no easy feat. Belle Delphine has faced her fair share of criticism, but she has also maintained a dedicated fanbase. This section explores how she manages this balancing act, maintaining her popularity while facing the inevitable controversies that come with her unconventional choices.

The Influence of Social Media on Business Success

Belle Delphine’s success is deeply intertwined with her use of social media platforms. This section discusses the role of Instagram and Patreon in propelling her to fame and fortune. It also provides general insights into leveraging social media for business success, drawing lessons from her experiences.

Future Ventures: What’s Next for Belle Delphine?

The final section indulges in speculation, pondering on what the future holds for Belle Delphine. With a track record of surprising her audience, what could be her next move? The article explores potential projects and their potential impact on her already multifaceted career.

Conclusion

In conclusion, Belle Delphine’s journey from cosplayer to businesswoman is nothing short of extraordinary. Her ability to captivate audiences, coupled with unconventional business ventures, has set her apart in the digital landscape. As she continues to navigate the realms of cosplay, gaming, and business, one can only wonder what surprises await in the future.

I’ve been married to my Thai wife, for nearly ten years. We have two wonderful kids, and life has been good.

Until recently, that is she has always been controlling in our relationship, but lately, it has become extreme. Every aspect of our lives is managed and dictated by her. She decides where we go, what we do, and even how much money I can spend. She’s always checking up on me and asking where I am and who I’m with.

She even follows me sometimes

I feel like I’m living in a prison.

It’s not just the controlling nature that’s causing me distress. She is very rude and ungrateful. She constantly belittles me and insults me in front of others. She also tries to control our children, which I won’t tolerate.

I try to talk to her about it, but she just accuses me of not understanding her and not respecting her. She says that I’m too weak and that she needs to do this to protect me and the family.

I know that she loves me, but her over-controlling behaviour is taking a toll on our relationship. I’m starting to feel like I can’t trust her and that I can’t be myself around her. I’m constantly anxious and on edge.

I want to work on our relationship and make it better, but I’m not sure how. I can’t continue living like this.

I’ve heard of people going to marriage counselling, but she refuses to go. She says that she doesn’t need any help and that she knows what she’s doing. I’m not sure what else I can do.

I know that she is a good person and that she means well, but she needs to learn how to be less controlling. I want her to be happy and to be able to trust me, but I can’t do that if she’s constantly trying to control me.

I know that she looks nice, touches nice, and even F nice, but I can’t take this over-controlling behaviour anymore. I’m at my wit’s end and I need help.

As a parent, there is no greater joy than being able to instill your mother-tongue in your children. For generations, language has been a key part of our cultural identity and a powerful way to connect with our roots.

Unfortunately, this is becoming increasingly difficult for many Singaporean parents, as it appears that more and more of our youngsters are unable to speak their mother-tongue properly.

It has been a source of embarrassment for many of us as we witness our children speaking the language with mistakes, making us doubt ourselves as parents and leaving us feeling helpless. It is a growing problem in Singapore and one that needs to be addressed urgently.

The first thing that needs to be done is to figure out why our children are having difficulty in learning the language. It could be due to the fact that English is the main language of instruction in schools and English is also used in most of the conversations at home. This has resulted in a lack of exposure to our mother-tongue, leading to our children being unable to pick up the language properly.

It could also be due to the fact that our children are growing up in a highly digitised world with an ever-growing reliance on technology. With so much of their time spent in front of screens, it is no wonder that they are not able to pick up the proper pronunciation and inflection of their mother-tongue.

This has led to a situation where many Singaporean parents are now worried that their children will not be able to communicate properly in their mother-tongue. This is not only a source of embarrassment for us, but it is also a loss of a key part of our culture and heritage.

To address this issue, we need to start by creating more opportunities for our children to be exposed to their mother-tongue. This can be done by introducing more mother-tongue classes in schools, as well as encouraging parents to speak their language at home.

We also need to make sure that our children have access to materials and resources that can help them learn the language. This can include books, online resources, and even apps that can help them practice and gain a better understanding of their mother-tongue.

Finally, we need to lead by example. We need to make sure that we are speaking our mother-tongue properly and setting a good example for our children to follow. This can be done by regularly engaging in conversations with our children in our mother-tongue and actively correcting any mistakes they make.

It is clear that more needs to be done to ensure that our children are able to speak their mother-tongue properly. As parents, we have a responsibility to ensure that our children are able to communicate in their mother-tongue, as it is a key part of our cultural identity. We must take steps to ensure that our youngsters are able to speak our language with confidence and without embarrassment.

I was making breakfast for my wife and children. As I cooked, I was filled with a sense of dread. I wasn’t sure how much longer I could remain in this marriage.

My wife and I had been married for ten years, but for the last five it had been a living hell. She was constantly nagging me, belittling me, and treating me like I was beneath her. I had tried to talk to her about it, but she had refused to listen or take any responsibility for her behavior. I had tried to get her to go to counseling, but she had refused to go.

All I wanted was to be happy, but I felt like I was stuck in this miserable marriage because I was afraid of what my mother would do if I tried to get a divorce. My mother was an extremely religious woman and had made it clear to me that she would disinherit me if I ever got a divorce.

I knew that my mother was not an unreasonable person, but I was scared of her reaction.

I was also afraid of the stigma that would come with getting a divorce in my community. I was ashamed of myself for being so weak and not standing up for what I wanted.

The truth was, my wife was not the woman I had married. She had changed over the years, and I had tried to make it work, but I was exhausted and felt like I had no other choice. I was stuck in this relationship and it was destroying me.

I knew that I should have the courage to make a change, but I was too scared to take the plunge. I was afraid of what people would think of me and what my mother would do. I was also afraid of the financial implications of a divorce.

So I stayed in this miserable marriage, day after day, feeling trapped and powerless. I had to pretend to be happy, while inside I was dying. I was living a lie, and it was slowly killing me.

I had reached a point where I was so desperate for change, that I was willing to take drastic measures. I was about to take a huge risk and leave my wife, when something unexpected happened.

My mother had a heart attack and passed away. With her death, the fear of her disinheritance was gone. I had finally been given the freedom to make a change.

I decided that I had to take a stand for myself and leave my wife. It was a difficult decision, but I knew it was the only way I could find happiness again.

I finally had the courage to make the change I had so desperately wanted. I got a divorce, and for the first time in years, I felt free.

My mother’s death had been the catalyst that allowed me to find the strength to make a change. I was grateful that I had been given the chance to start fresh and find the happiness I had been searching for. I had finally been able to break free from my miserable marriage and start a new life for myself.

It’s funny how the world works. Just a couple of months ago, my friend was the butt of jokes for his “boring” life. I mean, he works a nine to five job and comes home to his family. Not exactly exciting for the people around us. But then, something happened.

My friend started posting pictures on social media of himself travelling around the world, and of course, everyone was jealous. He was living the life people only dream of. But I knew the truth. His wife, a flight attendant, has been giving him promo tickets aka jumpseats to travel with her.

At first, I was really proud of him for taking advantage of this opportunity and doing something so amazing. But then, I started noticing how people were responding to his posts. Everywhere he went, he got comments about how rich he must be to be able to afford such extravagant trips. The thing is, they weren’t taking into account the fact that he was just using the jumpseats.

Even though I had known my friend for years and knew his financial situation, they were still convinced that he was some kind of trust fund baby. It was really frustrating.

But then, something else happened. People started to mock my friend for “showing off” his travels. They said he was trying to make everyone else feel bad for not having the same kind of life. It was really hurtful to see people talking about my friend like that.

I knew the truth, but I was powerless to do anything about it. I just had to sit there and watch as my friend got made fun of for something that wasn’t even true. It was really hard to see.

I need to confess…

I met my wife 5 years back ago, when we were about to graduate. The first time I saw her, I told to myself “She’s the girl I want to marry. She’s the girl I want by my side. She’s the girl I want to protect.” But she was taken at that time.

A part of me felt so lost and wanted her so badly. A part of me felt I shouldn’t disturb her and I should move on. I couldn’t. So I stalked all her social media, be friends with her friends and got introduced as a “mutual friend”. When we officially met for the first time, things were already not looking good between she and her boyfriend at the time. I took my chance to fill his spot and constantly gave her my support, my love. And eventually, she fell in love with as well. She decided to break it off with her then-boyfriend, although she didn’t know I knew everything about her prior beforehand thus I was able to be the perfect listener for her.

As we got together and with marriage coming into my mind but she was still not ready, I did a bold decision. I babytrapped her on purpose as I thought, “with our kid, she will be with me forever. She will never leave me and she HAS TO marry me”. In the end she was furious when she got pregnant, but quickly let go of the issue as she thought we are both responsible.

Flashback to now looking at our 3 years old daughter and her, she’s still the same girl I want to take care for the rest of my life. Although we are financially stable and have a happy family right now while even waiting for our BTO, I feel so extremely guilty. I felt she will hate me, if she knew what really happened. I know I will probably take this secret to my grave, although I will have to carry this guilt for the rest of my life.

I’m sorry, but I love you too much. I know I was selfish, but I will spend the rest of my life making up to you.