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MAHATHIR – M’SIA SHOULD CLAIM S’PORE & THE RIAU ISLANDS

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Mahathir Mohamad, the former Prime Minister of Malaysia, said that Johor once owned Singapore and that Johor and Malaysia should claim Singapore, according to The Straits Times.

He also described Singapore as a Malay land (Tanah Melayu).

Speaking during a speech on 19 June, Mahathir said that “however, there is no demand whatsoever of Singapore. Instead, we show our appreciation to the leadership of this new country called Singapore.”

Mahathir said that the government of Malaysia deemed the control of the Sipadan and Ligitan islands more valuable after winning control over it at the International Court of Justice, while giving up the Pedra Branca island to Singapore, calling it “the size of a table”.

Mahathir added that “We should demand not just that Pedra Branca, or Pulau Batu Puteh, be given back to us, we should also demand Singapore as well as the Riau Islands, as they are Tanah Melayu”

He said that the Tanah Melayu used to stretch all the way from Southern Thailand to the Riau Islands, and Singapore.

But now, he added, it is confined to the Malay Peninsula.

Mahathir then further added that he “wonder(s) whether the Malay Peninsula will belong to someone else in the future.”

23 Y.O GIRL ASKS IF ITS WORTH DATING A MAN 16 YEARS OLDER THAN HER

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23F here. Is it worthwhile dating a guy 16 years my senior?

A few months ago, I knew this guy S (39) from an event. He is divorced 2 years ago with no kids. We had similar interests and we chatted, knew each other better and started dating soon after.

As we aren’t official, I haven’t told anyone yet. I was really impressed by S’s level of maturity and intellect which far surpassed any guy I’ve known, including all of my exes and men older than him.

He also earns several times my salary. Within the first 2 dates, I already knew he is good husband material type. I feel secure, comfortable and enjoyed all my time with him. There are just 2 issues:

1. The big age gap. I’ve never gone serious with anyone more than 2 years older than me and so unsure what issues it will lead to.

2. He admitted he has several health issues like high cholesterol, high blood pressure and chronic liver and kidney issues. He pops 5 different kinds of pills every day.

A close friend of mine said at my age, I deserved someone much younger, fitter, good looking and with no divorce background. But I am just wowed by his abilities and character. What will you guys do if you were me?

61 Y.O WOMAN KILLED AFTER BEING HIT BY TAXI, DRAGGED 20M ON THE ROAD

A 61-year-old woman was killed after being hit by a taxi on the evening of 20 June and allegedly dragged on the road for about 20 metres.

The accident happened at Ang Mo Kio Street 21 at about 10.25pm, and the police were then alerted to the incident.

She was pronounced dead at the scene by the SCDF and according to the police, the deceased was a pedestrian.

The 53-year-old driver of a TransCab taxi was also arrested by the police for careless driving causing death.

At the time of writing, investigations into the incident are ongoing.

According to Shin Min Daily News, the deceased was also allegedly dragged on the road for about 20 metres after being hit by the taxi.

A police blue tent was seen at the scene covering up her body, and a pool of blood that was purportedly close to the point of impact was seen about 20m away from the tent, according to The Straits Times.

The driver is believed to have run over the woman, drove a distance before making a u-turn when he realised that he hit someone.

The taxi driver was reported distressed at the scene and had to be calmed down by his family members.

The general manager of TransCab, Jasmine Tan, told ST that the driver reported the incident to them on 21 June.

“We are deeply sorry that this has happened, and our insurance loss adjusters are trying to get in touch with the next of kin to offer our condolences and assistance. Meanwhile, we will be assisting the police in their investigations.”

19 Y.O GIRL WENT FOR ABORTION ALONE, HID SECRET FROM STRICT PARENTS

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I got pregnant when i was 19. Didn’t matter to me if my dad didn’t let me hang out with guys – instead of letting him know about my life, everything was done behind his back. I knew he did it all because he loves me, but I didn’t feel loved with this kind of treatment.

My brothers got more freedom because they’re guys, but it made me more bitter and strained my relationship with my brothers then.

And when i got pregnant when i was 19, i went for abortion alone. Sad thing is, I didn’t tell my parents since they’re so controlling and strict. It has been more than 12 years and they still don’t know it, only my spouse and close friends know about it. From time to time i am still sad and wish i could have had their support then. It was painful for me to go through it alone.

My advice to you is to move out once you have started working. Once you have your own financial stability.

Also, to parents thinking monitoring every move of your child “protects” your child, well maybe it does – especially when they are kids, of course they need to be monitored. But once they are older than that… it helps to have some compromise. Guidance and proper advice on how to handle relationships and safe sex with the opposite gender is also important (I didn’t have any such talks with my parents.. they just kept telling me NO sex, no this no that).

As in my case, controlling too much takes away the privilege that you are the safe space for your child.

Netizen’s comments

I’m not sure …what could your dad have done differently then ? Will it really make a difference ( I genuinely wonder )

Sometimes as parents we can do all the ‘ right ‘ things and kids will still choose their own path n ways . Too strict – backfire , too lax – gone astray.

At some point the child need to take up the responsibility of which path he or she chooses . As parents we can only do our best n pray … And love them no matter how they turn out …

WOMAN THREATENED TO SEND MAN’S NUDES TO HIS MUM & GF, JAILED 9 WEEKS

Zhang Xilin, 39 years old, was sentenced to 9 weeks imprisonment on 21 June and fined $2,000 after threatening to send her lover’s intimate photos to his mother and girlfriend.

She had pleaded guilty to one count of threatening to distribute intimate images and one count of breaching the Covid-19 (Temporary Measures) Act.

She was also guilty of breaching Covid-19 safe management rules in July last year by attending a birthday party with 13 other people – the maximum group size at the time was 5.

What happened?

Zhang met the victim online on June 1 last year, and they met up for meals and spent time together at the man’s rented apartment.

He bought her presents and gave her money, and they would video call each other while not wearing anything or when they were performing intimate acts.

He also told her that he would give her $2,500 to pay her agency fees and quit her job.

The man sent Zhang an intimate photo of himself on 16 June where his face and genitals were visible, and he then later blocked her on 21 June after being confronted by his girlfriend about his affair.

However, he later unblocked Zhang and told her that he would be helping her with her agency fees.

Zhang then threatened him on 23 June, saying that she would send his intimate photo to his mother and girlfriend if he continued ignoring her.

She then texted his mother and girlfriend, asking to speak to them; this alarmed the man who then reported the threats to the police.

MAN DOESN’T BOTHER ABOUT GF’S B’DAY, NOW SHE WANTS TO BREAK UP

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I’m thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because he didn’t bother on my 30th birthday.

I (30, F) have been with my boyfriend (29, M) for 8 years now. A few weeks ago I turned 30 and I had a gut feeling he was going to make little to no effort for me like normal.

Normally he has never made effort for any birthday, Christmas or Valentine’s Day. I mostly don’t get a gift or the gifts I have got are ones he has got the day before or day of. I’ve had to plan every single birthday or event, including my 30th.

I asked him a week before if this year he could at least remember to get me a cake and a few balloons this year as after all 30 is a big birthday.

My birthday rolls around and as predicted he had made such a little effort, and the effort he had made wasn’t much at all.

For example he did buy me a 30 balloon but he rushed me to get ready to go to his friends house on the day of my birthday and then asked me to blow my own balloon.

When we was in the car driving home on Sunday evening, I mentioned to him that it had really upset me that he forgot to buy a cake and he started laughing and found it hilarious, I just burst into tears and he couldn’t understand why.

I asked him to leave mine on Monday and since then I haven’t replied to any of his messages. I feel like I am going to really struggle to talk away from this relationship and feel like maybe I’m being a spoiled brat? I just got wanted to feel special on my birthday and I don’t feel I ever will with him.

For context: He has a well paid job since he left university so it is not about money, but I also wouldn’t of minded if we got me a $5 cake from the supermarket.

FOREIGN WORKER STABBED ROOMMATE AT TUAS DORMITORY, JAILED 6 MONTHS

24-year-old Hossen Md Midul, was sentenced to 6 months imprisonment on 21 June after pleading guilty to one count of voluntarily causing hurt.

He had stabbed his roommate with a kitchen knife on 13 January earlier this year at the CDPL Tuas Dormitory.

What happened?

Hossen and the victim, also 24 years old, were both working for the same company at the time of the offence.

On 12 January at about 7.30pm, they were both hitting each other playfully, but it soon escalated into a fight and ended up having to be separated from each other by five other roommates who were living in the same dorm room.

Hossen was angry at the victim for the fight and he couldn’t sleep that night, and after midnight, he retrieved a kitchen knife while his roommates were fast asleep.

He then stabbed the victim in his left abdomen and ran away to the exercise corner, and the victim woke up feeling sharp pain and found a knife in his abdomen.

The police were then alerted and Hossen was then arrested.

The knife had narrowly missed the victim’s main artery that supplies blood to the lower body, which could have resulted in internal bleeding that threatened his life.

The victim ended up having surgery to remove part of his small intestines and sew the remaining parts together, and he was then given 28 days of hospitalisation leave.

GUY WANTS GF TO PIAK HIM WITH A FAKE KUKUBURD TO EXPERIMENT IN BED

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My boyfriend wants to try a strap on

My (23f) boyfriend (25m) told me he wanted to be more experimental in the bedroom yesterday.

He also suggested things like a three way which I honestly would like to try as well and I don’t mind him opening up about his fantasies.

But as he mentioned being bi (which I already know) and therefore suggesting to try me using a strap on, it felt really weird to me. I don’t blame him for wanting that tho.

I just don’t feel comfortable with doing that at all and I’m kind of scared

Now I’m just worried about not meeting his needs in bed. What can I do about that?

Netizens’ comments

  • Talk to him about your feelings and concerns. He’s opened up and been vulnerable with you, simply return the favor
  • Just tell him you aren’t comfortable with it. You’re allowed to have boundaries.

1ST IMPORTED CASE OF MONKEYPOX IN S’PORE, TESTED POSITIVE ON 20 JUNE

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The Ministry of Health confirmed an imported case of monkeypox infection on Singapore, with the patient being a 42-year-old British national who is a flight attendant, and was in Singapore from 15 to 17 June, and on 19 June.

The man later tested positive for monkeypox on 20 June and is currently at the NCID, with his condition being stable.

The authorities have commenced contact tracing at the time of writing.

Here is MOH’s press release in full

The Ministry of Health (MOH) has confirmed one imported case of monkeypox infection in Singapore. The patient is a 42-year-old male British national who works as a flight attendant and was in Singapore between 15 and 17 June 2022 and again on 19 June as he flew in and out of Singapore. He tested positive for monkeypox on 20 June. He is currently warded in at the National Centre for Infectious Diseases (NCID), and his condition is stable. Contact tracing is ongoing.

2.             The case had onset of headache on 14 June, and fever on 16 June. These symptoms subsequently resolved, and he then developed skin rashes on 19 June. He sought medical attention via teleconsultation on the night of 19 June, and was conveyed to NCID on 20 June for further assessment.

3.             Contact tracing is ongoing for the affected flights and for the duration of his stay in Singapore. During this period, he had largely remained in his hotel room, except to visit a massage establishment, and eat at three food establishments on 16 June. In general, the risk of transmission to visitors at these locations is low, as data has shown that monkeypox transmits through close physical or prolonged contact. All four locations visited by the case are undergoing cleaning and disinfection.

4.             As of 21 June, 13 close contacts have been identified. All close contacts will be placed on quarantine for 21 days since their last contact with the case. In addition, two low-risk contacts have been placed on phone surveillance. Persons under phone surveillance will receive daily phone calls during the 21-day period to monitor for any onset of symptoms. If suspected of being infected, they will be immediately conveyed to the NCID for further evaluation and isolation to prevent further transmission.

Health Advisory

5.             Monkeypox is a viral disease that is caused by infection with the monkeypox virus. Infected persons would typically experience fever, headache, muscle ache, backache, swollen lymph nodes, chills, lethargy and skin rash. The disease is usually self-limiting, with most patients recovering within two to three weeks. In some cases, however, the virus can cause serious complications. Individuals who are at higher risk of severe illness include young children, pregnant women or immunocompromised individuals. 

6.             Human-to-human transmission is generally uncommon, but can occur via exposure to respiratory droplets or direct physical contact with the blood, body fluid or lesion material from infected individual or contaminated materials. The incubation period ranges from five to 21 days. People with the infection are generally infectious from onset of fever until the skin lesions have scabbed over.

7.             Given the evolving global situation, members of the public, especially travellers are advised to maintain vigilance and take the following precautions:

·      Maintain a high standard of personal hygiene, including frequent hand washing after going to the toilet, or when hands are soiled.

·      Avoid direct contact with skin lesions of infected living or dead persons or animals, as well as objects that may have become contaminated with infectious fluids, such as soiled clothing or linens (e.g. bedding or towels) used by an infected person.

·      Avoid contact with wild animals that could harbour the virus, and consumption of bush meat.

·      Seek immediate medical attention if they develop any disease symptoms (e.g. sudden onset of high fever, swollen lymph nodes and rash) compatible with monkeypox. They should inform their doctor of their recent travel history, if any.

MINISTRY OF HEALTH

21 JUNE 2022

GIRL’S BF IN NS, KISS OTHER GUY BUT SAYS “NOT CHEATING” BECAUSE NEVER SLEPT TGT

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I’m a year 1 girl who has a bf in the army. Recently I got really close to a senior from the same course as me.

I feel that we have a lot of chemistry and he is my ideal type of guy. He is always by my side whenever I feel down, cheering me up with magic tricks.

Although he knew that I’m already attached, he continued to shower me with affection and love.

Instead of rejecting him, I led him on by asking him to hug me when I’m sad. Kiss him on the cheek when he sent me back home. (Well, as long as I didn’t engage in bedroom activity with him, I’m not cheating on my bf) .

I did clearly explained to him that, there is a very low probability of me becoming his gf. However, he gave me a shocking reply that touched my heart deeply and brought me to tears.

Although he knew that he has little or no chance, he is unwilling to abandon a vulnerable girl like me. He wants to stay by my side to protect my fragile heart until the day I no longer needs him.

When that day arrives, he will cut all contacts from me in order to nurse his emotional wounds.  

I’m confuse now, what should I do?

Editor’s note: “I led him on by asking him to hug me when I’m sad, kissed him on the cheek when he sent me back home.” You actually think this is not cheating, I’m amazed.