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BRO WHO USED TO FAT SHAME SISTER ENDS UP GETTING IT BACK, KARMA

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I have 2 siblings, Tiff(late 30sF) and Dan(late 20sM) (fake names). Tiff has her own family and doesn’t live with Dan and I at our parents’. Dan has been very buff since young and loves to show it, when I reached the age when puberty hits the hardest, Dan constantly mocks my physical look, it can be from the facial to body. I wasn’t big sized, just on healthy weight range, but not hourglass figure.

It really got to my head and my only wardrobe was baggy clothes and nothing else, I avoid skinny fit clothes whenever possible. I try not to let it affect my regular diet but occasionally went into a small phase of ‘diet’ period that luckily was stopped by Tiff as soon as she finds out, usually when she visits us. (She did try to block out the negativity whenever possible)

When Dan entered uni, he gained weight, he claimed to be very busy studying but his socials says otherwise as I see parties for half a week instead of his regular mirror selfies at the gym or study things. By the time he finished uni, his clothes has increased sizes from maybe a M to a XL and it’s noticeable.

Our parents did note it but he claimed to be stress eating so they didn’t press on it as he passed uni with flying colours.

When I entered uni, I, fortunately, met a group of extremely fit new friends at a common lecture hall used by fitness & sport students, so with Tiff’s encouragement, I approached them for help in being fit overall to find my own body positivity.

Tiff did a photo-taking of me every month so she can show me before and after to further encourage me to continue the path. Within 1.5years, there was a big positive difference so I started to venture into a new wardrobe inspiration that involves skinny fit clothes.

When I came out of my room last night wearing skinny fit jeans with a baggy top fashion to show Tiff. Dan looked at me head to toe and commented a “your backside is still flat like an iron board”.

I flipped and commented on his size and laziness in his entire time at unit and that up until now he still haven’t retain his ‘former glory’ so doesn’t have the rights to talk about mine at all. It was quite a argument that our parents got involved.

Tiff had to take me to her place to separate us and now Dan must have went around telling people that I fat-shamed him as my phone has been blowing up. Many did say I went overboard and my parents said I stooped too low. Tiff told me to hold my ground and that I don’t have to apologize since he never did.

I just felt unfair that when I endured his mocking for almost half of my life and when I just turn the tables this one time, I’m the bad guy. But I also realised I have became just like Dan at that moment and I should’ve taken the high ground and ignored him.

Now I’m quite conflicted about this so I thought it would be better to reach out for strangers’ thoughts.

WIFE REFUSE TO LET HUSBAND KEEP A SECRET COLLECTION OF TOYS

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My wife and I moved in 6 years ago after 3 years of dating. When I moved into her place, she didn’t want a lot of my stuff in there because, either she had it already or deemed it as junk. She didn’t want my posters, my toys/action figures and bunch of other things. She wanted me to get rid of it. I tried appealing to her and find a compromise, but she was unwavering in her stance. I almost gave them away until my friend just told me to put it in a storage unit since it wasn’t a lot of stuff and they held significance in my life. They were things I’ve had since I was an undergraduate and remind me of different times in my life. I’ve always been nostalgic and never wanted to throw anything out because I feel like these items are memorabilia for another time in my life that will never come back.

So, everything went into a storage unit. I started with a locker but now I have a 5×10, not because I have that much stuff but because I like to spend some time staying in there and just go down memory lane every now and then. I do it once a month or once every 2 months. I even got things from my parents from my childhood in there.

My wife has always been the practical one and never kept things unless they were super important or had major significance in her life. She would honestly just thrown out 90% of the things in the unit if not all so I always told her that I took care of the things she didn’t want to keep but I did. Even now when I make purchases, I know she won’t let me keep, they basically go in the unit.

Recently, my wife has been asking out kids to get rid of the toys they no longer play with, but you know kids, they don’t want to do that despite the fact they didn’t really care for their old toys, they don’t want to get rid of it either. They were so upset and crying all day. So, I basically donated the toys that went untouched most of their lives and were still in good conditions and kept the worn-out ones in my unit. I took my kids with me to show them the toys and told them to not worry and I will take care of the toys for them.

When we got home, they were all happy and cheery. When my asked them what’s up, they spilled the beans. I never told them to keep it a secret but at the same time didn’t expect them to squeal. My wife was very angry and demanded to see the unit. I showed it to her and as expected she deemed all of it as junk and wanted me to get rid of it all. I refused because I’m the one paying for it. We have separate finances, and this doesn’t affect her in any way. Now she’s not talking to me, and everyone has been bashing me for keeping such a big thing a secret from her. I just wanted my own space/den. I probably shouldn’t have hidden it, but I know she would never approve of it, and I didn’t want unnecessary tension/drama

S’PORE TUITION CENTRE THAT EMBRACES MISTAKES TO HELP KIDS LEARN

If your child is having difficulties understanding the topics and subjects that are being taught in school, your knight in shining armour has arrived.

An education centre in Singapore, The Brainery, employs different teaching methods from traditional tutoring, where mistakes are celebrated instead of being frowned upon.

A different learning experience

Credits: The Brainery

The Brainery believes in a non-linear learning journey where learning experiences are designed specifically to ignite the potential and progress of every student.

The teachers will only move on from each topic only when the child understands the subject, as compared to a rushed approach being employed by many of today’s traditional tutors.

One of their key teaching methods includes the recording of each student’s weaknesses and capabilities, which allows the tutor to have an in-depth understanding of how to move on with the lessons.

The teachers are trained to be aware of every student’s individual start points and customize the learning according to their needs.

Concepts will be reinforced with the students so as to clear any doubts or questions that the students may have about the given topic, allowing the students to measure their progress as they go along.

Credits: The Brainery

Some students learn better when they apply the things that they are being taught – having the knowledge of a subject and being able to apply it are two different stories, and that is where The Brainery comes in.

Teamwork makes the dream work, and The Brainery values group work because learning socially reduces the staleness and boredom of the traditional tutor.

Through this, confidence is built not only through improving grades; but social interaction, as well as a fun learning environment.

Students will be guided to be mindful and aware of the things that they have learned and be ready for what comes next.

The children will be challenged academically with an emphasis on building and reinforcing their individual strengths, and they will then become confident in themselves and be more eager to learn and inclined towards unorthodox thinking to solve problems.

Credits: The Brainery

Ideas are also reinforced and mistakes are embraced instead of being ostracised because kids learn better when they are not afraid to make mistakes.

The teachers at The Brainery are also experienced professionals who are competent at what they do, as well as passionate about helping each child learn better to meet their fullest potential.

The Brainery also aim to teach their students independence and focus through frequent check-ins with the students throughout the lessons to make sure they are on the same page.

The students will then achieve mindfulness through the teachers’ clear directions and continuous support, and become more receptive, alert and ready to learn more.

Partnerships between parents and teachers

Credits: The Brainery

The Brainery also has regular chats between the parents and teachers, along with engagement sessions with the parents to find out about their children’s needs and progress.

They also issue newsletters to the parents on upcoming events and highlights of the students’ learning progress.

They aim to impart the values of process and product of thinking, with clear criteria of success achieved through positive, affirmative language that is bolstered by timely and customised feedback from the teachers to the parents and vice versa.

A safe, conducive space to learn and grow

Credits: The Brainery

The Brainery focuses on value-adding instead of reteaching, with the passionate tutors being in the business of challenging each student to reach their fullest potential.

The programmes on offer support a variety of learning approaches to meet the needs of each student in a conducive learning environment, with the goal of turning the process of learning into a culture.

Classes are held in small group sizes inside small-sized classrooms so that the teachers can spend more time with each student to meet their learning needs.

A Brainery learner

The Brainery employs six key learning dispositions to help the students achieve their goals and positively orientate them towards lifelong learning.

They aim to see their students meaningfully engaged and understanding the purpose of learning throughout their lives.

Students will become tuned in and emotionally ready to learn because emotions play a very important part in the cognitive processes of children, including attention, perception, memory, reasoning and problem-solving.

The children will also lean towards asking “why?” and “why not?”, learning how to solve problems on a cognitive level, as well as out-of-the-box thinking to find solutions.

Both The Brainery and its students will have a clear vision of what they want from their learning journeys as well as outlining their progress.

Students will also become confident in themselves, of the knowledge that they have learned as well as being ready for what to learn next.

The journey towards growth beyond just academic grades, but a fulfilling life where the students are keen to learn and grow further.

Tour of the premises

Free trial lesson

The Brainery is currently offering a free trial lesson for any subject, open to any students of Primary and Secondary School levels.

Interested parents can sign up for their free trial class by clicking here.

Leisure Park Kallang

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FOREIGN WORKER JAILED, GRABS 13 Y.O GIRL TO HAVE SEX WITH HER

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Even if Singapore is known as a very safe country there will always be one or two bad “eggs” that are in the basket.

A 13-year-old girl was pestered by a migrant worker who wanted “sex”. He continuous utter the 3 letter words towards the girl and even tried to follow her home.

According to Today News, the incident took place in Marsiling, the 13-year-old girl was walking home from Marsiling MRT when 28-year-old Hossain Mohammad Akram, a migrant construction worker followed her.

Knowing that the worker is following her, she stood at a corner and waited for Hossain to move away. After she proceeded to go home, Hossain followed her again.

In the lift, he crossed his arms as he stares at her. After she tried to exit the lift, Hossain tried to grab her and the girl tried to ran.

He held on to her backpack and only let go after he spotted her neighbour, the girl managed to take shelter at her neighbour’s home and later escape.

Two in a day

After failing to get what he wants he followed another 16-year-old girl into the lift on the same day, the girl who exited the lift also ran off quickly to avoid Hossain in a similar fashion.

But she immediately ran home and locked her doors, Hossain tried to pull the door while cupping his balls with his hands.

The neighbour who initially helped the 13-year-old girl confronted him and he tried to run away.

Only to be arrested soon after.

Hossain Mohammad Akram pleaded guilty to one charge each of using criminal force and was sentenced to 8 weeks in jail.

MOTHER SPENDS THOUSANDS ON DAUGHTER FOR COSMETIC SURGERY, CAUSE CAN’T FIND HUSBAND

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Recently she is being upset that I am not able to be like “ other girls “ like be romantically successful and be pretty enough for boys to like me or something. Apparently, she put my photo in arrange marriage portal and nobody liked the profile enough to contact her so now it’s my fault. I mean it’s not just looks that matter in these portals.

So I am trying to lose weight as of now not necessarily for beauty reasons but for convenience purposes. This on the whole doesn’t seem bad except for the stretch marks it will obviously leave.

I personally don’t care much and since I stopped having S altogether I have let gone of worrying about these things and all.

Then enters my mother who cannot fathom that I want to be myself . It’s always “ You would get a boyfriend just wear make up “ and I politely tell her I already and expecting the men who know me long enough to suddenly go gaga because of some foundation and lipstick is quite silly in itself.

She just can’t fathom that I don’t fit conventional beauty standards and that I don’t want to do so since I made peace with it. It’s not worth the time and effort in a manner of speaking not to mention money.

Now she tells me I need to save up for scar removal once I lose weight because it will be impossible to find a groom otherwise. I am just so defeated at this time and I am fully triggered into depressive mode

GAMING HOTEL IN JOHOR COST AROUND SGD$38 PER PERSON A NIGHT

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A destination for everyone to enjoy an immersive gaming experience.

They call the room the S9 Double which features a king-size bed along with two gaming desktops side-by-side.

SEM9 Esports Hotel

This is the perfect hotel for gamers, one can choose to game all day and party all night.

We attempted to book a 1 night’s stay from June 5 to June 6 and it cost about RM243 which is about SGD$76 or SGD38 a person.

They even feature different settings of rooms with gaming for 2,3 or 4 people in a single room.

S9 Triple features a double-decker bed with a king-size bed and a bottom and a single bed on the top.

The S9 Delux features two king-size beds with 4 gaming PCs.

The hotel advertised that they have high-end gaming sets and some of the rooms are also equipped with a PlayStation 5.

The location is a 3-minutes walk from Senai International Airport, this understated hotel is 9 km from Johor Premium Outlets mall and 32 km from LEGOLAND Theme Park.

TOGETHER HOW LONG THEN BTO, SOME SAY 6 MONTHS SOME SAY 7 YEARS

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i’ve been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years now and we initially decided to apply for the May bto but there weren’t any suitable/preferred locations we wanted so we skipped that period. Now we’re eyeing on the Aug bto instead but recently, we’ve been arguing a whole lot more. although all are resolved in the end (we are not the kind to sweep things under the carpet) and we are still each other’s best friend and other half, it still makes me think what will happen if we did end up applying for the may bto and IFFF we rly got it in the end and ended up arguing at almost everything.

Actually both of us are very sure about each other and we have complete trust between us. we know we definitely see each other in both our future despite being together for just less than 2 years. but the recent arguments kind of make me insecure for the future.

As much as i don’t want to admit it, i’m not sure if that mere 1.5 years is the reason for my doubts because i suppose most couples usually date for a longer period of time before applying for bto, right..? so part of me is rly afraid for the uncertainties that the future may bring but idk why i’m feeling this way when i’ve already made my decision to marry this man and have him with me for the rest of my life.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Usually such judgements are wrong. Esp those ” i made up my mind i want to be with him rest of my life, or i am sure he is the one” Especially in a particular gender.Reason is u simple. U cant see into the future
  • It’s normal to feel uncertain for a 1.5 years relationship as it’s really quite a short time to know someone well. By that I mean have you seen them at their worst and would still CHOOSE TO look past all their flaws. Some relationships get stronger after marriage for years, despite the dating period being short. Others date for years, get married and divorce almost immediately. You can’t control or predict the future, but you can do a mental assessment now based on good observations of each other.
  • i mean every couple would have their own disagreements etc, but whats most important is if you & your partner is willing to sit down & compromise to each other. Like talk things out between each other & see whats the issue. Personally , i feel 1.5 years is quite fast to apply bto! But hey, i also have peers around me only 1 year apply BTO already when they dont have financial stability. 
  • The period doesn’t matter, as long as both agree and feel comfortable to try. We started balloting for a flat after dating for 6 months. I was the one who suggested it.

UNI GIRL SLEEPS TOGETHER WITH BF AND EXPECTS HIM NOT TO TOUCH

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Hey this is not a troll post so moderator please don’t filter this away as I really need some advices. Please pardon the bad grammars

Background info: i am 21F & I have a bf who is 23M. We are both in university & we reside in residential halls/college. We would spend time together during the weekends & I would go over to his rc to stayover

My boyfriend’s love language are physical touch & quality time while mine are the complete opposite.

Whenever I’m sleeping, he would touch me inappropriately on my upper part of my body which made me feel really uncomfortable. I was woken up by the act multiple times & I tried covering up but to no avail as he would eventually try to reach out as much as he could & I felt really violated.

FYI we have not reached the stage to do all these hanky panky yet but it is the fact that there wasn’t any consent & it was done when I’m sleeping. I tried brushing this matter off but this incident is still etched in my mind even after 5 months. I have yet to confront him with regards to this matter. Guys, what should I do if you were me?

Here are what netizens think:

  • I have friends who date for 8 years and 10 years and they broke up before getting a BTO.Don’t use the duration of your relationship as a measure of your commitment level
  • Couples quarrel is normal but also depends on situation. Since u both can resolve it means ure good. Arguments will never end but as long as u two talked through it, it’ll be fine. Just dont argue too extreme
  • The period doesn’t matter, as long as both agree and feel comfortable to try. We started balloting for a flat after dating for 6 months. I was the one who suggested it.
  • Many years ago i heard from a friend who was in her 60yo that rs about 2 years then get married. Since u feel insecured about your bf. Think thru. Getting bto is as good as rom. Wait till then many things to argue from renovation to wedding to giving birth

VIETNAM BRIDE AGENCY CHARGES $10,000 FOR A WEEK TRIP TO FIND YOUR LOVE

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In Singapore, we have various methods of meeting people and finding our wives or husbands to be.

Some through classmates, in a bar and some through dating apps.

The company’s TikTok account often posts on TikTok featuring potential Vietnams brides to be and the owner

@truelovebride #truelove #bride ♬ Who's That Girl (feat. Eve) – Guy Sebastian

The man from the firm said in a video:

“Hello, I just returned from Vietnam. There are a lot of beautiful girls from Vietnam and in Singapore. We are waiting for you guys to visit”

$10,000 package

According to richmedia.co, A Vietnam bride agency uses a different method where they organise a week-long trip to Vietnam for man to find their love.

During the course of the trip, the man will get to meet various Vietnamese women and allowing the man to pick a suitable partner to return to Singapore and get married.

MAN LOST $4,000 TO SCAMMER POSING AS POLICE, CAUSE HE DON’T READ NEWS

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With the infamous scammers from overseas that dresses up as the Police, many people have already known the faces of the scammers who often video calls victims while standing in front of a Police banner background.

Shin Min Daily News reported that a man had become a victim of such a crime as he do not read the news.

Bank account Wiped

The victim seldom goes out and do not read news of current affairs becomes a victim of a impersonation scam.

He lost more than $4,000 and his bonus is gone.

Shin Min Daily News reported that the 23-year-old victim, received a WhatsApp video call in January.

The number displayed “+92” (For those that don’t know the country code is Pakistan and its not Singapore).

After answering the call, a man in what looked like a police uniform appeared on the screen. The other party was also wearing a mask and was speaking proper English, claiming to be a Singaporean police officer.

“I didn’t think about it too much”.

As the man appears to be a Police officer he comply with the scammer’s ordersand gave his NRIC number and one-time password (OTP)

The phone call lasted only 5 minutes and all the money in his bank was gone.

The victim stated that there was only 3.8 cents left behind, his savings of over $4,000 is gone.

His aunt said that in addition to work, his nephew stayed at home to play mobile games, and he didn’t watch the news very often, so he was not aware of the ongoing scam situation.

Image Source: Shin Min Daily News (Right)