This is something I have always wanted to do and I’m finally ready to take that step but I don’t know where to start.

Basically, I hate my boobs. They are huge and saggy and I’m petite so they look disproportionate to my body. And then I got pregnant at a young age, and pregnancy and breastfeeding left them looking like deflated water balloons.

I’m currently a 32DDD I think. So I want to get them smaller but not too small. And they just like hang down and look empty so I want them to look higher and fuller. And then my areolas are huge so I want those to look smaller and nicer too. I’m so tired of feeling insecure and every top and swimsuit being ruined by my boobs.

Recently, my boyfriend and I met up with his sister for dinner. When we finished, the three of us stood in a circle on the sidewalk in front of the restaurant at Boat Quay, just chatting and saying our goodbyes. A minute later, two men turned the corner and started walking toward us.

Context; I broke up with my ex in Apirl, and got with my now girlfriend 18 years old; I am older than her by a month and she has a face and height of a 10-year-old. She hates it but sucks it up.

Background: My is 26 y.o sister and I’m 42. She had a pretty rough childhood. As you can see, I was born much later, so I have no idea of how her teenage years looked like. According to her, my parents played favourites and they preferred the boys over her.

When my sister was around 13, she was kicked out of our family home over her refusing to go watch a parade and she ended up living in my grandparents’ home for about 1.5 years. Our parents act as if this never happened and they deny any negligence although all three of my siblings faced this. Basically, my sister holds a lot of resentment towards our parents and rightfully so in my opinion.

A netizen shared a story about how he took a bank loan for his Thai mistress after falling for her sob story and after she took the money, she ran off and he couldn’t repay the bank loan and ended up applying for bankruptcy.

Here is his story

“A lot of men think with the wrong “head”, if you know what I mean, and I am definitely one of them, or at least I’d like to think that I used to be.

So I met this siambu at a KTV, not gonna name the place but the woman’s name was Anya.

One thing I have to admit is that I was married to my beautiful wife, who eventually left me due to me cheating with Anya.

So we met at the KTV and were drinking together, getting handsy inside the room and got to exchanging numbers after I dabao her to the hotel, and after a few more times of drinking together we started texting more and more often.

Eventually we started dating, drinking, going out, getting naughty in hotels, having supper and etc, and we were in love, or at least I was and I thought she was too.

She shared with me about how her family back home was poor and her mother had fallen sick and urgently needed money for a life-saving surgery.

She refused to pick up my calls on certain days and I got worried and when she eventually picked up, she sounded defeated and tired and explained that she has been busy trying to raise money for her mother.

My heart ached for her and I asked her how much she needed, and she said $10k, and I said don’t stress yourself too much over it, I’ll handle the problem.

I’ve got pretty good credit with the banks, and so I went and got a personal bank loan and gave the money to her.

She was so touched and we ended up having the most insane time in bed, one of the best I’ve ever had, it was mind blowing.

A week had passed and I noticed that she kept my messages on read and didn’t reply, and when I went to the KTV I didn’t see her there anymore.

I asked the other Siam Bus there about her and they told me that she had returned to Thailand, and I thought okay, my bank loan is being put to use now, hope her mother recovers quickly and she can come back to me soon.

But days, then weeks, then months passed and I still didn’t get any message replies despite sending over 50 messages, with all of them being read.

Eventually the “read” became “sent” and not read anymore, my calls are not going through and there was no way I could reach her.

It took me awhile before I realised that she had run away with the bank loan that I took for her, and I had to accept the fact that my money was probably gone.

I now realise how foolish and stupid I was, trusting everything she said, and thinking with the wrong “head”.

Anyway, at the time, my business was not doing very well and i had to close it down, incurring heavy losses due to the pandemic.

I also had other debts that were depended on my business and I couldn’t pay off all of it, including the bank loan that I took for Anya, and I ended up applying for bankruptcy.

My wife also found out about Anya and we ended up filing for divorce, and no matter how I apologised and promised to change and be faithful, she found it hard to trust me again, which i understand.

That’s the story of how I used the wrong “head” to think and let one woman ruined my life. And why the f— did I go and get a freaking bank loan, what is wrong with me…

I’m 28 M, and most of my friends are men.

Having a credit card is a convenient payment method as it not only allows buying an item on credit but there are also some perks to it.

A man shared a story about how his girlfriend forced him to give him a supplementary credit card as he had a high income and used it to spend money like water.

Here is the story:

My girlfriend is in her 30s and we both are working, I am in the financial industry and she is working in the logistics industry.

I make about 3 times as much salary as my girlfriend and I kind of spoiled her and we often eat at restaurants, we have been together 6 years and she recently asked me if I can give her a supplementary credit card.

I hesitated but I decided to give her one, I set the limit to $2,000 and I think at most she also spends $1K a month.

She often tells me that she is stressed and needs to go out to drink, I don’t really drink so I told her to go enjoy herself with her friends.

She goes out for a drink every week and most of the time I’m not there, so at month end I was checking the statements and noticed a weird item of $500 on her supp credit card.

The item was listed as a “miscellaneous item” $500 at some “Entertainment” company. I decided to Google search for the company’s name and it turned out to be a disco at Cuppage Plaza.

I did not think much about it and a month later, the same item but this time with 3 of them. ($300, $500, $500).

The item always appears at the last weekend of the month (Meaning she used it when she runs out of money) and I started to get suspicious. I asked a few of my friends who drink a lot and they told me that it is most likely that my girlfriend has been using my credit card to hang flower at a boys club.

Initially, I did not know what is a “boys club” but later got furious and exploded in anger after my friends explained it to me.

I confronted my girlfriend and she outright denied it and said that it was her friends who used the card and returned her the money later.

I got even angrier, as it means she was making her friends spend money and “earning” money from the credit card balance. While spending money on other men and enjoying herself.

I eventually hang up the phone and I decided to make her “pai sei”, I acted nice for a few more weeks and I knew that it is time when she will go there again.

I called the bank and cancelled her card.

And boy I was right! She called me in the middle of the night and said that she can’t pay the bills as the credit card was declined and told me to paynow her.

I told her “serves you right, bye-bye forever” and hang up the phone.

My husband was liaising with a property agent from ERA called “Eddy” through Whatsapp with regards to renting a property at 208a and 208b Clementi gateway.

My husband got eddy’s contact number through this website called directhome.com.sg. However, eddy informed me that both units were fully rented out. My husband then asked for my assistance to contact eddy to rent a unit at 320 Clementi Avenue 4.

On 07/06/2022 at around 1221h7s while I was at home., eddy replied to my WhatsApp message that sent to him on 06/06/2022 with enquiries to rent the above-mentioned property.

Eddy then explain to me what the procedure and the payment arrangement were. Eddy then asked me for my ic photo which I gave. Subsequently, eddy asked me to make a 2-month deposit with 1 month of security amounting to sgd$5100/-. I did as was told and on 07/06/2022 at 1850hrs while I was at home, I transferred sgd$5100/- from my DBS’savings to Chua T te Ping uob??? through i-banking.

After the payment eddy sent me an email with the tenancy agreement, but the location was wrong. Eddie then sent me another agreement with the correct address. Eddy then explained to me i had to make another payment for stamp duty amounting to sgd$1632.00/-. I felt suspicious and did not make the payment.

On 15/06/2022, I then checked with my cousin who was a property agent. She informed me that it might be a scam and gave eddy contact number which was different than the contact number that I contacted with.

The real Eddy then informed me that he never dealt with me before and he had multiple messages from other people with similar incident.

In order to verify if the real estate agent is who they claimed to be, check the agent’s contact number against this online Register by CEA: https://www.cea.gov.sg/aceas/public-register/sales/1. The contact number should match the one registered with CEA. If it isn’t, please do not deal with the agent.

Always pay the rent directly to the landlord.