My boyfriend cheated on me so I slept with his best friend, no regrets.
So a few months ago, I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me while he was on holiday because the girl he slept with messaged me to say he lied about it and she was really sorry.
I didn’t confront him at the time because I knew what I wanted to do.
They all came home and I just carried on like I didn’t know. One evening I asked his best friend to come to the pub with the girls but it was only going to be me.
I confronted his best friend whom I was certain knew about his cheating, and said I know my boyfriend cheated because the girl told me so don’t deny it, he gave it up straight away lol.
He was chatting so much shit about him so I knew he wanted me.
We drank for hours and I began to flirt with him, I let him rub my legs, touch me etc. I said to him I want him to f me so I can get my payback and he accepted!
We went back to his flat and he f-ed me like he meant it. I guess he wanted to do it so badly… I begged for him to finish in me which he did, he was still rock hard after round 1 so I let him have a second round and finish on my face before I went home to my boyfriend.
The best part is that my boyfriend wanted to f me… he ate his best friend’s juices out of me without knowing, telling me how good I tasted. I broke up with him like 2 weeks later but he still has no idea and they are still friends now.
For the entirety of 2023, I (25F) have only slept with my fiance (32M) 3 times.
Our life in the bedroom has been going downhill and lately I’ve just stopped trying to make it better. We’ve been together for 3 years and we go along great. But in bed, we’re really incompatible.
It was great the first 6 months. Then I don’t know what happened, he just stopped wanting to sleep with me. I fought with him a lot the first two years, threw tantrums, begged to see a therapist, cried, but it only made things worse.
So I just stopped trying. I stopped initiating. Stopped dressing nicely to avoid getting disappointed. I just put all my focus on my studies and work.
I feel the relationship ending. I think it went south the moment I stopped trying. And the problem is that now I feel guilty for stopping.
Maybe if I actually made an effort this year things would have been different? Maybe if I took care of myself (hair, etc) more we would have gotten intimate a little more? Maybe I could have saved this relationship and maybe this is all my fault..
The thing is, I don’t want to be married to someone who only wants me if I’m 100% perfect. Because I know after having kids it will be impossible to be 100% perfect all the time.
My hair will be messy, I will go weeks without shaving, etc. Is it unrealistic to expect my man to still want me even if I look “sloppy”/messy?
Am I having unrealistic expectations from my future partner and should just take my current fiancé as he is? And settle for physical intimacy less than 10 times a year?
I feel lost. I don’t want to break off the engagement. But I feel like we’re both wasting our times..
i work in a chain retail store and i messaged my manager today about 6 hours before my shift letting her know i wasn’t feeling well, and couldn’t come in to work.
she told me i need to find someone to cover me or come in to work. i asked everyone available if they could cover for me, and not a single person responded.
i let my manager know about the situation, and her only response was “sorry, we need the coverage so you’ll need to come in”. so now im on my way to work, with a blinding migraine.
is this..allowed? i’ve never had a job do this before, i’ve always just been able to call in sick if i need to.
this is the second time this exact thing has happened, the last time it happened i had covid and was still told to come in for the day, again because we “need the coverage”.
the whole thing just doesn’t sit well with me. i understand lack of coverage can be difficult, but as an employee (meaning not in any manager/supervisory role) that isn’t something i should have to feel responsible for.
Netizens’ comments
“I am sick and will not be coming in. Coverage? You’re the manager, you get paid more than I do, you figure it out. Not my job.” If I’m sick enough to be calling in, I’m not going in, end of story. Fire me if you want, too sick to care anyway, and you just proved I was gonna have to quit sooner or later because you and your job suck. Better sooner.
The next time they ask you to cover your own shift, tell them that fixing scheduling issues aren’t part of your job description. They can say no to you calling out, but they can’t force you to come in.
The line I used to use was “You’re a manager, I’m sure you’ll manage” until they fired me for insubordination (I was also barred from using the phrase “Sorry, that’s above my pay grade”).
I’m a 21 year woman with a really high libido, and in a committed relationship. I’ve only been in 2 relationships, one with a female, and now with my wonderful bf of a year.
After my last relationship I made it a point that I’d be honest with my future partners that physical intimacy is important to me, and that I need someone who’s down to do it like 1 or 2 times a day.
When I met my bf and told him about my very high drive in bed. I self pleasure several times a day. He thought I was great and all, but now about a year into the relationship, our bedroom activities have tapered off a bit more, and he doesn’t seem as excited to do it as usual, or at least as excited as he used to be.
I do everything I can to keep him excited you know. Spontaneous bj, I go to the gym, stay fit and eat good.
But I want to do it more than him. I love sleeping with him. It’s my first time with a guy and he feels amazing. I just wish it was more often.
I’ve told him that and he says “we’ll do it more” but he falls asleep often after work: totally understandable btw, I get it, work sucks
But I often feel super weird for being a girl with a very libido. But that’s just how’s it’s always been for me. I was a virgin and never slept with anyone before meeting him but I’ll admit yes, I want it kind of all the time.
Is there anything you ladies recommend to get a guy more excited than usual? Or do I just need to touch myself some more? Just need some advice!
refusing to sign a “Get Well Soon” card for a co worker that tried to get me fired?
Long story short… Last year I had a coworker actively participate in an investigation to get me fired at work. All allegations were false and fabricated and I am still employed, thank God.
However, this ordeal cost me tens of thousands of dollars (I’m in sales) and months of incredible stress at work and at home.
A few months after everything settled down, said coworker was diagnosed with cancer. He’s a piece of sht, in my opinion, but I wouldn’t wish cancer on my worst enemy.
Fast forward to last week. A different coworker sends out a group message to all of our other coworkers stating he’s bought a card for everyone to sign and asked everyone to donate $20 to help out.
Today, after being asked why I had not yet signed/donated, I told him I will not be signing the card nor donating. He was incredibly upset.
Netizens’ comments
Tell him to enjoy the remaining time he has left on earth, because where he is going after he dies, it’s going to get “very hot”.
Tell the person collecting that you are hard up for money after what this person did to you and because of him you cannot afford to donate and as you have not donated you do not feel it proper to sign the card. If he keeps harassing, you go to HR.
This coworker has put you in a very stressful situation that has affected your mental health and your daily life. He has intentionally hurt you, and I don’t see why you would want to help him even if he is very ill.
Even without the bad blood, no one should be expected under any circumstances to participate in any kind of gift to a coworker. If it is important that this be done, it should be the company and not the employees who take the initiative.
In a shocking incident at Ninoy Aquino International Airport (NAIA) Terminal 1 in the Philippines, a security screening officer was recently suspended for allegedly stealing US$300 (S$410.45) from a passenger during a routine inspection. What makes this case even more astonishing is the officer’s attempt to swallow the stolen cash to evade capture. This daring act was caught on closed-circuit television (CCTV) and subsequently went viral online, shedding light on the importance of security measures at airports worldwide.
The Incident Unfolds
The incident took place on September 8, 2023, when a passenger named Cai placed his hand-carried bag on a tray for security screening. He was preparing to pass through the Advanced Imaging Technology Machine (AITM) for a routine inspection. As per standard procedures, the female security officer responsible for inspecting Cai’s bag brought the tray to a table for a manual check.
However, as she finished inspecting the bag, something peculiar happened. The officer turned away from Cai with her left fist clenched tightly, indicating that she might be hiding something. She quickly concealed the mysterious item on her left torso and returned to the inspection table.
It was at this moment that Cai realized something was amiss. His bag had been tampered with; his wallet was open, and the US$300 (S$410.45) he had in it was missing. Naturally, Cai confronted the female security officer, along with other security personnel, about the missing money.
A Daring Attempt to Destroy Evidence
Around the same time, an x-ray operator handed the female security officer a bottle of water. Seizing the opportunity, she turned her back away from the onlookers and began attempting to swallow the stolen banknotes by shoving them into her mouth. Unbeknownst to her, a CCTV camera was capturing her every move.
In a shocking revelation, an official report released by airport authorities noted that the officer’s supervisor was nearby while she was in the act. The supervisor seemed to be assisting with the attempt to destroy evidence, ensuring that the stolen bills were consumed to prevent any incriminating traces.
The report conclusively stated, “The CCTV footage clearly shows that the security screening officer, with intent to gain, took the US$300 (S$410.45) of Mr. Cai during her inspection process and was clearly in possession of the stolen money as she deliberately swallowed the paper bills to avoid getting caught.”
Furthermore, the report suggested that the supervisor and the x-ray operator, who provided the bottled water, appeared to be colluding with the security screening officer in executing and evading the consequences of this illegal act.
Legal Ramifications and Suspension
The aftermath of this shocking incident has brought about significant legal consequences. On September 18, the Office for Transportation Security (OTS) announced that it is collaborating closely with the Manila International Airport Authority and the Philippine National Police Aviation Security to conduct a thorough investigation and hold those responsible accountable under the law.
Regrettably, Cai could no longer be reached for comment regarding whether he intended to pursue criminal charges against the female security screening officer. Nevertheless, according to an official report by airport authorities, an administrator from OTS confirmed on September 21 that the office is in the process of filing both administrative and potential criminal cases against the suspended female security screening officer.
In conclusion, this shocking incident at NAIA Terminal 1 serves as a stark reminder of the need for stringent security measures at airports to protect passengers and their belongings. While security personnel play a vital role in maintaining safety, incidents like these underscore the importance of vigilant oversight and the swift administration of justice when breaches occur.
I see my brother’s genitals hanging out of his sleep shorts.
So this is kind of awkward but my (F26) brother (M22) has taken to wearing sleep shorts around the house in the evenings. I have no issue with this in principle (I basically do the same).
The problem is that whenever he lifts his leg even slightly or sits down in a certain way, you can see his thing dangling down the leg hole.
He doesn’t seem to be aware of this and I don’t want to make him feel weird or uncomfortable. I would usually ignore something like this but it’s kind of distracting.
Netizens’ comments
Girl you’re making it weird by staring instead of just telling him in a normal way .
If you want it to stop, coming slowly, sensitive, etc will be weird for both. Be nonchalant. “Your d’s out.” Thats it. Do it while you’re scrolling on your phone or whatevs. Don’t respond further. Keep doing what you’re doing.
Is he self aware? Cause yes i would just be like yo your junk ya getting a nice breeze eh? Or pull him to the side and talked to him.
Just tell him “bro put the mouse back in the house”
Just tell him that it must be cold in here, and leave it at that. He will figure it out.
Saying the nothing is the weirdest thing you could possibly do. Honestly saying literally anything at all will be better than where you’re at right now.
First off, he’s your brother, not a cousin or a family friend, so just tell him. Tell him to wear some undies, he’ll get the memo.
He’s definitely aware unfortunately. We can feel when we’re exposed.
He knows. We all know when our genitals hang out of our shorts. Tell him he’s feral and to put some undies on.
A video previously emerged online showing a man donning a Superman costume and running across a traffic junction along Bukit Batok.
The man in the viral video is a 57-year-old expat from New Zealand, Simon Wood.
Simon’s remarkable journey, from a life-altering accident at the age of 13 to becoming an avid runner in a Superman costume, has captured the hearts of people worldwide.
The image of a middle-aged man running in a superhero costume is certainly attention-grabbing, but there’s much more to this story than meets the eye.
Simon, a marketing director, shared with Lianhe Zaobao that it was only in the past year that he decided to don the iconic superhero outfit whenever he goes for a run.
At 13, he got into an accident that rendered him unable to walk after receiving 70 stitches for his injuries, and his simple act carries a profound message: amidst the monotony of daily life, he aims to bring smiles not only to his face but to everyone he encounters; as well as to prove that if he can overcome his odds to learn how to walk again, so can others.
The Costume Ritual
One might wonder about the effort it takes to get into a skin-tight Superman costume. Simon revealed that it requires a 20-minute commitment.
Singapore’s hot and humid climate, notorious for its sweltering heat, does little to deter his determination to spread joy to those around him.
He said that wearing the costume takes him about 20 minutes, and that he has lived in hot countries with 50-degree weathers and previously served in the military, so the heat does little to deter him.
A World Traveler’s Choice
Simon’s life journey has been marked by his adventurous spirit. He has explored over 90 countries around the world, experiencing diverse cultures and landscapes. Despite his global travels, he chose to settle in Singapore a decade ago, where he continues to inspire with his running endeavors.
However, life for Simon has not always been smooth sailing. As a teenager, he faced a life-altering tragedy when he was hit by a motorcycle, leaving him unable to walk.
Rather than resigning himself to life in a wheelchair, Simon embarked on a remarkable journey of rehabilitation. He not only learned to walk again but also challenged himself to embrace other sports such as running and martial arts.
Simon’s determination knows no bounds. He has expressed his intention to keep running until his legs eventually give out on him. A powerful testament to his indomitable spirit, a photograph shared by a Chinese daily showcased Simon participating in the Race Against Cancer 2023 charity run organized by the Singapore Cancer Society on September 17 – once again in his signature Superman costume.
In a recent incident that stirred up quite a buzz on social media, a Facebook user took to the Complaint Singapore group to share her mother’s frustrating experience at a renowned laksa stall in Chinatown.
This encounter, which took place on a seemingly ordinary Tuesday (19 Sep), has left many questioning not only the high prices but also the hawker’s rude behavior.
The Costly Laksa Dilemma
The story begins with the OP’s mother and her group of friends eagerly making their way to the famous laksa stall. However, their excitement quickly turned into disappointment when they were handed the bill: a whopping S$20 for just two bowls of laksa.
At S$10 a bowl, they couldn’t help but feel that this was far from reasonable, given what they perceived as “small portions” that weren’t even particularly tasty.
Adding to the controversy, the OP shared an old photograph of the same stall, displaying a bowl of laksa priced at a mere S$7.50.
While it’s essential to consider the impact of inflation on prices over the years, the sudden jump to S$10 seemed excessive, leaving many patrons scratching their heads in bewilderment.
To further complicate matters, the OP’s mother made a seemingly reasonable request: an extra empty bowl. However, this straightforward ask was met with resistance. The hawker not only refused to provide the additional bowl but also displayed what the OP described as “showing attitude”.
The situation escalated rapidly as the OP’s mother and the stall owner engaged in a heated exchange. The owner, allegedly losing his temper, shouted at the customer, “If you think you are so good, you come and cook yourself.” This aggressive response left the OP and her mother shocked and appalled.
The OP wasted no time in condemning the stall owner’s behavior as “terribly unacceptable.” She emphasized that this behavior was on top of what she already considered an overpriced bowl of laksa.
In her frustration, she even pondered whether the stall owner might have inflated the price simply because her mother was polite and accommodating. However, a commenter chimed in to confirm that the current price indeed stood at S$10.
The controversy didn’t stop with the OP’s post. Another netizen chimed in, echoing the sentiments of being “conned” by the high prices. This individual also corroborated the claims of the hawker’s poor attitude, further fueling the outrage.
Here is what she said
So basically, as of today my mother went to this famous penang laksa stall at Chinatown. I am not sure when is this picture taken but it’s found on google and this picture clearly stated that penang laksa was charged at $7.50 but today my mother and her friends ordered 2 bowl of penang laksa at $20?!?!
Ok, maybe this picture might have taken quite some time ago and inflation hits which brings the price up to $10 per bowl but even so, it’s still too pricey for the small portion that they are giving and it is not even that nice.
My mum forgotten to check the price listed on the menu today but if she’s charging my mum extra just because she’s nice to cheat then it’s abit too much… so if anyone knows what are their current price for penang laksa as of today, do let us know..
Besides the price that they are charging, this lady shown in the picture is not portraying good customer service as well.
As my mother and her friends ordered 2 bowl of penang laksa to share so they went to ask this lady for a empty bowl so that they can share but this lady refused to give them an empty bowl and showing attitude to my mum saying that their stall do not provide empty bowl to customers.
Hello? My mum ordered from your stall and only requesting an empty bowl, is not like she ordered from another stall and requesting an empty bowl from your stall right??!!
This is not the right attitude to treat your customers, charging at $10 per bowl is too much and can’t even get an empty bowl?
My mum quarrelled with this lady because of how rude she is. This lady even shouted at my mum saying that ‘if you think you are so good, you come and cook yourself’.
Someone enlighten me, i understand that coffeeshop workers might be tired at times but the attitude that this lady gives is terribly unacceptable. My mum did not even complaint about the price even after knowing that it’s abit overpriced already, she went to ask for an empty bowl nicely but this lady gives such an attitude and expect to have sales & customers patronizing your stall??
Facebook user Shahiz Shah shared on Facebook how his fiancee was queueing at the Woodlands Customs on her motorcycle when another motorcyclist cut her queue.
The motorcyclist in question then threw away her motorcycle keys after being confronted.
An Act of Roadway Rudeness
In his Facebook post, Shah did not mince words as he described the motorcyclist’s behavior. He labeled the rider as “really rude,” going as far as to use more colorful language to express his frustration.
According to Shah, the man exhibited a complete lack of manners and never bothered to signal his intention to enter the queue.
To add fuel to the fire, the motorcyclist allegedly found fault with another rider, escalating an already tense situation.
Empathy and Outrage Online
Shah’s post quickly garnered attention, with fellow netizens expressing a mix of outrage and sympathy. Many empathized with Shah and his fiancee, envisioning how they would feel if their loved ones were treated similarly.
The video shared by Shah captured the accused motorcyclist engaging in a heated exchange with another rider, accompanied by a cacophony of honks and loud complaints from onlookers.
A Curious License Plate Twist
As the incident unfolded, eagle-eyed netizens noticed something peculiar about the accused rider’s motorcycle – his license plate was curved upward, partially obscuring the letters and numbers on the plate.
This raised questions about the legality of the plate and whether it complied with Singapore’s regulations. It’s worth noting that this detail added another layer of intrigue to the incident.
Reporting to Authorities
In an effort to seek justice, several netizens advised Shah to report the incident to both immigration officers and the police. It became evident that many felt strongly about holding the motorcyclist accountable for his actions.
Furthermore, a comment on a separate Facebook post on the group Malaysia-Singapore Border Crossers revealed that the man had allegedly been reported to officers at both sides of the customs.
