Singapore is quite conservative & people are shy comparing with most western countries, I feel it’s extremely rare here to get comments/compliments from random passerby strangers, not to mention how much courage a girl has to build up to approach a stranger dude here.

So I wonder for guys, have you ever been approached by any stranger girls?

Or at the least, ever get random compliments from stranger girls? (exclude shuai ge calls from cai png stall aunties)

Here are what netizens think:

Yes, they usually tell me they not selling me anything. Then proceeds to sell me something.

Yes, Great Eastern ladies.

They treated me like egyptian king and even shared with me their pyramid schemes.

My friend’s younger brother was sitting at a bus stop and got asked out by a girl lol and now they’ve been dating for like 6 months. She’s brave as hell, I wish I had that kind of courage to ask a random boy out

Nowadays everyone wearing mask so if you ask a guy out it’s like gachapon haha

Yes I get approached all the time by foreigners trying to find their way around in SG

When I was younger I (a dude) was approached by a dude saying, “Hi I’m from such-and-such an agency and I really think you have a look about you blablabla…” And I laughed so hard the dude walked off. I can’t get girls to give me a first glance and here this idiot thinks I’m gonna buy his bullshit. Lol. Anyways no never been approached unless she was an agent of some sort.

This happened a week or so ago, we’ve been broken up for about two months but spent the last week sorta rekindling/hooking up.

Anyways I was at home smoking and minding my own business, she had went out drinking with some girlfriends and ended up texting me around 11pm asking if I was ready for her. Me being a man of course I say yes.

Anyways she comes over and immediately gets naked, we start doing the freaky freaky and as per usual when she is drunk she wants it doggy.

So anyways we continue going, she says to me “you know what I need” and I’m like “yup I do” like a good old golden retriever. I give my old thumb a good lick and insert it into the back door.

We keep going for a few more minutes and decide to change positions, it’s at this point when I pop the cork I realize I had some doodoo on my thumb, me not caring I jump up quick and go to my washroom to clean said thumb before we continue. This is where she asks what I’m doing, I quickly tell her I’m just cleaning your brown stuff off my thumb. Well, that wasn’t a good idea. Apparently, I killed the mood and it instantly reignited a fight

Why did I bother cleaning my thumb off, how much was actually on there, etc. it was enough that it covered my thumb nail, I wasn’t going to rub that in her hair or my bed.

I thought I was being a gentleman by cleaning my thumb instead of rubbing it all over her, but I guess I embarrassed her.

Hey all. Kind of hard to find unbiased opinions irl so I figured I’d turn here.

I (29M) had a kid with my ex-wife (32F) 10 years ago, my daughter. And there’s no real way to sugarcoat this but as soon as she was born, I left and I never ended up seeing her in the hospital as a baby. Was never really present in her life at any point but ended up getting a divorce 11 months later with her getting full custody of course.

I married young, was really stupid and thought I’d end up being a good dad despite no skills but got scared that I’d turn out like my dad and chickened out. Not really an excuse but an explanation I guess. I paid child support for the first 3 years but stopped afterwards.

I’ve been speaking with the girl’s mother about reconnecting with her, but she thinks it’s best that I stay out of their lives majorly. But I think making amends is always possible so I’m not sure, I just really want to make things right but I will respect their decision. I’ve seen her a few times but her mother has always introduced me as a friend. She says she will tell her when she is ready.

I’ve been dating a girl (28F) for about 10 months, and I really like her. I think I could definitely see a life for us and I know that sounds weird but she’s also said the same. I was also speaking to my daughter’s mother about meeting this girl, but she says absolutely not and that’s a bad idea. But if I want to reintroduce her into my life isn’t it fair that she gets to see my life too?

Am I wrong for doing this? Her mother says it’s a very bad idea, so it’s making me think I am but I just genuinely cannot see why. Obviously I care for this girl and I will care for her life too, but a relationship has to be two-sided I don’t think it’s out of the question to show her my life too.

my husband hit me and choked me in front of my kid.

I (19 F) have a bf (23 M) who has been in my life for a year now.