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MAN PROPOSED TO GF, THEN ASKED HER TO COVER HALF THE COST OF ENGAGEMENT RING

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A Taiwanese woman took to the social media platform Dcard, to share how he fiance asked her to pay for half the cost of her engagement ring.

She said that they had been dating in a stable relationship for 4 years and had no issues with money throughout the period.

Her boyfriend is apparently earning a lot of m money and they were fine with how they handled their expenses as a couple.

Her boyfriend proposed to her with a diamond ring in his hands as their friends witnessed the special moment between the couple.

She said that she was very happy and accepted his marriage proposal, but she was shocked when her fiance ask her to pay for half the cost of the diamond ring, which costs TWD15,000 (SGD 655).

Her fiance purportedly told her that he had been picking the diamond ring for a long time now, and added “it’s okay, you can transfer half the money to me slowly.”

The woman then asked him why she needed to pay for her engagement ring, adding that “isn’t a marriage proposal a gift from the man to the woman?”

He then responded by saying that the proposal was a celebration for both of them, hence the costs should be divided between them.

The couple then got into a fight over it and she then stopped wearing the ring because she felt uncomfortable doing so, scared that he would think she was taking advantage of him.

THAILAND REINSTATES COVID RESTRICTIONS FOR INTERNATIONAL TRAVELERS, AFTER CHINA REOPENED

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Thailand is set to reinstate their country’s Covid-19 requirements for all international travellers looking to enter the country, according to the Thai Minister of Transport, Saksayam Chidchob.

The restrictions will begin on 9 January and until 31 January.

Foreign travellers above 18 will need to show proof that they have received 2 doses of the vaccine, or that they have recovered from Covid for no more than 180 days.

Travellers who are unvaccinated will need a medical report detailing the reasons.

Persons without these documents will be refused entry, and those who display Covid symptoms will be advised to get tested for the virus upon their arrival.

Travellers must also have documentation of health insurance coverage for Covid treatment if their next destination country required a negative Covid-19 test result.

Thailand previously got rid of their entry requirements into the country in October last year, where international tourists can enter without proof of vaccination, antigen test results and health insurance.

The reinstatement of the rules comes in the wake of China reopening its borders today, with Thailand being one of the top destinations for Chinese tourists.

CHIOBU CISCO JIEJIE PRAISED FOR HELPING TRAVELER TRANSFER TOILETRIES INTO 100ML BOTTLES

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LinkedIn user Yasmine Khater shared her experience with a Certis Cisco officer, Li Fang Wee, who went the extra mile to help her when she accidentally brought her toiletries in bottles that exceeded the 100ml limit.

She detailed her experience in a lengthy LinkedIn post, which has since gone viral.

Here is what she said

I am at the security check with a big bag of toiletries in my hand that I forgot to check in.

The Certis staff says: “mam, we have to throw this away, the bottles are over 100ml”.

“I was like no, they are nearly empty”.

I forgot it was not about the amount in the bottle.
It’s the bottle size.

Duh.

Human error or side effects of the pandemic.

Sunscreen and soap are easy to replace.
But I have curly hair.

The wrong shampoo and conditioner will dry my hair out.
But I also look like an untamed beast.

“You can keep everything… but can I at least keep the conditioner”

I thought I could negotiate my way, but regulations are regulations.

Li Fang asked for my boarding pass and said “Mam, you can go to the pharmacy and buy travel bottles, you have enough time”.

I was so grateful for the tip rushed over.

Not realizing that filling a tiny shampoo and conditioner is not as easy as it looks.

While I was filling the shampoo, she grabbed a spoon and started filling the conditioner. We laughed together at this situation and if the airport was busier I would suffer alone.

One of my favorite quotes by Dr. Maya Angelou is…

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said,
People will forget what you did,
But people will never forget how you made them feel.”

How do you make someone feel when they are frustrated?

When your…
– leading a team,
– managing a client or
– even dealing with a personal relations.

Your ability to communicate with empathy and putting the other person in mind makes you influential.

Thanks, Li Fang Wee from the Certis team at Changi Terminal 4 for such a wonderful experience

S’PORE FIGHTER VICTORIA LEE DIES AT 18, YOUNGER SISTER OF ONE FC STAR ANGELA LEE

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Singapore MMA fighter, Victoria Lee, who is also the younger sister of One Championship atomweight and lightweight world champions, Angela and Christian Lee, passed away on 26 December at the age of 18.

She was originally set to fight in her fourth professional MMA bought on 14 January in Bangkok, against India’s Zeba Bano.

Angela Lee’s statement on Instagram

On December 26, 2022 our family experienced something no family should ever have to go through…
It is incredibly difficult to say this…
Our Victoria passed away.

She has gone too soon and our family has been completely devastated since then.
We miss her. More than anything in this world. Our family will never be the same. Life will never be the same.

Victoria was the most beautiful soul who ever lived. She was the best little sister in the world. The best daughter, the best granddaughter and the best godma / aunty to Ava and Alia.

We miss you so much sis. More than you could ever realize. We’re all broken. Because a piece of you was in each of us and when you left, those pieces were ripped out of us.
We will never be the same.

Each and every little thing makes me think of you. From the sun rays, to the sunset. You taught us to see the beauty in the simple things. You were our bright light. Our sunshine. And that will never change. You were perfect in every way. The best person I knew. The most beautiful girl, inside and out.
We love you Victoria. I love you Sprout. Until the end of time.

WOMAN HAD $3.6K STOLEN FROM HER UOB CREDIT CARD WHILE SHE WAS SLEEPING,

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Like honestly speaking, is UOB doing their job well?

The amount of fraud cases has been uprising.

These transaction were done while I was sleeping and I had since terminated the card.

Often, we do have OTP triggered to us while such transaction was made but no there isn’t to me.

I am not a gamer and I do not play games let alone buying credits with a credit card I had just received merely less than a month.

Called in UOB centre and they told me to make a police report as the transaction was LEGITIMATE. Wow

To date, no follow up was given to me and when I called in, I was asked to make this payment which was not done by me.

Any idea how to resolve this issue?

Netizens’ comments

  • Make police report, with the report, UOB can initiate a charge back with game company and the registered account will be banned.
  • Always disable overseas card usage when you are not travelling, just 5 seconds to do so via app.
  • This happened to me about 6-8 year’s ago on CIMB credit card. Unauthorized transaction until one day the bank staffs call me. 1st credit card terminated, issue with 2nd credit card once activated the unauthorised transaction happened again I haven’t use the 2nd credit card yet? Terminated the 2nd credit card again. Issue with 3nd credit card I never activate the credit card but try to login to one of the unauthorised transaction website pretend for transaction. To me suprise my 3nd credit card details in the purchasing payment page? I straight away cancelled the credit card never use CIMB BANK credit card again.
  • Not only uob, its happened to me for DBS and Maybank. No otp from Maybank but luckily I received otp and notification from DBS so I called both banks immediately to cxl my cards. Sometimes you accidentally clicked a link without knowing it and they fish your credit card details and shopping happily. Now there are many pop up advertisements while using the phone so be careful not to click on all these advertisement links.

M’SIAN MAN STOLE GENTING LANDSLIDE VICTIMS’ BELONGINGS, ARRESTED

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A 27-year-old Malaysian civil servant, who stole the belongings o the victims of the tragic Genting Highlands landslide, was arrested by the police.

Bernama reported that the Malaysian police were alerted to the thefts by a Facebook post that was posted online by one of the victim’s families on New Year.

They said in the Facebook post that the victim’s Touch n’ Go card was used, and the civil servant was then arrested after investigations into the matter.

Selangor police chief said that the civil servant was arrested in Klang Valley, and items that belonged to the victims of the landslide were seized.

Recap

A landslide took place at a campsite in Genting Highlands, killing 31 people. The landslide resulted in debris falling onto a campsite in the wee hours of 16 December.

The Selangor Fire and Rescue Department said that they received a call for help at the scene on 16 December at about 2.24am.

The landslide had reportedly hit Father Organic Farm, a campsite near Genting Highlands, which offers educational tours on the farming of organic vegetables.

The debris that fell on the site was about 30 metres and about 0.4 hectares

WOMAN’S 12 Y.O AUTISTIC SON CAN’T WEAR MASK IN BUS BECAUSE WILL “MELTDOWN”, DRIVER REFUSES TO DRIVE

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Hi, I would like to bring awareness to public about masks wearing for special needs individuals. I’m very disappointed with SBS driver of bus 76.

I am a mother of 12 years old son (autism and non-verbal). We boarded bus 76 opposite AMK Big Mac centre at around 7.40pm.

Despite showing the special needs card and explaining to the bus driver that my son is special needs, the bus driver refused to start the bus unless my son put on a mask.

I told him out of 10 buses I took all the 10 buses allowed us to board the bus. He say he is merly following SOP and will call HQ to check.

I’ve told him that government allowed special needs to be exception in wearing mask. I told him to go ahead and make it a quick 1 as I do not want to waste other passengers time and I apologize to all the passengers as this is wasting everybody time.

I also told him that I will lodge a feedback on this issue and he challenged me to go ahead. As I was waiting, a middle aged guy walked up to me and offered a mask.

I explained that I also have masks in my bag but my son will have meltdown if I forced put on him. This guy seems pissed and walked away.

I’m quite pressured with glares from the passengers as the bus driver refused to start the bus. In the end, the call was taking too long to be answered and I have no choice but to ask my husband and son to alight the bus and wait for another bus.

This is the first time such unfortunate incident happened as we have met really awesome drivers previously. We tried calling the SBS transit call centre for help but there’s nobody answering the call.

We are not trying to make things difficult for people but just disappointed that public awareness of special needs are so bad.

It is not easy to be caregiver of special needs. We just hope to be treated fairly with due respect too.

It is fortunate that my son did not have a meltdown due to this and my husband is with me. I cannot imagine the case if my son is to have a meltdown due to this.

MAN WHO SET MARSILING MINIMART BOSS ON FIRE, GETS MURDER CHARGE AFTER VICTIM DIED

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65-year-old Tan Kheng Hock, who was earlier charged with attempted murder last month, has had his charge amended to murder after the victim died.

He had allegedly set 37-year-old Heck Hock Minimart owner Tan Khim Hee on fire after pouring accelerant on him for not selling him beer on 28 December last year.

Tay will be remanded at the Changi Prison Complex medical centre and his case had been adjourned to 27 January.

Upon conviction, he faces the death penalty.

Recap

He had set the victim, a minimart owner, on fire after the latter had refused to sell him beer.

The Singapore Police Force said on 29 December that they received a call for help on 28 December at about 10.12pm.

When the police officers arrived, they found the 37-year-old victim with burn injuries, and he was then subsequently conveyed to the hospital.

The 65-year-old was arrested at the scene and charged with attempted murder under the penal code earlier this morning (30 December).

A worker surnamed Ng, who works nearby told Mothership that the 65-year-old man, Tay Kheng Hock, had gone to Heng Hock Minimart at Block 210 to buy some beer, but was rejected by the victim, 37-year-old shop owner Tan Khim Hee.

Tay then purportedly got upset and poured accelerant on the victim, before setting him on fire using a lighter.

The worker said that she was not sure where Tay got his hands on the accelerant, and that her coworker had went to retrieve a fire extinguisher from a laundromat nearby to put out that fire on the victim.

The victim’s whole body was engulfed in flames and he was screaming in pain.

According to the worker, the accused lives in the vicinity.

28 Y.O WOMAN ARRESTED FOR RENTAL SCAMS, TOOK DEPOSITS FROM VICTIMS THEN BECOME UNCONTACTABLE

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The Police have arrested a 28-year-old woman for her suspected involvement in a series of rental scams.

Between September and December 2022, the Police received reports of rental scams from several victims who had responded to online advertisements offering rental of a residential unit. After the victims paid the deposit via bank transfer, the woman purportedly became uncontactable.

Through follow-up investigations, officers from Jurong Police Division established the identity of the woman and arrested her on 5 January 2023. Preliminary investigations revealed that she is believed to be involved in other similar cases of rental scams with losses amounting to more than $19,000/-.

The woman will be charged in court on 6 January 2023 with the offence of cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to 10 years and a fine.

 Members of the public are reminded to be wary of such scams and to adopt the following crime prevention measures:

  1. Do not make any advance payment until tenancy is confirmed, and pay the rental deposit and rents by cheque or via bank transfer for documentary proof;
  2. Visit the housing unit which you intend to rent to confirm its existence, state of condition and signs of multiple subletting; and
  3. Verify the identities of the person/s whom you are dealing with and their relationship to the housing unit, especially when you are not engaging the services of a licensed estate agent or registered salespersons.

For more information on scams, members of the public can visit scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Hotline at 1800-722-6688. Anyone with information on such scams may call the Police Hotline at

1800-255-0000 or submit information online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
05 January 2023 @ 6:32 PM

MAN COPIES FEMALE FRIEND’S PERSONALITY TO GET GIRLS – EVERYTHING SHE DOES, HE’LL DO

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Im tired of my friends bizarre copying of my personality

Me and him have been friends for over 15 years. For clarity, I am a woman and hes a man. We’re like defacto family. The older I got the more I became aware that whenever I talked to him about my new interests or things I’ve done, soon after he would become interested in these things too, using them as a way to get with other women. It has gotten to the point that these women thing I’m copying HIM to try and get him interested in me, then later he gets dumped because the interests and his personality come crumbling down.

I was flattered at first, don’t get me wrong, its nice that friends appreciate your interests and want to get involved as well, but its going far beyond flattery. I dye my hair – oh look so does he! I shaved my head, so does he (when he stated he never would). Me and my best friends make a DJ collective – guess what? Hes now made his own despite never DJing in his life and always claiming DJ’s ‘suck’. I go get new tattoos from a particular small stylized artist – so does he (after having none). I start wearing a small brands clothes (granted I got them for free), you bet hes gone to buy them. I learn to kayak – so does he, I learn to skydive – so does he, I start cross country running – so does he, quit driving and start cycling – hes now a fixie bike aficionado. I develop a pretty weird interest in carnivorous plants, rinse and repeat lol. I start going to this small cafe near my house (no where near him) every other day, post it on my story, now he’s obsessed and goes there without me and then posts it on his story. Me and my roommates got big into baking our own bread and then he sets up his own baking instagram. Ive caught him a few time when hes been over him rummaging through my Vinyl collection, taking photos of each, and then him buying them. Same with some of the fashion pieces I have (though not the dresses and skirts) and even with some commissioned art pieces that I have. All without asking – including going into my room. Ive even caught him once as I was going to meet him and a few friends him looking at my Instagram, screenshotting pictures and zooming in then googling the brand names etc. In group conversations, when things have gotten political or whatever, his opinion will be vastly different to mine, to then him taking my opinion and later using it to flirt with girls? He buys the games I play, books I read, magazines I read, etc. I’m a photographer and when I finally got successful and began working for myself, he bought a camera and started his own photography Instagram. The list goes on and on…

My breaking point has to be last year, I became vegetarian. Its something I worked really hard to do as I was not brought up vegetarian like some of my friends have and took a while to progress into, figuring out recipes, replacers, how to get all my vitamins in, I suffer a bit with anaemia so it was a big change. I didn’t announce the change or anything as I didn’t think much of it since most of our friends are veggie already. He has said many times that he would never do it because of his health issues which would mean he could end up in hospital. We have a friends dinner together and another friend asks me if I want meat, I tell them I don’t eat it anymore. He is now vegetarian a week later…

I had a chat with him about this last year after the veggie incident. I asked him if he liked me, he said he did not. I then tried to carefully discuss his behaviour, laying out the scenarios I’ve been uncomfortable with and he got defensive and angry at me, claiming I was trying to find any reason to blame him and that having an interest in your friends interests is normal. I agreed that I was flattered at first but this feels like its beyond an interest and bordering into an obsession. I told him that the girls he dates always end up disliking me (some being outright rude to me) because they think I like him because of it. Some days I wont see my other friends If I know hes coming with a girl because its extremely uncomfortable and they treat me this way even if Im with a guy. He then had the audacity to tell me that maybe I should stop copying him then!

After that conversation, I have taken a massive step back from him. I have no idea what his goal is with this behaviour. I won’t cut him off completely because he is a childhood friend but I think that he needs to be held at arms length. Ive restricted my stories from him and I very rarely host with that group of friends at all, and if I do, in smaller groups without him. I think the other friends have noticed this but I don’t care anymore. If they ask I’ll tell them the reason and deal with the fallout then. Ive talked to a few of them after a few drinks about it (too uncomfortable to do sober lol) and they are aware that he seems to follow a lot of my interests and personality and havent seen him do this to anyone else. His best friend (but not him) is coming over this evening with a few others to pregame for an event and Im going to try and sus out if anything has been said or anything has happened recently.