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COUPLE JUST BOUGHT NEW HOUSE TOGETHER, THEN MAN FINDS OUT WIFE SLEPT WITH CO-WORKER

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Wife (37F) cheated on me (40M). Kids. New house. I’m crushed.

Me (40m) got cheated on by wife (38 f) and I’m beside myself. We’ve got young kids. We just bought a house 8 months ago.

Found out she’s slept with a coworker many times over the past few months. This was a same coworker we were in therapy over about a year ago because she lied about meeting up with him a few times but swore nothing happened. We had moved on from it.

Then out of the blue I saw the last month or so worth of texts between them that showed up on an old iPad of hers my son dug out from the closet. It’s deep, there’s “love you babe”, meet ups. Meets ups in our house while I was working night shift. It’s worst-case scenario.

I don’t know what I’m looking for. Prob just needed to vent. I feel broken. Broken about not seeing my kids every day. Broken about the grand plans we had for our family. And that I’ll be turning 40 next month and have my world broken up.

Netizens’ comments

  1. You get a lawyer, don’t leave the house for the sake of the kids, and keep it as peaceful as you can until the divorce is finalized.
    Understand that this person is no longer on your side, they don’t have your best interest in mind, so act accordingly.. do not show sympathy and give her more in the divorce than she can get without your help. I’m sorry this happened.
    Now’s the time to reach out to family and good guy friends who will be there and help you through this time. You’ll feel tempted over the next couple months to look for intimacy in other places, do not do this as it is not going to be in your best interest. Take time to heal and build the life you want without her in it.
    Do not share with her your plans of divorce or what you want post divorce. It’s going to be a hard transition, but remember this person is not on your team and only wants what’s best for her. Again sorry this happened.
  2. I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s disgusting. You don’t deserve to be lied to and cheated on. No one does.
    I know that feeling of how can I ever trust my own decisions about a relationship.
    I wouldn’t even confront her yet. Contact a lawyer at this point. Take the proof you have with you to the lawyer and use it to set yourself up to an advantage for custody. Then ask her to leave the house. Cheater needs to leave. She can’t be trusted again.

RECRUITER GOT PAID $190K A YEAR DOING NOTHING AT WORK, LATER GETS FIRED

A former recruiter working for Meta, shared that she was making about $190,000 per year doing absolutely nothing at her job, while her company was laying off other workers.

The woman @maddie_macho on TikTok, shared that she was working at Meta in 2021 for about 6 months, and said that she was being paid while doing nothing at work.

She shared her post just days after Facebook chief Mark Zuckerberg announced that they would be retrenching more than 10,000 employees.

Maddie titled her video, “getting paid $190k to do nothing at Meta” and she shared how while she was there, her company wasn’t hiring new workers at the time, and she couldn’t hire anyone despite her position being a recruiter.

She said that she wasn’t expected to hire anybody for the first 6 months to a year, and it “really blew my mind, like perfect, I’m just going to ride this out for a year.”

She added that all she did at work was “learning” during her onboarding and training process, and laughed at how she had initially expected her job to be “taking it all in”.

However, she questioned the many team meetings that she had to attend, asking “why are we meeting? We are not hiring anybody. Meeting just to hear how everyone else isn’t hiring anyone.”

She also added that she was on a team where all of the team members were new, and none of them were hiring anybody despite them being recruiters.

Maddie later shared in a follow up video that she got fired in the end by Meta, after posting a TikTok video about the company’s benefits package and it going viral.

Initially, her co-workers reached out to her and said that they loved her video but the company wasn’t pleased about it.

She claimed that she got a “write-up” for posting about how challenging her job is.

She said that she later stopped talking specifically about Meta, but they then went through about 20 of her TikTok videos and asked her if she thought it was “appropriate”.

Maddie then decided to quit but the next day she was fired.

@maddie_macho Replying to @laurendaniellehtx those were the days man. *sigh* #meta #layoffs #google #workingintech #metalayoffs ♬ original sound – Maddie | The Career Finesser
@maddie_macho Replying to @cassbass94 why I got fired at Meta #fired #meta #metalayoffs ♬ original sound – Maddie | The Career Finesser

FATHER DIED SACRIFICING HIMSELF TO SAVE 5 Y.O SON FROM CAR THAT FELL INTO RIVER

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A father in Malaysia sacrificed himself and died while trying to save his son from drowning after their car had plunged into a river.

According to The Star, 40-year-old Lasibi Lawadihu, was with his son, 5-year-old Mushab Umair Lasibi at a river in Putatan, Sabah, Malaysia on 26 March at about 5.30pm in the evening.

His son was inside his car, a blue coloured Perodua Myvi that was parked nearby with the engine running, as he fished in the river.

The car then suddenly rolled forward and plunged into the river, and Lasibi then jumped into the water after the car in an attempt to save his son from drowning.

He had managed to rescue his son and get him out of the car, and another man who was also fishing nearby then helped him to hold onto his son.

However, the father then went under the water and disappeared.

His son was then sent to Queen Elizabeth Hospital for further treatment that evening and the authorities were then alerted to the incident.

A search and rescue operation was then launched by the authorities to find Lasibi on that same day, and his body was found the following day on 27 March.

Lasib’s body was found about 300 metres away from the site of the incident by a police drone and was retrieved to shore on 27 March at about 9.15am.

The body was then sent to Queen Elizabeth Hospital for post mortem.

Netizens’ comments

This is the love of the father. A true hero. It is a tragedy, but I pray that your son will remember you and live a good life for you. RIP

Real hero to prioritize and save his son’s life before his #RIP

Though its naturally the love for their child make them an angel. Lets pray for this angel

Images source: Jabatan Bomba dan Penyelamat Malaysia – Korporat JBPM on Facebook

6-MONTH-OLD INFANT DEAD AFTER BEING FOUND LYING MOTIONLESS FACE DOWN @ NANNY’S HOME

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A 6-month-old infant was previously reported to have died after being found lying motionless and face down in the playpen at the nanny’s house – he had fallen asleep there earlier in the afternoon.

The parents were notified of what happened and they rushed the infant to the hospital but he had already stopped breathing upon reaching the hospital.

The case of the baby’s death was heard in the coroner’s court yesterday (27 March), with the infant’s parents Mr Yong Chen Seng and Madam Toh Jing Lay in attendance.

What happened?

According to the investigation officer in charge of the case, the nanny had fed the baby and put him to sleep inside the playpen on 28 December 2021 at about 3 pm.

She then returned at about 6.20 pm to retrieve and shower the baby but found him motionless and lying face-down at the corner of the mattress.

She realised the baby had turned blue and didn’t respond when she tried carrying him and got her son to call for an ambulance.

She was told by the 995 operator to perform CPF on the infant until paramedics arrived.

3 paramedics later arrived at the scene, with two of the concluding that the baby’s body had already turned cold, but the third paramedic felt some warmth in the baby and he was then brought to Sengkang General Hospital.

But despite resuscitation efforts, the baby was subsequently pronounced dead that night.

The investigation officer said that the nanny had left the home before the baby was found and had allegedly left the baby and another child under her care, to her 13 year old son.

But there was no evidence to suggest that her 13-year-old son had left his room to check on the two children while she was away.

The deceased baby’s mother, Madam Toh, said that her son had been in the care of the nanny since he was 3-months old, and the nanny had a habit of letting him sleep face down.

Thinking that the nanny had more experience because she had children of her own, Madam Toh went along with letting the nanny let the baby sleep face down.

The investigation office couldn’t confirm if that was how the baby slept on the day that he died.

Madam Toh also added that her son would only sleep for about an hour while at home, but the nanny said that he slept for about 3 to 4 hours at her place.

The nanny also didn’t enter the room where the baby was sleeping at the time of his death because she said the baby usually slept for 3 to 4 hours, meaning that no one checked on the baby for 3 hours while he was inside the room.

The nanny also suspected that the baby had asthma and allegedly fed him asthma medication (1ml of Zenmolin) on 26 December 2021 without the approval of the child’s parents.

INTL STUDENT WALKING ON THIN LINE – NOT SURE IF SELLING THINGS ONLINE CONSIDERED AS INCOME

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International students are not allowed to work. What is considered working?

What’s considered ‘working’ for international students? I know working part time jobs is already counted as working.

But what if i sell things online? Is this considered working? It can be counted as a side hobby, but still, i am ‘receiving’ income if i do.

And then, if i have a crocheting hobbies, and i sell my crochets to people who wanted them, but not in a shop form, so personal ‘they come request, i do, they pay and receive’. Is this considered working?

So.. are online shopping apps and the likes considered working? Are hobbies that can be ‘sold’ considered working? What is considered working?

Here are what netizens think

‘By right, anything you do that you receive an income from is considered as working.’

‘It’s technically work if it

1) takes up a lot of your time

2) it’s your primary source of income.

But honestly, unless you are really killing it with those sweet sweet crocheted goods, I doubt it will be of a sufficient revenue volume for IRAS to even bother looking into. Aka you should be safe as long as it remains a hobby.’

‘Just keep a low profile.

Don’t let the media splash headlines like “Foreign Student Making 10k a Month.”

Then stones will fly in your direction.’

AH MA FAILED HER DRIVING TEST 959 TIMES, FINALLY PASSED THEN CRASHED 4 TIMES & LICENSE REVOKED

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An elderly woman in South Korea, Cha Sa-soon, failed her driving test almost a thousand times, racking up 959 fails before finally managing to pass it on her 960th try.

The elderly woman’s story happened many years ago, but her story went viral recently on social media after it was brought up on social media as an example of the fruits of being tenacious in your goals.

According to Yonhap News Agency, the elderly woman had tried the written test for the first time back in 13 April 2005 but failed, before retaking the exam about 5 days a week for the next three years.

She then took the written test twice a week before finally passing it on her 860th try, before moving on to the practical session, which also proved challenging to her – she took the practical test about 10 times before finally passing.

According to media reports, Cha took a total of 960 attempts to finally get her driver’s license, spending more than 5 million won (SGD$5,100) along the way.

The employees at her driving school, Jeonbuk Driving School, were reportedly overcome with joy and happiness when their elderly student finally passed and got her driver’s license.

All of them ran out cheering and hugging the elderly woman and giving her flowers, with her driving instructor saying that it felt like “a huge burden falling off our backs.”

Hyundai even gave Cha a vehicle worth about SGD$18,000 as a gift for her determination to pass her driving test.

However, according to a netizen, Cha had purportedly gotten into 4 separate car crashes with her new car, of which three were against stationary objects, all within a single year.

Her license was purportedly revoked after that.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Oh I remember a backstory to this. Kia was so impressed by this and gave the old lady a new Kia Soul. She crashed and totaled it within a month. Needless to say the license was revoked within a short time.
  2. I believe if you take a test nearly 1,000 times, you might have the whole thing committed to memory at that point.
  3. At that point you have to wonder whether she passed because she understands the material or because of a fluke.
  4. I wouldn’t want someone who has failed over ~5 times to be on the same road as me, not to mention 960.
  5. I personally believe if you fail your driving test, or any part of your driving test, more than 10 times, you should never be allowed to drive. There has to be a point before 960 times where someone decides that driving just aint for you.
  6. There should be a cap on how many tries ypu can have. Would not want to meet this person in traffic

Images source: Yonhap News Agency and TheQoo.net

6 PEOPLE SHOT DEAD BY TRANSGENDER FORMER STUDENT @ NASHVILLE PRESCHOOL

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6 people were shot dead by a heavily armed former student yesterday (27 March) at a private elementary school in Nashville, including 3 young children, before the gunman was shot dead by the police, according to a report by Channel NewsAsia.

The chief of police, John Drake, identified the suspect as 28-year-old Audrey Hale, a transgender former student of the school.

Drake said that Hale was prepared for a confrontation with law enforcement after the shooting, and had left behind a manifesto and maps of the school that detailed the surveillance and entry-exit points of the premises.

The police chief added that Hale was likely to have planned a broader attack, with his/her manifesto indicating that there were going to be shootings at multiple locations.

Hale had entered The Covenant School from the side entrance by shooting through a door, with at least 2 assault rifles and a handgun.

He had fired multiple shots while advancing through the school building.

The 6 victims who were killed, were identified by police as including 3 children aged 8, 9 and 9, and three adults aged between 60 and 61.

One of the deceased was the head of the school, Katherine Koonce.

Police officers had arrived at the scene within 15 minutes of receiving a call for help at about 10am, and exchanged fire with the gunman before the latter was shot dead.

Children were seen holding hands with each other as they left the school, and one child was seen crying through the window of her school bus as it drove away.

A family member of one of the pre-kindergarten teachers at the school, Avery Myrick, said that her mother had been hiding inside a closet as shots fired throughout the school; the gunman had tried to enter the room that she was in but failed and the teacher survived.

President Joe Biden has also responded to the latest of many shooting incidents in the US, calling it “sick,” and that it’s “ripping our communities apart, ripping the soul of this nation”.

MOH – RISE IN COVID CASES NOT CAUSING STRAIN ON OUR HEALTHCARE CAPACITY

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Singapore has been seeing an increase in the number of weekly covid vases in the 2 weeks leading up to 18 March, with the number of cases exceeding 10,000, which is more than double for the previous two weeks before that saw less than 4,500 cases weekly.

The Singapore Ministry of Health (MOH) has come out and allayed concerns on 27 March, saying that the current rise in cases is not causing a strain on our healthcare capacity.

MOH said that new infection waves occur periodically and they will continue to monitor the local situation and look out for the emergency of any new variants.

They also added that they are also monitoring the severity and potential impact on our healthcare system.

According to MOH, the number of infections is estimated based on the National Acute Respiratory Infection (ARI) Surveillance Programme, which includes the average number of ARI attendances at polyclinics daily, which was 2,592 cases from 12 March to 18 March and 2,823 in the previous week.

Minister of Health Ong Ye Kung also touched about the subject, replying to a comment on his Instagram, saying that “important thing is severity of symptoms. Today, number of COVID-19-related hospitalisations is very low, and far lower than non-COVID-19-related infections. So we can treat COVID-19 as an endemic disease, but we will continue to monitor closely to make sure we stay on the right track.”

As of 26 March this year, there have also been no cases of the XBB.1.16 variant detected here in Singapore, according to MOH.

The XBB.1.16 is the predominant subvariant of Omicron reported in India.

MOH said that there is currently no evidence internationally that XBB.1.16 exhibits greater transmissibility or severity than previously identified subvariants, and the subvariants that are currently detected in Singapore are the XBB.1.5 and XBB.1.9, that were detected here in late December last year and mid January earlier this year.

403 SCAMMERS CAUGHT BY POLICE, SCAM UNTIL MORE THAN $10.9 MILLION

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POLICE INVESTIGATE 409 SCAMMERS AND MONEY MULES IN AN ISLAND-WIDE ENFORCEMENT OPERATION

Officers from the Commercial Affairs Department and the seven Police Land Divisions conducted a two-week operation between 10 March 2023 and 23 March 2023.

A total of 275 men and 134 women, aged between 16 and 80, are assisting in investigations for their suspected involvement in scams as scammers or money mules.

The suspects are believed to be involved in more than 1,053 cases of scams, comprising mainly investment scams, e-commerce scams, phishing scams, job scams, internet love scams and Government Officials impersonation scams, where victims reportedly lost over $10.9 million.

The suspects are being investigated for the alleged offences of cheating, money laundering or providing payment services without a licence.

The offence of cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code 1871 carries an imprisonment term of up to 10 years and a fine.

The offence of money laundering under the Corruption, Drug Trafficking and Other Serious Crimes (Confiscation of Benefits) Act 1992 carries an imprisonment term of up to 10 years, a fine of up to $500,000, or both.

The offence of carrying on a business to provide any type of payment service in Singapore without a licence under Section 5 of the Payment Services Act 2019 carries a fine of up to $125,000, an imprisonment term of up to three years, or both.

The Police take a serious stance against any person who may be involved in scams, and perpetrators will be dealt with in accordance with the law.

To avoid being an accomplice to crimes, members of the public should always reject requests by others to use your bank account or mobile lines as you will be held accountable if these are linked to crimes.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
26 March 2023 @ 1:00 PM

PRC WOMAN CHARGED FOR POSING AS INTERPOL IN $40K SCAM & LYING TO S’PORE POLICE

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A 29-year-old Chinese national, Wang Xin, faced 5 charges that included two counts each of cheating and dealing with the benefits of criminal conduct, she was also charged with providing false information to a Singapore police officer, according to The Straits Times.

She is allegedly linked to a China officials impersonation scam and cheated 2 victims of at least $40,000 by posing as an “Interpol special agent”.

She had allegedly pretended to be the “special agent” on 23 April 2021 to cheat a victim of $40,000, as well as scamming another victim into handing over their iBanking token and mobile phone using the same method, from between 28 April to 3 May 2021.

Wang allegedly transferred her illegal gains which amounted to about $315,000 to a bank account from 26 April to 3 May 2021, with the money believed to be another person’s benefits from cheating.

She is also being charged with allegedly giving false information to a police officer at the Commercial Affairs Department of the Singapore Police Force on 29 March 2021.

The Singapore Police Force said in a statement yesterday evening that their officers received a report on 25 March 2021 from an alleged victim, who was cheated into transferring $10,000 to a scammer’s bank account.

The alleged victim had done so to avoid being sent back to China to assist in investigations into alleged money laundering.

Officers from the Commercial Affairs Department (CAD) then followed up on the investigations and managed to establish the identity of the holder of the bank account, nabbing her.

Wang is set to return to court on 18 April for her pre-trial conference and if found guilty of each charge of cheating, she faces a jail term of up to 10 years and a fine.

For each charge of dealing with the benefits of criminal conduct, she faces a jail term of up to 10 years and a fine of up to $500,000.

If found guilty of providing false information to a public servant, she faces a jail term of up to 6 months and a fine of up to $5,000.