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BF LOST 2/3 OF HIS INCOME HAS EGO ISSUES AS GF IS MAKING MUCH MORE THAN HIM

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Hello all,

So I (29F) and my boyfriend (33M) have always been pretty open about our pasts, jobs, financial responsibility to family etc.

However, with the effects of the Covid19 Pandemic, his work took a massive hit and he has been earning a third of what he did beforehand.

The other day, I needed to go to the bank after we had lunch together. Generally, if the bill is over a certain amount, I tend to pay to ease the awkwardness.

We entered the bank and I told him to sit in the waiting area whilst I spoke to an adviser (it was about not being able to access my online banking and nothing big).

Once I had left, 20 or so minutes later (the banker was trying to sell me a credit card) he was nowhere to be seen. I searched everywhere and even visited stores in the neighbourhood which I knew he liked to go to. The rain was pretty bad, and I was getting frustrated that his phone was going through to his voicemail. After an hour and a half of looking and waiting,

I decided to go home.

Once I got there, he was also there, hence the argument. He said he didn’t appreciate that I made him wait in the waiting room, but I explained that most of the time, banks will not allow non-married couples in together, especially when we are sharing security information.

He said that he just wanted to accompany me and that he already knew I earned more than him and just wanted to be present. I got angry and defensive because he knows everything about me but this part of me, I wanted to keep to myself.

He really can not get over my betrayal of him and so it’s been three days of awkward silence.

I wrong or he ego too big?

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18 Y.O CLAIMED THAT AN “EXPLOSIVE DEVICE” WAS PLANTED AT NDP, ARRESTED

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An 18-year-old was arrested after claiming that an explosive device was planted and would blow up at the National Day Parade venue on 9 August.

He was arrested for his suspected involvement in communicating false information that the “device” would blow up at The Float @ Marina Bay.

The youth said tweeted on National Day that the device was planted under a seat at Row 27 of the NDP venue.

The Singapore Police Force was alerted to the social media post on Twitter at about 7.10pm on 9 August about the hoax.

Officers then established the suspect’s identity from the Criminal Investigation Department and Ang Mo Kio Police Division.

He was subsequently arrested within 2 hours of the crime being reported, and two mobile phones were also seized as case exhibits.

According to the police’s preliminary investigations, no suspicious items were found at the location.

Singapore Police Force’s statement

The Police have arrested an 18-year-old man for his suspected involvement in communicating false information of a harmful thing.

On 9 August 2022 at about 7.10 pm, the Police were informed that an unknown person had posted on a Twitter account, suggesting that there was an item that would “blow up”, under the seat at Row 27 of The Float at Marina Bay, where the National Day Parade was held.

Through immediate follow-up investigations, officers from Criminal Investigation Department and Ang Mo Kio Police Division established the identity of the man and arrested him within two hours of the reported crime. Preliminary investigations revealed that there were no suspicious items found at The Float at Marina Bay. Two mobile phones have been seized as case exhibits.

Police investigations are ongoing. The offence of communicating false information of a harmful thing under Section 268A of the Penal Code 1871, carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years, a fine which may extend to $50,000, or both.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
10 August 2022 @ 6:30 PM

MAN SETS UP FAKE DATING PROFILE WITH TALL HANDSOME DUDE TO PRANK SUPERFICIAL GIRLS

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I recently tried meeting girls online but didn’t have much success due to not being 1 in 10,000 handsome and super tall and having chiselled abs and stuff.

I noticed a lot of girls had stuff in their profile like swipe right only if you’re 180cm+ and such, which is really hurtful to me because I’m 169cm and this is just unnecessarily mean.

I decided to get back at them for being like this so I set up a fake profile with this really handsome guy I found online, added some stuff like 184cm, proud father of two cats, love cooking, avid gym-goer and so on.

I only swiped right on girls then who had these ridiculously high standards. I matched with one who said she’d only like 180cm+ guys, we wrote for a bit and I asked her if she wanted to meet for lunch the next day at a coffee shop close to me.

I sat in the corner of the coffee shop a bit before and saw her enter it. She sat down at a table and wrote to me, asking if I’d already arrived. I told her I’d be there in 10 minutes and said she could already order some food and get the chicken chop for me.

Of course, I saw her get her food and everything, but of course, he still didn’t show up. She wrote to me again and I told her I was really sorry but I couldn’t make it, and that a cute girl at the gym had asked me before if I wanted to join her for a post-workout shake, and it had taken longer than expected.

Maybe we can get together some other time?

She seemed annoyed, ate part of her food, and then took the other with her after she paid the bill. I felt very righteous having shown her how wrong her focus on superficial features like looks was.

However, I told one of my friends about it and he claimed I had been a jerk to her and even though I was in the right I shouldn’t do that kind of thing. I think he just feels sorry for her because she’s an attractive girl.

I wrong ah for having pulled a prank on her?

RETIREE SAYS HE SAVED TOO MUCH MONEY, SHOULD HAVE ENJOYED MORE WHEN HE WAS YOUNG

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My boss (~62) is about to retire and has lamented to my colleagues about how much he saved. (He also feels tethered to work to maintain his health insurance because he and his spouse are facing some health issues.

He’s always been very frugal and just socked away as much as he could. I’m of a similar mindset, so I was surprised to hear that he’s “saved too much.”

Unfortunately my colleagues aren’t very financially-minded, so when I asked what he could mean by that, they say something vague about him being in a higher tax bracket.

They are now all very careful not to “save too much” and warn me against my frugality and saving habits. They say that ultimately good savers get punished by the system.

I wonder if his regret is centered around making too many sacrifices throughout his life for the sake of saving, and now facing health issues, realizing he should have enjoyed life more as a younger man.

But I was also wondering if there are real financial reasons why I shouldn’t try to max out my retirement accounts and just stick with saving ~20% (starting at age ~30).

Netizens’ comments

  1. I could definitely see regretting not doing enough with my life.
    I can’t really see it as logical to say you “saved too much” though. Spending more is easy and immediate if you want to. Or leave it to someone or a good cause.
  2. There is a balance to be had. One of the reasons I want to retire early (around age 50) is I know several people who retired and can’t travel anywhere they planned to because of mobility problems. Can’t take the hike to the scenic view because of bad knees. Things like that.
  3. Indeed there is a balance.
    I have chosen to purchase a condo and a car that weren’t the most “frugal” choices (yet still affordable). Why? Because I wake up everyday in saying “OMG I can’t believe I live here. OMG I can’t believe that’s my car!”.
    I want to be intentional about thinking long term, saving investing for the future, etc. I also want to not have to wait until I retire to enjoy life. So in my mind these were fair trade offs.

COUPLE THINKING IF THEY SHOULD GET A CONDOMINIUM OR HDB FOR THEIR FIRST HOME

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I’ve been wondering if living in a condo is worth it (as compared to HDB).

I’m considering purchasing my first home (with my partner) and we’re contemplating between these two properties. We’re earning enough to live comfortably in a condominium. We don’t have an active social life (so we’re always home) and rarely go to the gym.

Any advice? I would appreciate an honest opinion! Thank you! (:

Also, may I ask, how much should the combined income be to “live comfortably”? I’ve been getting different opinions, so I’m genuinely wondering.

Here are what netizens think:

Is the swimming pool or supermarket more important?

Most new HDB have really good amenities that condos may not have – like 24hrs supermarts, fast food chains, bakeries, etc. I am talking about amenities that provide basic needs like food or convenience. Pools and gym are luxuries. I cant imagine paying more for less (lesser living space and convenience).

Condos are very expensive

Condos are very expensive. For perspective – the massive five-room loft unit at Dawson sold for 1.32 million – and that’s close to the asking price my partner is putting out for his low floor condo that is less than half the size of that Dawson unit. And to be honest his neighbourhood, while generally considered affluent, doesn’t have much in the way of amenities.

My partner is always super happy when he comes over to my place in a very mature HDB estate – because you can get any daily necessity you require within 5 minutes. And that’s a big reason why my partner and I have decided that our new house is going to be a huge five-room flat in an older HDB estate…property agents and friends all say it’s a downgrade but to us it’s a no-brainer, even if our combined incomes could afford a condo.

Most of the time people don’t even use the condominium amenities

I think if youre not gonna use condo facilities then just get HDB. I’m assuming if you can buy condo means you have $$$, if i were you i would buy 4 or 5 room and renovate to my desired style.

Condominium has it’s upsides

Ive stayed in landed, condo and hdb before. Still prefer condo over the other two. Parking is so much easier just below the block and totally sheltered. Dont need fight with people at multi storey cp. Security is good especially at night when you come home dont have random people sleeping/smoking at void deck. No PAP/WP/random ppl knocking on your door and scare you. Lifts are also much cleaner.

Smaller sqm doesn’t mean reduced quality of life. To me it means easier to clean and less reno needed to makeover the place. Better than landed cos dont need climb stairs to my room everyday. Last time when i was thirsty i just tahan cos lazy to go down to the kitchen to take water loll.

RED LION PARACHUTIST MEMBER IS IN STABLE CONDITION & NO SURGERY IS REQUIRED

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This National Day Parade kicked off at about 5.30 pm yesterday evening at The Float @ Marina Bay, as the country celebrates its 57th birthday.

One of the members of the Red Lions parachute team, 3rd Warrant Officer Jeffrey Heng (who has 1,150 jumps to his name), was seen in the broadcast parachuting into the parade when he crashed into the ground at the parade.

Audible gasps could be heard amongst the horrified audience, as the live stream of the NDP immediately cut to another shot of the parade.

He was later sent to the hospital for his injuries.

Recovering:

Defence Minister Ng Eng Hen posted on Facebook a photo of Heng who was smiling to the camera, the facebook post wrote:

“Update on 3WO Jeffrey Heng. CDF and COA visited him, and we are glad to report that he is stable. Suffered some injuries due to the hard landing, but no surgery required. He will need time and some rehab, but full recovery is expected.”

Video of incident:

Background:

WO Heng was seen drifting into the parade on his parachute, as he inexplicably crashed and bounced off the ground.

He was immediately attended to by on-site medics before being carried away in a stretcher and rushed to the hospital.

At about 7.15 pm, the host and emcee of the parade, Joakim Gomez, provided an update on 3WO Heng’s condition, telling the viewers that he is currently stable and receiving medical attention at the hospital.

BF DON’T WANT TO “PLAY” WITH GF, CAUSE PLAYS VIDEO GAMES MORE THAN SHIOK

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(24F) feel like I’m a crazy girlfriend.

My BF (26M) and I are busy with work during the weekdays, and we meet only during the weekends. But, we do spend some time at night together, like watching series on Netflix, but not every day.

Here’s the problem. Whenever we decide to watch a drama or movie, he will take his time to bathe, play his phone games, and sometimes even nap. Because of that, we can watch a maximum of 1 episode or a movie and we will head to sleep cause he says tired, and the next day he needs to work.

But, when it comes to playing computer games with his friend (girl), he can rush to eat, bathe, and play until midnight even though there is work the following day.

He is also, to a certain inflexible… For example, once I texted him to do a certain activity with me, but his friend (girl) texted him 5 minutes earlier to play the game. It’s not like he replied to her then I asked. He saw both our messages at the same time and told me he’d play with his friend since she asked first. I just wish he would prioritize me at that point.

To be honest, I feel jealous and I feel that I weigh lesser than him. I want to voice it to him about this but I feel that he will view me as a crazy girlfriend because once their friend said she is one of the “boys” and she got a boyfriend too-when his friend’s GF voiced out that she is jealous.

Not sure if my feelings are valid or if I’m the crazy girlfriend?

Is there any advice on how not to feel this way or how I should open this topic to my BF without him feeling like I’m the crazy girlfriend?

Here are what netizens think:

  • High chance of many more underlying reasons why he would rather prefer to do something else with his friends be it guy or gal.
  • Example: they are friends and there is no expectations from the other party, but there is certain expectations that he feels that you may have? The quality of playing games with friends could relive stress.. but activities with you could be more stressful than relaxing?.. coz of, again, your expectations?
  • Find more guy friend. Chat with them. Go out and eat with them. Tell him you are too busy for him. And is time to shift out. Not together with him. Make yourself unavailable
  • Bf is either crazy for the game or crazy for the friend. Either way, he doesn’t seem that crazy for you.
  • A man who’s more interested in playing online games rather than playing with you, needs to dumped so he has more free time to indulge in his hobbies.

SCAMMERS POSING AS PETER LIM, TELEGRAM MESSAGES OFFERING INVESTMENT ADVICE

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Scammers have once again used the photos of billionaire Peter Lim to impersonate him and the scams offer stock trading advice.

The Police said that a Police report has been made.

In 2019, scammers also used his photo to impersonate and endorse bitcoin and other investment products that are a scam.

According to Forbes, Peter Lim is a self-made billionaire who has businesses in sports, investment, hotel, medical and others.

According to Today News, two Police reports has been filed on June 20 and August 2.

How the scam looks like

The scammers would use the photos of Peter Lim and mass send out messages to targets and cheat their money.

Here is a snippet of the Telegram message impersonating Peter Lim:

Welcome new friends to Finance Stock Market, an exclusive section for your personal stock finance, with daily morning, midday and evening broad market analysis, recommended must-earn stocks, and analysis of stock issues. It gives you the most direct and intuitive way to watch daily market movements, avoid bear markets, seize bull market upside opportunities, and get great returns from the stock market.

“retail investors lose money because they have no investment direction, or because they cannot grasp the precise buying and selling price, or go against the trend, or buy stocks recommended by friends and teachers. You don’t have to worry anymore, pay attention to the information shared by the group, take you out of the predicament, and complete the compound interest. I am confident that I will lead you to earn 1 million SGD within half a year, provided that you do not operate arbitrarily without authorization, and I can guarantee the income by following my instructions.

CHINA GOVT OFFICIAL: TAIWAN IS PART OF CHINA BECAUSE GOT 105 CHINESE EATERIES THERE

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A PRC government official who is a spokesperson for China, Hua Chunying, made an earth-shattering claim that Taiwan was a part of China because there were more than 100 Chinese eateries in Taipei.

She posted a tweet on 7 August, listing the different restaurants in Taiwan, and saying that “palates don’t cheat”, drawing ridicule from online netizens.

She tried to solidify her claim by saying there are 38 Shandong dumpling restaurants and 67 Shanxi noodle restaurants in Taipei.

She said on Twitter: “Baidu Maps show that there are 38 Shandong dumpling restaurants and 67 Shanxi noodle restaurants in Taipei. Palates don’t cheat. Taiwan has always been a part of China. The long lost child will eventually return home.”

Netizens, unsurprisingly, poked fun at her reasoning, with one netizen retorting that since Taiwan has Ramen restaurants as well, that makes Taiwan a part of Japan.

Another netizen claimed that there were 8,500 KFC restaurants in China, so that means China “undoubtedly belongs to KFC”.

One more netizen added: “3,500 Mcdonalds in China. 8,000 KFCs in China. 1,200 burger kings in China. 2,500 pizza huts in China. 5,400 Starbucks in China. Your country belongs to us and soon we will come to collect.”

Another comment said that based on Hua’s logic, the whole world belongs to Italy because every town on earth had at least a pizza eater in it.

Another netizen then brought Malaysia into the drama, saying that since there are 50 Malaysian restaurants in London, it belongs to Malaysia.

WORKERS’ PARTY – S’PORE SURVIVED THE PANDEMIC, NOW WE MUST BE UNITED

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The Workers’ Party (WP) shared their National Day message on Facebook, via Secretary-General and leader of the opposition Pritam Singh.

They said that WP MPs have advanced proposals in Parliament to help Singaporeans cope with the high cost of living and other concerns.

They also added that we have survived the pandemic as a nation, and we must now stay united to navigate the path ahead, with a sense of purpose, to overcome today’s challenges.

Workers’ Party’s national day message

National Day Message 2022 from The Secretary-General of The Workers’ Party

Our journey as a nation started 57 years ago, but the first stirrings of our shared identity emerged when we cast our first votes in the 1955 Legislative Assembly elections. David Marshall, Singapore’s first Chief Minister, went to London to try and achieve self-determination for Singapore. However, the British famously had reservations about our ability to survive then. Independence was thus a daunting prospect, with the odds stacked against us after separation from Malaysia in 1965.

A shortage of domestic industry, a heavy reliance on foreign businesses, and a lack of housing were all challenges that had to be overcome. Yet our pioneers overcame these through their sheer determination to make life better for their children. By the 1990s, we were one of the Four Asian Tigers, thanks to their hard work and drive.

Today, while we reap the rewards of their labour, we continue our search for solutions for our next step of development. In echoes of our early years, our over-reliance on foreign labour inputs, shortage of globally competitive local businesses, astronomical housing prices and high inflation present challenges to younger Singaporeans achieving their dreams. Working Singaporeans also have to contend with stiff global competition and all the pressures of modern life which place a strain on their financial resources and mental health.

Workers’ Party MPs have advanced proposals in Parliament to help Singaporeans cope with the high cost of living and other issues of concern. These proposals include using macroeconomic tools to mitigate inflation, making housing, medical treatment and transport more affordable, improving preventive health, breaking the poverty cycle, co-creating a stronger response to the climate emergency, empowering women to achieve their full potential and making our justice system more accessible. In our constituencies, our MPs and volunteers continue to reach out to residents to understand their concerns and help address their needs.

As a country, we have survived the dark clouds of a global pandemic, and a ray of sunlight is now shining through. We must navigate the path ahead with a sense of purpose and unity as fellow Singaporeans, even as we share many diverse aspirations and dreams. With a collective effort, we will be able to overcome today’s challenges to build Singapore into the nation we want it to be.

I wish all Singaporeans a very happy 57th National Day!