I had a woman in my bed for the first time. She left when I said I was a virgin.

I don’t know where to start with that.

I’m 36, and as you guessed from the title, a virgin. My social skills have always been lacking, I worked on them and pushed myself to get in contact with other people, by going to social events and try out new things I wasn’t used to.

Despite that, and following more of the advice given by helpful internet strangers and friends, it never worked out. I make friends, but I’m not seen as a romantic option. Online dating hardly worked and I was given the “I don’t see you this way” in real life more times than I can count. After a while, I started to get used to staying on the sidelines. I had hobbies to keep myself occupied, I still went out to new things from time to time and stiked conversation with strangers just to have a nice talk.

It went by like this, I worked, did my thing, and so on.

Out of nowhere, this woman decided to keep the conversation going on more intimate subjects, without broaching the act itself. I haven’t gotten more attractive, friends come and go the same way and I’m still mostly in the background when I look at things from above, but somehow the conversation went better with her.

Fast forward a little and we were going to bed. I was really anxious and didn’t how it was right to do this and that, so I told her to take the lead. When she asked why I answered I didn’t have any experience. She replied that this was to heavy a pressure for her and she left just like that.

Part of me died inside. I asked friends and they said they were past being training wheels at this age.

I don’t mind people trying to be positive on the internet, but it feels toxic when I keep on hearing that it’s everyone in their own rythm and that they are no milestones. It appears there are for a lot of people.

36 years, I had exactly one person who took an intimate shine to me and she bailed because I was lagging behind.

I wish some folks at least honestly told me not everyone gets to experience love, even if it’s just a minority.

Me, I’m done. It feels like a wasted a lot of time I could have put to use to things I could have achieved. I’ll do my stuff in my own corner and that’s it.

If people here have advice on how to lower and ignore libido and how to make peace with loneliness, I’d appreciate it, because that’s what I’m looking for now.

My wife has some pretty interesting dietary restrictions. She can’t eat fructose (HFCS, honey, certain fruits, etc.), garlic, onion, wheat, almonds, legumes (beans), and a few other common items.

I [24M] want to match with a girl [23F] whose twin sister I went on a few dates with and it didn’t work out. Is that bad taste?

I met someone around June this year and dated her for like two months. Not really, because the majority was over text and we only went on three dates.

She was very hot and cold after initially showing a lot of interest. When I brought it up she told me there was “something missing” and she wasn’t interested. The furthest we went was a brief make out session/intense kiss.

Since then I’ve met her twin sister twice at different events and chatted her up. Both times I thought it was her, lol. We really vibed and at the end she told me she would “say hi to her sister” for me but that never materialized.

Well it’s months later and guess what, I find the twin (the one I haven’t dated) on a dating app. It keeps sending me “most compatible” notifications.

I have “X’d” her from my feed not because I’m not interested, but because I was worried it would be in bad taste even though I’m really interested and her profile gives off interesting vibes.

Well, the app keeps bringing her back because the app seems to think we’re compatible.

I want to go for it and just send her a like, so not exactly match with her, I just want to know if that’s socially taboo to do.

So in my neighbourhood there exists this particular block of flats in which one column loves to throw food waste out of their window. Chicken wings, rice, plastic bag, all also throw. This block is 16 storeys max.

There are at least two units that throw their food waste out. A few weeks ago I was walking by and I saw someone throw a finished packet of rice + plastic bag out of the 15th floor window. I saw the person at the window and even got a photo of her at the window but the photo doesn’t show her throwing.

I got closer to see what the heck she threw down and saw that it was chicken bones. A flock of pigeons gathered round to start pecking. Next she threw down a plastic bag of water which landed 0.5m away from me and splashed on me. Idk if it was aimed at me but if it was, it was a lousy aim. I got photos of the food waste and bag of water that she threw.

I went up to her flat and confronted her, initially she didn’t want to open up until I threatened to make a police report. It was a lady in her 70s(?) and she didn’t seem very educated. She denied but after I said I have a photo of her and then she said “other people also throw why I cannot”.

So I’m asking on here if the photo I have is enough for me to make a police report on her, because apparently my dad called the town council and he said I have no evidence because my photo does not show her at the window throwing anything. It only shows her at the window. Is this legit? Going by the same logic do I need to have a video of someone stabbing me for me to make a police report for assault? Ngl it sounds damn stupid.

Am I right for refusing to give some of my money to my dad?

My husband “accidentally” f-ed a woman that he works with

I had been feeling sick and really run down for about a month and I hadn’t felt like getting intimate with my husband.

Apparently, he needed it so bad that he was walking around work with a near-constant erection. A woman that he works with noticed it and she opened her legs and he “accidentally” fell forward into her and f-ed her.

He’s saying it is her fault and he could not control himself.

I’m so confused

Netizens’ comments

• Bro didnt even try to come up with a good excuse 😭
• …Wait.. what if there’s an explanation for this shit? What, she tripped, fell and landed on his D?
• OP, don’t believe this BS, like wtf is wrong with your husband, he can even own it, like apologized for it, he is playing the victim what the heck
• The craziest thing about this post is that it seems like OP….. believes him?
• Did you accidentally divorce him?