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MAN SAYS HIS DIPLOMA CERT ONLY GET $2.1K SALARY, CANNOT SUSTAIN LIFE

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I earn $2.1k under one of the ministries with a diploma cert

I gradated one year ago and they offered me this salary stating that it is the job market and is reasonable.

I find it very sad how diploma certs are no longer enough to sustain a lifestyle. Gamen has always said that diploma cert is enough but after getting my after my take home pay is $1.6k per month, I find it hard to support my elderly parents and to start a family of my own.

$1.6k – food – transport – bills = there is barely any money left and to support elderly parents as it is viewed that we must support our parents, “The Maintenance of Parents Act provides for Singapore residents aged 60 years old and above who are unable to subsist on their own, to claim maintenance from their children.”

Of course, I love my parents but with such little amount of money left, how do you start a family?

Degree is necessary to ensure a higher pay to live in Singapore.

Here are what netizens think:

  • There are private courses you can take to prepare yourself for the future. Don’t take a degree to realise that you’re learning outdated stuff.
  • Quite sure there is something wrong about your work. You are getting the salary roughly similar to a full time cleaner.
  • Upgrade and hunt for better jobs while you continue to work. The worst thing you can do is to stay there for 5 to 10 years if you’re already unhappy now.
  • We are just waiting for education inflation to worsen.
  • Now a days cert are just for upgrading yourself. Work experience and upgrading yourself Is the way to help u get better pay
  • You are paid lower than Malaysians holding a spm cert, which is lower than our local o levels cert. If your salary is not paying you a liveable wage, find a job that will or upskill yourself.

CHINA UNCLE SLAMS WOMAN IN VIRAL SGH SAGA, SAYS THERE ARE MANY “BIG BABIES” IN CHINA

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In a world fueled by social media, stories go viral in a matter of seconds. One such incident took place at the Singapore General Hospital (SGH) involving a 29-year-old woman from China named Han Feizi, who went viral after a video showed her in a heated exchange with an investigation officer (IO) at SGH after allegedly insulting a nurse.

China uncle speaks up for Singapore

This incident sparked intense debates both in Singapore and China. While many of Han Feizi’s supporters saw this as an injustice against one of their own people and demanded the release of CCTV footage and the IO’s identity, an uncle from China took a different stance.

A Douyin user in China, by the username “老导演的快乐生活“, posted a video responding to the incident and criticized Han Feizi and her supporters, referring to them as “big babies” and said that they had “glass hearts”.

The CCTV Footage Debate

He addressed her supporters calling for the hospital CCTV footage to be released, saying that many countries around the world, including Singapore, have restrictions of the usage of CCTV footage, and that only the police and other authorities had the authority to release them.

He argued that China’s extensive surveillance systems, not applicable in Singapore, made this argument irrelevant.

The IO’s Hidden Identity

On the issue of the IO not revealing her identification, the uncle clarified that both the China and Singapore police do not allow others to take photos or videos of their identification documents (Han was filming the police woman at the time).

The uncle said that if Han had stopped filming, the officer would have definitely displayed her identification documents. But as Han was filming the whole interaction, she couldn’t do that as it would pose a risk to herself.

Claims of Discrimination

He vehemently denied claims of discrimination against Chinese nationals in Singapore. The uncle accused Han Feizi’s supporters of making exaggerated claims of discrimination and pointed out that in the modern world, few instances of genuine discrimination against Chinese people occur.

The uncle emphasized that Singapore’s medical care facilities are some of the best in Asia and stressed that many of them do not tolerate verbal insults against their staff. He considered it normal and reasonable for the police to investigate and charge individuals who engage in such behavior.

GIRL FOUND OUT BF HAS BEEN TALKING TO FEMALE FRIEND ABOUT “NAUGHTY” STUFF

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My 23M bf has a close female friend (Girl A) that is like a confidant of his. They would meet up a few times a year to chitchat about life and occasionally text one another.

Previously  i asked what they were chatting about during their meetups as it often takes 3-4 hrs for each meeting. He mentioned they were just gossiping about their ex classmates and some boring life talks which is normal and understandable on why they had never invited me to join for dinner.

Last week, i made a new friend which happens to be Girl A’s good friend and my bf’s acquaintance. She mentioned that Girl A had occasionally shared their conversation topics from those meet up sessions with her and its usually comprises of one of them asking advice for their relationship, and also frequently involve discussions of a more explicit nature e.g how to self pleasure and how to get better in bed etc.

After hearing it, i just dont feel comfortable knowing that such personal stuff about our relationship and intimacy are made known to someone outside our relationship. Furthermore knowing that he may be twisting the facts about the conversations they had during their catchups. As my bf and Girl A has been friends for a decade, he probably had been discussing all these issues with her prior to getting attached with me and I want to respect that privacy of his.

But how can i go about asking him respectfully refrain from discussing such intimate and personal issues with Girl A in the future?

FAIRPRICE REFUTES CIRCULATING MESSAGE ABOUT THEIR EGGS BEING RECALLED FOR SALMONELLA

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In an age where information travels at lightning speed through various channels, it’s essential to differentiate between fact and fiction.

NTUC FairPrice recently found itself addressing a misleading WhatsApp message that claimed that their eggs were contaminated with Salmonella.

Circulating WhatsApp Message is False

NTUC FairPrice issued a statement that raised a red flag about a misleading WhatsApp message. The message wrongly claimed that the eggs sold at their stores were contaminated with Salmonella and advised customers to return them for a refund. NTUC FairPrice took this matter seriously and acted swiftly to address the situation.

The retail giant was quick to clarify that the WhatsApp message was entirely untrue. There was no egg recall at any of their stores, and the safety of the products remained uncompromised. This reassurance was a testament to the company’s commitment to providing safe and quality products to its customers.

Assurance of Egg Safety

NTUC FairPrice emphasized that official updates and alerts are posted on their official website (www.fairprice.com.sg) and social media channels (Facebook: NTUC FairPrice and Instagram: @fairpricesg).

NTUC FairPrice’s Facebook Statement

𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗔𝗡𝗡𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗖𝗘𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧: 𝗙𝗔𝗟𝗦𝗘 𝗘𝗚𝗚 𝗥𝗘𝗖𝗔𝗟𝗟 𝗔𝗟𝗘𝗥𝗧 𝗢𝗡 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧𝗦𝗔𝗣𝗣

Dear valued FairPrice customers,

We’ve recently come across a misleading WhatsApp message. The message falsely claims that eggs sold at our stores are contaminated with Salmonella and advises you to return them for a refund. We want to clarify that this is untrue, and there is no egg recall at any of our stores.

We urge you to be vigilant when receiving and forwarding information via WhatsApp or any other messaging platform. We only post official updates and alerts on our website (www.fairprice.com.sg) and our official social media channels (Facebook: NTUC FairPrice and Instagram: @fairpricesg).

Your well-being matters to us, and we are committed to providing you with safe and quality products. Thank you for your continued support.

CYNTHIA KOH SAYS TOO LATE FOR HER TO BE A MUM NOW, KEEPS BUSY TO PREVENT LONELINESS

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In the movie “Confinement,” directed by acclaimed local director Kelvin Tong, 49-year-old actress Cynthia Koh takes on the role of Ah Qing, a nanny entrusted with the care of a newborn by Rebecca Lim’s character, in the psychological thriller.

Cynthia Koh’s character in “In Confinement” is that of a nanny who must take care of the infant. It’s a challenging role that required her to undergo pre-production training to handle the baby convincingly.

Cynthia Koh’s Personal Choice

In her personal life, Cynthia Koh has made a conscious decision to remain child-free. She spoke to The Straits Times and shared that it is already too late for her to become a mother herself.

Throughout the 2-week shoot of the movie, where she spent a lot of time with the baby, she revealed that she didn’t feel any yearnings to become a mother.

Although the thought of motherhood did cross her mind in the past, she said that she used to believe that childbirth was a responsibility for all women, but the practicalities of life led her on a different path.

The Challenges of Motherhood

Koh’s early plan when she was younger, was to start dating and potentially settle down around the age of 27. However, life had other plans.

Local men, she realized, were often in the early stages of their careers at that age, making it financially challenging to start a family.

She was also apprehensive about dating older men, fearing control or incompatibility. Time passed quickly, and before she knew it, the window for traditional motherhood had closed.

The Realization and Acceptance

Today, Cynthia Koh remains childless and single, having embraced her independent and fulfilling life. She keeps herself busy with work and by trying new experiences, effectively keeping away her loneliness.

She then reflected on her early plans and urged other women not to plan too much.

The idea of adoption did cross Koh’s mind at one point, but it was more of a fleeting thought than a concrete plan. Her focus shifted towards embracing her unique path in life.

In her early 40s, her mother suggested the possibility of getting pregnant using donor, a suggestion that Koh found amusing. She rejected the idea and said that she is already past the nagging stage and that it’s okay if she cannot become a parent.

The movie Confinement opens in theatres this Thursday (19 October).

GIRL LAUGHED WHEN SHE FOUND OUT SHE HAS LEUKEMIA, TOO SHOCKED

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I laughed when I found out I had cancer, I know it sounds kinda odd, but I (F) (Would rather not say my age) laughed when I found out that I have cancer.

Two years ago in February of 2020 I got a lot of nosebleeds (around 3 a day) after a week my mother took me to the hospital.

I got my blood drawn and they said I had to come back there the next day. I did. They did something called a “bone marrow draw” and figured out I had cancer.

(This is where it gets weird) I just started to laugh, I didn’t think they were joking but I still laughed.

When I told my best friend, she started crying but I still laughed. I have suffered from Chronic Myeloid Leukemia, a very rare type of cancer, for two years.

And sometimes. I laugh about it.

Netizens’ comments

  • Sometimes laughing is all we can do. Keep your head up, and keep laughing. Look life in the face and shout “is that all you got?!”And then fight it with all your worth.

HDB CLEANER KAYSIAO POSE FOR PHOTO OF HIMSELF SWEEPING CORRIDOR, THEN LEAVES WITHOUT SWEEPING

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An estate cleaner has drawn flak from netizens after he was caught posing for his colleague to take a photo of him at work at around 6.30pm on Oct 6, allegedly as “proof” that he had swept that area of the corridor.

Photo proof

In a world where every moment can be shared with the click of a button, a seemingly innocuous incident involving an estate cleaner has sparked controversy.

This cleaner, wearing an Aljunied-Hougang Town Council (AHTC) uniform, found himself in the middle of a social media storm when a colleague captured him posing with his broom and dustpan.

The incident, which unfolded on the evening of October 6th, has left netizens questioning whether it was an attempt to put on a show or simply a misunderstanding.

The Viral Video

The incident came to the public’s attention through a 13-second-long video uploaded on TikTok by user Rafeyan, a Sengkang resident.

In this video, the cleaner, who was wearing an Aljunied-Hougang Town Council uniform, can be seen walking behind his colleague, who then motions for him to stand at the end of a corridor for a photo.

With nonchalance, he strikes a pose with his cleaning equipment and proceeds to briefly sweep a small area. His coworker hastily captures this moment, and both individuals depart the scene shortly after.

The video is accompanied by Rafeyan’s caption, “Employee of the month. Must take photo show proof.”

Public Reaction

The video quickly went viral, garnering thousands of views, comments, and shares. Netizens across various social media platforms expressed their disbelief and, in some cases, outrage at the cleaner’s actions.

Some questioned the integrity of the cleaner’s role, while others condemned what they perceived as a staged photo op.

Netizens’ comments

  1. and we r still paying more and more to town council
  2. be like me i always use the ONE SERVICE APP, as long i see litters or major dirts more thn 1 day just report there, no use email all slow nowadays
  3. not just in SK.. punggol also.. lump of rubbish can stay at the same spot for up to 1 month. inform MP abt it they called for floor washing next day
  4. Happened at Bukit Panjang also and then town council updated it’s cleaned
  5. And yet they increased conservancy charges.
  6. common practice in cleaning industry.. take photo to show proof of work
@nasigorengpedastknksayur Employee of month. Must take photo show proof 🤣 #singapore #singapretiktok ♬ mau sabar adik mana mana kerja – uncle musliadi SSAR

15 Y.O SCHOOLBOY DEAD AFTER FALLING OFF ROPE COURSE @ YISHUN SAFRA, 23 Y.O MAN TO PLEAD GUILTY

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23-year-old Muhammad Nurul Hakim Mohamed Din, is accused of causing the death of Puah Xin Yang Jethro, a 15-year-old student, during a high-element rope course At Yishun SFRA.

This incident occurred at the SAFRA Adventure Sports Centre in Yishun, Singapore, during a school camp. The deceased was suspended from his safety harness during the activity and ended up suffering from organ failure, before he died, according to Channel NewsAsia.

The Incident

The tragedy that occurred at the SAFRA Adventure Sports Centre was a result of a fatal lapse in safety measures. Muhammad Nurul Hakim faces a charge of a rash act that does not amount to culpable homicide.

This charge stems from his alleged failure to ensure that both the leg straps of Jethro’s safety harness were properly buckled and adjusted before dispatching him onto the rope course.

Jethro’s demise was a result of multi-organ failure, which occurred after his neck was compressed, leading to traumatic asphyxia.

He was left suspended in a loose harness after falling off the rope course, and his leg straps became completely unbuckled.

The Role of Muhammad Nurul Hakim

At the time of the incident, Muhammad Nurul Hakim was working as the dispatcher of the Canopy Sky Walk rope course that was organized by the outdoor adventure learning company Camelot.

As the dispatcher, Muhammad Nurul Hakim had a critical responsibility to ensure the safety of participants, which, tragically, was not fulfilled in this case.

The consequences of this incident were severe and heartbreaking. A young student lost his life due to a mishap that could have been prevented with proper safety measures. The tragic events led to the loss of a promising life and brought immense grief to the victim’s family and community.

SAFRA Yishun said in a statement last year that the incident was a “mishap”, and revealed that the deceased was taking part in a camp programme by ACS (Independent).

Muhammad Nurul Hakim’s Travel Plans

In a recent development, Muhammad Nurul Hakim expressed his intention to the court on 16 October, asking for permission to leave Singapore temporarily. He plans to travel to Dubai and the United Arab Emirates from November 5 to November 15.

His purpose for this travel is to represent the Singapore Silat Federation as an international technical official at two international events.

The court, while granting permission for Muhammad Nurul Hakim’s travel, imposed several conditions. He is required to provide additional bail of S$5,000 (US$3,651) and submit his complete travel itinerary to the investigating officer before departure.

Additionally, he must remain contactable and surrender his passport within 24 hours of his return.

Upcoming Court Date

Muhammad Nurul Hakim is set to return to court for his guilty plea on November 22. This date will mark a crucial step in the legal proceedings and bring the case closer to a resolution.

GF BROKE UP WITH GUY, BUT STILL WANTS TO LIVE & SLEEP WITH HIM

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My girlfriend (28F) broke with me (27M) after 5 years but still want to live and sleep with me

We had a conversation yesterday and she told me about her feeling, she doesn’t love me anymore, no particular reason, it’s gone, it can’t come back, nothing to do, it’s the end.

I was prepared since 2 weeks because she was very distant, so I handle it very well to be honest, far better I expected. I was very sad, but relieved that this nightmare was over, to no longer live with doubt and questioning, that she had found the strength to tell me things and imagine that it soothed her heart too.

But well, things cannot be so simple! She tell me she still want to live with me, she want to be my friend. I said to myself, she’s trying to reassure me that I’m not going to find myself alone overnight.

I didn’t want us to continue living together by default or out of pity or to avoid loneliness.

So I ask her directly, “do you prefer to live alone or with me ?” she said with me, I asked another question “Do you want to live with Luna (her best friend) or with me ?” she said with me.

I found that weird, but it was only the beginning. I wanted to sleep in the living room, and she doesn’t accept it, she come multiple time to speak with me during the night, and finish by sleep with me because she doesn’t want to sleep without me.

And this morning she can’t stop to be tactile with me, and started to cry, and told me she doesn’t understand what is happening in her head because she doesn’t feel the same thing as yesterday.

She asked me “You’re not going to leave are you?”, I said no but… well, maybe yes, I should.

It look like she is regretting very fast…

But I don’t want to have hope for nothing, I don’t know how to behave. It look like she realise what she did and what she lost.

But what is the value of this electric shock? Is it temporary? She says her brain sends her lots of images of what she likes about me and really doesn’t understand what’s going on.

I told her I was really surprised by her reaction, I thought she would be relieved and start to get back to normal.

But I have in front of me someone who wants to continue to live, sleep and have affection with me. That for me it is the very definition of love. That if it’s a lack of intimate desire or something else it can be worked on. I added that it was my definition and that perhaps we did not have the same one.

She said “yet I agree with what you say”.

She continue to cry and show regrets, I told her that I understood, that I’ve known this feeling before, of realizing the importance of things when I lose them, that it didn’t matter, that she had to take the time to reflect and put her mind and ideas in order.

I don’t know what else to do, I just want her to be okay and know what she wants, I love her so much

MAN WORKS HARD FOR GF, ONLY TO BE BETRAY CAUSE A RICHER GUY EXIST

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Please tell me if I did the right thing.

Was in a relationship with my gf – turned fiancé for 3 years (total relationship length including engagement). Planned to get married to her next year. She has been great towards me and all these time I sincerely loved her, and have never hurt her in any serious way, and vice versa.

Last week, she left her phone in my car after we went out for dinner. Took it with me to return it to her. Her phone rang, and it’s a guy’s name, which I didn’t recognize. I decided to pick it up, and before I get to say anything, the guy on the other line starts ranting and crying about her.

The guy is begging for her to come back to him, the guy asked why is he not enough, why did she dump him for “some guy” that she “just met”, what did the “other guy” has that he don’t, etc.

I then spoke, and said I’m her fiancé, to which the guy cried again. I thought it’s just a long time ago kind of ex, but…from his tone, I felt curious, and decided to keep talking to him.

Long story short, my fiancé had been in a relationship with him for 3 years and it was a wonderful relationship, but, this guy has been busy working to get more cash to marry her, and had almost no time to be with her although he consistently text and call her. He was busy thinking about buying a house, car etc. He works two different jobs too just to fulfill her dreams. She then decided to cheat on him with me. Yeah, I’m that “some guy” and “other guy” he was ranting about.

I never knew she cheated on her ex. And her ex sounds like a good guy. I told him that I’ll try to find out more through her.

So next day, met her, asked her, and she admitted it. She said she chose me cause I already have the “whole package”. House, car, money, career, etc. I then ask what about for me? To which she said that she did love me more than my “package”. Then I asked her, what about her ex, he’s also a great guy. She admitted that he is a great guy, but she can’t wait any longer for him. She admitted she doesn’t want to go though the worst with him.

I don’t feel right. If she’s with me for my “package” and not for me, and only waiting for me at the finish line instead of walking beside me, plus, cheated on a good man that has worked really hard for her, my heart says I can’t trust her. I decided to call it off. She was begging and say that her love for me is real. But.. by that time, I have doubts.

Hours later, I called the guy, and told her I ended things with her. And that he shouldn’t bother thinking about her or try to get back with her. She’s not worth it. The guy, said he’ll do his best. We are friends now and we meet up sometimes, although we don’t talk about her.

Now…did I made the right call? Sometimes I felt like, maybe I was too harsh? I mean…I don’t want to be with a cheater. It just seemed like if I had a downfall, she’ll just be looking for someone else.

So yeah…sorry it’s a lil long. Hope those who read this can give me a piece of your thoughts on this. Thank you.