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ANN KOK SAYS SHE’S STILL SINGLE & NO SUITORS, “I LIKE MEN WHO TALK RUBBISH WITH ME”

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50-year-old Singapore actress Ann Kok recently made an appearance on the JustSwipeLah show on their YouTube channel, where she candidly shared details about her romantic life and view on relationships with host Jernelle Oh.

I’m still single

When Jernelle Oh, the show’s host, probed Ann about her relationship status, Ann candidly confessed that she was single. She added a touch by mentioning, “I don’t even have any suitors.”

Jernelle, showing a bit of skepticism, questioned Ann about the last time someone tried to win her heart. Ann, in her trademark mysterious style, paused for a moment before coyly replying, “I won’t tell you.” It left the viewers even more intrigued about her personal life.

As the conversation delved deeper into the topic, Ann revealed what she looks for in a partner. She admitted that she enjoys the company of individuals who engage in light-hearted conversations with her and talk about random things.

However, she also shared that such people have often “scared themselves away” from her. Jernelle jokingly commented, “Because these men see you as a goddess, so they feel a sense of fear in approaching you.”

Ann Kok also shared her belief that women should have high expectations when looking for a partner. She emphasized how times have changed and women have become more independent.

According to her, finding an outstanding partner is essential to complement a woman’s independence. She encouraged women to be confident in themselves, underlining the importance of self-assuredness in modern relationships.

Allergic to MSG

Among the topics they discussed also included her food allergies. Ann said that the most serious allergic reaction she had was from eating Bak Kut Teh which had MSG inside it.

She said that her whole body went numb and her friend had to send her back home, where she then became unconscious and didn’t know whether she had fainted or simply fallen asleep.

She was later told by a doctor that she could have died if she wasn’t sent to the hospital.

37 Y.O S’PORE BOYS’ HOME OFFICER HELPED HIS COLLEAGUES BUY VAPES, FINED $3.5K

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Ang Kim Chui Derek Andre, a 37-year-old youth guidance officer, pleaded guilty on Tuesday to seven charges under the Tobacco (Control of Advertisements and Sale) Act in Singapore. Fourteen additional charges were considered during the sentencing phase.

He had helped his colleagues buy electronic cigarettes, more commonly known as vapes, and was fined $3,500 for his offences, according to The Straits Times.

The Informant

The case began to unfold in May 2021 when the Health Sciences Authority (HSA) received a report from an employee of the Youth Residential Service at the Ministry of Social and Family Development (MSF). The anonymous informant revealed that a staff member at the Singapore Boys’ Home had been caught with a vape pod within the premises for the third time. The staff member, who also worked as a youth guidance officer, was implicated in this report.

The Investigation

Prompted by this report, HSA enforcement officers conducted an operation at the staff member’s home on the same day. During the search, they discovered an e-cigarette device and 26 e-cigarette pods. Further investigations revealed that these illicit items were procured from Ang, the youth guidance officer.

Ang’s Involvement

Ang’s involvement in this case didn’t end with a single transaction. It was uncovered that he had assisted seven of his colleagues at the Singapore Boys’ Home in purchasing e-cigarette devices and pods for their personal use. To facilitate these purchases, one of Ang’s colleagues created a WhatsApp group chat and added interested staff members from the facility.

Ang played a central role in this process. He would consolidate the orders, make purchases from his supplier, and distribute the illicit products to his colleagues. It’s important to note that there was no evidence to suggest that Ang had shared or purchased imitation tobacco products and their components for the youths at the home. Additionally, he did not profit from facilitating group purchases within the WhatsApp group.

Legal Implications

It’s crucial to understand the legal implications of this case. The Tobacco (Control of Advertisements and Sale) Act in Singapore strictly prohibits the purchase of components of an imitation tobacco product. These components can include mods, tanks, coils, and pods. Those caught using, owning, or purchasing vaping products can be fined up to $2,000.

WOMAN FOUND OUT EX-HUSBAND HAS BEEN SLEEPING WITH HER SISTER

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So yeah I needed to get this off my chest. It’s thrown me for a loop. I am 46, and I was with my husband since I was 21. We got divorced two and a half years ago. We just grew apart and mutually agreed that the best thing for us was to go our separate ways. It was relatively amicable as these things go. We have three boys (22, 19, and 16).

My sister also is in the process of a divorce. Her soon-to-be ex was cheating on her with a coworker of his. My sister has two kids. (10 m and 6 f). Apparently one night last year after my cousin’s birthday party the two of them ended up sleeping together. I remember the night because my sister showed up in a very revealing outfit and was turning heads all night. Little did I know one of the heads she turned belonged to my ex husband!

They’ve been sleeping together off and on ever since. I know they’re both adults and neither is in a relationship but it still seems weird to me and I don’t understand why my sister would go there. For that matter I don’t understand why my ex would do this. He’s a really attractive man, he always has been. He shouldn’t have much trouble finding a woman to date yet he chose my sister?!? Perhaps he’s more angry about our divorce than I thought?

My niece mentioned to me that he’s been around with mommy a lot. So I asked about it and he just flat out admitted what’s been going on. When I confronted my sister she didn’t even try to deny it and said they’re both adults and they’re not hurting anyone. According to her it’s just no strings attached and there are no intentions of them being together as a couple.

I don’t know why this has bothers me this much. Maybe because when I met my husband we weee in college and my sister was in elementary school. Were they looking at each other while they were both married? I asked both of them if they ever messed around while we were married and they both denied it. Maybe I’m foolish but I believed them.

WOMAN STEP ON ACCELERATOR BY ACCIDENT AFTER SLIPPER FELL OFF, CRASHES INTO & KILLS MOTORCYCLIST

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Wearing slippers is a common practice in many parts of the world, including Singapore. People often slip into their favorite pair of slippers for various activities, from shopping to casual outings.

However, a recent incident in Taiwan serves as a stark reminder that not all situations are suitable for wearing slippers.

The Tragic Incident in Taiwan

In a tragic incident, a female driver in Taiwan accidentally stepped on her car’s accelerator after her slipper had gotten loose while driving, according to Liberty Times.

This unfortunate event resulted in a devastating crash involving a group of motorcyclists, leading to injuries and the loss of a life. The driver, a woman surnamed Zeng, was on her way to work when the incident occurred.

According to reports from Taiwan news site ETtoday, Zeng lost control of her car at a traffic junction in Kaohsiung.

Her vehicle plowed into seven motorcycles waiting at a red light and one on the roadside, causing significant damage.

Tragically, a 66-year-old motorcyclist got trapped between the car and a signal control box and succumbed to his injuries and died.

Understanding the Accident’s Cause

After preliminary investigations, the police identified improper use of the accelerator as the likely cause of the accident.

What makes this incident even more perplexing is that the authorities suspected Zeng’s slippers had come loose before the accident, leading her to unintentionally press the accelerator. Alcohol or phone usage was ruled out as contributing factors.

Zeng was promptly arrested for negligence causing death, and investigations are ongoing.

Safety Precautions While Wearing Slippers

If you’re a slipper enthusiast, it’s essential to take safety precautions to minimize the risks associated with wearing them in certain situations.

  • Choose the Right Occasions: Before slipping into your favorite pair of slippers, consider the activity you’ll be engaged in. For activities that involve driving or require quick reflexes, it’s best to opt for more secure footwear.
  • Properly Fitting Slippers: Ensure your slippers fit securely and comfortably to reduce the risk of them coming off or causing discomfort during crucial moments.
  • Regular Maintenance: Check your slippers for wear and tear, including the condition of the soles. Damaged or worn-out slippers should be replaced to maintain safety.

Images source: Liberty Times

MAN APPLIES FOR JOB AT 10 FACTORIES, ALL REJECT HIM BECAUSE HIS FACE TOO SQUARE

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In a world where job interviews can be intimidating, and rejection is often accompanied by a sense of perplexity, there’s one extraordinary story from China that stands out.

It’s the tale of Mr. Zhang, a man who faced a peculiar and somewhat perplexing challenge during his job search. Despite his qualifications and determination, Mr. Zhang found himself repeatedly rejected by over 10 electronics factories in Zhejiang Province.

The reason? His face was deemed too square-shaped by the employers’ human resources (HR) departments. This rejection had a profound impact on Mr. Zhang’s life, making even the simple act of having three meals a day a significant challenge.

The Job Hunt in Zhejiang

Mr. Zhang’s journey began when he moved alone from Henan to Zhejiang in search of employment opportunities. He applied to numerous electronics factories, showing his willingness to accept any position they offered.

However, after each interview, he received the same disheartening outcome: rejection. The employers stated that his appearance did not align with their expectations.

The Puzzling Rejection

It’s worth noting that the rejection was not due to Mr. Zhang’s physical appearance being unattractive, but rather, the peculiar reason was that his face resembled a square.

Zhang said that despite his appearance, he is hardworking and can take hardships, and questioned why nobody is giving him the chance to work.

The Impact on Mr. Zhang

While the employers might have considered their decision a straightforward matter, its effects on Mr. Zhang were profound.

Alone and without a source of income, he quickly ran out of money. On the day of his interview with the news outlet, he couldn’t even afford breakfast and had no way to request financial assistance from his family.

Mr. Zhang emphasized that he was the sole breadwinner for his family, including his children and parents. His inability to secure a job in Zhejiang meant no financial support for his loved ones.

A Glimpse of Hope

After Mr. Zhang’s story came to light, journalists, touched by his situation, stepped in to help. They provided him with some much-needed sustenance and promised to assist him in searching for job openings.

In a world where job interviews can be challenging and rejection is often associated with a sense of perplexity, Mr. Zhang’s story serves as a reminder that sometimes, even the most unexpected factors can impact the job-seeking journey.

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KAYPO GIRL THINK COLLEAGUE IS A CREEP CAUSE HIS PHONE HAS WALLPAPER OF HIS IDOL

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Is this creepy to you?

Accidentally saw my male colleague’s (32y/o single) phone wallpaper and lockscreen the other day when I walked past him. His wallpaper is a very pretty, well-dressed girl whom I thought was his girlfriend. But when I asked him, he told me it’s his idol.

When ask further whether she is a singer, dancer etc, he replied she’s just a model (not those taking skimpy pictures, just really very fashionable and well-dressed girl when I kaypo and search for her instagram account at home). As much as he is a nice colleague, I do find it very creepy, like why would a guy want to have a photo of an unknown girl as his phone wallpaper and lockscreen? I was quite taken aback – like he is a grown-up adult behaving like a teenager fanboying over a certain idol or model.

Anyone ever encounter similar incident? How would you feel about him if you encounter this?

P/s: Please don’t bash me, I’m just curious to find out how people feel about this.

Here are what netizens think:

  • and u go out of ur way to look for the model’s ig and wrote a post here? It’s pretty normal for ppl to set their idol or whoever they admire as their wallpaper and this shouldn’t be judged based on their age. I don’t get what is creepy about this and it’s a harmless trivial matter.
  • I have a photo of Taylor Swift on my screen. I just need a reason to be happy when I see my phone. We guys are simple.
  • it’s his phone and his choice, none of your business who he put as wall paper or whatsoever. regardless his single or not, you ain’t his gf / wife. don’t kaypoh. he don’t answer to you lei.
  • – I know where you live

163 COMPLAINTS OF FOREIGNERS WORKING ILLEGALLY AS DELIVERY RIDERS FROM 2018-2023

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In Singapore, concerns have been raised regarding illegal foreign delivery riders working without valid work passes. These concerns prompted a parliamentary reply from Manpower Minister Tan See Leng on November 7, 2023.

According to the Minister, from 2018 to October 18, 2023, the Ministry of Manpower (MOM) received a total of 163 complaints about suspected illegal foreign delivery riders.

The Ministry of Manpower’s Response

It turns out that most of the complaints filed were “unsubstantiated.” MOM discovered that many of the foreigners in question were legitimate work pass holders employed by food and beverage establishments as in-house delivery personnel. This finding raises questions about the legitimacy of these complaints.

In several cases, there was a lack of sufficient information or evidence to warrant further action. Only 10 of the foreigners received enforcement action.

Relying on Complaints for Detection

Member of Parliament Yip Hon Weng inquired about the measures taken to identify illegal foreign delivery riders.

Manpower Minister Tan replied that, given the decentralized and mobile nature of food delivery work, MOM heavily relies on complaints to detect such instances. T

Illegal foreign employment is a serious issue, and the penalties for such actions are substantial. Both the foreigners working illegally and any party found abetting such illegal employment can face severe consequences. This includes fines of up to S$20,000 and/or a jail term for up to two years.

Recent incidents

Three individuals convicted for working as food delivery riders without a valid work pass and two individuals convicted for abetting them

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On 10 October 2023, three individuals were convicted for working as self-employed foreigners without a valid work pass. They worked illegally as food delivery riders. One Singaporean and one Permanent Resident (PR) were also convicted for abetting the said offence under the Employment of Foreign Manpower Act 1990 (EFMA).

2  Following their convictions, the three foreigners will be permanently barred from working in Singapore. The charges and sentences imposed on the five individuals are as follows:

S/N Name of individual ChargesSentence imposed
 1 Ng Teik Chuan (“Ng”), 36-year-old foreignerOne charge under the EFMA for being a self-employed foreigner without having a valid work pass.Fine of $10,000
 2Amanullah Faizal Navas (“Amanullah”), 37-year-old foreignerOne charge under the EFMA for being a self-employed foreigner without having a valid work pass.Fine of $3,800
 3Chaw Soon Yaw (“Soon Yaw”), 28-year-old foreignerOne charge under the EFMA for being a self-employed foreigner without having a valid work pass.Fine of $5,000
 4Muhammad Mubeen Muthibbi Bin Sahul Hameed (“Mubeen”), 47-year-old Singapore CitizenOne charge under the EFMA for abetting the illegal self-employment of a foreigner who does not have a valid work pass.Fine of $3,800
 5Chaw Soon Song (“Soon Song”), 23-year-old Singapore
Permanent Resident
One charge under the EFMA for abetting the illegal self-employment of a
foreigner who does not have a valid work pass.
Fine of $5,000

Case Details

3  Investigations by the Ministry of Manpower (“MOM”) revealed that:

  • Between May 2022 and March 2023, 36-year-old Ng worked as a food delivery rider using the MilkRun and LiveExpress applications. He made over 1,300 deliveries and earned around $17,000 from his work.
  • In March 2023, 37-year-old Amanullah worked as a food delivery rider for four days using the FoodPanda account belonging to his friend Mubeen, a 47-year-old Singaporean. Mubeen agreed to share the use of his account despite being fully aware that Amanullah was a foreigner and that it was illegal for Amanullah to work as a food delivery rider. Amanullah earned around $540 from his work.
  • Between December 2022 and March 2023, 28-year-old Soon Yaw worked as a food delivery rider using the Deliveroo account of his brother, Soon Song, a 23 year old Singapore PR. Soon Song had offered to share his account with Soon Yaw to supplement Soon Yaw’s income, despite being fully aware that it was illegal for Soon Yaw to work as a food delivery rider without a valid work pass. Soon Yaw earned more than $2,000 from his work.

4  Court proceedings against foreigner Muhammad Syazuwan Bin Sharil for being a self-employed foreigner without having a valid work pass, and Singaporean, Low Kim Soon for allegedly abetting the illegal self-employment are ongoing.

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5  MOM takes a serious view of illegal employment and will take action against any individual involved in these acts. Under the EFMA, only foreigners with valid work passes are allowed to work in Singapore, in the occupation as stated in their work passes. Foreigners who are self-employed without a valid work pass may be liable to a fine not exceeding $20,000, imprisonment for up to two years, or both. Upon conviction, their work pass privileges would also be suspended, and they will be permanently barred from working in Singapore.

6  Local delivery platform workers who are found to have allowed foreigners to use their accounts may face the same penalties as the latter.

7  Members of the public who come across suspicious employment activities such as companies employing foreigners without valid work passes or know of persons or employers who contravene the EFMA are encouraged to report the matter to MOM at 64385122 or [email protected]. All information that is shared will be kept strictly confidential.

MAN WANT TO HELP HIS MAID AFTER MAID’S FRIEND CHARGE $5.8K INTEREST FOR $800 LOAN

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Need an advise.

I have a helper who cried to me and told me that she has financial issues. After 30minutes of calming her down, she told me her story.

She had borrowed from another maid who is currently working in Singapore for a total amount of $800, as her son was sick back in the Philippines. After 1 year of working in Singapore, she now told me that she had fully paid the loan of $800 but the other maid still wants to ask her for $5800 as it due to her interest and late payments.

My helper does not want to make a police report as she was scared that she has to be deployed back to the Philippines along with the the other maid.

She has shown me the other maid’s facebook where she post pictures of many other helpers who have not paid their dues. The pictures were shown as a way to shame the other helpers to the Philippines community in Singapore and Philippines. There was also a voice recording that the loaner speaks in Tagalog that she knows everything about her.

Please. Have anyone of your helper undergone this situation?

How can I help my helper without destroying her rice bowl?

Here are what netizens think:

  • Just report to SPF. An Ah Long, Singaporean or Filipino is still an Ah Long.
  • That maid cannot anyhow claimed about interests. Must be something fishy about her. Instead of helping her better make a report. But u need to have proofs or else they will not file the case and just give advise.
  • I highly recommend you NOT to get involved in this, and put the matter to police or else her agent. More often than not (unfortunately), there are a lot of lies in this kind of situation.
  • Threaten the other helper that u will report her to the police so that she will retract her extortion of $5800 from your helper
  • I honestly think your helper has no choice and had to come to you for help. Out of benefit of doubt, help her to report police. Whatever she has to face, she will have to face. But you helped many others on the illegal loan sharks that is going around.

HAN FEIZI WILL LIKELY BE DEPORTED BACK TO CHINA AFTER FINISHING HER JAIL TERM

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The woman behind the now-infamous saga at Singapore General Hospital, 29-year-old Han Feizi, where she insulted a hospital worker and refused to put on a mask, before challenged police officers who arrived to question her; was sentenced last month to a 5-week and 5 days imprisonment term.

She was jailed for a number of offences including working as a KTV hostess instead of a clerk, which she declared in her application for a work permit here.

According to a report by Shin Min Daily News, who cited a lawyer, Han is likely to be deported after serving her jail sentence.

Summary of the likely deportation

  1. Work Permit Violation: Han Feizi was working in Singapore as a hostess, which was not in line with the occupation specified in her work permit applications, where she had applied as a clerk.
  2. Potential Deportation: A lawyer has suggested that authorities may deport Han after she completes her jail sentence.
  3. In Singapore, when foreigners break the law, it is common for them to be sent directly to the Immigration and Checkpoints Authority (ICA) after serving their jail term.
    ICA officers would then escort the individual to the nearest airport in their home country, which, in Han’s case as a Chinese national, would likely be Shenzhen Airport.
  4. Restricted Mobility After Release: The second lawyer mentioned that after her release from prison, Han might have limited mobility within Singapore.
    Her ability to stay in Singapore for a few days or to return to her residence depends on whether the ICA issues a special pass to her. If she cannot return to her residence, arrangements for her personal belongings may need to be made by relatives or friends.
  5. Banishment Act 1959: The legal process of deportation in this case is guided by the Banishment Act 1959, which requires a Minister to make an order for banishment and sign a form before the individual can be deported. Once this order is made, authorities would facilitate the person’s return to their home country.
  6. Uncertainty: As of the time of writing, it is not clear whether Han will indeed be deported. The lawyers’ statements are speculative, and the final decision would be determined by the legal process and the authorities involved.

Recap on the whole saga

29-year-old Chinese national Han Feizi, who has taken the Singapore news media by storm with her antics in a now-infamous incident at the Singapore General Hospital, was sentenced on 25 October to 5 weeks and 5 days imprisonment, as well as a fine of $600, according to Channel NewsAsia.

She had pleaded guilty to 5 charges that included using criminal force on a condominium security officer, insulting a hospital employee, public nuisance, making a false statement in her work permit application; three other charges were also taken into consideration during her sentencing.

The prosecution said that Han was arrested on 11 October, and the MInistry of Manpower was then informed about possible breaches under the Employment of Foreign Manpower Act.

Investigations then ensued and it revealed that Han had applied for a work permit earlier this year in August, after her application for a student pass was rejected.

In her application, she declared that she would be working as a clerk but failed to do so. Instead, she worked as a freelance hostess in Singapore from 1 August 2023 to 11 October 2023.

The prosecutor for MOM also added that Han had only wanted to come to Singapore to “have fun”, and that she applied for the work pass without trying to understand what it said, as the form was in English.

Incident at The Sail

The prosecution said that on 3 October at about 10pm, the police were called in by the security at The Sail at Marina Bay, a private apartment building, because there was a drunk resident that needed help.

Han was found by a security officer squatting in a common area, and she said that she was drunk; the security then helped the woman back to her unit but she became aggressive inside the lift and pushed the guard, insulting him with vulgarities.

SGH Incident

On 10 October, the Singaporean police received a call for help at the Singapore General Hospital (SGH) at around 2:35 am.

Han claimed to have waited for three hours in the hospital’s emergency department without receiving any medical attention after allegedly being hit by a car.

She further alleged that a nurse told her she would not be treated because she was not a Singaporean citizen. These claims were later disputed by SGH.

She had insulted a hospital staff member and refused to put on a face mask at the time.

The woman posted two videos on Douyin, both exceeding 11 minutes. She was also seen demanding a plainclothes police officer to identify herself and attempting to grab her police lanyard.

According to ST, the Singapore Police Force said that the two plainclothes officers, who were investigations officers, had introduced themselves in front of uniformed officers before speaking to the woman.

The female police officer was seen in the video repeatedly asking the woman if she had used vulgarities on the nurse, but the woman refused to answer.

The woman refused to cooperate and used vulgarities on one of the police officers, and filmed her interview with one of the female investigation officers and sharing them on her Douyin account.

The videos, which have since been reposted on several social media platforms, have been viewed more than a million times in total.

You can watch the videos herehere and here.

She was also found to have been jailed in China for drink-driving offences.

According to a judgement in China, there was also a woman named Han Feizi who was jailed in Beijing for dangerous driving a few years ago.

According to Shin Min Daily News, that woman is the same woman as the one in the viral SGH incident.

She was arrested on 29 December 2018 for dangerous driving and causing a car accident after drinking alcohol, at the Chao Yang district in Beijing at about 1.30am.

She was found with 89.8mg of alcohol per 100ml of breath, and she later pleaded guilty to her offence and was detained from 40 days, as well as being fined 2,000 RMB (or SGD $374).

Two days later, upon her release, she was seen enjoying herself at a hot spring with her mother, and had posted numerous videos of herself in a purported Lamborghini.

CRAZY HUSBAND TIMES HIS WIFE WHEN WORKING, WIFE IN FEAR EVERY DAY

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I (26F) don’t know what to do anymore about my husband (33M)

We have been married for a year and I feel this insane guilt about wanting to leave. A lot has changed since getting married, but I felt cold feet beforehand I just was told it was normal.

Ever since getting married he’s gotten more controlling, jealous, stopped being intimate and started talking to cam girls, and has been pressuring me for a family.

I’m never alone anymore. He works from home when I do and times me on my office days. When I work from home he times me too and clocks when I work, which had given me insane anxiety around work and home and now I can’t really eat on my work from home days anymore.

He’s been more rough when we get intimate, I tell him I don’t like some things he does but he continues anyways. Or last time when I yelled out in pain and looked angry at him he just said “just trying something new.” Now I don’t even want to sleep with him anymore because I’m afraid he’ll hurt me, but he doesn’t care. He would rather talk to cam girls anyways or watch adult videos.

I’ve gently tried bringing up the lack of intimacy to him, but he always turns it on me. Like that I don’t try to look pretty for him so why would he think of me that way, but then when I used to dress up I would always get rejected. Or that he hates condoms and just wants a kid and is done using them.

Anytime I hang out with friends or leave the house he makes “jokes” about how I’m cheating on him. And this had also now made me not want to leave the house.

There was also another concerning joke where he pretended to choke me and it scared me a bit because he’s much bigger than me.

It obviously didn’t start this way and he had anger issues and addiction problems before getting married but it was never this bad.

The problem isn’t constant and he’s not a bad person, I love him and we are fine for the most part. I just don’t know if I can live this way anymore. Even when things are good I don’t feel I can enjoy them anymore.

He’s worked on his anger and has gotten better, but hasn’t gone to therapy since the verbal abuse incident 6 months ago and that was part of the only reason I agreed to stay.

I have these intense feelings of wanting to leave or runaway, but maybe I need to try and work this out in marriage counseling. I am not sure where to go from here, but I can’t picture feeling this way the rest of my life. Also I can’t bring a kid into this. I just can’t.

Also bought a house last year so I feel like I’m just blowing up our life after it got started and ruining his for no good reason. Side note – we have been together for 5 years. He tells me if I don’t have his kid and we divorced he will never have one.

Does this ever get better? Is therapy the answer? Am I mentally ill for wanting to blow up my life? I feel like I’m crazy.

Everything seems fine to others on the outside so also if I left no one besides my best friend would understand.